The Kitchen Daughter

The Kitchen Daughter

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After the unexpected death of her parents, painfully shy and sheltered 26-year-old Ginny Selvaggio seeks comfort in cooking from family recipes. But the rich, peppery scent of her Nonna’s soup draws an unexpected visitor into the kitchen: the ghost of Nonna herself, dead for twenty years, who appears with a cryptic warning (“do no let her…”) before vanishing like steam fro...more
Hardcover, 272 pages
Published April 12th 2011 by Gallery Books
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Chachic
Won a copy of this from MangoJuiced. My review is originally posted here.

Ginny has never been good with people – she doesn’t like strangers and she doesn’t like talking to people. She’s not comfortable with physical contact and only allows a handful of people to touch her. She lives with her parents, in the house where she grew up and fills her days with cooking. Food comforts her and that’s what she uses as a coping mechanism. Here’s a sample of the writing and how Ginny uses food to calm herse...more
Nancy
This is actually my favorite kind of book. It's about something relevant but also about something else much more relevant. It reminds me of The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake which is about a girl who feels what people feel when they cook the food. But it's really not. It's about coping skills or it's a little story about growing up...

This book is about Ginny who is 26 years old and has a personality. At least that's what she's always been told. Secretly, Ginny has never been officially diagno...more
Athira (Reading on a Rainy Day)
After the sudden death of her parents, Ginny is left feeling isolated and unsure of what to do. Her sister, Amanda, is trying to cope with the tragedy in her own way, but she doesn't really know how to look after Ginny, who has Asperger's syndrome. Ginny throws herself into cooking, because nothing else seems to be able to address her intense sadness the way cooking and food does. The first time, she makes a bread soup from a recipe written by her grandmother. Even before she could relish the aw...more
Megan
The Kitchen Daughter is masterfully written and full of surprises, I was caught up in all the cooking and the idea of being able to bring back the dead when using their recipes. Interesting.
Patty
Ginny has just lost her parents to a tragic accident. She lived with them in a magnificent old home in Philadelphia and was not at all prepared either emotionally or in reality for them to be gone. She is living with undiagnosed Asperger's and her parents had protected her all throughout her life. After the funeral her sister blows in like a tornado trying to take over her life and sell the house and take her away from everything she has ever known. Her sister refuses to accept that Ginny is cap...more
Lynn
A favorite book for me! I loved the characterization; each person seemed so real! And I believe the lack of communicative ability was accurately depicted. Or perhaps more accurately, the discomfort with typical interactions would be a more accurate statement/description. Ah, and those family dynamics! How they can change when elder family members are no longer around in everyday life. Ginny can seem much like a defiant teenager, though she really is not, in my opinion. Thanks to her mother she h...more
Jenni VanDeVoorde
3.5 stars rounded down.

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This was our book club selection this month, and I had no idea what to expect when I started this very quick read. The description doesn't capture the essence of the book for me, which was a young woman trying to make sense of her life when everything she knew and depended on was gone. That aspect of the story was absorbing; living the interactions through Ginny's eyes made my heart break a little, and I just wanted to shake her sist...more
Gwen
"Il cibo ha un potere. Nonna lo sapeva. La mamma pure. Adesso lo so anch'io. E anche se non può salvarmi, potrebbe aiutarmi in qualche modo. È tutto quello che ho, oltre al dolore".

Il titolo in italiano, più ammiccante ma meno fedele alla profondità della storia rispetto all'originale The Kitchen Daughter, sembra essere il preludio di un romanzo leggero, condito da magia e cucina. In realtà, come riportato più giustamente nella definizione data da Jamie Ford in quarta di copertina, questo libro...more
Susan
This book came up in a book group, and I assumed it was "just chick lit" which usually seems to me superficial and silly and which I don't normally read. But since it was a book group selection, I ordered a used copy. Took a lo g time to arrive and was a pretty fast read when it did. And surprisingly insightful.

