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Brave Girl Eating: A Family's Struggle with Anorexia

3.84 of 5 stars 3.84  ·  rating details  ·  1,572 ratings  ·  206 reviews
I've never had anorexia, but I know it well. I see it on the street, in the gaunt and sunken face, the bony chest, the spindly arms of an emaciated woman. I've come to recognize the flat look of despair, the hopelessness that follows, inevitably, from years of starvation. I think: That could have been my daughter. It wasn't. It's not. If I have anything to say about it, it ...more
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Published August 24th 2010 by HarperCollins e-books (first published August 9th 2010)
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La Petite Américaine
****Update: 25/3/2012: The massive thread that follows just totally reaffirms every point I made in the review. All of this from a writer whose work appears in the New York Times? Nice. Enjoy.****

****Update: 21/3/2012: I need to give credit where credit is due. For an eloquent and informative review (NOT AUTHORED BY ME) of Brave Girl Eating that, unlike my review, places facts over rage, please see

For scathing snark and wrath, my review is below.****

Overall, I thought the book was very insightful about the suffering a family endures when a relative has an eating disorder. You rarely hear about eating disorders from this perspective, so I thought it was very unique. I also was ultimately glad I read it because I was very unfamiliar with the approach.

The points that bothered me were her stance with psychology and her writing style. Perhaps I'm defensive both because I'm a psychology major at school, and I go to therapy, but it really bothere
I rarely read non-fiction, but I found this one to be excellent. The author is a science journalist who writes about her family's experience with a teenage daughter's anorexia. I liked how proactive the author was dealing with the disease. Her writing style was clean and there is a lot of reference to past research studies, which was very informative. As the mother of a teenager, (albeit a 14 yo boy, whom I can in no way ever visualize restricting food, but I could certainly relate to the parent ...more
I just spent more than half an hour responding to La Petite Americaine's review of this book and somehow it got deleted. I will try to repost it in more detail the next day or so; for now, let me just say that her inexplicably vitriolic review is uninformed, ignorant, and just plain wrong. Her stereotype of anorexics coming from dysfunctional families with overbearing mothers has been discredited for years; family based therapy (of the kind that Harriet Brown recommends) is the ONLY evidence-bas ...more
*Brave mother writing*

Although this book is entitled _Brave Girl Eating_, the title of _Brave Mother Writing_ would be equally fitting. Courageously chronicling her family's struggle with her daughter's anorexia, Harriet puts into words the devastation, pain, raw emotions, obstacles, frustrations, confusion, and exhaustion that too often overwhelm families haunted by the demons of eating disorders. The book reads like a gripping novel, but it is packed with valuable information on family-based e
I always have a difficult time discussing my experience with anorexia. It's not that I'm ashamed of it. It's just that it was a very long time ago now (my second bout ended about 12 years ago). Do I say that I'm an anorexic? That implies an active, ongoing issue, which isn't true. But I can't say that I'm not one anymore, because I know for a fact that it never totally goes away. The thoughts are there - they come back at odd moments. I'm particularly susceptible during times of high stress, alt ...more
Brave girl eating was not an easy book to read. The story is of a 14 year old girl Kitty who's life is transformed when she is diagnosed with anorexia. Written by her mother Harriet she details all the way from the warning signs leading up to the diagnosis to four years later when she goes to college. Along the way we read about the Brown family of Kitty, Harriet, her husband Jamie and there youngest daughter 10 year old Emma having there lives turned upside down and there loving fight to save t ...more
Leslie R
Extremely disappointed in this book...
While I am empathic with the writer and know how traumatic it is to experience this disease within a family, I am shocked by Ms Brown's denial and her rejection of all psychological theory. The way she labels her treatment team "Dr Newbie"??? She is disrespectful and uninformed. I have been treating eating disorders for 30 years. Family Oriented Treatment is something I applaud when it works but it still needs to be supervised by a therapist regularly and a
Jan 23, 2014 Shahna rated it 1 of 5 stars
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I didn't mind this book in the beginning, but the more I read it the more I got irritated with the author. It's all poor me. boo hoo. I wanted to read more about the daughter and her struggles. REAL struggles and day to day life. Not the crap vomited about by a mother who wants attention. That is what it feels like while reading this.

