I Came To Say Goodbye

I Came To Say Goodbye

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It was four o'clock in the morning.

A young woman pushed through the hospital doors.

Staff would later say they thought the woman was a new mother, returning to her child - and in a way, she was.

She walked into the nursery, where a baby girl lay sleeping. The infant didn't wake when the woman placed her gently in the shopping bag she had brought with her. There is CCTV foota...more
Paperback, 295 pages
Published October 2010 by Random House Australia (first published 2010)

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Rachael Hewison
This is perhaps the book that has most divided myself and my boyfriend. I absolutely loved it, I thought the topic was thoughtful and the style with which it was written was great. My boyfriend however disliked it and thought it would have been better had it been written differently.
The reason that I thought it was such an effective book was because of the way you were never quite sure what has happened. I'd read the blurb and the first chapter so I had an idea in my mind of where the book was g...more
Belle
This review originally appeared at http://bellesbookshelf.blogspot.com/

When I grow up, I want to be Caroline Overington (or something very like her).

She's an Aussie journalist/author/mother who speaks with such poise and intelligence in interviews, and who uses the same poise and intelligence in her writing. In I Came To Say Goodbye, her second novel, she tells the story of Med Atley, whose wife rides the second wave of feminism right out of their small country town in the '70s, leaving him to r...more
Raewyn
It was the cover that drew me to the book "I Came to Say Goodbye" by Caroline Overington. After reading the story it is the cover that disappoints me because it broadcasts the designer did not read the book.

Nothing disappoints me about this author's work. Everything she relates, however, is a damming portrayal of society.

The lead voice is a man named Med, short for Meredith. He tells us how frustrating such a name is for him but it doesn't stop him from nick naming his chubby daughter "Fat". His...more
Deborah Ideiosepius
Dec 16, 2012 Deborah Ideiosepius rated it 2 of 5 stars Recommends it for: anyone who loved The Shipping News
Shelves: australiana, fiction
The prologue (and back cover) set up the exciting situation of a woman taking a baby out of a hospital, this seemed to have promise.

The first few chapters, spoken in slow laborious detail in the first person cure you of the delusion that it will be an engrossing read and give you a chance to settle into the very slow pace of telling years and years of back story to the event in question.

I quite liked the first bit, as I thought the portrayal of Australian 60's life was well enough done, though t...more
Kate
See my full review here: http://booksaremyfavouriteandbest.wor...

I Came to Say Goodbye by Caroline Overington is a work of fiction however there are so many elements of the story that are chillingly familiar that you could well be reading a true crime book. The jacket blurb does enough to reel you in.

Overington employs two particular techniques to tell this story – reverse storytelling and multiple narrators.

The reverse storytelling didn’t work for me. In some books it’s fantastic (Canada by Ric...more
Sam
Jan 21, 2012 Sam rated it 3 of 5 stars Recommends it for: people who like light Australian novels
Recommended to Sam by: Part of Get Reading! 2011
I Came to Say Goodbye was another book that I read for Australian Literature Month, hosted by Reading Matters. This was the first book that I had read by Caroline Overington (although I do have a free ebook of Ghost Child, which wins the award of Worst Ebook Cover Ever- it’s a black screen – but I digress). I was surprised at how light and easy this was to read – I finished it in two days (again, I must admit that I didn’t have a functioning leg at the time which curtailed my ability to hop away...more
Catherine
I did not like this book at all. I found the style of writing (in the voice predominantly of the 'father' of the key characters) off-putting: lots of "I said", "she said", which was tedious and not at all engaging. I felt that the book presented a largely stereotypical view of most characters (the salt of the earth country patriarch, the smart daughter who went of to the US and UK, to return to save the day etc.) as well as stereotyped views of many the minor players. Here I refer specifically t...more
Sara Cole
Very Very Good!

Amazing that this is written mostly from the perspective of a 60 year old man it is a book that I think women would relate to. Motherhood and family relationships are the central themes of this novel.

I found myself agonising over the cascade of events that lead to an absolutely avoidable tradgedy. I also admired the unconditional love, support and committment that Med was able to give to his family from start to finish.

