87th out of 225 books
—
245 voters
Which Brings Me to You
by
Steve Almond,
Julianna Baggott (Goodreads Author)
Two rambunctious, romantic flameouts. One boring wedding. One heated embrace in a quiet coatroom. This is not exactly the recipe for true love. John and Jane's lusty encounter at a friend's wedding isn't really the beginning of anything with any weight to it; even they know that. When they manage to pull back, it occurs to them that they might start this whole thing over p...more
Hardcover, 300 pages
Published
April 28th 2006
by Algonquin Books of Chapel Hill
(first published January 1st 2005)
Friend Reviews
To see what your friends thought of this book,
please sign up.
Community Reviews
(showing
1-30
of
1,435)
Boy meets girl at wedding; they get naked in coat closet together, then decide, hey we might have something here - I might really like you for reals.
So they agree to write letters - real pen and ink letters - to each other, "try getting to know each other first, telling each other everything, aiming for honesty over seduction."
So WE, the opportunistic readers, to read their "traded confessions - of their messy histories, mistakes, flaws, and passions, the ones they've bruised,the ones who bruis...more
So they agree to write letters - real pen and ink letters - to each other, "try getting to know each other first, telling each other everything, aiming for honesty over seduction."
So WE, the opportunistic readers, to read their "traded confessions - of their messy histories, mistakes, flaws, and passions, the ones they've bruised,the ones who bruis...more
I have always thought the opening sentence of a book is the author's best pickup line pitched at the reader.
More so, then, in a book where well-constructed paragraphs hold the explicit promise of intimate relations--that, at least, is the premise of this post-postmodern epistolary novel where the two hyperarticulate protagonists agree to reveal the nasty bits of their romantic pasts in letters before meeting up again in real life.
My former colleague Craig Stoltz put it best, I think, when he r...more
More so, then, in a book where well-constructed paragraphs hold the explicit promise of intimate relations--that, at least, is the premise of this post-postmodern epistolary novel where the two hyperarticulate protagonists agree to reveal the nasty bits of their romantic pasts in letters before meeting up again in real life.
My former colleague Craig Stoltz put it best, I think, when he r...more
Jane and John are about to get it on in the coat room at a wedding when he suddenly stops – maybe there could be more to this relationship than just sex. So they part with only each other’s address and a vow to confess the details of important past relationships to the other. And so the letters begin - the gory intimate details of two lives. Once all the baggage is out of the way, will Jane and John have a chance at long-term happiness together? Or will their letters only prove that they have no...more
I need a half-star. Because this book was fun, and cute, and enjoyable. It was really, really good chick lit. But chick lit doesn't really deserve four stars... I think my ratings are very dependent on what kind of book it is, and for chick-lit, this is a four-star book. For literature, three. So I'd give it three and a half, except I can't.
Funny, sweet, awkward, quick read. What more can you ask in a budding romantic relationship? And it's a little predictable. (Show of hands: who thinks the ma...more
Funny, sweet, awkward, quick read. What more can you ask in a budding romantic relationship? And it's a little predictable. (Show of hands: who thinks the ma...more
Despite the epistolary form, this book reads like a screenplay to me, cinematic yet realistic, if that makes sense. I know it might be a stretch to imagine "normal" people writing their letters in such a descriptive, fluid way, but I am willing to take that leap if it means getting that little extra shred of character or that sensory flash that you otherwise would not find in a letter written by someone who does not write for a living. John and Jane are bitter, sarcastic, at times surprisingly e...more
This is the second book by Steve Almond that I've read. The first was Candy Freak, which made candy sound better than sex. (Hmmm, does that mean I've been married too long?)
This book was fast moving, amusing, sexy. Two singletons meet at a wedding neither is feeling very good at attending, come thisclose to having sex in the coat closet and then decide to get to know each other via snailmail confessions and see where that takes them.
As someone whose early courtship took place, after a brief ini...more
This book was fast moving, amusing, sexy. Two singletons meet at a wedding neither is feeling very good at attending, come thisclose to having sex in the coat closet and then decide to get to know each other via snailmail confessions and see where that takes them.
As someone whose early courtship took place, after a brief ini...more
This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers. To view it,
click here.