Ginny and Amanda have recently lost their parents to a freak accident where they were staying on an extended vacation. The story opens at the funeral where Ginny is trying very hard to ho...more
Andrew Clark
The kitchen daughter is a pleasant story about finding normality in one's self in a time of distress. Ginny is a young woman with aspergers syndrome who just lost her parents. On top of that, Ginny's sister, Amanda, who treats her like a child who cannot care for herself. wants to sell the house they used to live in and is the only place where Ginny feels safe. She has a passion for cooking and finds out she can summon the spirits of the dead by cooking the recipes of past family members or fri...more
Adrian
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Larry Nguyen
In this novel lies a tale of a young woman with Asperger's, incapable of successfully interacting with society but finds her peace with cooking. Amidst the clatter of the pots and pans she finds she can summon ghosts. This entire book has a very intriguing plot that makes me appreciate food even more; having briefly chatted with the author I have a new respect for food, the idea that the food's smells can bring back certain memories linked to a relevant person or an unforgettable experience. Th...more
Vanessa Mendy
The Kitchen Daughter by Jael McHenry is an absolutely amazing book. The author does an amazing job of presenting an imperfect and somewhat relatable character who wants nothing more than to function on her own. I greatly appreciated the use of description and beautiful detail that went into talking about multiple ingredients and dishes. The only thing that frustrated me was how the ghost's prophecy was never directly addressed at the end of the novel. However, I can appreciate the air of myster...more
Kellie Bain
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Jason Cooper
Overall, I enjoyed reading the Kitchen Daughter by Jael McHenry, however, small parts of the book I did not enjoy as much. I enjoyed the way McHenry was able to give the readers a glimpse into the life of someone who has Asperger’s Syndrome, it was quite eye opening to me and I was able to learn much about Asperger’s which I previously did not know. What made the book slightly less enjoyable for me was how the events seemed to come as I predicted. For the majority of the book I was able to, wit...more
Aaron Monajjemi
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The Kitchen Daughter Review
Overall, I liked the novel The Kitchen Daughter by Jael McHenry. The book was very knowledgeable about asperger syndrome and taught me a lot about the disease. I thought that it was a great idea to write it from the point of view of a character who has aspergers because then it is easier to understand what someone like that goes through and what they think about. What I didn’t like is that the story spoke very litt...more
Sarah Schirle
Kitchen Daughter by Jael McHenry is a thought provoking novel about a young woman with Asperger’s syndrome trying to find herself and the true meaning of normal. Overall, I really liked reading the Kitchen Daughter. I appreciated the detailed and vivid cooking descriptions sprinkled throughout the novel. Every description was artfully done to the point where I felt like I was also making the dish and tasting it too. I also enjoyed the accurate portrayal of Asperger’s syndrome. Even with a cousin...more
Corinna Sales
From the very first chapter to the last page of the book, McHenry’s exceptional story kept me at the edge of my seat with surprises waiting for me at every turn. McHenry masterfully interweaved several, unrelated issues in society into a beautifully crafted novel that was unique and difficult to put down. The protagonist, Ginny, had Asperger’s and gave the entire story a unique perspective that was far different from any other book that I have read before. Although Ginny was a minimalistic speak...more
Michael Li
Jael McHenry’s The Kitchen Daughter is an extremely captivating novel. From the moment the reader opens the book and reads the first several words, he or she is hooked into a magical world, yet seemingly real. The book centers around a young woman named Ginny who is afflicted with Asperger’s Syndrome. Her strange background introduces one of the main conflicts: man versus self. Throughout the novel, she struggles to fit in with society, constantly searching for what is considered “normal”. From...more
April
A book with so many layers I am struggling to articulate my review...

On the surface, it's a book about the oddly peculiar Ginny Selvaggio and her struggle to pick up the pieces after the sudden and tragic death of her parents. Extraordinarily sheltered and shy, she rarely leaves her home, holing herself up in her closet to calm herself. Her older sister, Amanda tries to step up and act as caretaker and protector for her younger sister, a role previously played by their mother. Amanda constantly...more
Gwyneth Stewart
This is one of my remainder table finds. I love shopping the remainder table at my local bookstore, searching out books that didn't hit the best seller's list, but still might be interesting. This book is a perfect example of why I like shopping the remainder table. It's a first novel, and a truly original take on family, cooking, ghosts, and the things that bind us together. The main character, Ginny, and her sister Amanda, have just lost their parents. Both of them are still in their 20's, but...more
Samantha Harvey
This book was nothing like I thought it would be. Good Reads recommended it to me based on the fact that I liked "Garden Spells," by Sarah Addison Allen, so I assumed it would be similar, however as soon as I began to read about Ginny I knew there was something different about her... and then I discovered she was more like Temple Grandin than Claire Waverley. Actually, there's a little nod to Temple in the book regarding her "Hugging Machine."

