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The Dark Side of the Light Chasers

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The bestselling, beloved classic on how to go into the dark side of yourself to bring out the light -- now with new material.
Debbie Ford believes that we each hold within us a trace of every human characteristic that exists, the capacity for every human emotion. We are born with the ability to express this entire spectrum of characteristics. But, Ford points out, our fami
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ebook, 208 pages
Published November 1st 2010 by Riverhead Books (first published May 18th 1998)
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Nayereh Ahmadian
Nov 18, 2016 Nayereh Ahmadian rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: همه آنهایی که به دنبال خودشناسی و تکامل و تعالی شخصیت هستند
مدتهاست که کتاب "نیمه تاریک وجود " اثر دبی فورد را خوانده ام و میخواستم در موردش مطلبی بنویسم اما فرصتش دست نمی داد تا اینکه به مطلب مشابهی در مثنوی برخوردم و ترغیب شدم به شباهت محتوای آنها اشاره کنم. این کتاب به طور کلی در مورد یک مکانیزم دفاعی ضمیر ناخودآگاه یه اسم "فرافکنی" صحبت میکند.

+ بر اساس یکی از نظریه های علم روانشناسی ذهن انسان از سه قسمت ضمیرخودآگاه، تحت خودآگاه و ناخودآگاه تشکیل شده که انسان فقط به قسمت خودآگاه آن دسترسی دارد؛ دسترسی به ضمیر تحت خودآگاه دشوار اما ممکن و دسترسی به ضم
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Kristie Hayes
Feb 10, 2013 Kristie Hayes rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I was really not sure what to expect with this book and thought it might go over my head, but it resonated with me.

Debbie Ford basically states that within us are all qualities, good and bad. That is what makes us human and once we can accept that, we can encounter the Divine. We do this by taking responsibility for our actions and learning how to use our negative characteristics for good. I never thought of doing that but by looking at my negative traits in that way, I feel like I have come to
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Hesam
Dec 17, 2016 Hesam rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
کل تکرار مکرّرات کتاب ، در پی گفتن این نکته است -به زعم من-، که هر چه در عالم تو را برمی انگیزاند، جنبه ای از وجود خود توست و به بیان مولانا:
بیرون ز تو نیست هر چه در عالم هست
در خود بطلب هر آنچه خواهی که تویی
Texx Norman
Apr 14, 2012 Texx Norman rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: self-help
Carl Gustav Jung was a Swiss psychiatrist, who wrote about our shadow selves. In The Dark Side of the Light Chasers Debbie Ford makes that journey to know your shadow self a practical journey and this is the tour guide for that journey. We can pretend we have no shadow side, no dark motives, but we do, and if we ignore that as a human being we have both good and bad within us, we run the risk of letting our shadow side sneak up and kick us in the butt. We do, what we don’t want to do, because we ...more
Maryam
Feb 22, 2017 Maryam rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
نیمه تاریک وجود از آن بخشی از شخصیت ما پرده بر می دارد که روابط ما را به بن بست می کشاند، روح ما را می کشد و مانع از تحقق رویاهایمان می شود. یونگ این بخش را سایه می نامد. سایه شامل همه آن ویژگی های شخصیتی ماست که سعی می کنیم پنهان و یا نفی کنیم. به جای سرکوب کردن سایه هایمان، آن جنبه هایی را که از آنها وحشت داریم ببینیم، آشکار کنیم، بپذیریم. هنگامی که با سایه خود آشتی کنیم، دیگر نیازی نیست وانمود کنید کس دیگری هستید و یا ثابت کنید وجود شایسته ای می باشید. دیگر لازم نیست در ترس به سر برید. برای آ ...more
Asmasharifi
Nov 01, 2009 Asmasharifi rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
نيمه تاريك وجود باز هم از شاخه روانشناسي هست و اينكه هر انساني خودش يك دنياي كامل هست و همه خوبيها و بديها رو يكجا داره! ولي ما طبق آموزش و فرهنگي كه باهاش بزرگ مي شيم سعي مي كنيم يك سري از صفتهايي كه بد تلقي شده و مسلما در ما وجود داره رو پنهان كنيم و اين پنهان كردن مقدار زيادي از انرژي ما رو به هدر ميده و تشبيه جالبي كه به كار برده اينه: پنهان كردن صفات بدمون مثل نگه داشتن يه توپ پلاستيكي زير آب هست كه انرژي زيادي از آدم مي گيره و مدام بايد حواسمون بهش باشه وگرنه تا دستت رو برداري مي پره بالا! ...more
Margaret
Jan 27, 2009 Margaret rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I came across this book during a very low point of my life. It turned out to be one of those books that contributed to making a difference towards a positive change...for me at least. You need to be introspective to make the most of it and at times it can be painful reading this book. This book will help if you take it seriously. I've read hundreds of books but this one is one of the ones that were memorable and impactful for me on my journey to a more joyful living.
Steven
Feb 25, 2012 Steven rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
this is not the type of book i read. i sort of told myself that before i got into it, but it was lent to me, and i have no reason not to follow the advice or recommendation of anyone that i keep in my life. yes. it's a self help, self realization, self actualization book. the first of its kind that i read. and i actually enjoyed it. not so much the language, or the flourish. not so much the very familiar colloquialisms that many of these inspirational texts tend to cloak itself in. but rather, w ...more
Reza Mohammadpour
از خواندن این کتاب بسیار راضی ام.
یک مفهوم مهم در این کتاب "سایه" می باشد. شایه شامل همه آن ویژگی های شخصیتی ماست که سعی می کنیم پنهان و یا نفی کنیم. اول اینکه زندگی نویسنده کتاب و فراز و نشیب زندگی اش برایم بسیار قابل توجه و عبرت آموز بود و اینکه بالاخره توانسته بود راه خود را بیابد.