Ok, I almost gave a five-star to this chic-lit of a book that was written by two different authors. Was what made me read this book in the first place and it worked so well, actually! But I thought to myself, I can't do that! Remember, you are a dude, a diesel mechanic who works with only men. Can you imagine, if they actually read, knew what you were reading and throughly enjoying it?! It'd be like those old Pace Picante salsa commercials: From New York City (aka a chic-type of a book)...? Get...more
This book reminded me of long ago days when all you had available for long distance communication was a letter. Words had to be chosen to convey just the right mood or emphasis. Our hurried, technology-filled lifestyle of today has robbed us the joy of opening a hand-written letter, pouring over every word, reading it again and again.
Character development was great but the story lacked an absolution; yet, I guess life and relationships are like that.
Character development was great but the story lacked an absolution; yet, I guess life and relationships are like that.
If you're looking for a collection of well-written sexy stories, you'll probably enjoy this. I was finding it dissatisfying, and about halfway through I almost quit reading. Then I got suspicious that there might be a twist ending or a big reveal, so I finished it.
The male character is well-drawn and his stories are funny/poignant and wittily told. The female character is more of a cipher, which I didn't think was intentional so much as a problem of inconsistent tone. I was annoyed by how much...more
The male character is well-drawn and his stories are funny/poignant and wittily told. The female character is more of a cipher, which I didn't think was intentional so much as a problem of inconsistent tone. I was annoyed by how much...more
Jul 05, 2007
Jeff Reguilon
rated it
3 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
postal service devotees, lousy lovers and fans of predictable endings.
There are portions of this book that remind me of a certain romantic blunder so stupefyingly painful and embarrassing I will likely never confess it to anyone. Still, I found myself able to push that aside long enough to gobble down this confection of an epistolary novel.
I am not, however, able to push aside the embarrassment of liking something a reviewer below calls "chick-lit." I've got a lot of hang-ups, man.
I am not, however, able to push aside the embarrassment of liking something a reviewer below calls "chick-lit." I've got a lot of hang-ups, man.
This book was so funny. In that PG-13 Steve Almond sort of way. It's a series of letters between 2 people who meet at a wedding. They almost jump in the sack with one another at the wedding, but at the last moment they decide to stop and get to know one another first. But because one lives in Philadelphia and one lives in NY they decide to do this by letters. They are "confessional" letters, and they have promised each other they will tell each other the whole truth.
And tell they do. About past...more
And tell they do. About past...more
It's been two summers since I first read this novel but it remains one that stands at the forefront of my mind - particularly when people ask what my favorite book is.
I found it one fateful day in the Dollar Store and decided to give it a shot. I was expecting a poorly written, contrived romance novel because of where I found it but I was greatly mistaken.
A joint effort by TWO authors (not just Steve Almond), Which Brings Me To You highlights the bruised hearts and sexual explorations of two c...more
I found it one fateful day in the Dollar Store and decided to give it a shot. I was expecting a poorly written, contrived romance novel because of where I found it but I was greatly mistaken.
A joint effort by TWO authors (not just Steve Almond), Which Brings Me To You highlights the bruised hearts and sexual explorations of two c...more
I have very mixed feelings about this book, which doesn't happen often. I love it in that I enjoyed the different but well-blended voices of Almond and Baggott, the romanticized disasters of their love lives, the bittersweetness of it all... But I didn't like the ending, hated their over-insightfulness (it was just way too obvious that they were professional, diligent authors), and after I while, I was cynical and questioning about everything they said. It did hit a nerve for me when I realized...more
Feb 01, 2013
Rebecca
added it
This book came highly highly recommended by Linda Holmes of NPR's Monkey See blog and Pop Culture Happy Hour. All the other books I've read that she's recommended I've really liked. This one was a puzzle. I didn't hate it. I didn't love it. I was just puzzled as to why she thought it was so fabulous that by page 15 she was thinking of people to recommend it to. I often like books written as letters (The Gurnsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society is a fav) so that wasn't an issue. It was just I...more
fun epistolary novel of 2 30-somethings confessing their past relationship lives through the post, because they really are attracted to each other, but also very scared to 'screw it up again'. julianna baggott is the other of this dual author book, but it works very well. it seems at times the letters are written by an mfa wunderkind but then we find out, yes, that is true, sort of. very funny in spots, almond more than baggott, but her character is more dangerous too, suggesting and/or doing cr...more
Enjoyable and light, though with many flashes of insight throughout. The writing is almost too good, as though the couple writing letters to each other were secretly professional writers on assignment. I loved the opening lines..."I know my own kind. We're obvious to each other. I suppose this is true of other kinds, too: military brats, for example, anarchists, mattress salesmen, women who once got ponies as birthday gifts."
