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    <body><![CDATA[my guy friend gave this to me, I didn't like it. Couldn't finish it. I read this sentence in the book where it said women should not give guys directions if they are lost or tell the guy he is lost. Hello are we supposed to drive around all night getting more lost??? with these gas prices...uh no!]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Feb 07 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Another informative and helpful book from Dr. Gray, though this one was a lot more uneven.  The first half was great, and once again taught me that I've pretty much been doing everything wrong dating-wise in terms of laying a strong foundation for a long-term relationship.  His discussion of the fiv...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/13785189">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[An interesting communication book. It does, however, take some patience to sit through the pages. I agree with the author's logic/theory but I do not agree with the way he puts it. Yes, I'll be nonchalant if I want to stay in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship, for the sake of so...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/44074075">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[A friend of mine recommended I read this book to get a better understanding of why I was so different from my better half.  Although I was totally in love and happy, I felt that he was moving substantially slower than me.  I read the book thinking it was going to hold the answers to all my questions...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42566727">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[After my seven-year marriage dissolved, I felt I needed something to get me in tune to the dating scene of the new era. A friend of mine had suggested this book so I read it with speculation and hesitation. I am glad that I did because I enjoyed it. <br/><br/>John Gray, the well known author of th...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28214817">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Too bad I hadn't read this book before my last relationship. Maybe it would have lasted long enought for me to figure out what I thought of the guy! But better late than never. I found this book to be very helpful and to have a lot of practical advice, especially for a late bloomer like myself. I re...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/80763097">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Mar 04 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[It's nice to actually think about dating sometimes, to not just believe that it's this magical organic process of getting swept off yr feet.  He breaks down our approaches pretty simply: it's more satisfying to please a woman than to be pleased.  I can roll with that.  Here's to courtship.<br/><br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/16969202">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Very repetitive. I think you will find yourself bored with this read if you've already read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. It does have some helpful hints and tips, but there's a lot of things in this book that I previously read in Men are from Mars...]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Jun 27 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Definitely worth gleaning through. I have never read mars/venus books, but there were definitely some ideas and models put forward that were illuminating. Not the best writing, but simple. I will probably read it again or even get my own copy.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[cowo dan cewe mungkin memang dua &quot;spesies&quot; yang berbeda. Makanya kalo pengen sukses ngedate kayanya buku ini oke buat referensi untuk lebih memahami pasangan.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Sebenarnya saya agak kurang sreg baca nih buku. Coz saya memang bukan penganut pacaran. Hanya saja ada banyak pelajaran sih yang bisa kita ambil tentang memahami karakter pria dan wanita yang emang bener2 beda tapi bisa nyatu. Sapa tau bermanfaat ntar saat kita menjalin hubungan dg pria (disini saya...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40002834">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[GREAT! the stages are what made this so valuable to read.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I like John Gray's collection of books. He reminds me of Dr. Phil before it became sensationalized and Delilah Luke from the Delilah Show on the radio stations. The authors may not necessary be champions of the topics of their discussion, but they bring insight, hope, help, and joy to their audience...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/15322691">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Oh my gosh! I read this book about 6 years ago (I'm married now) and it changed the way I dated. I stopped doing the stupid stuff that girls can do when dating. I've loaned this book out to many people, some of which it's helped quite a bit. If you're willing to accept advice, I recommend this book....<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/22567488">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I couldn't finish the book. 2 plus chapters in, and it made me so angry. Yes there were some good points, but then again, I don't need to buy a book to tell me these pointers, my amazing friends have told me some of these things. I don't believe in &quot;soul mates&quot; or &quot;soul love&quot; so ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/41887163">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a book all single women should have on their bookshelf.  I was amazed how many of my different relationships followed so many of the stages.  It helped me realized the things I was doing wrong right from the start.  I don't know if reading it changed anything I was doing but it was at least ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/17461495">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[while i realize it's necessary to read relationship books with a grain of salt, i found this one to be pretty informative. to speak in general terms, it was interesting to read about the 5 stages of dating, and how men and women are in different situations. nothing too life-shattering, but definitel...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/34964085">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Single or not...every woman ( I wish men would read this) should read this...good insight to dating and interacting with the opposite sex.<br/>We could all use a little help understanding men (and ourselves for that matter)...this book teaches you a lot.<br/><br/>A quick read...Thin book, and I f...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/17517004">more...</a>]]></body>
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