The Confessions of Max Tivoli

The Confessions of Max Tivoli

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An extraordinarily haunting love story told in the voice of a man who appears to age backwards

We are each the love of someone's life.

So begins The Confessions of Max Tivoli, a heartbreaking love story with a narrator like no other. At his birth, Max's father declares him a "nisse," a creature of Danish myth, as his baby son has the external physica...more
Hardcover, 288 pages
Published February 1st 2004 by Farrar, Straus and Giroux (first published January 1st 2004)
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Anca
Dec 01, 2011 Anca rated it 5 of 5 stars
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Pentru ca toata lumea se leaga de The Curious Case of Benjamin Button cand scrie despre cartea asta, refuz sa fac comparatie intre cele doua. La Fitzgerald era mai mult o idee interesanta prezentata rapid, iar personajul nu e nu-stiu-cat de afectat, e oarecare, la Greer e un blestem care e prilejul de transmitere a altor idei. Pana la urma, ce vrea Greer sa spuna, mai departe de "Fiecare dintre noi e dragostea vietii cuiva" (prima propozitie care oricat de siropos ar suna, pana la urma duce la u...more
Laurel
Max Tivoli was born looking like a 70 year old man, with white hair, wrinkled skin and liver spots. Though his mind ages normally, his body grows younger with each passing year.

As I read (or, listened to) this book, I couldn't help but wonder how it compares to F. Scott Fitzgerald's The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, which is essentially (from what I understand) the same story. I've yet to read Benjamin Button, but I would assume that Andrew Sean Greer borrowed heavily from Fitzgerald, even if...more
Penny
An interesting concept -- a man is born old and ages backward -- but in the end, I didn't enjoy the book. I came to really dislike the main character, Max. He has a difficult fate, it's true, but he seemed to me to be so consumed with self-pity that he had a hard time relating to anyone else. And he's so very passive -- uninterested in his job or his world. He even sleeps through the San Francisco earthquake! What's the point of placing your novel during the 1906 earthquake if your protagonist s...more
Lillian
The premise of this book was tantalizing: a man who ages in reverse tries to find and win his one true love time after time. I was hoping it would be akin to The Time Traveler's Wife, whose characters I quickly came to love. The Confessions of Max Tivoli, though, is a completely different beast. For one, I had no idea that it would be narrated in the style of a Victorian novel, complete with frequent exhortations to the "Dear Reader." The prose was lovely, but initially, I found the style a bit...more
Sara
May 22, 2008 Sara rated it 3 of 5 stars Recommends it for: sophisticated, educated readers who are not too jaded to enjoy a tall tale or a meaningful fantasy
This is one of the better books I've read in quite awhile. Part of this is because I haven't been reading much this year, but also this is a beautifully worded book, a delicious slow read with an imaginative premise and poetry and philosophy on nearly every page. It has, however, two unforgivable flaws.

The most glaring unforgivable flaw is the ending, which is frankly unworthy of the rest of the book, in the words of my true love "a cop-out all around." I won't discuss that here (but might on my...more
Carolee Wheeler
I'd put this in the "Time-Traveler's Wife" genre of literature--sort of mind-bending, as long as you don't think too much about it. It's airplane reading, disposable literature you can leave in the seat back pocket when you're finished and not give it another thought. Some might argue that books like that are the reason TV was created, but it's nice to be able to read something, now and then, that just flows over you and leaves no confusing aftertaste.

That said, the period details in the book we...more
Chris
I read this book years ago and it has remained one of my favorites. I'm still recommending it to people. Much like One Hundred Years of Solitude, it's a moving, sad, and funny story about love. It's hard to imagine (although impossible) what it would be like to age backwards. The levels and types of love displayed in this book are amazing. You won't be able to put it down.
Judith
I can't decide if I would have like this more or less if I had not seen "Benjamin Buttons". I am not sure why the movie purports to be based on a short story by Gatsby because this book seems too much like the movie to be coincidence. Regardless, it is more interesting in some ways because the love story is so much more complicated and the setting is San Francisco, rather than the whole world. The psychological aspects of aging backwards are explored in much greater detail through this narrative...more
liz
Okay, so it's the life story of a man who's born old, but baby-tiny, and as he gets bigger and older, he looks younger and younger. You're confusing it with that movie, aren't you? Well, I've seen the movie (and would love to discuss the tugboat-submarine scene with anyone who knows a lot about boats, BTW), and they are actually really different. "Max Tivoli" is more complicated, and his life takes very different turns (although there are some similarities in terms of the story arc about "the gi...more
Carolyn
Andrew Sean Greer's novel took a bit of time to weave its spell for me, but once the spell was cast, I was thoroughly enchanted. Greer conjures up a gorgeous, bustling turn-of-the-20th-century San Francisco, my beloved City, with details so precise and poignant that they will stay with you long after you are done reading. And Max Tivoli, born old and growing ever younger, faces terrible obstacles in love, but then, so do we all. "Be what they think you are," Max Tivoli's parents implore him at t...more
Claire Monahan
May 24, 2008 Claire Monahan rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: people who like romances
It's now been twenty-one hours since I finished this book, and my afterthoughts have definitely fluctuated since then. However, I think three stars is still a reasonable rating for Max Tivoli. As a solid character alone, though, that rating would be too generous.

