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  <title><![CDATA[Hello Cruel World: 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks and Other Outlaws]]></title>
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  <default_description>&lt;P&gt;Celebrated transsexual trailblazer Kate Bornstein has, with more humor and spunk than any other, ushered us into a world of limitless possibility through a daring re-envisionment of the gender system as we know it.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Here, Kate bravely and wittily shares personal and unorthodox methods of survival for navigating an often cruel world. A one-of-a-kind guide to staying alive outside the box, &lt;I&gt;Hello, Cruel World&lt;/I&gt; is a much-needed unconventional approach to teenage suicide prevention for marginalized youth who want to stay on the edge, but alive.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;I&gt;Hello, Cruel World &lt;/I&gt;features a catalog of 101 Alternatives to Suicide that range from the playful (Moisturize), to the irreverent (Disbelieve the Binary), to the highly controversial (Get Laid. Please). Designed to encourage readers to give themselves permission to unleash their hearts' harmless desires, the book has only one directive: &quot;Don't be mean.&quot;  It is this guiding principle that brings its reader on a self-validating journey, which forges wholly new paths toward a resounding decision to choose life.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Tenderly intimate and unapologetically edgy, Kate is the radical role model, the affectionate best friend, and the guiding mentor all in one kind and spirited package.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;A celebrated pioneer for the LGBTQI community, transsexual author and performance artist, Kate Bornstein is the author of the wildly successful books &lt;I&gt;My Gender Workbook&lt;/I&gt; and &lt;I&gt;Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and The Rest of Us&lt;/I&gt;.&lt;/P&gt;</default_description>
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  <original_publication_year type="integer">2006</original_publication_year>
  <original_title>Hello Cruel World: 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks and Other Outlaws</original_title>
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    <name><![CDATA[Caitlin]]></name>
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  <read_at>Sun Mar 30 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Mar 13 18:44:25 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Mar 30 09:13:42 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Ok.<br/>So I get all the hoopla about Kate Bornstein and I can respect her work and her life, but I don't agree with a lot of it. The first part of the book was just scattered and ill-prepared. Her generalizations like &quot;all lesbian and gay people are transgendered because the transcend gender&quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/17709804">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="31506185">
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    <name><![CDATA[Roxane]]></name>
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  <read_at>Thu Aug 21 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Fri Aug 29 03:49:52 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Aug 29 03:51:47 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This was my first experience reading Kate Bornstein though Iâ€™d heard about her (at length) from a friend who enjoys her work. I had also listened to her interview on the Radical Guy Podcast (a great podcast on transgender issues, very informative, you should check it out by the way). So I was fami...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/31506185">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="9921501">
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    <name><![CDATA[Stacy]]></name>
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  <date_added>Tue Dec 04 06:59:04 -0800 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Dec 05 12:52:30 -0800 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I think this book was badly named.  Had the subtitle been 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Freaks, Weirdos and Other Outlaws (say)--it would still have ended up in the hands of the teens who really needed it and yet would not have suggested the book was *only* for teens.  Some adults will miss this b...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/9921501">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/9921501]]></url>
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    <review id="2889262">
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    <name><![CDATA[Alexei]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Holyoke, MA]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Mon Jul 09 22:06:07 -0700 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Nov 19 08:30:09 -0800 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Ok, I'll admit it- I have a big, fat crush on Kate Bornstein. Big brains are a huge turn on.<br/><br/>But as far as the *book* goes, I'd have to give it 5 stars. As someone who works with queer and questioning youth, I have found this book to be invaluable- both for myself and for the youth I work...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/2889262">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/2889262]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="50303560">
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    <name><![CDATA[J]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Snoqualmie, WA]]></location>        
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <read_at>Tue Mar 24 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Mar 24 11:36:37 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Mar 24 11:37:03 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[kate bornstein lays out what is wrong with shit nd how to deal with shit that is wall wroung.  i wish i had this when i was very sad but it is still so soothing.]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50303560]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="59709136">
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    <name><![CDATA[Nicola]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Bristol, The United Kingdom]]></location>        
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <date_added>Mon Jun 15 03:41:23 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Jun 15 03:41:54 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I would hazard a guess that this is the most badass self-help book on the market. Kate Bornsteinâ€™s advice on how to climb out of your suicidal hole ranges from that which is simple (moisturize! touch yourselfâ€¦ not like <em>that</em> â€“ unless you want to!) to that which is off-kilter (remove the word â€...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/59709136">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="72678004">
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    <name><![CDATA[Ryan]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Boise, ID]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Sun Sep 27 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Sun Sep 27 13:38:40 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Sep 27 13:47:37 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[so i'm not exactly the target audience for this book.  a friend of mine had the chance of meeting kate bornstein and she mentioned this book and it sounded interesting.  i'm not having a hard time choosing between living and killing myself, but i do think i've been bad at choosing between living and...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/72678004">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/72678004]]></url>
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    <review id="39050192">
    <user id="247926">
    <name><![CDATA[Cory]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Kalamazoo, MI]]></location>        
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <date_added>Mon Dec 01 13:56:18 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Mar 03 11:39:50 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Let me begin by saying that &quot;like&quot; isn't really a word I would use to describe this book.  It wasn't a fun read.  I wasn't sucked in.  However, I do think it's a very important book, and very brave.  I don't think a teen would check it out, but it is the sort of thing that they would read ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/39050192">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/39050192]]></url>