If I had the time this is the type of novel you could read i...more
Joyofbooks
I really enjoyed reading this book. It felt like I was reading a non-fiction/biography. I love the way Overington captures the voice of Med Atley, a 60 year old male, and depicts his story with such clarity. It is a damning portrayal of our society and all of its shortcomings. A sad family tale of mental illness, bureaucracy, desertion and love. A strange mixture? Yes, but Overington captures the essence of this part of our society and tells a story of what I'm sure happens to many people out th...more
Sean Harding
Long winded rambling story, which seemed more of a vendetta against the government, welfare departments and the family court.

A real disappointment, from the terrible style of apparently someone writing a judge a 300 page letter, to a court judgement saying that someone was 'working a shift at 'woolies' - really?

Characters seemed to just vanish and were never heard of again, whilst others vanished and then suddenly popped up again.

The whole idea that anyone would, in Australia, give their child...more
Gerda
This is perhaps one of the scariest books I've ever read. There are no ghost, zombies or anything horror which would normally scare the wits out of me, this is worse.
It's full of bureaucracy. It's full of inadequate care for people with mental illness in our society, with disastrous results. Most of all it's about not understanding meltal illness and the hardline approach by government "welfare agencies" to the detriment of everybody involved. And, as so often is the case, the children are the...more
Helen McKenna
Having read other titles by Caroline Overington, I knew that it would take some time to get to the storyline described on the blurb of this book. That is not a criticism, just an acknowledgement that she writes in a distinctive style that is quite unique in Australian fiction. Whatever her reasons for choosing to portray her stories through the eyes of a third party (involved in the story but not the main protagonist), it is a literary device that works fantastically for her.

In I Came To Say Goo...more
Karyn
ok I'm going to say right off that I loved this book! BUT it would have gotten 5 stars if not for the lack of research that went into it, particularly when you consider the author actually lives in the city much of the story centers around! For example there is no Sydney Children's Hospital at Parramatta - its at Westmead, a paediatric registrar is not the head honcho but junior staff. Having said that it was a brilliant analysis of the "system" (if it can be believed considering the lack of res...more
Jenny
After reading an excerpt, I wasn't keen to read this, but the cover got me in. I'm glad I did read it as it turned out to be a rivetting story of one man's life, his family, and in particular, his youngest daughter's decline into madness. Told largely through Med's eyes in the form of a letter to a judge, one can't help but empathise with all this man has been through. Overington got the voice of her MC down pat. I found it a bit of a stretch though that someone would write such a lengthy letter...more
Carinya Kappler
Even though this is a fictional tale told in the naive halting words of the uneducated grandfather,it is extremely easy to believe. These people could be any Australian family, faced with the consequences and heartbreak of child abuse and loss of children to the care of the State.
This book is a chilling account of any parent's worst nightmare. A child unable to fend for herself, under the spell of an older violent irresponsible man,yet responsible for the care of her own newborn baby.
Beautifully...more
Bree T
I Came To Say Goodbye caught my attention recently so I thought I’d request it in at my local library. It gave me a bit of an idea how popular it was when I was about 9th in the queue and had to wait close to three months in order to read it! I’m rarely ever in queue to read a novel at all, even new releases I manage to snag it first or there’s usually only 1 or 2 ahead!

It was worth the wait.

