Better Off Without Him
by
Dee Ernst (Goodreads Author)
Mona Berman is an expert at Happily Ever After - after all, she's a best-selling Romance writer and happy endings are what she does best. So when her husband of twenty years leaves her for somebody 15 years younger, 30 pounds lighter, and French, she's got a lot of adjusting to do, both personally and professionally. Lucky for her she's got three savvy teen daughters, a fe...more
Paperback, 261 pages
Published
October 10th 2010
by Smashwords.com/Lulu
(first published September 10th 2010)
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Mona Berman writes romances and is happy with her wedding and three daughters until her busband tells her he wants a divorce. Mona is completey caught off guard, and as she puts it: “Mr. Arnold,” I said between clenched teeth, “looking into a lighted make-up mirror with a plus-seven magnification is a humbling experience. Having your husband leave you for a younger woman just plain sucks.” Now Morna has to adjust to being single, convince her editor that her new book will sell even though she is...more
I really liked Dee Ernst first novel, "A different Kind of Forever", but I have to say this one is not even close to her debut novel.
Don't get me wrong, the book is fun and funny in more parts than others, but I just could not engage with Mona. And there's nothing worse then not engaging with the main character!
Mona leads a happy life with her husband of 20 odd years and her adolecent daughters. Until he leaves her and she needs to learn how to be single again.
Sounds lovely, right? A a successf...more
Don't get me wrong, the book is fun and funny in more parts than others, but I just could not engage with Mona. And there's nothing worse then not engaging with the main character!
Mona leads a happy life with her husband of 20 odd years and her adolecent daughters. Until he leaves her and she needs to learn how to be single again.
Sounds lovely, right? A a successf...more
Dee Ernst's book is a delight to read. A 45 year old mum whose husband callously breaks up with her one morning, then proceeds to make out that "they" are in agreement about the split? No way!
Mona is a believeable character with a laid-back humorous attitude to life. I found myself laughing out loud - e.g. Mona thinks her divorce lawyer is so tough that he undoubtedly circles on the bottom of his swimming pool - but make no mistake, this novel, in spite of the fun is about betrayal and pain. Dee...more
Mona is a believeable character with a laid-back humorous attitude to life. I found myself laughing out loud - e.g. Mona thinks her divorce lawyer is so tough that he undoubtedly circles on the bottom of his swimming pool - but make no mistake, this novel, in spite of the fun is about betrayal and pain. Dee...more
I almost put this book down after the first two pages. It starts off with Mona complaining about the month of April--taxes, allergies, etc--then describing her three teenage girls, who initially sounded a bit spoiled.
I got the impression that Mona was going to be an overly depressed, beaten-down-by-life heroine who finally finds some bitter type of satisfaction when her husband leaves her and she fixes her personality problems.
Fortunately, I kept reading, and found that my first impression was...more
I got the impression that Mona was going to be an overly depressed, beaten-down-by-life heroine who finally finds some bitter type of satisfaction when her husband leaves her and she fixes her personality problems.
Fortunately, I kept reading, and found that my first impression was...more
Better Off Without Him is one of the funniest chick-lit books I’ve read in recent memory. Ernst starts with a great cast of characters: the protagonist, Mona, is a strong woman with a great talent for recognizing the humor in life, even in negative experiences. She has to be, with her three teenage daughters, each with unique personalities that keep Mona guessing and with the typical teen problems of being on the cusp of adulthood (with some very adult like insights), yet still needing parental...more
Romance writer Mona Berman never expected her own life to become a bad romance novel cliché. In her mind, her marriage had been perfect, ideal. It took her husband leaving her for a younger, thinner, blonder, French woman for her to realize that not only was her husband not the devoted man she thought he was, but she wasn’t happy, either. Now she is faced with writing a new book about love when it’s the last thing on her mind, and moving on from relationship disaster while raising three teenage...more
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Mona Berman is a best-selling romance novelist, the mother of three teenage girls, and a dedicated wife. She has a great job, has penned twenty-seven romances, and is optimistic about her family's future. Until that is, her husband, Brian, decides to pack his bags, file for divorce, and leave her for a skinny, French twenty-something.
Faced with the biggest shock of her life, Mona must recover by finding herself before everything swirls down the drain. Can Mona be the woman she was...more
Mona Berman is a best-selling romance novelist, the mother of three teenage girls, and a dedicated wife. She has a great job, has penned twenty-seven romances, and is optimistic about her family's future. Until that is, her husband, Brian, decides to pack his bags, file for divorce, and leave her for a skinny, French twenty-something.