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    <review id="36920207">
    <user id="1333177">
    <name><![CDATA[Ciara]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Somerville, MA]]></location>        
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[troubled teens, troubled teens-at-heart, therapists to teens]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Sun Jun 03 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Nov 04 15:20:34 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Nov 13 06:41:24 -0800 2008</date_updated>
  <read_count>once</read_count>
    <body><![CDATA[i guess i read this book strictly from curiosity. i am not a teenager &amp; i haven't been wild about kate bornstein, particularly. but perhaps if i had a distraught teenager in my life--or a surly one, or one that wouldn't talk to anyone--i would pass this book along. it has many coping mechanisms idea...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/36920207">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/36920207]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="40636">
    <user id="4361">
    <name><![CDATA[Jessica]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Bayonne, NJ]]></location>        
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[trannies, high school or middle school teachers]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Thu Feb 01 00:00:00 -0800 2007</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Feb 14 09:14:26 -0800 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Feb 14 09:23:30 -0800 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[In honor of Valentine's Day, tranny activist Kate Bornstein spoke at the NYU gender studies' department last night on &quot;deviant desires.&quot;  And though her lecture made me feel pretty boring...I guess my desires aren't that deviant...I love her joie de vivre and reclaiming-outcast-status take...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40636">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40636]]></url>
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    <review id="76128684">
    <user id="2890979">
    <name><![CDATA[Danielle]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Brisbane, 02, Australia]]></location>        
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[Anyone suicidal, or who has been suicidal.]]></recommended_for>
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  <date_added>Thu Oct 29 11:35:44 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Oct 30 14:43:53 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is downright bizzare, and I found a lot of the yapping on about transgender to be irrelevant to the purpose of the book. However, as someone who has been recurrently suicidal, this book has actually helped me to get a perspective on the act of suicide that's starkly different to the usual ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/76128684">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="65950217">
    <user id="1626677">
    <name><![CDATA[Cynthia]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Sun Aug 02 21:17:23 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Aug 02 21:20:27 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is the coolest self-help book I've ever read! I love Kate's positive attitude and approach to helping the outsiders get by <strong>without</strong> necessarily fitting in. Although I read this as an adult, I can see how a young person--esp. someone just coming out or going through a tough time--would find this ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/65950217">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="71208232">
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    <name><![CDATA[Caitlinleah]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Fri Nov 20 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Sep 14 13:45:32 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Nov 20 14:30:56 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[i want to be a big kate bornstein fan, but i can't.  the first part of this book i really disliked for the same reasons i dislike my gender workbook: for all she talks about the wild diversity of gender options, it seems to be written only for those with a similar path to hers.  i was really frustra...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/71208232">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/71208232]]></url>
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    <review id="43193794">
    <user id="1792361">
    <name><![CDATA[Rhonda]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Saint Petersburg, FL]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Thu Jan 15 18:56:16 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Jan 15 18:58:54 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I didn't note the author when I saw the title to the book and frankly I'm wondering how the gender issue is addressedin it.  The issue of suicide in teens is much more prevalent than most imagine, simply because it remains unsaid among the survivors.  I look forward to reading this book.]]></body>
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    <review id="35693091">
    <user id="919360">
    <name><![CDATA[Beth]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Saint Louis, MO]]></location>        
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[EVERYONE in high school...no, seriously...EVERYONE]]></recommended_for>
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  <date_added>Sun Oct 19 11:19:36 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Oct 19 11:24:34 -0700 2008</date_updated>
  <read_count>2 already, and more to come</read_count>
    <body><![CDATA[This isn't a book I read in high school, but I damn sure wish it were.  I don't go much for inspirational books or books labeled &quot;self-help,&quot; but this book packs an enormous emotional wallop that basically makes the reader want to get off her ass, quit (or start) complaining, and try to do...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/35693091">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/35693091]]></url>
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    <name><![CDATA[Ryan]]></name>
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  <date_added>Mon Dec 22 21:30:27 -0800 2008</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[     A marvelous idea from a wonderful person with their heart in the right place--I just don't know if it would really be helpful to someone contemplating suicide. Would one, so locked in despair, actually read it? Would the language--although supposedly directed at teens--that reads like it was cr...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40731255">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I absolutely adore Kate Bornstein.  She is creative, brilliant, positive yet realistic, and just completely fabulous.  However, I did not like this book.  I felt that this was possibly Kate's most self-indulgent book yet.  She tends to talk about herself quite a bit in her books, and I thought this ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/10240446">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a terrific book. At times Bornstein's tone grates slightly, but her recommendations are worth a shot. An amazing part of the new wave of no-bulshit self-help books.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Some of the best writing on gender I can think of, kate bornstein's work is totally accessible to a wide variety of people while still demonstrating radical, awesome ideas about gender and sex. She's someone who's willing to talk on a level that teens and young people can relate to about suicide, ze...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/32633041">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[before anyone freaks out, i got this book so i could be more comfortable talking to clients about this at work.  for a while, i would get overwhelmed immediately when someone mentioned having attempted suicide or any suicidal thoughts. while the book was funny, it didn't really work with the populat...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/8899944">more...</a>]]></body>
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