The Grace of Silence: A Memoir

The Grace of Silence: A Memoir

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In the wake of talk of a “postracial” America upon Barack Obama’s ascension as president of the United States, Michele Norris, cohost of National Public Radio’s flagship program All Things Considered, set out to write, through original reporting, a book about “the hidden conversation” on race that is unfolding nationwide. She would, she thought, base her book on the frank...more
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Published September 21st 2010 by Vintage
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Paul
A refreshingly candid story of an African American family in MN, their roots in America, and particular the father's experiences coming from Birmingham, AL. There are various contrasts interwoven throughout: north/south, black/white, diverse cultural values within both white and black communities. And the author tells her story with pacing and drama to keep it a story, and not simple a monologue. The reader feels like he knows what it is like to be Michelle Norris, to know her parents and their...more
Sharon
Mar 27, 2012 Sharon rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Everyone
Wow. Every American should read this book. It's so much more than it appears to be on first look. The reader expects a family memoir, and that is provided along with crucial and little-known American history. This book contains so much elegant wisdom, eloquently told. Further, it asks us to do more, to be more, to understand more.

I've been listening to Michele Norris on NPR for years without knowing anything about her. You won't find much that's current about her and her work in this book, but...more
K2 -----
I thoroughly enjoyed the pace of this book and the way she told her family's story about race in America. I do not know her work on NPR as I quit listening years ago, but she is a talented writer and skilled journalist.

As Obama rose to become the first African American president she began examining race in America in a new light and wanted to understand how it played a role in her own family's life. Her parents were both hard working postal workers who were proud and encouraged their daughters...more
Sherry Quan
I have been wanting to read THE GRACE OF SILENCE for some time having grown up in what I call South Scandinavian Minneapolis-a Black/Chinese girl passing for white. Although Michele Norris didn't delve into growing up in South Minneapolis as much as I was hoping, I wasn't disappointed.

She recorded history that made me realize there is so much I don't know. Her attention to detail has given me much to question-especially how different was it for my Chinese father, who also served in the Navy dur...more
Nanette Bulebosh
Norris is about my age and, like me, grew up in the Midwest (her Minnesota to my Illinois) in a middle-class family. We're both also the youngest of three girls. Yet, in some ways, our childhoods couldn't be more different. Both my parents grew up in relative poverty and, from a young age, were well aware of the limitations of their class. But my dad never had to worry about being targeted for harassment by cops because of the color of his skin. He never had to suffer the indignity of being call...more
Barbara Buxton
A highly respected newswoman, Michele Norris, has written a wonderful tribute to her father. "The Grace of Silence" is about her discovery of the silent history of her father. What she found was a man who had endured the demeaning treatment of racism, yet had the grace to keep it secret from his family... it was his grace of silence. He maintained his dignity, not as a black man but as a man, period. In spite of his experience with racism, he maintained his own sense of humanity. He never lost h...more
Martha
Michelle Norris, an NPR anchor, is a Robinson family friend. She lived one block up on Oakland, and the girls especially grew up playing with her. We gave this book to Ronel last Christmas, and Ronel visited with Michelle on a recent trip to D.C. The book was also chosen as last year’s “OneMinneapolis OneRead” program – so for all these reasons, I’ve been anxious to read it.

The book grew out of radio conversations about race that Michelle and another NPR reporter hosted in the leadup to Obama’s...more
Britty
This book is really lovely. I was lucky enough to win it over a year ago from GoodReads. It tells the story of an intelligent,strong willed American woman,who is pursuing the background untold history of her family. From the viewpoint of a young Black woman who has grown up and prospered in a nation where prejudices still lurk around every corner,she discovered things that would make most people angry and bitterly unforgiving in relation to what members of her family were put through. Yet she co...more
Xong Yang
The Grace of Silence, by Michele Norris, is a book about the author's family secrets. It talks about the racism that was hidden years ago, as well. There were things that happened that shouldn't have. The book starts out with a story about her father, Belvin Norris, a man who put others before him. Belvin was shot before but never told his wife and daughters about it. He had a grace of silence. Michele's mother also had a grace of silence, she wouldn't speak to her daughters about her mother's (...more
Sharla Johnson
I thought the book had very interesting parts to it as also some boring parts. Some interesting things that caught my attention was the relationships the writer, Michele Norris had with her family and how she just did not tell her life story but included theirs which in the end helped me get a better picture of her. I also was interested in the stories she wrote about that dealt with racism, it is such a huge thing that I believe still exists. I liked how she wrote about racism from different er...more
Deb
Some parts, like the intro, were elegantly crafted and told an interesting story. I found the sections directly about Norris' dad the best. 4 stars in these parts.