The book, contrary to Good Reads' description of it,...more
Roberta
Dopo la morte di entrambi i genitori Ginny, una ragazza particolarmente timida e con una personalità molto particolare, si ritrova a dover affrontare non solo le sue mille paure, ma anche la sorella che vorrebbe vendere la casa in cui ha sempre vissuto.
Ginny trova consolazione e forza nelle ricette tramandate dai membri della sua famiglia e attraverso esse riporta "in vita" i suoi familiari...
Sarà attraverso le sue ricette che Ginny ritroverà se stessa e capirà quale strada prendere per riusci...more
Erin
I thought this book was a very calm and gentle book, despite the massive, sad tragedies that occur within its pages. Ginny has Aspergers, and sees and feels the world in a way that is different from most people. She doesn't like to be touched, and tries to understand the emotions of others. The book begins with the death of her parents, which rocks her world. They were her touchstones, they were her guides in a world that was difficult for her to manuever in certain ways. She is left with alone,...more
April
THE KITCHEN DAUGHTER by Jael McHenry is an interesting women's fiction. It tells the story of Ginny Selvaggio, a young women who is shy,sheltered,loss her parent's to an unexpected death,finds comfort in the kitchen and has Asperger's syndrome. It has ghosts,cooking,recipes,mystery,family,secrets,living with Asperger's,acceptance,loss,grief,intrigue,love and characters who are compelling along with the delicious almost smelling recipes described throughout this delightful story. "The Kitchen Dau...more
Katherine
Jan 31, 2012 Katherine rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommended to Katherine by: Holly of Nothing But Bonfires
I really enjoyed this book--it's kind of The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time mixed with Like Water for Chocolate and The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake. The plot twists in unexpected ways but it's still a quick read and fairly straightforward in the end. I identified with the main character a lot in the personality traits that overlap between those with Asberger's and strong introverts as well as the feeling of sinking into the process of cooking.

I think Holly's review sums it u...more
Jackie
I would probably rather give this book 3 stars for effort, and only 2 stars for result. I get the sense that Ms. McHenry isn't quite sure what she herself wants this book to be: A "cause" book (informing the public about aspbergers), a book about cooking, a book about relationships, a book about grieving or simply a narrative about life. In any event, I don't think she accomplishes any of these particularly well.

I expected to like this a lot better than I did. And I admit that I stuck with it,...more
JenniferJ
This was a fascinating story of a young lady who has Asperger's Syndrome and has tragically lost her parents and now trying to live on her own. She never really knew anything was wrong with her because she led a sheltered life which has not prepared her for living in the "real" world so to speak. Even so I still got angry with her sister quite a bit. She just assumes Ginny should now come to stay in her home and they will automatically sell the family home and get rid of the things inside and ne...more
Jan
I don't do "chick lit," but I was intrigued by the premise of this story, and I'm so glad I read it. Ginny, the protagonist and voice of this story, has Asperger's syndrome, but she also has the tendency to think of things and people in terms of food. Someone has an "orange juice voice," and another has an "espresso voice." When she is confused by a social situation, Ginny finds comfort in food, either cooking it or imagining it being cooked. Just thinking of the colors and smells of carmelizing...more
Cathy
I loved this book and couldn't put it down until I finished it. Ginny's voice is so fresh and different from the average female protagonist. I have read several nonfiction books about Asperger's and felt McHenry did an excellent job portraying a young woman with that syndrome. Ginny had Asperger's but the book became more about her acceptance of herself and reaching out to others in her life so that they would accept her as well.

I am not a particularly good chef, I'm more of a baker, but I love...more
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Jael McHenry is a talented and enthusiastic amateur cook who grew up in Michigan and Iowa before moving from city to city along the East Coast: Boston, Washington, D.C., Philadelphia, and now New York, where she blogs about food and cooking at the Simmer blog, http://simmerblog.typepad.com. She is a monthly pop culture columnist and Editor-in-Chief of Intrepid Media, online at intrepidmedia.com. H...more
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