I wish this book was written by Kitty's point of view. I think it would have been more interesting and much more real. But, I'm sure she is just as irritating as h
Harriet Brown's "Brave Girl Eating" is the story of her daughter Kitty's descent into anorexia and the long road of recovery for the entire family.

When Kitty decides she needs to lose a little weight at age 14 after a nutrition class, she eventually slides into the body dysmorphism and deliberate eating restrictions that lead to so many cases of anorexia in teen girls today.

Brown talks not only about Kitty's anger about being made to eat again, but also about the effects of Kitty's recovery on h
Amy L. Campbell
I received this as an Advanced Reader Copy at ALA Annual 2010.

There is a lot of good information in this book, particularly about Family Based Therapy and this family's experience with it.

Unfortunately, Brown is so wrapped up in her own issues and emotions involving anorexia that her work because repetitive. She is overly defensive and I would like to see this reduced by about 25-50 pages, because I think that's how much could be cut out and still make sense. I wanted to the moments she had with
Horrid. I got chills remembering my own childhood. I hope this child gets a good therapist in adulthood.
Eva Musby
An excellent book for parents of kids with anorexia. It’s written by a journalist whose daughter spiralled into anorexia at age 14. It’s a flowing and gripping read, and a moving one too.

This family followed the route of Family Based Treatment, caring for their daughter at home and helping her to eat. They received advice from Daniel le Grange but had to make do without a certified Family Based Treatment therapist.

If your child is suffering from anorexia, this is what you’ll find in this book:

Jean Godwin Carroll
My favorite genre is memoirs, and I understand that an author writes this type of story from his or her own perspective. In this case however, as the author recounted her daughter's illness with anorexia, I was put-off by her constant reiteration that her daughter was a "good girl" and not like those crazy, neurotic, mentally-ill anorexics out there. At one point, after she bemoans the fact that today's society still needs to change it's outlook with regards to mental illnesses, she then makes a ...more
Mar 26, 2012 Cait marked it as not-to-read-ever
This excellent review (and the subsequent dog pile of comments made by the author's overzealous followers) are the reasons why.
Leta Blake
Excellent book. I wish I could get my SIL to read it and stop living in denial about my niece. I really do to want my niece to die.
For some reason, I have an odd fascination with eating disorders. I love reading both fiction and nonfiction about them. This read, however, I discovered at random when I saw it in a bookstore with my friend. I didn't buy it then though. It was a couple months later when I picked this up. Reading it was such a huge eye-opener for me. I read about Kitty's anorexia and saw that there were people around me that needed help.

My heart goes out to Ms. Brown and her husband Jamie. Their will and deter
Always on the search for another book on eating disorders I jumped at the chance to read Brave Girl Eating when a colleague recommended it. It particularly interested me because it presents a mother’s viewpoint on what it’s like to live with an ED.

I think the book has value; most books on eating disorders offer some type of consolation and information to the reader. We’re often desperate for it. But I warn you that the author is fully embedded in the Maudsley Approach to eating disorders and at
How I wish we had this resource 25 years ago when our family began our journey with the monster that is anorexia. Instead we had years of mediocre advice, bad advice and so-called experts who had no idea what to do or what approach to take. The Family Based Thereapy method Harriet Brown advocates seems (at this point in time at least) one that offers a more genuine hope of recovery for families dealing with an adolescent in the early stages of an eating disorder. In addition, the exhaustive rese ...more
Robin Stansel
Amazing book -- a very different perspective on causes and treatment of eating disorders. As someone with two siblings with eating disorders and a child in therapy for mental health issues, I was awed and inspired by this mother's dedication to family-based therapy.
Hanne Arts
I just finished Brave Girl Eating... within days of starting it.

