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Black And Blue

3.85  ·  Rating Details  ·  64,611 Ratings  ·  1,285 Reviews
Fran Benedetto's husband beats her. So badly that she takes her son and runs away. Starting afresh in Florida under assumed names, Fran and Robert slowly rebuild their lives - until an accident at a fairground puts Fran into the public eye. Now, she must face up to her worst fear: that her husband will come after her. That he will never let her go.
Paperback, 264 pages
Published 2004 by Random House (first published 1998)
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ZaBeth  Marsh
May 18, 2010 ZaBeth Marsh rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to ZaBeth by: Books and Broads
If you have been lucky enough never to have been hit by a man, Anna Quindlen Black and Blue is written so that you can walk in a beaten woman’s shoes. No intelligent woman would ever stay with a man who hits her, right? But love does many things to a person and intelligence is usually the first thing that goes.

No one argues that love and lust of a woman, such as the beautiful Helen, which poets have written about for centuries, could launch a thousand ships. So why is it so amazing to think tha
Jun 12, 2007 Sammy rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: c-the-okay
I have to admit that I wasn't very surprised when I looked up this title on Internet Movie Database and saw that this book had been made into a movie. Nor was I surprised that it was a made for TV movie. And I'm going to take a wild shot in the dark and say it was specifically made for Lifetime... Television for Women. Because everything about this book kept bringing up that whispery woman's voice as the narrator. I kept hearing, "Anna Quindlen... A writer for women..." No joke.

But don't get me
Susan Siraco
Feb 05, 2013 Susan Siraco rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I first read this book when I was entering 9th grade, and it changed my life. This may have been because of my age, but for me, Fran was a woman who did what I had never realized you could do- she left a horrible situation to make her life better. This book still inspires me, still makes me cry, and still gives me hope that no matter how bad something may get, you still have the power to help yourself. I would recommend this book to anyone over 15!
Mar 26, 2008 Juushika rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: status-owned
Black and Blue is the story of a woman who flees an abusive relationship, taking her son and attempting to disappear into residential Florida, all the while waiting for her husband, a New York cop, to find and hurt her. The book is not Quindlen's best and while it is readable, and at less than 400 pages a manageable length, it feels like little more than a Lifetime "woman's" movie in novel form. I wouldn't recommend this book, especially in comparison to Quindlen's other work, although the lesso ...more
Jan 17, 2013 Wes rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
A resolution of mine for 2013 was to read books by authors new to me. I have several favorite writers, and I concentrate much of my reading on their works. I had heard of Anna Quindlen over the years, but had never read anything by her. I picked up this paperback in a Goodwill store. Even though I believed that it was primarily directed toward a female readership, I thought it sounded interesting and decided to buy and read it. I retired after working twenty-four years as a police dispatcher, so ...more
Feb 20, 2008 Bonnie rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: fiction
If you don't like wife beater books, then this one's not for you. Fran Benedetto begins her first person narrative while sitting on a bench waiting for further instructions from a woman who's helping her run away from her alcoholic and wildly abusive husband (with their 10-year-old-son in tow). The book follows her as she begins her new life, which in my opinion is much better than reading about her getting beaten all the time wondering why she won't leave. Good insight into the horrifying and ...more
Feb 07, 2015 Stephanie rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
"I stayed because I thought things would get better. I stayed because I wanted my son to have a father" I stayed because I wanted a home. I stayed because I loved Bobby."

This book is a MUST read for anyone that says "Whys don't they just leave?", often said without compassion or understanding.

I worked for a large Domestic Violence agency for many years and I have talked, safety planned and sat and listened to many women (and some men) in these situations. The answer to the question, "Why don't
May 28, 2007 Holly rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2007
I would not have picked up Black and Blue, with its proudly-displayed "Oprah's Book Club" emblem, had it not been a quarter at the annual neighborhood yard sale, but seeing as it was under a dollar, and was written by a journalist I admire, I thought I'd give it a whirl. Basic plot: smart woman in abusive relationship almost dies from a beating, and finally leaves with her son. She starts a new life, but it is clouded by the threat of her husband finding her. Quindlen creates a believeable world ...more
May 08, 2013 Nancy rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
So--I'd put Anna Quindlen on my short list of favorite authors, for a half-dozen reasons with the most important being her lucid, lyrical writing. Every Quindlen book I've read turns a commonplace story (and domestic violence is as commonplace as it gets) into a gorgeously rendered, delicately layered case study of ordinary life events. In many ways, Anna Quindlen is the diametric opposite of the Lifetime movie writing--none of her characters are all bad or all good, and her plots aren't predict ...more
Oct 10, 2007 Sassacaia rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I love Oprah books, okay? I just do. I love dark, heavy depressing subjects. I always have, most likely always will. I love reading about betrayal and revenge and cheats and liars. So I enjoyed this one. I didn't love it; it was sometimes predictable and wasn't always well organized, but it kept me engaged and wanting to hear more, which is all I really ask of a book: ENTERTAIN ME. If they do more, that's fantastic. This one wasn't fantastic, but I still enjoyed it and wanted to find out what wo ...more
Taiyesha-Duchess of Indiana

Ever read a book that you almost felt like you didn't have a right to criticize?