Faced with the biggest shock of her life, Mona must recover by finding herself before everything swirls down the drain. Can Mona be the woman she was...more
Actually 2.5 stars. This could be a good airplane or beach book. I pulled it down free to a KindlePC. So it is nice of the author to have made it available and I would suggest that you at least give it a try. It is definite, definite chic lit.
The story started slow for me because I don't have kids (and I nearlly put it down). By the end of the first chapter it picked up a bit. Then by the end of the 4th or 5th chapter (@ 40% mark), I thought this is really good reading and would have given it fo...more
The story started slow for me because I don't have kids (and I nearlly put it down). By the end of the first chapter it picked up a bit. Then by the end of the 4th or 5th chapter (@ 40% mark), I thought this is really good reading and would have given it fo...more
Better Off Without Him by Dee Ernst is modern romantic comedy at its best. Mona Berman is a very successful author who’s forte is the historical romance novel. Throughout the book she slips into author mode to translate a scene that’s actually happening into a flowery passage in one of her books. It’s the witty hallmark of this story. Mona, who specialises in happy endings, suddenly finds herself facing a bleak one. Her husband suddenly announces he wants a divorce because he has met Dominique,...more
Better Off Without Him has a lot going for it. While the plot itself is nothing new (husband leaves wife for younger woman, woman has some hilarious dates/hijinks, woman learns to love herself and finds someone she can be happy with), what makes it stand out is the phenomenal tone. It reads like you're talking to your snarky yet hilarious best friend--the one who is perfect at summing up people with a clever phrase.
I also enjoy that the book gives a nod to the tropes of the romance genre. The ma...more
I also enjoy that the book gives a nod to the tropes of the romance genre. The ma...more
Mona's world is turned upside down when her husband, Brian, announces that he is leaving her straight away, today! Mona was unaware that there was a problem in their marriage, let alone a third party - 30 years old, French and Blonde known as Dominique.
Up until now Mona, writer of romantic fiction, has been the model wife, caring for her husband and family, probably a little too well.
Mona is not short of support to help her get through this. She has a good network of close friends and her PA. St...more
Up until now Mona, writer of romantic fiction, has been the model wife, caring for her husband and family, probably a little too well.
Mona is not short of support to help her get through this. She has a good network of close friends and her PA. St...more
I can't remember the last time I've said, "I effing love this character!" at the 25% mark of a book. I knew at that point I was going to love this book.
Mona is classic, and even though in the beginning it seems she's getting shafted, her husband leaving is the best thing to happen to her. Naturally.
I think what made this book so great for me were the characters. Patricia was awesome. Every woman needs a friend like her. Mona's assistant Anthony was the one that made me literally laugh out loud...more
Mona is classic, and even though in the beginning it seems she's getting shafted, her husband leaving is the best thing to happen to her. Naturally.
I think what made this book so great for me were the characters. Patricia was awesome. Every woman needs a friend like her. Mona's assistant Anthony was the one that made me literally laugh out loud...more
I started out this book not expecting to get much out of it. "Better off Without Him" is essentially a book about a woman, Mona, who is going through a divorce. There were aspects of the book which have been overdone, in my limited experience with chick lit I have found, for instance, that many of the main characters are somehow involved in the writing process. Dee Ernst chose to write a novel about an author who was writing a novel about an author. Very original.
The grammar needed some work. In...more
The grammar needed some work. In...more
I enjoyed this book very much. It’s a happy read and a storybook ending and sometimes I need that escape into fantasy. Dee has great writing skills and deftly developed her characters. I particularly enjoyed the relationship between mother and daughters and who wouldn’t love a crazy Aunt Lily in their life? It is pat, for sure, with the ending all tied up in pretty ribbon. And we all need that, right?
I only withheld the fifth star for a) the typos and formatting issues for Kindle. I know it’s th...more
I only withheld the fifth star for a) the typos and formatting issues for Kindle. I know it’s th...more
Mona is an author, has 3 children and a lousy husband. He decided it was time to waltz in and tell Mona he is leaving her. Shocked to see he was packing up his things and moving out. Mona took it hard for a few a while, but with the push of her daughter's she decides to start dating again. They go to her summer home off the Jersey shore for some relaxation and dating. Some of Mona's dates are interesting and funny along the way.