Another good one: "I began to realize that my life had been carted off...more
Another good one: "I began to realize that my life had been carted off...more
I loved Steve Almond's Candyfreak. However, this is navelgazing, pretentious tripe in an epistolary format. Good light reading, hard for me to relate to since I did not grow up as a privileged suburbanite or a kid with supportive/hippie zen-no restrictions parents. I actually keep forgetting that so much shit that gets published is from contrite liberal-y folks that adopt cynicism as a response to their poverty of... poverty. It seeks a certain audience -- I'm not it. (Still, it's light chick-li...more
Dec 23, 2008
Ciara
rated it
2 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
people in need of a very low rent "griffin & sabine," romantics who came of age in 1991
Shelves:
read-in-2007
i didn't really care for this book. it was co-written by steve almond & julianne baggott (i think that's her name) & it's about a man & a woman who meet one another at the wedding of some mutual friends. there's a spark, they make out in the coat room, & then they have a weird long-distance pseudo-romance that involves an exchange of confessional epsitles regarding their romantic histories. i guess the idea is that they will air their dirty laundry & if they are still interes...more
I'm still not sure how I feel about this book, though I can say unequivocally that I enjoyed reading it. Jane and John are slick and entertaining, but it just those qualities that make them rather untrustworthy as narrators. This helped me relate to the vulnerability of a new relationship, but with so much uncertainty built into both sides of the equation, I had a hard time being invested in the end result of this correspondence. While the both the meet-cute and high school relationships were we...more
An anti-Nicholas Sparks romance novel. The two letter writers, Jane and John, meet at a wedding and instead of immediately pursing a relationship, decide to confess all the excitement and deep pains of their meaningful romantic relationships to the present.
Favorite lines:
"I"m not afraid I can't accept love. I"m not afraid that I can't give love, fully, doors swung open wide. I"m afraid that I will not be really and truly, deeply understood."
"You should ask him to tell you the location of any spe...more
Favorite lines:
"I"m not afraid I can't accept love. I"m not afraid that I can't give love, fully, doors swung open wide. I"m afraid that I will not be really and truly, deeply understood."
"You should ask him to tell you the location of any spe...more
Honestly, I would give this 3 and a half stars. I did like reading it along the way. The premise of the story is these two characters--Jane and John--meet at a wedding and are about to have sex in the coat closet when they stop and decide--no, not like this. So they get to know each other first through these "confessions" about their previous life; which was pretty much just their log of failed love relationships. At the end, there they are--all their junk out on the table--and they can decide w...more
May 24, 2008
Olivia
rated it
4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
people who can indulge finesse of language over plot
Which Brings Me To You: A Novel in Confessions, starts off as any heart-melting art-house film might: two uppity and well-spoken characters meet at a wedding, and they fall in lust. However, instead of screwing in a coat closet, they decide to write each other letters, and what follows is the endless banter, tragedy, hilarity, and saccharine memories of their past loves. Word for word I love it, love every sickening, awesome sentence of their sensitive recollections of their mistakes. There's s...more
John and Jane attempt to have sex in a coat room after exchanging a few words of greeting, if looking at a dead lump on the lawn can be called greeting. Only John cannot do it, and thus with the letters of confession in lieu of sex, this story begins. Is this possible? Forsaking the chance to have wild random sex without attachment?
In such letters, John and Jane confess their past love lives to one another. They reminisce over the ones who have hurt them, misunderstood them, and the very same...more
In such letters, John and Jane confess their past love lives to one another. They reminisce over the ones who have hurt them, misunderstood them, and the very same...more
What do you say about a book written by two people? The fact that it's an experiment is either a good thing or a bad thing, depending on how you look at it. I'll say this: Steve Almond and Julianna Baggott are both brilliant in their prose, empathetic and funny and sexy in places. Each individual piece of this epistolary novel is lovely, but as a whole, I don't know, it's a little unsatisfying. Maybe because of the ending, maybe because it was doomed from the start to not gel entirely.