I think I've come to my own conclusion that I'm much harsher on romance stories than any other genre of books. Rarely have I come upon one that has knocked me off my feet (The English Patient in particular), but I can't imagine that sto...more
J
It is a delicate task to write a book in which the main character repeatedly ruins the life of and frightens almost to death another major character and to make that protagonist sympathetic. You understand why he does what he does, you see how he fools himself into believing the consequences of his actions will not be bad as they truly unfold to be, and you watch with great empathy for both him and his victim. It is a balancing act to show such obsessive love as Andrew Sean Greer does in The Con...more
Cecilia
I launched into this book on the basis that I feel like I don’t read enough local authors. I definitely - in my head - support local artists, local authors, local press, etc., but sometimes it hard to put that into practice. So I did, and I was rewarded for my, you know, doing what I should be doing.

I knew the general plot going in, but the details of it still kind of hit you. However, once you get used to the conceit - the story of a man who is living life in reverse, born as an old man and gro...more
Bobby
Max Tivoli is born in 1870's San Francisco with the body of an old man which gets younger and younger as time goes on. With this simple and fantastical premise, Andrew Sean Greer manages to construct a very original and rather believable--all things considering--love story (one with gothic overtones). Most of the story is told sixty or so years later, i.e., when Max has the body of a young boy but the life experience and mind of an "old man," as he writes in his journal. Though the writing felt...more
Cassi
While the premise itself was sometimes frustrating, I was impressed that the author could get across very realistic frustrations of the main character.

I thought the book started off really bad and got much better. By the middle of the book, I enjoyed it.

I do think you need a bit of an idea of the story of the book before you read it- it makes it much more enjoyable.

Oh! And I have now come up with a new addition to "most annoying things about a book"
1. When the female character is so beautiful th...more
manyhighways
Max Tivoli begins life as a young man in an old man's body and his confessions tell what it is like to grow younger as he grows older. In other words, he gradually gets smaller, regressing from a man of 60-something to a young boy. It's an interesting way to frame a story, much less a love story, which is what this book is.

Max meets the love of his life, Alice, when he is about 16 but looks like an old man. This rather perverted situation ends with Alice and her mother moving away after Max decl...more
Shawn
Having known so much about this book before picking it up it is difficult to judge without pre-existing notions butting their way into my thought processes. Fortunately this is a very emotional book and doesn't lend itself well to analytical critique.

What stands out the most in my mind after reading this book, other than the fact that the main character ages backward, is the fervent obsession with love. It was so acute as to almost become obscene at times. That and the author's overuse of creati...more
Brynn Sugarman
I found this book to be completely magical! When "Benjamin Button" came out, I kept thinking that they must have based it on Greer's book, since both involve a man who ages backwards but it seems that there was simultaneous inspiration, since Greer denies having ever read Fitzgerald's story. Such a brilliant idea!

Greer's writing is beautiful: lyrical, poetic and perfect. He does a wonderful job of evoking the missed opportunities of the protagonist: the ironies and tragedy of loving the same wo...more
Erica Verrillo
Greer begins The Confessions of Max Tivoli with the statement "We are all the love of someone's life..." And with that tantalizing opening, Greer begins to unravel the tale, and the life, of Max Tivoli, a man who is born a wizened infant of 70 and then "ages" in reverse. The premise is, of course, far-fetched, but disbelief is suspended in the face of such sensitive and honest characterizations. Not only Max, whose confessions we are reading, but all the characters are portrayed with such depth...more
Marsha
A variation on the Benjamin Button tale, the protagonist ages backwards while his mind matures, just like any other human being. Max’s particular trial, however, is to fall helplessly in love with one woman and try to woo her at three different points in his life.

Filled with lyrical prose as he struggles to meet the demands of a society that sees him inappropriately as an old man, youth and little boy even while he yearns to connect with his beloved Alice, the book makes the reader reel with th...more
Ryan
***1/2

You might be surprised that this book preceded the move "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button", which was made after I read it (in 2008), and that the two works are unconnected. Except, of course, for the central plot idea, which Greer might have also borrowed from F. Scott Fitzgerald: a child is born in an old man's body and from there ages backwards.

