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Facing the Wind Facing the Wind

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Robert and Mary Rowe's second child, Christopher, was born with severe neurological and visual impairments. For many years, the Rowes' courageous response to adversity set an example for agroup of Brooklyn mothers who met to discuss the challenges of raising children with birth defects. Then Bob Rowe's pressures - professional and personal -- took their toll, and he fell i...more
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Published June 12th 2001 by Random House (first published 2001)
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Rachelle Urist
TMI. (Too much information.) The story is gripping, but Salamon's approach to the telling is tedious. It made me wish for a straightforward newspaper article - one that Salamon herself could have written beautifully. She's a fine journalist (with a law degree from NYU, a detail she never includes in her book-cover bios), a thorough researcher, and a compassionate human being. But in her effort to understand this tragedy she tries to cover its every aspect. The result: much of it seems a series o...more
Nicole
What a sad story, even more so because it's true. Bob and Mary have three children, the middle of which suffers from neurologic deficits secondary to Mary contracting rubella during pregnancy. The initial portion of the story details how this family during the late 60's/early 70's manages to deal with the many obligations taking care of a disabled child, and how they do so with stamina and grace. It was particularly unusual for a man at that time to be so invested in the care of a challenged chi...more
Shawna
This is the story of Bob Rowe who murdered his wife and three children with a baseball bat. As I read, I wondered what separated him from a man like John List, another family annilator. Both men lied to the authorities to delay the discovery of their family's bodies. Rowe spent a couple of years in an institution for the criminally insane and then he proceeded to get on with his life, getting remarried and fathering another child. He never expressed remorse, always insisting it was the mental il...more
Rochelle
This book is very disturbing but also fascinating. Unfortunately, it is totally uneven. The parts that discuss the Rowe family and the support group for mothers of disabled children are gripping. I loved reading about the different mothers and how they handled raising their children. On the other hand, the parts about Bob Rowe's battle with the legal system to get his license to practice law back after murdering his family and then going to a mental hospital for only two years are not nearly as...more
Diana
This book makes one think very thoughtfully about the concept of "forgiveness", particularly at a societal level. It is about a terrible true event: the husband/father goes temporarily insane under the stresses of life (had a severely disabled child; his high-paying, prestigious job of which he was an acknowledged expert was no longer needed and he could not find an equivalent role). Bob Rowe murders his family and attempts to kill himself (this is one area I question; I do believe he went insan...more
Lori
Clearly, I'm generally a fiction reader. I'll cross genres and authors, ages and settings. But my heart belongs to the narrative.

My career, though, is as a journalist. So narrative journalism always intrigues me. I read a lot online, and when I run across a non-fiction tale that's written like fiction, I'm willing to give it a try.

The first third of Facing the Wind does the narrative thing very well. It's about a family, and the people close to them, with a severely disabled child. It tells thei...more
Rae
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Mary
A truly heartwarming and horrific story of the struggles of mothers and families with children born with a physical or mental handicap or disability. Some of the children that are discussed truly break your heart. The father that is mainly discussed in the story - is the main purpose behind this story I believe. Mainly to show how such stress is related to dealing with these difficulties and what can trigger tragic events. They don't say in this story if the women involved with the story were th...more
Jeremy
This is your typical boy meets girl, boy and girl raise family, boy kills everyone in the house with a baseball bat and successfully pleads insanity story. I avoided the true crime genre for some time, suspecting (correctly) that I'd enjoy it a little too much, but if you can handle it, this is very well done, readable without being hacky or trashy. The epilogue (consisting of the author's rather uncomfortable luncheon with members of the parental support group the ill-fated family in question o...more
Ashley Nelson
Horrid writing style. So much useless information and hardly any real time spent on the murders.
Jody  Julian
How does a loving father and husband kill his entire family? What causes a well regarded member of society to do something so horrendous? This is about Robert Rowe and one journalist's attempt to understand that. It's also about what it's like to raise special needs children and the mothers who supported each other as they struggled to give their kids the best life possible.
I never really understood the motive in the end, and as another reviewer mentioned, I don't believe that Salamon did eit...more
Erin
Recommended in my current purse book, SO MANY BOOKS, SO LITTLE TIME, and it sounded promising, so.....

Interesting, but a bit dry. The story is actually an examination of a true crime combined with a story about a group of mothers with blind children. It was a fascinating combination, and I appreciated that the author didn't seem to take sides with either group. I'm not sure about the "Reconciliation" part of the title - I think it was more of an agreement to disagree.
K M
This book is interesting on so many levels- the dynamics of a family with a special-needs child, the interactions among their support group members, the exploration of the mind of someone who, seemingly, just snaps, and the legal system's response to issues of mental health.....there is just so much in this extensively researched book. The writer has taken a very sensitive issue, and without sensationalizing, created an engrossing, unforgettable narrative.
Nancy
I am not a reader of the "true crime" category, but picked this one up on the recommendation of a friend, and am glad I did. Quite a read! My book group was split 50/50 over this one---some people really liked it and some couldn't stand it. It IS hard to stomach the reality of what happens in the book. But the writing is very good, and the story moves you along with it. It certainly made me think---about a lot of issues. Things are not black and white.
Mary Beth
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Katrine
This is a perfect bookclub book. It is excellently written. The journalistic rather than fiction writing background of the author makes this heartbreaking story very readable. It is though provoking and so interesting to see, if read in a group, whether the readers can forgive or not.
Chamie
Whoa!!! What a book!! I would say this is one of the most shocking books I've ever read and I think the author did a great job of offering many different angles to this story. I think this is a must read for any true crime entusiast. This is not for the feint of heart.
Rebecca
Riveting story of a man who murders his family, then is found not guilty by reason of insanity. I couldn't put this down - but there were no pictures of the people involved in the story, which was disappointing.
Sheila
A true story of a man who kills his family (wife and three children, one child of which is blind and disabled). The book included interviews with other mothers in a mom's group that the wife belonged to.
Ann Brooks
An important story about living the American Dream, and living the American Nightmare. It doesn't miss a beat.
Luann
A sad, and true, story of a man who kills his family and his journey through life afterward.
David Quinn
This story isn't for everyone but I found it riveting.
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