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Oldest Living Confederate Widow Tells All

3.83  ·  Rating Details ·  5,070 Ratings  ·  305 Reviews
Allan Gurganus's Oldest Living Confederate Widow Tells All became an instant classic upon its publication. Critics and readers alike fell in love with the voice of ninety-nine-year-old Lucy Marsden, one of the most entertaining and loquacious heoines in American literature.

Lucy married at the turn of the last century, when she was fifteen and her husband was fifty. If Colo
Paperback, 736 pages
Published October 16th 2001 by Vintage (first published October 1st 1984)
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Jul 21, 2008 Suzanna rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: didn-t-finish
I could not finish this book. For the most part, every page was a chore. The few times there was a story relayed from the husband's Civil War experience, I was engaged. Otherwise, I found the main character far too abrasive and obnoxious to enjoy myself. She might be very entertaining to sit and talk with, or listen to on a radio program, but for some reason, by reading in this format we had a personality conflict.

Additionally, there was heavy focus on subjects that didn't feel pertinent. Page
Courtney Anthony
This book is a gift to anyone who can read English. I realize that many reviews accuse it of being overly long, but it's called Oldest Living Confederate Widow Tells ALL, not Oldest Living Confederate Widow Tells A Story or Two. The novel is indeed seven-hundred and some pages long, but think of it as an opportunity for settling in and truly getting to know Mrs. Lucille Marsden. Enjoy her narrative while it lasts, because you'll miss her when it's over. Trust me.

It is astounding to me that this
Mar 24, 2011 Caroline rated it it was amazing
Whenever I'm reading this book I remember how much I love it, and yet after I've finished it and moved on to other things I forget it. I don't forget what happens or what it's about - I forgot how much I like it. It's strange.

It's a big old rambling book - the personal recollections of Lucille Marsden, married at fifteen to a Confederate war veteran a good forty years older than her. It's not told in any kind of narrative order, it skips and jumps backwards and forwards through the years, things
Sally Burnell
Jun 08, 2012 Sally Burnell rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Have you ever picked up a book simply because the title intrigued you? This was just such a book, and once I cracked it open, it became impossible to put it down. It was one of the most compelling and memorable books I have read in years and it has stayed with me all these years since I read it. It is one of the most unforgettable books I have ever read and tells the story of a 15 year old girl, Lucy, who marries a 51 year old Confederate veteran, naively not knowing what she was getting herself ...more
Dec 28, 2008 Julie rated it it was amazing
This is one of my all time favorite books. I read it some years ago, but still have my copy. This should definitely return to my "to read" list.

The narrator, Lucille (Lucy) Marsden, tells the story of her marriage to "Captain" Will Marsden, ostensibly the Civil War's last survivor, whom she married when she was 15 and he was 50. She also tells about her husband's experiences in the war and after, the burning of her mother-in-law's plantation by Sherman's men, and the abduction from Africa of a
Fenixbird SandS
Quoting excerpts from this extraordinary book: "11 days after the fire comes the afternoon of leaving. Children make extra-secret jaunts to the woods. Like going to a zoo, or visiting some charming friend in jail. How strange the furnishings look resting out here, half under tarps. The Brookside glade makes treasures seem more valuable and perfect. A test for beautiful furniture: Does it still look beautiful in a beautiful woods?"

Gurganus' descriptions are vivid, almost liquid! You can breathe
Linda B.D.
Mar 20, 2014 Linda B.D. rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Horrible book.I waited a few days & looked at this book again. before I made a final review. This is NOT about the Civil War. Supposedly told by a 100 year old woman to a writer. She told her story of being married to a Confederate War veteran.(After the war). He had PTSD & it sure seems she got it from him. I wish it kept on a straighter path. Too much back & forth from the war to her present time. By her age of 24 yrs old, she had 9 children. It does show exactly what the war was l ...more
Apr 01, 2007 Michele rated it it was amazing
Possibly the longest book I've read where, when I finished it, I wanted to go back and read it again. As a Northerner, at the time I read it, I was rather clueless about the Civil War and the South. I'm mildly more clued-in these days, but this book helped open up a voice and an attitude for me that had not been there before.

The writing is dramatic, to the point where I'm sure some readers found it too far over the top to deal with. I have read the "scene" of the heroine's mother's childhood enc
Mar 01, 2012 Amy rated it really liked it
I read Oldest Living Confederate Widow Tells All *once* years and years ago (maybe more than 20(?) years ago, now). I can't quite pinpoint exactly what impact this story had on me, but there are times that I *still* think about scenes from this book. Something about it just got into me and stayed put. And I tell you what, give me Lucy Marsden over that annoying Scarlett O'Hara any day.
Feb 27, 2009 Andrea rated it it was amazing
This library book, besides being already one of the best books I've ever read, had a bonus: someone had saved some flowers in the pages, pressed and dried but still beautiful.