I had a good time reading this story. Between Mona's Aunt Lily and t...more
I had a good time reading this story. Between Mona's Aunt Lily and t...more
I knocked a star because it took 100 pages for me to connect with the character and really want to see her story play out. I bought this book nearly six months ago and it sat on my shelf until I had run out of things to read and my next book was delayed from Amazon because of snow. Well, thank goodness for March snowstorms because in the end I really liked this story and would recommend it for light summer reading. Mona is viciously dumped by her awful husband in the first few pages, completely...more
I chose to read this book because the genre and synopsis were similar to the one I had written! I liked the author's writing style and sense of humor. It was a comfortable, enjoyable read, and I would have finished it sooner if I wasn't reading at late at night! I liked the MC and could relate to her (although I thought she could have been more "real" - i.e. less generous in her dealings with her cheating husband!). I thought it clever how the author had excerpts from the MC's books interwoven t...more
Rating: 4/5 stars
Level of Recommendation: Highly Recommended
Recommend to: fans of chick-lit
This book was:
A. sweet
B. hilarious
C. adorable
D. heart-warming
E. all of the above
Can you guess? Mmhm, definitely choice E. Poor Mona is a forty-five year old romance writer, wife, and mother to three teenage daughters. Then comes the day her husband walks into the kitchen and calmly tells her that he is leaving her for a younger woman. What seems to be a shattering moment in her life actually turns out to b...more
Level of Recommendation: Highly Recommended
Recommend to: fans of chick-lit
This book was:
A. sweet
B. hilarious
C. adorable
D. heart-warming
E. all of the above
Can you guess? Mmhm, definitely choice E. Poor Mona is a forty-five year old romance writer, wife, and mother to three teenage daughters. Then comes the day her husband walks into the kitchen and calmly tells her that he is leaving her for a younger woman. What seems to be a shattering moment in her life actually turns out to b...more
Fun read about a woman whose husband declares he's having an affair and is leaving her. She needs to learn how to live without him and her daughters inform her she needs to start dating. Though she is wary of this get back on the horse idea, she gives it a good go.
It was fun to read about her different dates. The good, the bad and the ugly ones. You are kept guessing throughout the book who (if any) of her dates will make it and will she find her next long-term love with any of them.
The book i...more
It was fun to read about her different dates. The good, the bad and the ugly ones. You are kept guessing throughout the book who (if any) of her dates will make it and will she find her next long-term love with any of them.
The book i...more
I needed something light and cheap for gymnastics read (daughter goes to gymnastics and I wait). This one hit the spot. It's light, funny, and touching at times. I'm not in my mid-40s, but soon enough I'll get there and it's nice to read about a mature woman trying to make it on her own after her husband of 20yrs dumped her. One thing I can't quite figure is this bit... is Mona an average mid-40yrs old woman or is she a foxy 40 something years old woman? The author made it seem like she's just t...more
I absolutely loved this book. Hilarious!!!! I laughed so hard I cried. Mona is a romance writer, in what she thinks is a perfect marriage. She has 3 girls and a wonderful life, until the day her husband walks in and tells her that he is leaving her for a younger woman. She calls her best friends who are there to support her in her time of need and always ready with the martinis. In walks the hunky plumber who also shows his support for his friend. I love the way she thinks in lusty writer mode e...more
Mona is most definitely Better Off Without Him!
I had such fun reading BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM written by Dee Ernst. The character interaction was imaginatively written and funny. It was so nice reading about a 40-plus woman for a change. I was able to relate to her in more ways the one.
I enjoyed getting to know Mona and her emotional strength in dealing with a husband she's been married to for twenty years but finds she never really knew him in the first place. I also really liked Mona's friends...more
I had such fun reading BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM written by Dee Ernst. The character interaction was imaginatively written and funny. It was so nice reading about a 40-plus woman for a change. I was able to relate to her in more ways the one.
