I found parts of the book to be insightful for me, but other parts not really applicable. I do think it is great she writes about different phases of womens lives and talks about challenges with intimacy post childbirth and during menopause. I've never been a big fan of people quick to hand out antidepressants, so in that regard I'm not a fan of her. On the other hand, she does give helpful insights and great questions to write and reflect upon.