Now that I finally finished reading this book, I can unequivocally say it's the best book I've ever read, based on the quality of the writing, the story, the development of the characters, the insights into human behavior, including mine, the humor, the honesty, the fact that I could have kept on reading for another 700 pa
Apr 22, 2012 Sandy rated it it was amazing
I loved this book so much that I ordered the DVD, but then I love stories about the 1800s.
I could identify with Ms. Marsden because I have raised children. I have been a wife. Some of her insight brought me comfort just knowing that someone else walked down similar paths I have, and even worse. Reading this book made me grateful that I live in a time of peace in our nation. Grateful for the modern day comforts we enjoy. I enjoyed the friendship Ms. Marsden and Castilia came to know. I even fell
This book was a huge best seller in the 80's when it came out but I can't see the appeal.

Lucy married a 50 year old confederate war veteran when she was 15. Reading this book. I actually stopped reading and I thought, there was no way a woman wrote this because of the way the character spoke and the internal monologue thought process. So I looked at the author, and sure enough, it was a man. I knew it. It comes across as an ill-informed man writing about the inner workings of the female mind. So
Mary Bettcher
Mar 19, 2013 Mary Bettcher rated it it was amazing
I read this book years ago and found it one of the most poignant , funny and at times, achingly sad books I've ever read.The widow is delivering her recollections to an aide at her nursing home circa early 1970's I believe. She had been born some time after the Civil War but her much older husband had been a Confederate colonel. Her recollections stem from his experiences and her own post war memories. The horrors or the Civil War come alive and yet somehow,there were periods of laugh out loud h ...more
Nov 13, 2010 Candy rated it it was ok
I tried really hard to finish this book. While the confederate widow herself was a very colorful character with quite a story to tell, the book was written like a elderly person rambling on and on and on, whether anyone was listening or not. The character bounced back and forth between the past and the present and the present didn't enhance the story at all. I think this story could have been written much better. It has the makings of a really good story. I gave up reading this book.
Sep 21, 2009 Lani rated it liked it
I'd tried to read this book several times. It is one of the slowest paced but still decent books I've ever read. I'm glad I finally finished, but I can't say I would recommend it to... well, anyone I can think of.

I'm a Civil War buff and I'm always intrigued by the female perspective. The title character (Lucy) is a pretty interesting premise to start with... a young boy went off to war, grew up and got old, and married a young girl. Lucy ends up married to a Confederate veteran and living with
Brian Grover
Jul 11, 2015 Brian Grover rated it it was ok
A big novel, both in narrative scope and in heft, this unfortunately didn't come close to living up to some of the praise on the jacket cover. Lucy Marsden, about to celebrate her 100th year of life, tells her story to an unnamed narrator from the bed of her nursing home, flashing back to her wedding at age 15 (circa 1900) to a Civil War vet in her small North Carolina town that's 30 years her senior, and of their life together. More accurately, it's the story of a segment of that time, starting ...more
Oct 20, 2012 Melody rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Melody by: Ellen Sullivan
I'm going to tell you the biggest drawbacks of this book right up front. First - I had tried to read it several years ago and abandoned it. Almost abandoned it this time too. I had to read past the obligatory 100 pages before it engaged me. And believe the title when it says "tells all". My copy was 875 pages long. Which is plenty long. But this book had a way of not letting you seem to be making any progress. I'd be one inch into the book. Read for a week. And still be only one inch into the bo ...more
Oct 13, 2010 Alicia rated it liked it
I probably shouldn't say I read this book because I only read 50 of the 700 pages. I did watch the movie, though. Does that count?

The narrator, Lucille (Lucy) Marsden, tells the story of her marriage to "Captain" Will Marsden, the Civil War's last survivor, whom she married when she was 15 and he was 51!! She also tells about her husband's experiences in the war, the burning of her mother-in-law's plantation by Sherman's men, and the abduction from Africa of a former Marsden slave, midwife to Lu
Jun 04, 2008 Jen3n rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Several of my favorite novels, I have discovered, were written by people who had no business writing a novel like that. This is one of them.

Allan Gurganus managed to write a novel about the past hundred and fifty years in the deep south, in the voice of a woman, while keeping it sincere, engaging, realistic, and entertaining. The characters feel real. Even the people who only inhabit the book for a page. This book takes an historical time and makes it a breathing place; if that distinction makes
Timothy Juhl
May 16, 2008 Timothy Juhl rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Southern bookclubs and anyone looking for great literature.
Shelves: gay-author
Officially, what I consider a tome, Gurganus' masterpiece, is one of the finest examples of historical fiction, and particularly the Civil War.