برخی تمرین های کتاب مثل لیست کردن توصیه هایمان به دیگران و یا لیست پیش داوری هایی که در مورد دیگران داریم، برای جالب و قابل استفاده بود. اما برخی تمارین کتاب مانند مراقبه ها و ... مواردی بود که به فرد دیگری نمی توانم
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Andrea
Aug 15, 2011 Andrea rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
My favorite part about this book was realizing that everything that I love or can't stand about somebody is an unspoken truth about myself.. really cool experience when I started seeing others as reflections of myself. Debbie Ford offers a practice that enhances confidence, honesty with oneself, and therefore helps relationships with others get easier. I started to see how I am drawn to others who are close to what I think of myself- that what I love about others is also true about me, and that ...more
Azar Hoseininejad
May 02, 2016 Azar Hoseininejad rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition

بسیاری از ما زمانی طولانی در پی نور گشته ایم،اما هر بار با تاریکی بیشتری روبه رو شده ایم.

یونگ می گوید :«شخص با تجسم اشکال نورانی به روشنایی دست نمی یابد،بلکه با آگاه شدن به تاریکی به روشنایی می رسد.»

آشنایی با نیمه تاریک وجودتان،شما را در پذیرفتن و در آغوش گرفتن سایه وجود تان راهنمایی می کند.
و به شما دانش و ابزاری می دهد تا آنچه درونتان پنهان شده نمایان کنیدو شما را یاری می دهدتا خود و دیگران را بپذیرید.

Hedieh Madani
Apr 24, 2017 Hedieh Madani rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
تا من باشم دیگه وقتم رو تلف نکنم دبی فورد بخونم!
ArEzO.... Es
Jul 25, 2009 ArEzO.... Es rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
آغازین فصل اول:
اغلب ما هنگامی که تاب تحمل درد و رنج بیشتری را نداریم در مسیر رشد و تکامل گام بر می داریم .کتاب نیمه تاریک وجود از آن بخش از شخصیت ما پرده بر می دارد که روابط مارا به بن بست می کشاند روح مارا می کشد و مانع از تحقق رویاهایمان می شود .کارل یونگ این بخش را سایه می نامد .سایه شامل همه آن ویژگی های شخصیتی ماست که سعی می کنیم پنهان یا نفی کنیم ...
Sonya
Nov 04, 2016 Sonya rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
یک کتاب مفید و جالب برای پذیرش و شناخت همه ی ویژگی هایی که در سطح خود آگاه و ناخودآگاه انسان وجود دارد، هر انسانی همه ی خصوصیات را دارا می باشد که گاه با انکار و فرافکنی آن خود را از رهایی و رشد شخصیتی محروم می کنیم، این کتاب مارا در درک و به آغوش کشیدن تمام وجودمان یاری می سازد
Matthew Hunter
Mar 13, 2013 Matthew Hunter rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: self-help
"One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious."