This book made me feel that way, and that is why I have put off writing a review. However, I told my teacher that I would eventually do it. I was required to pick a book out to read for my last week of high school in my Advanced Literature class that had some type of connection to my family. So, I chose this book. My family is quite familiar with this book's topic. I'm blessed in that I am not personally affiliated
This was not a cheery book, but spousal abuse is not a happy subject. Even though it took Fran a long time to finally break away from her husband, I admired her for being strong and doing what she needed to do for her son. The author did a good job of making me feel Fran/Beth's emotions. I read a few reviews where the readers didn't like the ending, because it wasn't happy. Even though the ending was hard to read and made me very sad, I appreciated that the author didn't end it the way a book li ...more
Jane Stewart
3 stars. It was good because it was thought provoking. But it had a downer quality. Not entertaining enough.

This book showed what Fran’s life was like during the first year after she ran from her violently abusive cop husband. She was in hiding. A group helped her by giving her a new name, id cards, a job, and an apartment. She’s not happy but doing ok. She makes a few friends. Her son is around age 11. He is doing ok but shows psychological scars from years of being around his mother getting b
The main character was stupid from beginning to end, so it was difficult for me to muster up even a little sympathy for her tragic situation.
Aug 01, 2009 ☮Karen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I don't know why but I found this book really intense and couldn't put it down. I learned for the first time that organizations exist that will relocate battered wives and set them up with completely new identities, and how difficult but very necessary this is for the wife and her child(ren). Anna Quindlen's style is easy to read and follow. In no time I felt I knew Fran and all her emotional and physical bruises well.
Jamie Dacyczyn
2015 Reading Challenge: A book from Oprah's book club.

Well, for some reason I thought this was going to be a thriller or suspenseful....A woman flees her abusive husband with her son, using a secret organization who relocates battered women and creates a new life and a new identity for them where their husband can't find them. So, I thought there was going to be some suspense, like the husband tracks them down and there's a few chapters of her trying to escape before she finally confronts him in
Mrs. Tongate
Jan 23, 2013 Mrs. Tongate rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: romance, teen
Page 71 "When I'd imagined marriage, when I was standing at the altar of St. Stannie's, I'd never imagined staring at the ceiling, the back of my hair matted with blood, willing my husband to get done and get off."

Page 72 "When we were dating, I thought it would stop when we were married. When we were married, I thought a baby would help. After the baby, I thought if we had another child he'd feel better. When Robert was 2, I couldn't leave because those were the formative years. When Rob
Adriane Devries
Black and Blue portrays the plight of an abused wife who, after years of living in domestic terror and shame, finally decides to flee with her son to a new, anonymous life. As the bruises from her most recent, most violent, encounter heal, her new life provides the peace and safety for her to heal emotionally, to discover who she really is underneath the trauma she’s been surviving. In particular, she uses the time to bond with her son and to watch carefully for signs that he, too, will become a ...more
Jun 29, 2010 Shan rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
This book compelled me to read but I didn't really like it. I was never really engaged with Beth and the writing style made it very difficult to empathize with her. The book is about domestic violence and a woman's escape and her new life, but so much of it is simply within Beth's head it is difficult to really get caught up in the story. It's almost like the reader is just thinking along with Beth and it's dull, everyday thoughts. Her relationships with the people she meets in La Plata are shal ...more
Cathy L
Feb 23, 2016 Cathy L rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
It started out good but I feel is slow going and dragged out a bit. I didn't care for how it ended either.I was an good book but nothing great.
Book Club Mom
Fran Benedetto has been hiding a terrible secret for years, but when her husband, Bobby hits her so hard he breaks her nose and splits her lip, she knows she has to leave. Patty Bancroft, a famous women’s advocate, knows exactly what to do to help women like Fran. So Fran trades one secret for another and leaves New York with her ten-year-old son, Robert, to start a new life with a new identity in a secret place.

