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The Good Girl's Guide to Getting Lost: A Memoir of Three Continents, Two Friends, and One Unexpected Adventure

3.75 of 5 stars 3.75  ·  rating details  ·  1,283 ratings  ·  155 reviews
Rachel Friedman has always been the consummate good girl who does well in school and plays it safe, so the college grad surprises no one more than herself when, on a whim (and in an effort to escape impending life decisions), she buys a ticket to Ireland, a place she has never visited. There she forms an unlikely bond with a free-spirited Australian girl, a born adventurer ...more
Paperback, 295 pages
Published March 29th 2011 by Bantam (first published January 1st 2011)
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On the surface, I should have LOVED this book. But because it hit a little too close to home, I didn't love it. Maybe if I had read it like 10 years ago I would have liked it more, but the fact is I could relate too much to it, which took away from my enjoyment. The author and I are the same age. We have done a lot of the same things. Why does she have a (not spectacularly good) book and I don't? Oh yeah, it's because her parents are rich, work in publishing and she is from the East Coast. Just ...more
I'm a sucker for traveling to find yourself and find the world books and this falls neatly into this category. I really get the "I don't want to do what I'm expected to do with my life but I really don't know what I want to do with my life" feelings that Friedman had. I still have those feelings and I'm in my 50's! This book showed how she grew with her various travels and expanded her realm of consciousness. She has an easy way of describing herself and her journeys and the people and experienc ...more
This book is written in a breezy style that captured my attention from the start. I felt almost as if I were there with Rachel during her travels and escapades. Often times humorous, there were also moments that caused me to step back slightly, as Rachel apparently did, and take a look at an idea or issue with, what seemed like, a new set of eyes. I loved reading about all the different places she visited and people she encountered. For me, it got a bit tedious after awhile listening to her bemo ...more
..."What if, instead of grasping at something to hold on to, we pull up our roots and walk away? Instead of trying to find the way back, we walk deeper and deeper into the woods, willing ourselves to get lost. In this place where nothing is recognizable, not the people or the language or the food, we are truly on our own. Eventually, we find ourselves unencumbered by the past or the future. Here is a fleeting glimpse of our truest self, our self in the present moment. After that, maybe we can fi ...more
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Ugh. Why is the author's voice so annoying? I'm trying to pinpoint exactly why it bothers me so much, but I can't quite. Her prose are fine, and I found her descriptions of her locations and activities enjoyable, but she just comes off as a spoiled rich brat. I feel like she is one of those people who travel for the bragging rights, or to prove how tough they are. She is also one of the unhappiest travelers I've read about. She starts off in Ireland, where instead of exploring the area and enjoy ...more
Amanda N.
I've been in such a funk lately when it comes to reading travel memoirs. I have discovered that they really are my favorite genre of books, but that means I sometimes place unrealistically high expectations on them. After reading Wanderlust by Elisabeth Eaves, I was unsure I wanted to jump into another travel essay so quickly. But I did, and I'm happy about that decision. The Good Girl's Guide to Getting Lost by Rachel Friedman turned out to be a surprisingly good reading experience - just when ...more
Loved this book! The author has that rare talent to be able to relate an uproariously funny story from her memory to the written word. Her trials and triumphs on the road (literally) to discovering herself had me laughing and cheering for her the entire way. I am lucky enough to have a Carly in my life so I can totally relate to the friendship formed while traveling but solidified by shared experience. A truly great read.
I won this book on Goodreads first reads giveaways (a very GOOD read).

I was pleasantly surprised and thoroughly entertained by this travel memoir. In-between chapters I found myself looking in travel magazines and searching for flights for my next adventure.

I enjoyed Friedman's writing style as she humorously relayed events from her months abroad in Ireland (and lugging around "Big Red"), learning about Australian sarcasm (watch out for the dangerous "Drop Bears") and abbreviations, and her bout
April Lashbrook
Loved this memoir! It made me want to get a backpack and set off to who knows where.
The next best thing to embarking on your own great trip is getting immersed in someone else's. Rachel Friedman's tale of discovering a fierce passion for travel that she didn't know she harbored, and her experiences backpacking in Ireland, Australia, and South America had me absolutely engrossed. I didn't want it to end, but now that I'm finished it's time to go plan my own next trip...
Girls like me choose horses, or eating disorders, or literature--we choose any number of worlds within which to disappear, but that dangerous energy has to go somewhere. (Page 31)

File under books that resonated with me perhaps a bit too much for my liking.

Friedman set off for Ireland almost on a whim -- she'd travelled before, but never on her own, and never without a plan. Her parents expected her to do something productive, something that would help career-wise, not take off for a few months.
The first book I'm reading for my Eclectic Reader Challenge, this book fulfills the Travel (Non-Fiction) category. I really enjoyed this book. It has me contemplating where I will go on my next international trip...
There are rocky parts to this book, but it finishes strong (especially when I know it's a true story! I enjoy discovering someone's experiences and it encourages me to travel too! I would recommend this to anyone who loves to travel.
Jessica Medved
This book is REALLY GOOD!
It is about a college junior who travels to Ireland meets an Australlian girl and then follows her home in Australlia and ventures off on her own in South America. This is the kind of travel memoir I LOVE! It reads a lot like a novel, not bogged down in the historical details of every single place she visits while still mentioning the forign charm each place has.