Despite the sci-fi premise, the story is lyrical and character-focused. Greer, admirably, doesn't give Max any easy outs from his situation o...more
Laura Bang
This book drew me in from the first sentence ("We are each the love of someone's life.") and my interest never wavered for the entire story. Max is cursed with a rare disease: his body ages in reverse, so that as a newborn, he appears to be a tiny 70-year-old man, and as he grows older in mind and years his body grows younger in physical appearance. He is writing his "confessions" in his late-fifties, with the physical appearance of a 12-year-old boy. While this may sound like a weird premise fo...more
Paula
‘The Confessions of Max Tivoli’ tells the extraordinary story of Max, born in 1871 with the skin of an old man and ageing backwards, he may have a child’s body but he has an adult mind and soul. At the beginning, Max now has the body of a 12 year old and is aged 58 years old, Max at this point has lived a life of regrets and lost love.

Without giving to much away, ‘The Confessions of Max Tivoli’ shares one similarity with the book, ‘The Curious Case of Benjamin Button’ by F Scott Fitzgerald, the...more
Night
By this time, when most people knew the movie adapted from the Curious Case of Benjamin Button (F. Fitzgerald), I think some would have come to know this book too, for it's about a man aging backwards too.

I came across this book and was suddenly drawn to its strange plot. The narrative is beautiful--though a little bit too beau for me. (I prefer straight-forward, cut-to-the-heart narrative.) The writer gives good details on how the protagonist adapts to his new age in a certain period of time.

I...more
Dorie
This is quite simply a beautifully told, deeply moving story. Max Tivoli is born in 1871, wrinkled, palsied, and blind with the cataracts of a 70-year old man. Max, it seems, is a physical oddity -- his body will age backwards. Warned by his parents never to let anyone know the truth, Max follows "The Rule" most of his life, and considers himself cursed, a "Monster".
The story is told from Max’s point of view, as if writing an autobiographical history to his son Sammy. As the story starts out, M...more
Kit
OK, terrible book. I chose not to see the movie Benjamin Button because I knew I couldn't suspend disbelief enough to manage the premise. So, I should have known this was not the book for me; the whole concept of reverse aging made my brain hurt.

I'll tell you another thing that made my brain hurt: the writing of Andrew Sean Greer! I've not read anything else of his, and after reading Max Tivoli, I know I'll NEVER read anything else. The only reason I finished this one is because I only read it...more
Grace
I think people need to stop comparing this book to F. Scott Fitzgerald's short story, "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button." Yes, they are both stories about growing young while those around you grow old, but, like everything else in literature - it's all been done before. Most books you read will have similarities to something you've read - a certain type of conflict, unrequited love, coming of age, etc. And this book is about a man who grows young instead of old. I'm also slightly annoyed by t...more
Michelle Powers
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David
I tried to read this book over a year ago and just couldn't shake how much the voice of the character and the narration mimics Nabokov's character Humbert Humbert in Lolita. A trusted source encouraged me to try again, because they thought the prose was beautiful (in places) and that the story was well crafted.

So I tried again. And I'm still convinced that if you set out to intone the feel of HH in the way he makes appeals to his "dear readers" and to the object of his obsession, and the caregiv...more
Lauren
I'm not really sure if I liked this. I'm leaning towards no, I didn't.. It's just utterly boring. The main piece of the story, the romance between Max and Alice is, at best, shallow and, at worst, downright creepy and unhealthy. Max is totally selfish and obsessive towards her, to the point it's not cute, 'special' or loves young dream, it bordered on being sick. How desperate does someone have to be so obsessively jealous that they corner their spouse because they spoke to a member of the oppos...more
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Andrew Sean Greer (born 1970) is an American novelist and short story writer.

He is the bestselling author of The Story of a Marriage, which The New York Times has called an “inspired, lyrical novel,” and The Confessions of Max Tivoli, which was named one of the best books of 2004 by the San Francisco Chronicle and received a California Book Award.

The child of two scientists, Greer studied writing...more
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“People always say the greatest love story in the world is Romeo and Juliet. I don't know. At fourteen, at seventeen, I remember, it takes over your whole life." Alice was worked up now, her face flushed and alive, her hands cutting through the night-blooming air. "You think about nobody, nothing else, you don't eat or sleep, you just think about this . . . it's overwhelming. I know, I remember. But is it love? Like how you have cheap brandy when you're young and you think it's marvelous, just so elegant, and you don't know, you don't know anything . . . because, you've never tasted anything better. You're fourteen."

It was no time for lying. "I think it's love"

You do?"

I think maybe it's the only true love."

She was about to say something, and stopped herself. I'd surprised her, I suppose. "How sad if you're right," she said, closing her eyes for a moment. "Because we never end up with them. How sad and stupid if that's how it works.”
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