The Gap Year

The Gap Year

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From the widely praised author of The Yokota Officers Club and The Flamenco Academy, a novel as hilarious as it is heartbreaking about a single mom and her seventeen-year-old daughter learning how to let go in that precarious moment before college empties the nest.

In The Gap Year, told with perfect pitch from both points of view, we meet Cam Lightsey, lactation consultan...more
Hardcover, 302 pages
Published July 5th 2011 by Knopf
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Heather
I'm having trouble rating this book. Three stars seems too low, but four too high. I enjoyed it, the writing was solid, but it didn't blow me away. This story centers around Cam, a lactation consultant and single mother and her daughter, Aubrey. The author allows each character to tell their story by alternating chapters in their own voice. Cam's story is in the present, while Aubrey's story is one year prior. The story centers around Aubrey's senior year of high school and her mom wanting her t...more
Lori Anaple
Things would be so much simpler if these silly teens would just tell their mothers and/or fathers about what is going on in their lives! I get that you want independence, but Come ON! With the serious shit that Tyler is living he would appreciate the fact that Cam would totally dote on him too! But nooooo, the girl is afraid to bring the clanger down on the plan. The mother would just blow a nut. No way could this woman ever understand. I bet she would have. Especially if Aubry would just talk t...more
Amy
My review for Library Journal:
Traditionally, a gap year is a year taken by a young adult after secondary school and before starting college. However, in Bird’s latest novel, the title alludes to the break in a mother-daughter relationship during the daughter’s senior year of high school. Single mom Camilla feels her daughter, Aubrey, beginning to pull away from her, especially after Aubrey embarks on a romance with classmate Tyler. Add in the sudden reappearance of Aubrey’s father, who years ago
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Catherine
Lactation consultant, single mother, and judgmental control freak Cam struggles with her daughter Aubrey’s emotional distance during her last year at home. The story alternates between the beginning of Aubrey’s senior year of high school (2009) and the days just prior to her scheduled departure to college (2010), and between mother’s and daughter’s points of view. Band geek Aubrey has an awkward meeting with football star Tyler, which leads to friendship and then romance. Aubrey lies to her moth...more
Nancy
The Gap Year was an interesting read and addressed some of the obstacles an empty nester, in particular, a single mother sending her one and only daughter off into the wide world of college. The book is written in alternating POV between mother and daughter. Not only is the writing style and attitude different, but so is the font which is wonderful for the visual reader.

The book addresses a common practice of taking a year off of school before starting college which I had two problems with: a)...more
Lauren Fidler
i am on the fence with this one.

Bird's novel moves back and forth between Cam (the crazy mother) in the present and Aubrey (the bitch daughter) in the past. We get Cam trying to get her daughter to pick up some trust fund money left to her by her father before he joined a Scientology-esque cult named "Next" (don't worry, assholic, abandoning daddy comes back later on). Aubrey is explaining to us how she met Tyler, who appears to be a cross between every role Brad Pitt has ever played, the star f...more
Mary (BookHounds)
MY THOUGHTS
LOVED IT


Cam, a lactation consultant and single mother, can no longer connect with her daughter, Aubrey. Aubrey's father ran away to join the circus, a cult like religion when she was just three and although she is left with a trust fund for college, the two have had no real contact. Just as Aubrey is approaching her senior year, she meets the school football star and hottie, Tyler. As a band geek, Aubrey and Tyler should have never met, much alone fall in love, so as the two become cl...more
Michelle
In a way this book is hard to rate. It is highly readable and has snappy, fun dialogue. It is a dual narrative with mother (present day) and daughter (one year ago) and while I think it’s necessary to the story, and the structure keeps the reader guessing about what’s *really* going on, for some reason it bothered me in a way I can’t quite put my finger on. I think I didn’t like the daughter’s narrative as much as the mom’s, funny quips aside, even though I do think it was necessary to the plot....more
Holly

The Gap Year is a story about transition told from two perspectives. First, single mother, lactation consultant and full-time dreamer, Camille's storyline begins in the summer/fall of 2010, as she struggles with her relationship with her daughter after a year of disappointment and confusion. Camille is struggling with two main feelings: regret and confusion. Regret because she fears her life has been filled with wrong choices: the wrong man, the wrong house in the wrong neighborhood, the wrong j...more
Kaye
I started this book and thought how glad I was that I had 3 sons...no mother/daughter drama. But then I realized that I am a daughter and had this same "breaking away" conflict with my mom. I looked at that time through the eyes of this mother and it made me stop and reflect on those years. It was so interesting to see how the same event could be interpreted completely differently by the two people involved. And honestly, I had this kind of relationship with one of my sons....my expectations wer...more
Lori
The book has some very funny parts, but most of those I had already heard or read at the author's book signing. I loved meeting the author and hearing her speak and read excerpts from her book. Sarah Bird is very entertaining in person. And she served cocktails! But since I read the book after seeing her, it felt like one of those movies where the only good parts turn out to be what you already saw in the "coming attractions" trailer.