Jung's quote above pretty much sums up much of what Ford's trying to do with The Dark Side of the Light Chasers. She exhorts readers to tackle Shadow Work, a series of practices for "unconcealing, owning, and embracing your shadow", or dark side. Here's why:
We live under the impression that in order for something to be divine it has to be perfect. We are mistaken. In fact, the exact opposite is
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Samira
Aug 27, 2007 Samira rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Thos who would rather be Whole than Good
It's definitely my cup of tea.Those who know abit about "the shadow"-brought up by Jung- would agree 100% what this book has to offer,but those who don;t know would need it in their lives ,specially where they have had or would have challenges with themselves about the attitudes of others.I used to have a lot of "self-punshing thoughts" throughout my short living.but after reading and practising on this book there came a lot of changes.i learnet that rather than trying to get rid of or suppress ...more
Raluca
Dec 29, 2012 Raluca rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I think this book is OK for the self-helper out there. I found it a bit repetitive - the message is very clearly laid out in the first chapter and then replayed over and over again in the following ones. In fact, I believe the only added value of each chapter is the list of exercises at the end, which always start with a very calming meditation and then some questions. Now, if you really take the time and effort to answer the questions properly (and by that I mean, really dig deep and push throu ...more
Yvensong
May 30, 2010 Yvensong rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Yvensong by: Darlene
This book relies heavily on the Jungian belief of accepting your darker sides. Ford provides several exercises to help you become a more well-rounded and whole person. There's not anything truly new and radical in the book, but she has made the concept and work more accessible to lay people.
Maryam Azd
ايده اي كه مجموعا در 20 صفحه ميشد بيان شه
pimjunha
Nov 27, 2016 pimjunha rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction
"สิงทีคุณอยูดวยไมได จะไมปลอยใหคุณมีชีวิตตามปกติ"


เดบบี ฟอรด นำเสนอแนวคิดทีวา สิงทีเรามองเหนในตัวอืน ความจริงแลวกมีอยูในตัวเราทุกอยาง เราไมไดอยูในโลก โลกตางหากทีอยูในตัวเรา บางครังทีเรามีความรูสึกรุนแรงกับพฤติกรรมหรือคุณสมบัติบางอยางทีคนอืนทำหรือมี ไมวาจะเปนในทางชืนชมหรือรังเกียจกตาม นันกเพราะมันเปนตัวตนหนึงของเราทีเราไมยอมรับ ทีเราปิดกันมันออกไป ซึงจะเปนอะไรกได

เราอาจจะบอกวา เราไมใชคนขีนินทา ไมใชคนอวดเกง เราเกลียดคนประเภทนีมาก คนพวกนีทำใหโลกอยูยาก แตเราสามารถเปนแบบนันไดมัย ภายใตสถานการณบางอยาง หาก
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کتاب در پیش روتون که یک کتابیه تا باز نکرده نمیشه فهمید چیه اصن قابل قیاس نیس بخواد از رو جلد یا تعداد چاپی ک حتی به 19 رسیده ادم نتیجگیری کنه
اول رفتم پی دی اف ک تو اینترنت بود البته عکس از صفحاتشو من یافتم خوندمو انقد منوجذب کردتا شب همون موقع وادار کردم حتما برم سعدی و بخرمش(خیابان سعدی مشهد خخخخ)
چند تا گزیده میگم واینم بشه برداشت
فقط قبلش نظرم در باب این کتابای موفقیت وارامش زندگی همه ش بیشتر سخن و عبارت انگیزشی تو خودت باش و باید موقعیتو درک کنی حساب شده عمل کنی اگ استرس داری اگ میترسی اگ
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Kosjitov
If you're looking for a serious book to enhance your "Shadow Work" practices, this is certainly one I would recommend to others who asked for reading material. Ms. Ford is exceptionally frank about her own issues and helps guide others down the same path that she walked step by step.

