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Don't Sing at the Table: Life Lessons from My Grandmothers

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As devoted readers of Adriana Trigiani's New York Times bestselling novels know, this "seemingly effortless storyteller" (Boston Globe) frequently draws inspiration from her own family history, in particular from the lives of her two remarkable grandmothers, who have found their way into all Trigiani's cherished novels. In Don't Sing at the Table, this much-beloved writer...more
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Published November 9th 2010 by HarperCollins e-books (first published November 1st 2010)
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Marjanne
I wanted to like this more than I did. I was expecting (and hoping for) a nice story about the author's grandmothers and what she learned from them. There is some of that, but as the book goes on it kind of turns from memoir into self-help. The author seems to think that if we all just lived more like her grandmothers that the world would be a perfect place. Even worse, nearer to the end the author starts throwing in her own parenting and life opinions in. I am not familiar with the author outsi...more
Danielle
Lucy and Viola were trailblazers of their time. Modern women in a world that was changing faster than most could imagine. In Trigiani’s newest release Don’t Sing at the Table she tells the stories of these two incredible grandmothers that influenced her life. Both from different parts of Italy and transplanted to the United States just in time for the industrial age of factories and US made products. Both Lucy and Viola in their own respects were women of fierce passion and fulfilled lives.

In a...more
Janel
I heard Adriana speak at two library conferences and enjoyed her stories immensely, but I hadn't read any of her books. Curious to learn more about her and her family, I decided to read this book first.

At first I had a hard time getting into the book and relating to her stories, but as I got further into the book I found a few connections. It turns out her one grandmother grew up & lived 20 minutes north of where I grew up. Both my grandmothers were at one time in their lives seamstresses j...more
Andrea
Nov 26, 2010 Andrea rated it 1 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Andrea by: a Giveaway win!
I kept thinking, what's the point? Her grandmothers' lives were interesting, but how were they different from all the other young Italian immigrants who struggled to make it here? I think this book would have been a lot more effective if it were written in novel form and from the grandmothers' points of view. From the author's perspective, it was sort of all over the place, moving back and forth between Viola and Lucy, and I feel that the real lessons that Trigiani was trying to get across were...more
Vicki
I didn't find this book to be very interesting or enlightening. It seemed like a great book for the author to write to share with her family, but I just didn't really care enough to read her thoughts on life. I read it, and although her grandmothers seemed like very great women, I prefer not to read this kind of book. It was well written as are most of Ms. Trigiani's books, but a little preachy. I'm glad I had the opportunity to read this, but I wouldn't recommend it.
Mary Bruno
I got this book thinking that it would be full of anecdotes of growing up with Italian grandmothers. While this was a good memoir of Trigiani's experience with her grandmothers and an interesting account of the successes of immigrants to the US, it was not the story I expected. I thought at times it was a little preachy and did not have the touching stories of moments spent with relatives that are no longer here.
Priyanka
The word you're looking for is 'rich' -- in detail, in experience, in lesson, in expression. Cooking tips, success formulas, how to be a good hostess, parenting lessons... you name it, you got it... all packaged together in this delightful read which makes you smile as well as makes you well up and leaves you feeling enriched.
Hope I get to meet you some day signora Trigiani!
Mary Ellen
I won this book from the Goodreads giveaways and can't wait to read it! It was delivered promptly and in good condition. I will let you know what I think when I read it! Thank you Goodreads!