Thought the book was thoroughly researched, the later sections did not have the "flow" of the personal ones. Norris tries to present both sides of the racism story - (eating the whole oreo cookie ;-) These sections were informative, but could veer towards preachy. 2 stars here.

I was not aware of the racism and violence displayed towa...more
Huseng Yang

I really liked this book. I could really relate to this book. It was tough reading this book because it brought back memories of what my family experienced in the same city where this book took place. The Grace of Silence had painful secrets about her family that made her question her own understanding. On how her father’s shooting by a police officer from Birmingham just weeks after his discharge from the navy during World War ll. Her grandmother was a spokes-person for Aunt Jemima in the Mid...more
Boye Ward
After I read the book, I thought it was a great book due to the fact that the writer did express her feelings and told a family's story that couldn' t have been told for years because her family were secret about their past life. Michelle Norris was opened to tell a story that can make any black family living in the U.S can relate to and be redefined of their heritage and knowing what our forefathers went through to get us to where we are today as a black family living in the United States and a...more
Amber Baker
Overall I enjoyed the book. I had never read a book I could relate to so much before this one. Being from south Minneapolis and visiting family down south, I understood her stories all too well. I think this is a book that all races should read because it sheds light on the racism that occurred in the south and how blacks were treated.

Her journey to uncover the truth to secrets in her family makes you take a long look at your own family. Is there anything you ever were curious about? Would you...more
Eem Ganv
It was not only heart felt, soul touched, but also something we all as people of color may relate to. We may have not been of dark skinned people but I know I can relate in many ways. I know because as I read each chapters flashbacks just seems to keep running through my mind as if it was I too, whom was telling the stories of my family’s secrets. And indeed is it the grace of silence within each and every one of us that has led us to differentiate discriminations among one as an individual than...more
Roxanne
I thought Grace of Silence was beautifully written. The author used the right amount of detail and pacing to keep the book moving and focused.

I enjoyed reading about the Norris family history. It was refreshing to read about those who were not in the civil rights spotlight.

Like almost all families, parents naturally shield their children from things the parents believe are better left unknown. My parents certainly did and I respected them for their decisions. At a certain time, it may be the bes...more
Janice
Reading The Grace of Silence started me thinking back on my childhood. I grew up in Kansas City, Kansas. When I started kindergarten at McKinley School in 1956, the Kansas City, KS public schools were already integrated. I rode public buses often. I shared seats with black passengers. I don't recall blacks sitting in the back of the bus. I don't recall blacks not shopping at Montgomery Ward or JC Penney or Katz Drug on Minnesota Avenue. I'm not saying they did or did not, I simply don't remember...more
Marilyn
Nov 03, 2011 Marilyn rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Everyone!
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THE GRACE OF SILENCE
By Michele Norris
Publisher: Vintage Books, New York
Copyright by Michele Norris 2010
ISBN: 978-0-307-47527-5

Michele Norris writes from the heart. I was taken with her story from page one, where she describes her father, Belvin Norris as a “fixer.” A “fixer” of people is what she is describing him as. That was my father also. Although we are not African Americans, I saw so much of my father in hers. They were both special men who never complained, tried their hardest for their f...more
Audrey
I don't typically have many hours in my day to devote to reading, but I found this book MADE me find time. Ms. Norris does a great job of bringing to light the sacrifice of African-American military veterans, as well as the entire African-American community "then" and now. In the early part of the book, Ms. Norris focuses on her maternal grandmother's acting role - one that makes her family avoid talking about it. Most families have secrets. In the latter part of the book, her father's story ill...more
Megan
In order to give a book a 5-star rating, I have to feel that reading it was a mind-expanding experience. This memoir was.

Michele Norris, co-host of NPR's All Things Considered, was inspired by the discussions of race relations that surrounded President Obama's election to delve into her own family history. The result is a family memoir, which chronicles the experiences and attitudes of her parents and grandparents and what they taught her -- and sometimes more importantly, what they chose not t...more
Jocie
‘The Wisdom of Love’ would be another appropriate title- her parents let go of bitterness and worked hard to show people they were intelligent, hard workers. I believe this allowed their children to move on from the atrocities of the past and become more fully integrated into their country.