I rated this book 4 stars because I found the exercises within thought provoking and found myself avoiding blitzing the book cover to cover before I could accomplish some practice with them. To the end of knowing you
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Jenell
Sep 23, 2008 Jenell rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: psychology
This book was very enjoyable. It was one of those books that is easy to read. On the other hand, if you're not introspective naturally, you might find it difficult to read and digest. Learning about our shadow can be painful. But this subject matter intrigues me.

Debbie Ford has an interesting perspective on the shadow, those aspects of ourselves that we repress and hide. She's explored her own shadow and shares her struggles freely, as well as worked with people in counseling situations and so
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Diane Schlichting
This was the first self-help book that I actually read cover to cover. It hooked me on page 1 by stating something that was clearly in my mind and continued to get me from there, constantly speaking what was in my thoughts and my heart. Bringing to light the dark side of my emotions and trauma. It was a very revealing read, I learned a great deal and it helped to see others from this perspective and to say - AHA! So that is why I think that!

My endless gratitude to Karen for giving me this book a
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Margaret
Nov 06, 2010 Margaret rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A thought and emotion-provoking book about finding those aspects of yourself that you deny or hate, and allowing them to have a part in your life in a healthy, "whole" way. Although I enjoyed Debbie's anecdotal style of writing, I often felt confused about how knowing your shadow can actually help you become more of a whole person. I wonder if this is simply difficult to do by yourself, even with the help of a book—to find your shadow and own it.

It's easy to see the shadow side of others, though
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Nattasha
Jan 31, 2011 Nattasha rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is one of those mind altering books..where one suddenly realizes theres so much more than we are aware of.
Loved it and starting loving my dark side too now...which Debbie Ford explains is only the suppressed parts of us...and loving and accepting all of it is the only way to heal and become whole again:-)
Alexis
"The Dark Side of the Light Chasers" outlines a very powerful program that challenges you to take ownership of every aspect of yourself, even the parts you deny. (Especially the parts you deny.) If your goal is to move toward wholeness and reclaim all of your gifts, I highly recommend this book.

Now that I've highlighted it all over, I'm going to go back through it and do the exercises.
Satyrblade
Though extremely New Agey in parts, DARK SIDE is a practical guide to shadow-based self-therapy. I got my first copy from a lover near the end of our relationship, and I've given away more copies than I can remember.
Jen
Jan 29, 2009 Jen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Intriguing peek at how we choose to integrate our shadow selves into our lives
Noor
Oct 02, 2012 Noor rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shizz got real.
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Debbie Ford was an American author of self-help books. Her first book, "The Dark Side Of The Light Chasers", spawned eight more books in the genre and dealt with confronting one's "dark side" rather than ignoring it. Ford also hosted television and radio shows related to her books.

She passed away due to complications from cancer in 2013.
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“All of your so-called faults, all the things which you don’t like about yourself are your greatest assets,” she said. “They are simply overamplified. The volume has been turned up a bit too much, that’s all. Just turn down the volume a little. Soon, you—and everyone else—will see your weaknesses as your strengths, your ‘negatives’ as your ‘positives.’ They will become wonderful tools, ready to work for you rather than against you. All you have to do is learn to call on these personality traits in amounts that are appropriate to the moment. Judge how much of your wonderful qualities are needed, and don’t give any more than that.” 5 likes
“It is only when we have the courage to face things exactly as they are, without any self-deception or illusion, that a light will develop out of events, by which the path to success may be recognized.” 5 likes
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