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The Extra Man

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Meet Louis Ives: well groomed, romantic, and as captivating as an F. Scott Fitzgerald hero. Only this hero has a penchant for ladies’ clothes, and he’s lost his teaching post at Princeton’s Pretty Brook Day School after an unfortunate incident involving a colleague’s brassiere.Meet Henry Harrison: former actor, failed but brilliant playwright, and a well-seasoned esco...more
Paperback, 384 pages
Published December 3rd 1998 by Scribner
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Amanda
Amanda rated it 3 of 5 stars
Recommended to Amanda by: Fred Northrup
Shelves: book-club
When I moved to New York, fresh from college, double liberal arts degrees in hand and looking for work in book publishing, I ordered a subscription (The Weekender! Natch!) to the New York Times. Reading the Times every weekend was part of my idea of the New York version of myself, something I had mashed together from my just-post-college ambitions and my nervousness, and from reading novels about people in similar situations in the city. I imagined I would read the paper over coffee and a bagel ...more
Nicole
Nicole rated it 4 of 5 stars
The Extra Man, by Jonathan Ames, is classically Ames. I am a huge fan of the author, so it should come as no surprise that I enjoyed this book (almost) as much as Wake Up Sir! and The Alcoholic. (To be frank, I couldn't adore many more books than Sir! It's truly a gift of literature.)

The Extra Man refers to the person needed at a dinner party with old ladies who no longer have a husband; an extra man is always needed to fill the seating gap. Louis Ives is a "young gentleman"...more
christa
An obsession with a figure from the lit world does not necessarily mean that I like the object of interest. It just means I'll considering following him on Twitter, but change my mind. Delve into his canon with a cocked eyebrow. Sometimes I develop such a fixation that even I don't know if I hate the object of interest, or if I want to tie the object of interest to my bed for optimal hobbling.

Right now I'm interested in Jonathan Ames. I think I kind of hate him, I probably hate him. Bu...more
Tanya
Tanya rated it 3 of 5 stars
It left me a little sad, and confused, because I felt like I only developed a true break through and connection with the characters and then the book was over. They occupy a filthy, muddled, made-up little microcosm of affected mannerisms, inspiring quotations, drunkenness, secrets, contradictory philosophies and repressed affections. But they are still very human, especially because they're so grotesque. The idea of Henry and the state he lives in, the man he's become, is both inspiring and hea...more
Nicholas
Nicholas rated it 3 of 5 stars
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YiShun
YiShun rated it 1 of 5 stars
I've begun to realize that books whose jacket flap copy says they are "hilarious" yet "poignant" or some such variation are not for me.
This seemed to go nowhere forever. The relationship between roommates Henry and ... Chr*st, I can't even remember what the protagonist's name was now, and I just read the thing last night ... doesn't really hit a crisis point until the very end, really. And the protagonist (I can only remember his last name, Ives, and the moniker he use...more
Djrmel
Louis Ives loses his job as a teacher in a Princeton, NJ boarding school, because of a minor cross dressing incident, and decides to start over in New York City. He also decides to continue on his path towards being a "young gentleman", using Fitzgerald and Waugh as his guides. Louis shares a rundown apartment with an eccentric elderly man who supplements his teacher's income by being an extra man (a well mannered man called upon to "even up" the male to female ratio at soci...more
Kim
Kim rated it 4 of 5 stars
This book is so funny and clever. The voice is really unique and the scenes with Louis (the young gentleman) and Harrison (the extra man) are really like glittering jewels. Harrison is so much fun and I often laughed out loud while reading at some of their scenes. And it didn't hurt that Kevin Kline will be playing him in the film and is on the cover of my version as he is pitch perfect casting for this character. I loved how the tone of the novel, the "young gentleman about Manhattan"...more
Lola425
I really enjoyed the tone and tenor of this book. It was odd and sunny and also a little touching...and did I say odd? Henry is the type of character who seems as if it is impossible that he could exist in real life and yet you have a feeling that he actually might have. Completely implausible, yet ringing of truth. The sex parts seemed a little "Portnoy's Complainty" to me at times (not that I have read that book in 15 years, but it inspired the same sort of impatience in me, so th...more
Brent Legault
Brent Legault rated it 1 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: no one, not anyone
There's a whole lot of hubbub about Ames but I don't understand it and after reading this book I'm thinking that maybe it's all been an elaborate hoax, cooked up by Brooklyn boosters and NPR affiliates to ruin my weekend.
Nickie
I love Jonathan Ames. For here is a man who adheres to the maxim that a writer should reveal everything that is ugly and shameful about himself. Dalliances with trans-sexuals, bra-stealing, delusions of Gatsby-esque grandeur. At one point during this book, I suddenly suspected that I'd read it before, but it turned out that he was just revisiting some of the same anecdotes from his other books. So... a bit samey, but sod it, that's some same old good stuff.