This was a bit of a painful read- I was not aware of the extent of prejudice in our country. I was also surprised and hurt to find out that there are people who hate me because I am white.

This brought up some...more
Judy
Michele Norris, the cohost of NPR's All Things Considered, writes about the lack of honest conversation about race in the United States. Before interviewing others on the subject, she comes to realize that her own family had not been open on the subject. Norris discovered that her father had been shot by a white Birmingham police officer just a few weeks after his discharge from the Navy after serving in World War II. He never mentioned the episode to either his wife or his daughter, but shortly...more
Becky
This book DOES read like a novel in many ways, as other reviewers have mentioned. I think what particularly appealed to me about this memoir was the many insights she offered about a significant era in our civil rights history, one that (as Ms. Norris observes) is often overlooked. The veterans of WWII DID set the stage for future successes and paid a painful price in the process. I love the family and history mix...It may not appeal as much to those who weren't a part of the sixties and the str...more
Bookmarks Magazine
An absorbing, authoritative, and painfully honest "American saga" (Seattle Times), Norris's family history explores middle-class African Americans' pursuit of the American dream in the mid-20th century. Thanks to exceptional reporting skills and a sharp eye for detail, Norris brings these thoughtful, complex men and women poignantly to life as she chronicles an important chapter of American history -- the quiet, day-to-day lives of average citizens -- that is often overshadowed by the grand pers...more
Kathleen Hagen
The Grace of Silence, by Michele Norris, narrated by the author, produced by Random Audio and downloaded from audible.com.

Michele Norris, one of the hosts of NPR’s “All Things Considered” began exploring, in the aftermath of Barack Obama being elected the first African-American president, whether or not this was a post-racial society. But as she interviewed more and more people, she began finding out her own family’s hidden secrets, including that her father, within days of returning home from W...more
Terry
I read this book in a rush--skimmed it, really--when the person who was supposed to interview Michele Norris (National Public Radio, "All Things Considered") fell ill and I replaced her. It's not a great book, but Michele Norris is charming and articulate and I've been a fan for a long time. She was even better in person. The book is a memoir about her own family and the stories they never told her about their own experiences with race and racism in America--a silence she thinks common to famili...more
Asha Omer
In the book Grace of Silence, the author Michele Norris writes about her family and their achievements and difficult times. In the books she talks a lot about her father because he was such a strong man. She talks about how her father tried his hardest to protect his family and how much he loved them. He served in World War II. She explains how hard it was for them to fit into society because they were African American. They lived in the South until her Father got in an accident which made them...more
Michelle
Interesting memoir/racial relations commentary hybrid. It’s fascinating how (NPR host) Michele Norris weaves her quest to learn more about her parents’ past with the changing state of racial relations during her lifetime. This book is pretty short and the prose somewhat bland (clichés abound) but it is definitely a unique take on the topic, including some heretofore unknown pieces of American History, or at least unknown to me. Norris’s parents were amazing, not only in a general sense, but in c...more
Lee Ann
Around the Town Bookclub for October. This was an insiteful look at Jim Crow laws in the south, survival and overcoming and/or dealing fears relating to life during this time. Servicemen returning from the war fighting for freedom in the world, were not given that freedom at home. The fight for equality before the MLK times and during and after. I am always fascinated by the idea that civil rights began with Martin Luther King and have always taught the tough fight before it became a part of the...more
Nicholas
Insightful memoir weaves a narrative of the African American experience of the last 20/30 years that presents some stories that really leave you stunned. The stories related to Norris' own family are heartfelt but the one that made the most impression on me was that of Issac Woodard and his blinding at the hands of a Southern policeman. I love the details of Norris's writing. An example is when describing her search for the names of the officers involved in her father's arrest, she describes get...more
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Michele Norris is one of the most trusted voices in American Journalism. Her voice informs, engages and enlightens listeners with thoughtful interviews and in depth reporting as one of the hosts of NPR’s flagship afternoon broadcast, All Things Considered. Michele uses an approachable interviewing style that is at once relaxed and rigorous. She’s interviewed world lead...more
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