It is a quick easy read, just not quite the mom-of-a-high-scho...more
Pamela
I hesitated between giving this book 2 stars or 3 stars. I would like to give it 2.5 stars. The plot revolves around a single mom who moved to the suburbs, despite her distaste for the conformity of the suburbs, to make sure her daughter got the best education and childhood experience possible. Now it is time for her daughter to be going off to college but over the past year her daughter has been derisively moving away from her and resisting her efforts to get her to college and away from what t...more
Diane Wilkes
I remember picking up THE BOYFRIEND SCHOOL one night when I was sick. It held my attention despite my severe intestinal pain and I read it until I was finished. I have read it multiple times and it is in my top five books of all time. I read all of Bird's other published books (ALAMO HOUSE, THE MOMMY CLUB) and as each one came out, I read them all--except THE FLAMENCO ACADEMY, which I just could not get into.

Until HOW PERFECT IS THAT came out, I thought her books were getting progressively wors...more
Jennifer
I had high hopes connecting to this book. Having recently sent my daughter off to college and enduring that cliche oh-my-god-I-cant-wait-until I'm-outta-here senior year, I was looking forward to connecting to Aubrey and her Mom, Camilla, single Mom and lactation consultant. Unfortunately, The Gap Year had a few 'gaps' for me. I never felt truly committed to either character. While I could emphathize with Cam as a single,working Mom, I felt she had her blinders up a bit to high to realistically...more
Cara
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Colleen
Told from two points of view: a mom, and her 17-year old honour student daughter Aubrey, who (from the mom's point of view) "falls off the rails" and suddenly bails out of going to college at the last minute in order to start a business with her "bad" new boyfriend. I thought at first this was going to be too light and fluffy, but I was very pleasantly surprised. I really enjoyed it; it was very funny and perfectly reflected the relationship between a mom and her teenage daughter. An extremely f...more
Kristin Strong
After skimming a few of the reviews of this book on Goodreads, I think I may have read it with a different focus than some other readers. Maybe it's because I'm the mother of a tween daughter who one day (too soon for me, probably!) will begin to think about her future in very concrete terms, and, less theoretically than she does now, about the type of human being and woman she wants to become. The divergence of a mother's and daughter's ideas about these vital topics was the core of the book fo...more
Amanda
Dreams. Growing up. Relationships. Food Trucks. Cults. Secrets. Lactation Coaches. Decision-making.

I'm surprised at how much I enjoyed this tale of a mother-daughter relationship, told from both point-of-views. Told in a non-linear fashion, you learn about a mother and daughter trying to deal with their relationship, as well as forming new ones with others. Really well done as even with tension between the characters you really felt for both Aubrey and Cam, no matter what they were doing to each...more
Tiffany
This is a gorgeous book for anyone who has experienced the love, pain, regrets, and self-doubt brought on by family--whether you are parent or child. Gap Year is both a real and clearly drawn portrait of the thrills and wounds of first love and becoming an adult; and a heartbreaking picture of a parent's second-guessing, disappointed hopes, and frustrated, all-consuming love as a child comes of age. Bird is always at her best with the beautiful depiction of real, everyday emotions in a way that'...more
Christi
It took me a long time to get into this book and to really feel like I had a good understanding of the characters.

The mother's point of view is told in the present and the daughter's point of view is from one year earlier. It can get confusing in the middle of a chapter to remember who is the focus. I know there is a change of font but that only registers when you get a section with the mother talking on the left and the daughter on the right.

