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    <![CDATA[Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in <em>How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You</em>. The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in &quot;Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Love&quot;), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for &quot;Hunters and Huntresses&quot; to capture their &quot;Quarry.&quot; Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact and compliments--but it's presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it can't help but work.<p>  Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, &quot;Show him you're smart, but remember--not <em>too</em> smart&quot; or &quot;Watch your Quarry's reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions.&quot; In all fairness, Lowndes doesn't play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make <em>you</em> more appealing, too! <em>--Jenny Brown</em> </p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was a bit funny and frightening. What scares me is that people are out there actually following this advice! :-o  I read it out of curiousity, I mean the title is intriguing. But it's full of manipulative advice on how to make someone &quot;think&quot; you like them and to get them to &quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52071387">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in <em>How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You</em>. The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in &quot;Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Love&quot;), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for &quot;Hunters and Huntresses&quot; to capture their &quot;Quarry.&quot; Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact and compliments--but it's presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it can't help but work.<p>  Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, &quot;Show him you're smart, but remember--not <em>too</em> smart&quot; or &quot;Watch your Quarry's reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions.&quot; In all fairness, Lowndes doesn't play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make <em>you</em> more appealing, too! <em>--Jenny Brown</em> </p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[If it was only as easy as it sounded!  Seductively licking your lips, making eye contact from across the room, telling someone how wonderful they are, all the non-verbal cues...odds are that they are not going to make someone fall in love with you.  It might land you in bed with someone but love, pr...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/16710321">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in <em>How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You</em>. The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in &quot;Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Love&quot;), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for &quot;Hunters and Huntresses&quot; to capture their &quot;Quarry.&quot; Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact and compliments--but it's presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it can't help but work.<p>  Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, &quot;Show him you're smart, but remember--not <em>too</em> smart&quot; or &quot;Watch your Quarry's reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions.&quot; In all fairness, Lowndes doesn't play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make <em>you</em> more appealing, too! <em>--Jenny Brown</em> </p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[seemed pretty solid until the part where the author started writing about gender difference and then i had to fight the urge to throw the book across the room. yeah, let's support gender stereotypes with anecdotal evidence, flawed studies, and cliches. ]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in <em>How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You</em>. The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in &quot;Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Love&quot;), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for &quot;Hunters and Huntresses&quot; to capture their &quot;Quarry.&quot; Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact and compliments--but it's presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it can't help but work.<p>  Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, &quot;Show him you're smart, but remember--not <em>too</em> smart&quot; or &quot;Watch your Quarry's reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions.&quot; In all fairness, Lowndes doesn't play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make <em>you</em> more appealing, too! <em>--Jenny Brown</em> </p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[Omg, I love this book. Nevermind I've been in a boring monog relationship with an adorably foxy nerdy economist for a good chunk of time, I love this book. I use all the tricks and tips and get lots of free stuff, and while I'm cute, I'm not like cute enough to never pay for cupcakes/coffee at Barne...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/23801200">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in <em>How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You</em>. The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in &quot;Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Love&quot;), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for &quot;Hunters and Huntresses&quot; to capture their &quot;Quarry.&quot; Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact and compliments--but it's presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it can't help but work.<p>  Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, &quot;Show him you're smart, but remember--not <em>too</em> smart&quot; or &quot;Watch your Quarry's reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions.&quot; In all fairness, Lowndes doesn't play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make <em>you</em> more appealing, too! <em>--Jenny Brown</em> </p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[I loved &quot;Levels of Conversation&quot;, Lovemap concept and Synchronization example from Dr. Perper used in the book.<br/><br/>I also liked &quot;Dance of Intimacy&quot; and &quot;Conversation Is Making Beautiful Music Together&quot; imitations.]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in <em>How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You</em>. The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in &quot;Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Love&quot;), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for &quot;Hunters and Huntresses&quot; to capture their &quot;Quarry.&quot; Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact and compliments--but it's presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it can't help but work.<p>  Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, &quot;Show him you're smart, but remember--not <em>too</em> smart&quot; or &quot;Watch your Quarry's reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions.&quot; In all fairness, Lowndes doesn't play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make <em>you</em> more appealing, too! <em>--Jenny Brown</em> </p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in <em>How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You</em>. The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in &quot;Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Love&quot;), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for &quot;Hunters and Huntresses&quot; to capture their &quot;Quarry.&quot; Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact and compliments--but it's presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it can't help but work.<p>  Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, &quot;Show him you're smart, but remember--not <em>too</em> smart&quot; or &quot;Watch your Quarry's reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions.&quot; In all fairness, Lowndes doesn't play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make <em>you</em> more appealing, too! <em>--Jenny Brown</em> </p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[I liked this book, but it is a little technical.  None of my friends that I suggested to read this book likes it, but I found it to be very useful and to bring up some truths about dating.  I keep it on my bookshelf as a great reference.  Let me know your comments if you read this.]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in <em>How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You</em>. The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in &quot;Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Love&quot;), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for &quot;Hunters and Huntresses&quot; to capture their &quot;Quarry.&quot; Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact and compliments--but it's presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it can't help but work.<p>  Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, &quot;Show him you're smart, but remember--not <em>too</em> smart&quot; or &quot;Watch your Quarry's reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions.&quot; In all fairness, Lowndes doesn't play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make <em>you</em> more appealing, too! <em>--Jenny Brown</em> </p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in <em>How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You</em>. The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in &quot;Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Love&quot;), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for &quot;Hunters and Huntresses&quot; to capture their &quot;Quarry.&quot; Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact and compliments--but it's presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it can't help but work.<p>  Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, &quot;Show him you're smart, but remember--not <em>too</em> smart&quot; or &quot;Watch your Quarry's reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions.&quot; In all fairness, Lowndes doesn't play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make <em>you</em> more appealing, too! <em>--Jenny Brown</em> </p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[Sure, it's as manipulative as it sounds, but there's some interesting studies and surveys in there-and reasonable conclusions about human behavior.  If you can get to that part, it's great.]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in <em>How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You</em>. The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in &quot;Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Love&quot;), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for &quot;Hunters and Huntresses&quot; to capture their &quot;Quarry.&quot; Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact and compliments--but it's presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it can't help but work.<p>  Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, &quot;Show him you're smart, but remember--not <em>too</em> smart&quot; or &quot;Watch your Quarry's reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions.&quot; In all fairness, Lowndes doesn't play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make <em>you</em> more appealing, too! <em>--Jenny Brown</em> </p>]]>
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