Not one of my favorite books by Trigiani. It was a little slow, but she shows a definite doversity in her writing. I'd like to see another "Big Stone Gap" book.
Nieve
Trigiani, Trigiani, Trigiani. I love her and her grandmothers – Lucia and Viola. Simple and sensible things said in a way that doesn’t make you feel that you are being told this is how you should lead your life. One book that I’ll keep going back to – to revise the life lessons I learnt.
Linda
I went to Adrianas' book signing last night,And had to start reading her new book with my first cup of coffee this morning.I really like her as an author,after meeting her..you can see she love what she does,which makes her so good!!!!!!
Penny
It's a lovely tribute to the strong people in our lives who make us what we are. After reading the book I felt like I wished I had had the chance to meet Adriana's grandmothers. They were amazing people.
Heather
I'll be honest, I skipped the chapters on child rearing and money (I try not to read anything that deals with those issues), but I really liked the rest of the book.
Sarah
I'm not going to finish this. Seemed to me to be uninteresting, condescending, and disjointed. Ordinary. And not worth my time.
Joan Grubbs
Trigiani writes from the heart about her two Italian grandmothers and their roles in making her the person she is today. I can certainly relate to her subject, as the granddaughter of an Italian grandmother. Their love of home and hearth and their gritty determination to make a success of their life in a new homeland struck a chord with me. This was a quick and enjoyable read for me that took me back to a nostalgic, simpler time. Those who have read "The Shoemaker's Daughter" will understand the...more
Alice
This was one of the those memoir-ish nonfiction books that reads like it is written for the author's own family. Lots of details and information that a member of the family might care to know, but is rather boring for the rest of us readers. She tried to turn it in to lessons but they came across as authoritarian for someone who themselves has not raised a child (she is currently raising one young daughter)and I couldn't help but wonder if her grandmothers could read what she'd written in the le...more
Elizabeth
"We worry what to give our children, agonize about what gifts to give them in the hopes of choosing something special that will build a memory for them. We trudge to theme parks, take them to musicals, unveil the wonders of the circus or the thill of carnivals to give them an adventure, where they have to be brave while having fun. We want them to remember the blinking lights, the whirling Ferris wheel, and the glass boxes filled with spools of pink cotton candy. We want to give them moments, so...more
Chocolate & Croissants
Grab yourself a cup of tea. Tuck yourself into bed, under a cozy duvet and open up Don't Sing at the Table. For me this book was charming and comforting all in one. It was about the way life should be. It had the lessons I wished we could all live by every day. It made me wish for the relationship she had with her grandmothers. I also come from migrant parents. My difference is that my parents were the only ones who migrated. My grandparents were across the Atlantic. They spoke I language I did...more
Book Concierge
Trigiani has built a following with her contemporary novels, frequently mining her family history for plot lines or colorful characters. Now she turns her writer’s skills to crafting a biography/memoir focusing on her two grandmothers – Yolanda (Viola) Perin Trigiani and Lucia (Lucy) Spada Bonicelli – and the life lessons she learned from them. “Make your own living.” “Loving one good man is enough.” “Take a chance, and when you fail, take another.” “Leave your children your values, not your stu...more
Carol
What a treat arrived in my mailbox yesterday . . . a Goodreads Giveaway book written by Adriana Trigiani, one of my favorite authors! I've enjoyed many of her novels, but this latest book is a nonfiction entitled Don't Sing at the Table: Life Lessons from My Grandmothers. I was expecting a series of funny quotes from her ancestors, but this turns out to be a delightful memoir of history, love, sacrifice, fine examples of work and ethics, and much food for thought, extremely well-written. And yes...more
Hannah M.
We all have people in our lives who leave a mark of some sort. For Adriana Trigiani, her grandmothers Lucy and Viola had a huge impact on her. Don’t Sing at the Table is a moving and even entertaining book full of stories about these two powerhouse women and I enjoyed it immensely.

Lucy and Viola are two women who lived very full lives. They loved with all their hearts and gave everything they had to their jobs and families. From their births and childhood in Italy to their trip across the Atlant...more
Alison
Read this book...then read it again!

I've been struggling to find the words for this review for quite some time. Each time I try, I fall into this sappy sweet, personal zone of over sharing. Adriana has that effect on people! To know her is to love her, and to read her writing is to open a door to her family, where you are a welcomed guest.