The novel is told predominantly from the point of view of Med Atley, a man in his late 50s. When we meet...more
Danielle
A page turner and a tragically compelling story. I didn't find the use of multiple perspectives very effective - the old man's voice was honestly genuine and heartbreaking, but the moment it switched to his daughter and then the volunteer at the end, I found the voices all sounded the same. Seriously depressing and a bit melodramatic for my liking, but then I'm sure this sort of story of a wayward but good family fighting against the system of government and bureaucracy is all too true.
Blake
Very different to what I was expecting, but I enjoyed it immensely, nonetheless.
Must say, though, (view spoiler)[didn't like the cover after reading the book. Loved the title after reading the book. (hide spoiler)]
A very open and honest look at Australian: welfare systems, country towns, families, dole-bludgers, hospitals, government, court houses and attitude.
Who is left behind when a family falls apart? Who's always left behind? The vulnerable, the forgotten and the misunderstood.
Ann
I started this one evening and finished it the next day. It was comnpelling; told in a diary style through the voice of Med (Meredith)Atley the grandfather of the two children of his youngest daughter, Fat (Donna-Fae). The author, Caroline Overington who is also a journalist speaks with a voice of experience when the story unfolds the tragic way in which the mentally ill are treated in our society. I loved this story, it was un-put-downable and stayed with me for days.
Megan
So good to hear the voice of Med in this book - a character different from the usual, yet so standard 'Australian'. You can picture him in your mind and hear him in your head. Med's dogged determination to do the right thing in the face of insurmountable (but again, so sadly standard) odds is fantastic reading. I'm sure this is a book I willo talk about and think about for some time to come. Congratulations Caroline Overington.
Antoinette Young
Jan 19, 2012 Antoinette Young rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Bookclub
I loved the way the book was written via a series of letters to a judge. At times I forgot that it was fiction and thought it was an autobiography I was reading. The read at the back gives nothing away and throughout the book I wondered where it was taking me. My review is hopeless as I am putting it forth for bookclub. For me, this book has the WOW factor. Will be looking forward to reading more of her books.
N
I'm sick of this app crashing half way through a long review, I'm going to do a breif one now!
This book depicts lots of negative human emotions - bullying, abandonment, hate, cruelty but also a balancing amount of love, loyalty and redemption. It's not a crime thriller, it's a book that you will think about for ages afterward - the title is wrong and WTF is the cover about???
Ally
May 07, 2011 Ally rated it 2 of 5 stars
Recommended to Ally by: Saw on bookshelf of Borders
Narrated by the Grandpa (Med), the long winded tone was a bit annoying at first but I picked up the rhythm and really started to enjoy the book. Med was a wonderful character who felt real. It was a moving story of how families stick together. My 2 star rating is probably a bit harsh. The beginning was slow and I don't know who I would recommend this book too.
Kate
Compelling, touching and redemptive. Thoroughly enjoyed this book - couldn't put it down. Needed tissues at the end. Such a tragic story told interestingly via a number of letters from the characters in the novel, speaking of their family story. A telling and disturbing account of the workings of certain government departments. Highly recommended.
Jacinta
After reading some of the recommendations on this site, I wasn't sure whether I should bother with this book, but I actually kind of enjoyed it. The narration at times was a bit annoying as someone else also mentioned. However, I really enjoyed the different style and the story line was good - particularly the ending (totally wasn't expecting that).
Jes
Wow. I literally just finished reading this book and I am in complete awe. I Came To Say Goodbye is such a book that takes you on a huge journey. I had no idea where the book would go every time I turned the page. I love how it is written, in a kind of letter form rather than just having the story told to you. This is definitely one of the most magnificent, though provoking, honest novels I have read and I am definitely going to check out the rest of Caroline Overington's books.
Jodie
It was OK in the manner that I kept turning the pages wanting to find out what happens and I liked the voice of Med which is such a quintessential australian male of that generation and location (much like my Dad). Unfortunately while I could kind of relate to some of the characters and their plight it still left me feeling as though it was quite one dimensional.
Emma
This is the second book that I've read from this author. I found this story easy to get into, although at times I found it hard to stay focused on what I was reading. It sort of just dragged along in places.

Overall I do enjoy the works from this author and am currently reading another book by her. :o)
Lthelibrarylover
This book is not what I expected. I had anticipated the story focussing on the event depicted in the blurb however this did not happen until the very end of the novel, there was a lot of family history stuff first which took up far too many pages. I don't regret reading it but it was certainly not the best book I have ever read.
Sonia
Loved it. Thought provoking. Mental illness, society and also what are we doing about the increasing problem of young people in Aged Care facilities, where there is nowhere else for them to go? What am I doing? A well written book that makes you think about a range of issues.
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I Came to Say Goodbye
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Caroline Overington is an Australian author and journalist.

She has worked for The Age and The Sydney Morning Herald, and is is currently a staff writer for The Weekend Australian Magazine.

Caroline is a two-time winner of the Walkley Award for Investigative Journalism. She won her first Walkley for a series of articles about a literary fraud, and her second for a series about the AWB oil for food...more
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