Ames' stock is clearly on th...more
Dan Trudeau
I wanted to like The Extra Man more than I did. There are things about the book I loved but I found myself working to keep going sometimes.

I think one of my biggest issues is Louis, the main character. I found him to be compelling at some points and downright irritating in others. I have no problems with a sexually insecure character in love with the idea of becoming a gentleman. In fact, I was happy he didn't come off as contrived as he could have. There was nothing about him t...more
Sara
Sara rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: 2009
Although I'll retain plenty of the lurid details from The Extra Man, I just about had an attack when I read the line "showered and blue-blazered" — appropriated for the unbelievably fantastic song "Mistaken for Strangers," by The National. Lead singer Matt Berninger later misattributed the quote as appearing in Ames'Wake Up, Sir!, which seems strange; how does one like a string of words enough to steal it and then forget where it's from?
Jgknobler
A very peculiar but entertaining book written with wonderful freshness and candor. Written in the first person, the protagonist is a young man with an interest in transexuals and a sexual need to cross-dress. He moves in with an older, impoverished, eccentric man who schools him in the ways of crashing operas and society functions and taking advantage of lonely, wealthy women. There is an abundance of fascination with the grotesque and pathetic, but also a strangely powerful treatment of issues ...more
Elaine
Elaine rated it 5 of 5 stars
Perfect for a fun read. Brilliantly drawn characters, fleshed out so that they are real humans, not "types" or "character" although they are eccentric or even weird. The writing is bright and witty, but still allows one to empathize with Louis' loneliness, longings, and occasional sadness. Parental warning: X-rated for revealed body part, sex with fluids, trannies & cross-dressers, but never salacious, and never gratuitous (if there is sex, it reveals something about the cha...more
Sabra Embury
From the onset of "the Extra Man" I didn't know what to expect. I'd heard of Jonathan Ames's writing being filled with scatological, perverted, self-defacing, yet charming, humor, but I assumed that was mostly in his non fiction essays. Haha...wrong.

"The Extra Man" is about a sweet mid-twenties guy named Louis Ives, who gets let go from his teaching position in Jersey due to curious incident with a bra in a gym bag, mixed with terrible bystander timing.

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Kristopher Jansma
Well, I thought I loved Wake Up, Sir! last week, but this Ames novel has taken the cake. It's ending was far more satisfying and the entire thing much more complex and novely. Novel-ish?

If you'll recall, I was intrigued while reading the last book because the novelist/narrator was working on another book, which sounded a lot like this one. And I thought to myself, "Whoa... meta..." No, seriously, I thought to myself - damn I like this book a lot, but the book he's writing i...more
Jennifer
Jennifer rated it 1 of 5 stars
Shelves: didn-t-finish
I picked this up read the first few pages - and lost interest.

Tried again the next day. Picked it up - read the first few pages - and got distracted by something else. Put the book down.

Came back another time, read the first few pages, but didn't get any further.