I checked out this book from the library because of the first paragraph:
"I know my own kind. We're obvious to each other. I suppose this is true of other kinds, too: military brats, for example, anarchists, mattress salesmen, women who once got ponies as birthday gifts."
The rest of the book continues in the same fashion as a series of confessional letters, but it soon becomes apparent that it's just two authors vying for who can come up with the worst past relationship story.
"I know my own kind. We're obvious to each other. I suppose this is true of other kinds, too: military brats, for example, anarchists, mattress salesmen, women who once got ponies as birthday gifts."
The rest of the book continues in the same fashion as a series of confessional letters, but it soon becomes apparent that it's just two authors vying for who can come up with the worst past relationship story.
The two main characters meet at a wedding and quickly find themselves on top of each other in a coat closet. It's pretty hot, actually. Jane and John don't "go through with it", however, but decide instead to have a relationship via letters of confessions.
They write to each other, describing their past relationships, most horrible thoughs, and their most embarrassing moments.
The book is a little "over the top" at times, and you start thinking, "Yeah. Right." But, for the most part, I found the...more
They write to each other, describing their past relationships, most horrible thoughs, and their most embarrassing moments.
The book is a little "over the top" at times, and you start thinking, "Yeah. Right." But, for the most part, I found the...more
Oct 23, 2010
Nina
rated it
5 of 5 stars
·
review of another edition
Shelves:
contemporary,
good-time-laughs
Loved this one so hard. Boy meets girl at a wedding, hook up in closet, stop and think, "Hey, I think I ACTUALLY like you" so they throw the brakes and decide to take a step back and get to know one another. Through letters. Like real letters. So thus begins these two introspective, cynical, romantic flameouts trying to get to know one another through confessions of the past loves that didn't work. From first loves to the adult relationships that turned them bitter.
It's so much fun reading them...more
It's so much fun reading them...more
I liked this a ton, and think the collaboration worked wonderfully. The story opens on a failed wedding reception hookup between Jane and John. The two, who live in different states, decide to get to know one another through confessions they'll send back and forth through the mail. Except for the first and last chapters, the entire novel is made up of this correspondence. The premise sounds too cute, but the execution was really interesting and unexpected.[return][return]This book was devastatin...more
This one of those books that really sticks with you - I kept thinking about it for a long time after I read it, even though I did find it a bit annoying in places. I didn't like Jane as much as I liked John, I thought she was a bit of a weirdo (and obviously a bit PROUD of being weird, like she obviously thought normal people were boring and stupid and were all secretly bored with their dull, ordinary lives). I enjoyed John's bits more, he told more interesting (and funnier) stories and describe...more
| topics | posts | views | last activity | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| The plot line versus the linguistic integrity | 1 | 14 | May 24, 2008 02:57pm |
Steve Almond is the author of two story collections, My Life in Heavy Metal and The Evil B.B. Chow, the non-fiction book Candyfreak, and the novel Which Brings Me to You, co-written with Julianna Baggott. He lives outside Boston with his wife and baby daughter Josephine.
More about Steve Almond...
Share This Book
No trivia or quizzes yet. Add some now »
“I love men, the restlessness of their corrupted souls, the way they hide their heavy, murderous hearts, their sudden delicacies and small shocking acts of tenderness.”
—
14 people liked it
“My own kind. I'm not sure there's a name for us. I suspect we're born this way: our hearts screwed in tight, already a little broken. We hate sentimentality and yet we're deeply sentimental. Low-grade Romantics. Tough but susceptible. Afflicted by parking lots, empty courtyards, nostalgic pop music. When we cried for no reason as babies, just hauled off and wailed, our parents seemed to know, instinctively, that it wasn't diaper rash or colic. It was something deeper that they couldn't find a comfort for, though the good ones tried mightily, shaking rattles like maniacs and singing, "Happy Birthday" a little louder than called for. We weren't morose little kids. We could be really happy.”
—
12 people liked it
More quotes…

Loading...





view 2 comments



