DON'T SING AT THE TABLE: Life Lessons From My Grandmothers is Adriana Trigiani's first non-fiction book; although those of us who have read her works of ficti...more
Dawn
Feb 20, 2011 Dawn rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Adriana Trigiani Fans
Recommended to Dawn by: My Mom & I love Adriana's books.
I really enjoyed this book from one of my favorite authors. Adriana is such a wonderful storyteller and after reading about her grandmothers, I can see where she has gotten the inspiration for her characters. I liked reading about Viola since my great grandparents lived in Roseto and I live in the same area. When reading this book, you can tell how much Adriana loved and admired her grandmothers. This book is a wonderful tribute to their legacy. It has made me miss my grandmother and wish that I...more
McGuffy Morris
Life Lessons from My Grandmothers


By Adriana Trigiani


In this memoir, Adriana Trigiani introduces us to her grandmothers, Lucia & Viola. Through their approach to and way of life, they were lifelong role models. Their life lessons are their legacy.

Adriana writes a chapter on each woman, giving her history while giving tribute to that woman. Each chapter is a gift to that woman and to the reader, as well. Many photographs add to the beauty of the book and bring the history and the women to life...more
Diane
Fans of Adriana Trigiani's novels will recognize the women in her non-fiction book- her grandmothers Lucy and Viola have appeared in many of the characters in her fiction. Not only does Trigiani do a marvelous job of recounting the fascinating life stories of these women, she uses their lives to write a primer for living your own life.

Women like Lucy and Viola are the people who made this country great, and they jump off the pages in this delightful book. They have more than their fair share of...more
Julie (julie37619)
This is my first book by Trigiani, even though I think I own almost every single one of her novels. After reading this one, I'm going to need to make reading them a priority. This is more of a biography/memoir of her two Italian grandmothers and the legacy they left her through their lives and the advice they passed down to her. I really enjoyed the differences (and some similarities) between the advice given to Trigiani by her Italian Catholic grandmothers as opposed to what I learned growing u...more
Meg
Before she was an acclaimed and popular author, Adriana Trigiani was someone much more basic — much more familiar — to all of us: a granddaughter. In her memoir Don’t Sing At The Table, Trigiani recounts the inspiring and fascinating lives of her two strong-willed, larger-than-life grandmothers. Blessed with not one but two powerful female role models, Trigiani grew up listening to their stories and learning from the trials they endured. And as she grows and matures and experiences life herself,...more
Louise
Life lessons indeed!! Adriana Trigiani’s Grandmothers, Viola and Lucy were bright, intelligent, hard-working, sensible but no nonsense women who taught Adriana lessons about life that will sustain her for many years to come. These two women were entrepreneurs who knew how to take risks and win. Even in the face of tragedy in their own families, the courage and immense strength these women showed is an inspiration to all who will read this book.

The morals and values learned from these two graciou...more
Holly (2 Kids and Tired)
This is a warm, poignant tribute to the author's grandmothers. That Adriana loved and admired her grandmothers is very apparent. The life lessons learned are relevant to us today. I have not read anything by Adriana Trigiani and wasn't familiar with her at all before I read this book and so to me, this was simply a lovely accolade to two women who lived normal, ordinary lives but who, to one woman, were exceptional. I love memoirs and family histories and this tribute was poignant and thoughtful...more
Amy
I’ve always enjoyed a good seasonal read, and I have discovered the perfect holiday read for Thanksgiving: Don’t Sing at the Table: Life Lessons from My Grandmothers by Adriana Trigiani. Readers will laugh and cry as they read Trigiani’s tribute to family, in this case her two grandmothers, Viola and Lucia. Two very strong and independent women, they personify the story of the immigrant experience, the trials and tribulations of life throughout the 20th century, and running a business while rais...more
Joanie
I probably wouldn't have picked this one up but my sister and I wanted to try the loan feature on our Kindles and this was the only one available for loan. I really enjoyed Trigiani's "Big Stone Gap" series and Lucia Lucia but her non-fiction wasn't quite as strong.

Don't Sing at the Table is a collection of lessons/stories from Trigiani's grandmothers. While I enjoyed the tales of these strong matriarchs I thought some of the "lessons" became a little preachy and all over the place. Trigiani of...more
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“Whever I came into the room, she'd light up, so happy to see me. No one ever in the course of my entire life was ever as happy to see me as she was. Looking back, now, I realize that you only ever need one person who lights up that way when you enter a room. One person is all it takes to give a kid confidence.” 44 likes
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