After a bunch of tries, I just couldn't read it. It failed to capture my interest enough to get me past the first few pages... which is disappointing, because I thought I might like the book if I co...more
Cyn
Cyn rated it 4 of 5 stars
I really wanted to give this 3.5 stars but I can't, that said this book was thoroughly enjoyable despite the fact that the main character is an annoying eccentric. It seems like a lot of reviewers read "Wake up, Sir" first, I read this first and am now reading "Wake up, Sir" so the meta references in WUS are meaningful to me. In any event this is a fun read though a bit gritty, the characters are well developed and never dull.
Liz
Liz rated it 4 of 5 stars
Good thing Half-Price books was having a 20% off sale on Saturday, cuz my book buying addiction is getting serious... Just started this one today, and am half way done... Why do I find his wacky characters so appealing? Cluttered tiny Upper Eastside apt shared by 2 eccentrics. Transvestite bars. Guilt-ridden sexual escapades. Flying stuffed animal lions falling from the sky. My new favorite phrase: "curious maladjustment". Is Jonathan Ames straight and single? haha.
Abby
Abby rated it 1 of 5 stars
Shelves: fiction
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Ara
Ara rated it 5 of 5 stars
It's about Louis Ives and he's a closet deviant, but the complexity of his needs slowly dawns on the reader as the story continues. The comedy of the situation is that Louis wants to be a gentleman, in the style of F. Scott Fitzgerald, and he makes an effort every chance he gets to behave that way. While Louis fights within himself over his deviance, his roommate, Henry Harrison, provides the outright ridiculous dialogue that makes the book pure gold. The prose in both the descriptions and dia...more
Vance
Vance rated it 4 of 5 stars
An old man in a dirty apartment and a virtuous younger man who has an obsession with trannies. It's a "coming out"-style book that never once descends into the bathos that often mars this sub-genre of bildungsroman. It's got charm and a narrator who makes you easily and unashamedly understand that he can be a nice boy and a live an edgy life at the same time -- with no regrets.
Murasaki_neko
This was a fun book to read. I'm not sure why, since the main character was strange and irritating, but the story was very well crafted and the characters were believable in their idiosyncrasies. I would definitely recommend it, but readers must keep an open mind, as it gets into the world of cross dressing and transsexuals.
Stefan
Stefan rated it 4 of 5 stars
It's hard to find a book that makes me laugh out loud, it's hard to find a book that when I reach near end, I don't want it to. At times you can be critical. I enjoyed this more than any Steven King novel. Ames ignores his reputation and has proceeded to humour me again and again.
Heather
The two main characters were definitely interesting and very funny. I'm giving it three stars for that. The overall plot I might give it just two stars. Yes it made me laugh but I think it went in circles too much, repeating the same things just under slightly different circumstances.
Stewart
Having loved Ames' brilliant comedic novel Wake Up Sir, I was very interested in checking out his back catalogue. The Extra Man does not reach the same hilarious heights as Wake Up Sir, but it is an amusing, enjoyable reading experience nevertheless. Ames has a tremendous knack for being able to place mad cap characters in rather traditional settings and portray the wonderfully quirky results in convincing fashion. In Louis and Henry, Ames molds truly memorable characters who, for all of thei...more
Mike
Mike rated it 3 of 5 stars
Just watched the movie last night. Quite loyal to the book. Ames really gets me slowing down my observations of the world. I look for the interesting parts of life that often go by unnoticed. I really loved the commentary during the movie from Kevin Kline and Ames.
Lewis
Lewis rated it 4 of 5 stars
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Arlo
Arlo rated it 5 of 5 stars
Shelves: favorites
A well written quirky psychological tale of sexual ambiguity and gender roles. The character development is on point and interesting. If I was trained in psychology I could easily diagnose the two main characters by page 50. tbc....
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Jonathan Ames is the author of the books The Double Life is Twice As Good, I Pass Like Night, The Extra Man, What's Not to Love?, My Less Than Secret Life, Wake Up, Sir!, I Love You More Than You Know, and The Alcoholic (a graphic novel illustrated by Dean Haspiel). He is the editor of Sexual Metamorphosis: An Anthology of Transsexual Memoirs.

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