Black and Blue takes a hard look at the complicated dynamics in abusive relationship
Paula Dembeck
Oct 27, 2015 Paula Dembeck rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is a heart breaking story of domestic violence.
Fran Benedetto is a nurse married to Bobby, a New York City cop. He beats hers, but she is so anxious for her son Robert to have a father she stays and endures it. And despite how he treats her, Fran still loves Bobby.

But one night seeing the look in her son’s eyes after a night of violence, she decides she must leave. Taking her son, Fran flees to Florida where she tries to start a new life. But she is never away from the fear Bobby will find
This book was given to me as a Christmas present. I asked for bargain/old novels. :)

It was my first time reading a book that tackles a very serious issue which is domestic violence. I must say I'm still warming up with grown-up reads that's why if I really have to be honest with myself, I'll just give this a 3-rating. Although, I commend this book for being beautifully and excellently written. Maybe when I can relate more with the characters, I'll most probably give this book a perfect score.

Mar 12, 2014 Karen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I continue my love affair with Anna Quindlen. I read one review of this novel in which the reviewer was unbelieving of the character's weaknesses and found that she had learned nothing from her experiences. I couldn't disagree more. I found the portrayal of a woman of above average intelligence who is successful and admired in her profession, but who acquiesces to her husband's repeated bodily and emotional abuse very realistic. The strength of this story is to show the reader that almost anyone ...more
Apr 29, 2016 Josephine rated it liked it
Anna Quindlen paints a vivid picture of what it is like to be a 'battered wife'. Fran is married to Bobby Benedetto her first love, a handsome cop. They have a son called Robert and they seem, to the outside world, to be the perfect family. Fran however lives in fear of the next beating from Bobby. When he beats her so badly that her face is unrecognisable she decides that she must leave. Fran contacts a woman called Patty Bancroft who is head of an organisation that helps women in Fran's situat ...more
Oct 14, 2015 Dorota rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
My mom and I had a conversation about sad books recently. She said that reading sad stories does not bother her. That if she can identify with the main character and their problems, it only helps her because she feels that she's not alone, that other people have similar issues. My reaction to sad books is a little different. When I can identify with the main character who is going through tough times, it brings me down and I have to keep reminding myself that it's just a book.
That being said, if
Wendy Hines
Jun 19, 2013 Wendy Hines rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This riveting story is about Fran and Bobby Benedetto. They fell in love when they were young, and before they were even married Bobby started to show his violent nature. "The first time my husband hit me I was nineteen years old," begins Fran Benedetto. A heartbreaking story of how the years of abuse accumulated. Fran didn't want to leave Bobby because of their son, Robert. Plus, as Bobby said, What was she going to do? Call the cops? Bobby was a police officer. She finally had a home with frie ...more
Mar 16, 2009 Eric_W rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
My wife and I listened to this on a trip to Texas and while it held our interest was just not as good as some others out there.

Fran Benedetto is a battered wife. She’s an RN whose abusive husband is a cop, and she has seen to what little effect orders of protection have. In fact, three women she had seen in the emergency room after being battered by their husbands of boyfriends were later killed by them despite the supposed legal remedy. So when Bobby, her husband, really smashes her about the
Claudia Moscovici
Anna Quindlen's Black and Blue follows in Lolita's footsteps as a great work of psychological fiction. Psychological, because the author sketches in such a realistic fashion the profile of the abuser that I'm tempted to say her novel should be available in every domestic violence shelter under the category of "nonfiction." And yet, one can't forget that Black and Blue is above all a work of fiction, masterfully crafted. Its beginning echoes the first lines of Lolita, in fact, the novel which it ...more
Simply put, Black and Blue is the story of a woman taking her child and running away from her abusive husband. It's not a book I would have naturally been drawn to, but I read it for my book club. It's the stuff of the talk show and many a dodgy TV Movie, so I had my doubts. However, Black and Blue is well written. It's also harrowing as you might expect.

I was particularly moved by the fears Fran has for the future of her son, who, although never a direct recipient of the abuse his mother suffer
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Anna Quindlen is a novelist and journalist whose work has appeared on fiction, nonfiction, and self-help bestseller lists. She is the author of eight novels: OBJECT LESSONS, ONE TRUE THING, BLACK AND BLUE, BLESSINGS, RISE AND SHINE, EVERY LAST ONE, STILL LIFE WITH BREAD CRUMBS, and MILLER'S VALLEY. Her memoir LOTS OF CANDLES, PLENTY OF CAKE, published in 2012, was a number one New York Times bests ...more
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