This book focuses on a volatile relationship between...more
Gwen
A balanced story of present and past, mom and daughter, as both pieces move towards the same point, to explain how we got here. The sacrifices parents make for children are as invisible, both to the children and the parents, as those the children make for the parents. In this case, the stories of mother, divorced and long-gone father, and daughter present a light facade for deeper and darker parent/suburban anxieties about individuality, following the "right" path, finding one's self, foster par...more
Brian
Good Girl HS student Audrey meets a seemingly bad boy, and her mom gets upset in this novel of alternating viewpoints. The mom is a nurse who helps new mothers learn to breast feed. Her best friend Dori is estranged from her daughter Twyla. And the mother, Cam, doesn't talk to her ex husband, who has joined a cult and not spoken to his daughter. The book's perspectives also take place in different time periods. I started reading this and was drawn into it at first, but I was very busy this week...more
Caroline M.
Cam is full of regrets about her daughter Aubrey's childhood: she wasn't able to breastfeed; she was a single mom (her husband abandoned the family for a cult); she left the vibrant city for a safer suburb; and now, as Aubrey is supposed to be leaving for college, the two are barely speaking. Narrated in alternating chapters by Cam and Aubrey, The Gap Year explores how this fissure has risen between the pair. Despite the potentially melancholy material, the novel is often incredibly funny, thank...more
Carolyn
Great Mother Daughter story!One chapter gives mothers viewpoint next chapter daughters veiwpoint. The book depicted accurately the relationship of two people who love each other pulling away to become idividuals. As mothers we have to trust that what we instill in our daughters is still there waiting to surface again.

The best quote was on page one;"The anchor or the arrow?"
It remided me of the thought that if you love someone set them free.

I read it in one setting; five hours. I couldn't put it...more
Joan Cornish
I was so annoyed by the mother in this book that I stopped reading it several times. However her character did evolve. I can't believe that all single mothers are so incredibly intertwined (only on the mothers part) with their daughters. Perhaps it is my old age showing, but didn't this women realoize that daughters grow up and separate from their parents. I have never been divorced but carrying on a hatred for her ex for 16 years seems to be excessive. I do know some people who have done this,...more
Kim McGee
I always enjoy Sarah Bird's books and eagerly wait for the insane giggling I find myself doing but The Gap Year is not a typical Bird book. As a mother of two young adult girls I saw myself on almost every page and could understand the feelings of the mom yet I appreciated the daughter's point of view almost as much. It is a quieter book and one that every mother and daughter should read - together hopefully to open an open lines of communication. Sarah Bird is softening the edges and while I mi...more
Bonnie
This book has a great premise and lots of potential: a single mother and daughter go through some growing pains and typical adolescent shtuff during the daughter's senior year of high school. Here's a simple list of what I liked and disliked.
Pros:
*Written alternately through the mother's and daughter's points of view, every adult will be able to commiserate with both the daughter (whose mother is maddeningly nosy and out of touch) and the mother (trying desperately to connect with her progeny w...more
Maddi Sojourner
I really enjoyed this novel, from the viewpoint of a single mom of a recent high school graduate, and the daughter while she is still experiencing her senior year. Sarah Bird did a terrific job with the lagged viewpoint of the daughter, and one of the book's strengths is Bird's ability to reframe our expectations again and again from both the viewpoint change and the time difference. The mother is Cam, a lactation consultant whose husband abandoned her to a Scientology-like cult, and she is deal...more
Laura de Leon
Oh dear.

The characters and situations seemed so plausible that they have me looking at my daughter's upcoming high school years with immense terror.

None the less, I very much enjoyed reading this book.

The keys to this book were the characters, particularly the main mother daughter pair, and the intricate weaving of their stories.

I genuinely liked both Cam and Aubrey, even if I wanted to grab each of them and point out exactly what they were doing to screw up their lives. There were plenty of th...more
Estelle
Originally reviewed on Rather Be Reading Blog

Once in awhile I am lucky enough to read a book I cannot stop thinking about. I want to send carrier pigeons and take out an ad on TV just to inform people of its pure genius. After reading over 90 books so far this year, The Gap Year easily fits in my Top 5 of 2011.

First, writing style – Bird alternates chapters between Mom (Cam) at present day and daughter (Aubrey) exactly a year before. The imagery is crisp and the sentence structure flows perfectl...more
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My latest novel, "The Gap Year," will be published July 5th by Alfred A. Knopf. My previous novels are:
Alamo House
Boyfriend School
Mommy Club
Virgin of the Rodeo
Yokota Officers Club
Flamenco Academy
How Perfect Is That
I've been a columnist for Texas Monthly for the past six years.
Awards include a Dobie-Paisano Fellowship; a National Magazine Award; Ell...more
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