The story is about her struggle with her desire to travel the world and follow American social norms of growi
If I could, I'd give this 3.5 stars. Picky, I know.

As a recent college grad, I could really relate to Rachel's feeling of not having a direction, being lost, not knowing where or what to do...yada yada yada. Not abnormal feelings for people who are starting a new part of their lives. The fact that I sympathized so much with her is what made me buy and read this book. I was also hooked by her stories in Ireland, where I have also traveled to and always love to read about. I also really enjoyed r
I actually read this book at exactly the right time. I really needed it. I have always considered myself a traveler over a vacationer. I have an urge to see the world and learn about all corners of it. The author takes this to another level. I was prepared to not like the book that much; sounded like a spoiled rich girl trying to "find herself" and I was sure would complain about a ton of first world problems. She turned out to be a very insightful writer. I enjoyed her observations about the cu ...more
This is a great book for anyone who has fallen in love with travel in such a way that they find themselves in minor throes of angst figuring out what their path in life should be to allow them to see more of the world.

Until the author started traveling through South America (with the exception of Cusco which I was just in last year), I had been to all the cities she was in, in Ireland and Australia. I felt that I was refreshing my memories by reading about hers which of course means that now al
Rachel Friedman's coming of age memoir is unlike many others written today, tales of triumphs over adversity and trauma. The triumph here is simply growing up, discovering who she wants to be, and taking responsibility for that. She discovers an adventurous side previously hidden from view, and she ignites a passion in herself for travel.

Her travels take her to Ireland, Australia, and South America, and lead her through the sort of soul searching everyone should do as they sift through the myria
I read this book in one sitting because I could not put it down. I completely relate to Rachel's angst because I am also the very definition of a "good girl". I've always worked very hard to fulfill expectations of me in hopes of feeling worthy. I married young, and still love him 32 years later, but I had little opportunity to explore myself as an individual before attaching myself to responsibilities and additional expectations. I raised 3 amazing daughters and that is the best and most import ...more
I would rate this 2.5 if I could, but I'll give it the benefit of the doubt and give it a 3. This book feels weird to me. While I did enjoy it, I would often put it down and not return for days or weeks because I dreaded reading it again. I recall enjoying it while reading it, but I can't seem to think of why that was. Eventually I finished it because I didn't want to leave another book half read.

So here's the deal. Stuffy, 20-something year old Rachel Friedman does something that is apparently
Lisa Rajna
I highly recommend this book! Rachel flew to Los Angeles and did a book reading for We Said Go Travel!
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Kristen Luppino
Honestly, I would probably give 0 stars if I could. Her view of the world was so negative and whine-y I couldn't stand it. I read all at the beginning, but as I continued I couldn't do it. I started skipping sentences then paragraphs and then pages. I still read some of most of the pages in the book, but it wasn't even witty negative. I was very disappointed, because I'm really into travel right now. Also not setting a date read; not fair to count among my books of 2014.
I thoroughly enjoyed this and it came into my life at just the right time. Travel tales are my jam, so this might not appeal to everyone, but it was a good read...even though there were a few times that the narrator's naivete really got on my nerves and I wish she had been more descriptive of where she was and less descriptive of her identity crisis. I mean, cool, we all have existential crises, but we don't all spend six months living in Australia or backpacking through South America so can we ...more
I breezed through this book - it was easy to read and enjoyable, with good descriptions of places the author went to and her relationships with others. Apparently her travels were inspired by the lack of direction in her life and desire to get to know herself and thus readers should brace themselves for some inevitable big epiphanies. I only wish every 25-year old could have an opportunity to go away for a year to discover themselves...instead of finding work ASAP to start paying off their tuiti ...more
I really enjoyed this story of a girl trying to find herself and then ending up backpacking around Australia and South America with a feisty Australian she meets in Ireland (get all that?). I didn't enjoy the South American section as much-too much, "and then we drove 17 hours on a windy road"...makes me not want to go to South America ever! I also wish she included pictures!!!! Yes, she described the places well, but since it's memoir, she could have included pictures! Why didn't her publisher ...more
Rachel can't decide what she wants to do with her life, so she decides to go to Ireland, and ends up on a year-long journey that takes her not only to Ireland, but Australia and South America, as well.

The book started off slowly, bogged down by dumb "imagery" words that sounded like this book was written for a high school English class. Then the words gave way to drier choices, which made it sound like it was a journal; I had to keep reminding myself that this was just a memoir and not a fiction
Loved it!!!! Great book about self discovery and travel. Writer's voice is humorous, but it fits and she delves into lots of topics that most of us wrestle with in our lives at various times. Where do I belong? Which path is the best path to take in life? And it's an enlightening look at other countries' perspectives on travel and Americans. LOVED IT!
Kelly Seal
Engaging and beautifully written

I love this book. rachel gets to the heart and soul of her journey, that is, who she wants to be apart from expectations of family and friends. her travels help her get there in unexpected ways. a must for all of those there more to life than the day to day grind?
I wasn't really sure what to expect from this book, which I added to my list after seeing it on one of those "new paperback" tables at the bookstore. Given the somewhat cliche title, I was afraid it might just be some sort of hastily written Eat Pray Love rip-off, so I was pleasantly surprised to find that it was actually exactly what I wanted from Eat Pray Love but didn't really get: some nice armchair traveling mixed with introspection, minus the smugness. Many of Rachel's travels were similar ...more
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