Forget the dreadful made-for-television movie, forget 'Gone With The Wind'. There is a langorous chapter midway into the story that depicts Sherman's March to the sea, told by the plantation owners and slaves who watched the plumes of smoke from distant homes, knowing their lives would be burned out from under them very soon. The images evoked in this cha
Patricia dumas
Apr 29, 2013 Patricia dumas rated it it was amazing
Wow.. What a tale.

The south in all its pitiful glory, angst, grit and guts; It's protocol that lost the war-- a sense of lost gentility and ignorance.

Just when you get to maybe like the heroine Lucy's husband, your faith is cut short.

Through 9 children, and a longing to find something useful in herself, Lucy fails, and succeeds-- then fails and succeeds again.

Never again will you look at a "romantic" southern mansion the same. It's not romantic, as I learned in this fabulously written novel.

Feb 22, 2011 Deb rated it liked it
It would have been better at half the length and with 70% fewer characters. It was hard to motivate to read it beyond page 400 or so. Many characters are discussed at various times but their stories are not closed. Stories within are told in no chronological order and it is often difficult to place the current story in the life of the narrator and in relation to other stories (did the baby die before or after the son was blinded?) Interesting voice for the narrator.
Jul 29, 2009 KKG is currently reading it
Long and kinda boring, but it has its moments. Definitely not for a person picky on historical accuracy.
Oct 05, 2016 ManaChelle rated it it was amazing
Shelves: favorites
I love this book. Couldn't put it down :)
Tracy Shapley
May 03, 2011 Tracy Shapley rated it really liked it
I bought Oldest Living Confederate Widow Tells All at a thrift store for no reason other than it sounded vaguely familiar. I had zero expectations for this book and overall I'd say it was a good read. It wandered through about 100 years of southern history and told the story of, well, the widow to the oldest living Confederate soldier. There were some pretty problematic things going on though.

The book was written in sort of an interview format, though the only voice we read was that of the widow
Terriann Rea-gaustad
I had a hard time deciding between two and three stars. This book is very, very long, and it jumps back and forth between the interview process and the widow's telling of her own story. I had hoped for more insight into the two main characters than I got from the movie, based on comments a friend made to me about the book, but I didn't really find it in the male character's story.

The widow is very much like in the movie, though you do get more of an in-depth look at her ornery personality, whic
Sep 13, 2009 Amanda rated it really liked it
The scope of this book is huge. It goes right back to a young boy joining the great Confederate army, and how his experiences in the war mark him for life. Other fascinating characters are the Widow herself, who was practically a child when she married her older husband, the woman who is both her friend and her husband's mistress, and a veritable host of other friends and relatives.
The story jumps back and forth from the 1860s to the 1980s, examining life from many different perspectives - male,
Sep 24, 2009 Cameron rated it liked it
I feel bad reviewing this book because quite honestly I couldn't finish it. I had listened with delight to an audio version (severely abridged to three hours) but the book was just too wordy. Gurganus is a truly gifted writer, but this book could easily lose 500 pages, as there is just too much verbiage and the reader gets frustrated and bored. The audio version allows you to enjoy the language, the convoluted storytelling, the weird horror of living with a traumatized ex-soldier for decades aft ...more
Les Wolf
Jan 13, 2013 Les Wolf rated it it was amazing
I laughed and cried...astounding story of little woman, her confederate veteran husband and a host of supporting characters:
the beautician, the mink farmer, the Chinese tailor, the dandy General, the child soldier singer, the girl artist who sketches the dying and so many more who populate the hills and river valleys of North Carolina and Virgina from 1860 to 1980. Willie Marsden's many best stories are told by his widow, Lucille who has lived through it all. Both factual and fictional, philosop
Beth Roberts
Aug 17, 2016 Beth Roberts rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A great read. Gurganus has done a great job of capturing the voice of an old woman who lived through the post-Civil War period in the South. He has envisioned both characters and settings so fully that he occasionally provides more information, more background, than the reader needs. Indeed, there are times when we get two paragraphs describing the same event, from the narrator's point of view, when one would do; if he's thought of two ways of saying it, he can't bear to choose between them. Sti ...more
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Since 1989, Allan Gurganus’s novels, stories and essays have become a singularly unified and living body of work. Known for dark humor, erotic candor, pictorial clarity and folkloric sweep, his prose is widely translated. Gurganus’s stories, collected as “Piccoli eroi”, were just published to strong Italian reviews. France’s La Monde has called him “a Mark Twain for our age, hilariously clear-eyed ...more
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