I enjoyed getting to know Mona and her emotional strength in dealing with a husband she's been married to for twenty years but finds she never really knew him in the first place. I also really liked Mona's friends...more
Mona Berman, a best-selling romance author, knows how to write a fabulous happily-ever-after story. But her own world gets an unwelcome rewrite when her husband of twenty years leaves her for a much younger, thinner and French....girl. Her three teenagers daughters convince Mona she needs to give dating another shot, and spending the summer down at the Jersey Shore seems to be the perfect place for her to get back in the swing of things. But can Mona concentrate on her dates (the majority being...more
This is a really cute, witty tale about Mona Berman finding life after being cast aside by her husband of twenty years. I enjoy a strong female lead, and Ernst does not disappoint in her character, Mona, whose quirky ways and strong sense of self worth make her triumph over her disastrous break up. I loved that Mona didn’t stop living, but instead began, dating, writing a new type of novel, and ultimately finding herself throughout the course of the story, and I highly enjoyed it.
I absolutely ad...more
I absolutely ad...more
Even though this plotline has been done before, it is rarely done with the humor of this book. Brian is the evil husband who drops the D-word bomb, just after Mona and he have just discussed the most recent plumbing problem in their old house. Mona is stunned by this announcement, but the way it was delivered made me wonder about Brian. Was he always this crass, or is it his way of dealing with a very difficult situation, the demise of a marriage?
The characters in this book were so rich, so diff...more
The characters in this book were so rich, so diff...more
Lately every chick lit novel I pick up involves a perky twenty and a bit bright young thing (who always seems to be either work as a PR or a PA in fashion or advertising), dumped by some love rat, who after copious tears and self pity navigates her way to true love with her soul mate. Well I have been there and done that and now that I am edging ever closer to 40 I want heroines with more substance and less style. Recovering from a break up is infinitely more complicated when it involves childre...more
Jun 11, 2012
Beth Bares
rated it
4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
all women
Recommended to Beth by:
ARR
Received this book through "ARR". Halfway through, I ended up purchasing the e-book. I liked it that much!
Dee Ernst is an awesome writer. The detailed expression of each character in this book was amazing. This is a laugh out loud, heart felt, true to life book. Mona is my kind of woman and Ben...well, Ben is just Ben - wonderful!
This fiction is not far from reality. It's a true testament, our lives can change within a blink of an eye. Another strong confirmation how important it is to embrace t...more
Dee Ernst is an awesome writer. The detailed expression of each character in this book was amazing. This is a laugh out loud, heart felt, true to life book. Mona is my kind of woman and Ben...well, Ben is just Ben - wonderful!
This fiction is not far from reality. It's a true testament, our lives can change within a blink of an eye. Another strong confirmation how important it is to embrace t...more
I think this was free or very cheap on my Kindle Fire, which justified or not, kept my expectations low. I know, I know, what a snobby terrible thing to say. Believe me, I've said worse.
But, I loved this book! It was fun and I found myself laughing out loud at parts. Definitely a beach read, but quite honestly, those are the best kind! A few silly typos throughout the kindle edition, but that's ok. It was fun, funny and the right amount of smarm.
But, I loved this book! It was fun and I found myself laughing out loud at parts. Definitely a beach read, but quite honestly, those are the best kind! A few silly typos throughout the kindle edition, but that's ok. It was fun, funny and the right amount of smarm.
I enjoyed the voice a great deal but for a romance this book really missed the mark.
**spoiler**
The heroine is dumped by her husband and has a major thing for the plumber. But she has a sexual relationship with one guy and then moves on to a romantic/sexual relationship with another guy and then at the very end of the book when she's legally divorced the plumber says "I love you" and we're supposed to believe there's an HEA waiting.
I just didn't buy into it.
**spoiler**
The heroine is dumped by her husband and has a major thing for the plumber. But she has a sexual relationship with one guy and then moves on to a romantic/sexual relationship with another guy and then at the very end of the book when she's legally divorced the plumber says "I love you" and we're supposed to believe there's an HEA waiting.
I just didn't buy into it.
I loved this book. I wanted Mona to be my friend. I had lots of advice to give her & wanted to sit with her and drink wine and discuss all sorts of things! We would have exchanged experiences and I would have liked to know her daughters also. She made decisions I agreed with and others I felt were not right but I still liked her. Who hasn't found themselves wondering exactly what the right thing to do when it comes to matters of the heart? Mona, you rule!
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Dee Ernst was born Elizabeth Diane Ascoli in Newark, NJ. Her family moved to Morristown, NJ when she was still a toddler. She started writing stories on a battered Royal typewriter when she was about ten or twelve, and she graduated Morristown High School determined to pursue a career as a writer in some form or another (she considered advertising, but luckily came to her senses). Creative writing...more
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