I was going to leave the book lying around a little longer because I have quite a long TBR list, but once it arrived I couldn't help but get started in it. I absolutely loved this book for its honesty as well as its practical information, and even tips and inspiration to get better from an eating disorder. Kitty's situation is very different from many other stories I have read and/or personally know about, yet that doesn't change th
Charlotte Phillips
This was a very personal and helpful book for myself and it is one that I am glad to have picked up and read. Being anorexic you tend to get so stuck in how the diesease is affecting you, that you forget about the other people around you that have to live with it as well. But its not as if there are many books out there written by those living with the disease, most of them are written by the sufferers who are representing there discovery and there recovery, which whilst helpful, still doesnt gi ...more
Nancy Kennedy
This book of how one family coped with their daughter's anorexia is quite simply riveting. I read it all in one sitting, all 269 pages. I have not experienced an eating disorder in our home, but I have seen it in the home of a family member. I'm appalled now by my simplistic way of thinking about the disorder. "Why can't she just eat?" asks the distraught father in this book. Why, indeed.

Harriet Brown chronicles her daughter Kitty's struggle honestly and graphically. Of course, the story itself
I wanted to read this book because I am the antithesis of anorexia. I couldnt understand how someone could willingly starve themselves. Do I want to be thin? of course! But to deny myself food, its not happening! This book helped me understand that it is more a mental thing, a brain illness, an inner voice telling you that you should not eat. My inner voice says that too, but I dont pay attention, LOL! Then after a while of self starvation, you seem to lose all sensations of hunger. Weird. Kind ...more
Carmel Farnsworth
I chose this book because my sister battled anorexia, a struggle which, I believe, haunted her her entire far too short life. I gave this book 4 stars because I felt it gave a very honest, authentic perspective on life with an anorexic and the pain, most particularly, of parents facing this terrifying disease. I felt the writing was fairly stunted and repetitive, however.
Samantha Duncan
Meh....not great. While I'm completely empathetic for this woman and her family, her writing style and opinionated approach towards science and health care could be dangerous for readers who might look to this book for actual information and guidance. I think she needed to write this book on some level in order to heal, but the way she writes about different psychological theories that she doesn't agree with is both disrespectful and uninformed. I'm happy that refeeding worked in this case, but ...more
Nancy Bandusky
This is the story of a family dealing with anorexia. When one member in a loving family suffers, the whole family suffers in order to provide the support needed for the member to get well.

The author showed her reaction to realizing that her daughter was suffering from an eating disorder, her attempts to find treatment, the family based treatment that seemed successful, the mistakes, the successes, and the hope for the future.

This is an informative read presented in a caring way - educating other
Sarah Williams
It's interesting for me to read the range of reviews. I can't help but wonder if the negative reviews come from people who have not experienced parenting and annorexia -- but then I don't know why you would read the book if you hadn't. I was hesitant about the book when I realized it was about FBT, which is not the route we took as a family, and didn't want a harsh judgement on what treatment is best. I don't know if there is a guaranteed treatment out there or every child with ED would head tha ...more
A harrowing account of a parent's experience with her anorexic teen. The beginning was heart wrenching; the writer deftly expressed the nightmare of anorexia. Much of the book was presenting research and justification for FBT, family based treatment, the Maudsley approach. My sense is that Anorexia is not really about "food", but a neuropsychiatric illness and that hopefully more research will help find more successful treatments.
I believe this is an important book to read.
Wow, thank you Harriet Brown for writing this memoir about fighting the disease of anorexia with your daughter and your family. I learned a lot about how tough this is to beat and how much we have to learn about helping those who suffer with this (and other trials) around us. I appreciated all the studying that was done not only on anorexia but on weight gain and weight loss, metabolism, etc. How tricky the brain and the body can be but also how highly sophisticated they are!
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“I’ve never had anorexia, but I know it well. I see it on the street, in the gaunt and sunken face, the boney chest, the spindly arms of an emaciated woman. I’ve come to recognize the flat look of despair, the hopelessness that follows, inevitably, from years of starvation. I think: That could have been [me]. It wasn’t. It’s not.” 28 likes
“It's so easy to focus on the anguish and the misery; it's harder, somehow, to acknowledge the positive, maybe for fear of jinxing it, bringing the nightmare back down on our heads.” 7 likes
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