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    <body><![CDATA[This book was so.. therapeutic.  It understood exactly what I was going through.  The author himself had to endure through such a tramatic tragedy that you can't help but trust him as he eventually got out of his pit.  Even though it's a &quot;secular&quot; book, it had profound truths.. and all tru...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/497309">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I highly recommend this book to anyone who is going through a divorce or death of a loved one. It really helped me get my mind straight after my Ex left me. ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was terribly personal for me and made me work through the pain of true heartbreak. Once I had truthfully and 100% completed the steps in this books, I felt I had the capability to move on in my life! This is a must read for anyone out there that has had their heart completely and utterly r...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56825476">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This book addressed way more than just break-ups. Gray helps readers get at the roots of past hurt so that you can get past it and not bring those things into future relationships. He also addressed the roots of things like why we make ourselves too busy. I'll be mulling over insights learned here f...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/81485165">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[All I have to say is ladies you need to have this book in your collection of books its a good guide for us as ladies in moving forward espicially after aa painful break up or losing someone we love  who has died.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[It was amazing to read this book after a difficult and sad break up! it helped to see things more clearly and to find some explanations to the mental processes we go through this time.]]></body>
    
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