The Nanny Diaries

The Nanny Diaries (Nanny #1)

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Wanted:
One young woman to take care of four-year-old boy.
Must be cheerful, enthusiastic and selfless-bordering on masochistic
Must relish sixteen-hour shifts with a deliberately nap-deprived pre-schooler
Must love getting thrown up on, literally and figuratively, by everyone in his family
Must enjoy the delicious anticipation of ridiculously erratic pay
Mostly, must love being
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Hardcover, 320 pages
Published March 13th 2002 by St. Martin's Press
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F Macias-Mossman
It is one long anecdote disguised as a novel. A lot like "Devil Wears Prada," it is just a laundry list of incidents while working for the shallow, designer-clad perfectionist. It reads more like an article in Us Weekly, In Touch, and or the Mecca of all celebrity rag mag's, People.

What it is clearly the flaw in novels like "Nanny Diaries," and "Devil Wears Prada" is that the protagonist fumbles through the novel lacking any goal or purpose. Instead, these idealists, cute but not too cute young...more
Jennifer Holland
I read this during a series of fifteen-minute breaks at my job. In the interest of full disclosure, I have a bit of a grudge against any book packaged as chick-lit, the literary equivalent of low-cal fast food. However, I thoroughly enjoyed both The Girls Guide to Hunting and Fishing and Prep, and understand that genuinely good fiction is sometimes whored out with candy-colored covers so they'll sell, and I'm always happy to be taken by surprise when that's the case. Not so with this book. Now,...more
Stacey
Mar 31, 2008 Stacey rated it 1 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: HA!
Recommended to Stacey by: my mother-in-law
This book was a gift while I was working as a nanny. At first it was funny, with all of the little observations that all nannies make- mainly about a certain, small subsection of women who hire nannies- the wealthy, entitled, narcissistic bitches.

As the story progresses, it becomes obvious that the children are the losers, the parents have no business being parents, and the nannies do nothing to help make the family a better place. Instead they whine about mistreatment, go along with abuse, and...more
Cheri
Awful. I found the plot (if you can call it that) predictable and unimaginative and the characters flat. BO-ring. Wish I could get those hours back of my life. Can't believe they made a movie out of it. Although, if there are as many people watching "American Idol" as they say there are, I'm sure there's a ready audience for the movie.
Madeline
If you must insist on reading chick lit, I recommend this one. There's a romantic subplot and lots of shopping and snarky best-friend banter, of course, but the main relationship in the story is between the main character (called Nan or Nanny by everyone in the story) and her four-year-old charge, Grayer.
Both authors used to be nannies in New York City, and you can tell they really enjoyed venting their frustration about past employers in this book. There's the controlling, neurotic mother, the...more
K.D. Oliveros
Tata J recommended this book to me saying that he enjoyed this very much. This even came with two other books about nannies - WHITE HOUSE NANNIES and YOU'LL NEVER NANNY IN THIS TOWN AGAIN. So, after just reading the tearjerker in the love story of Van and Davy, I thought I needed to have something very light. Something that will make me laugh.

And laugh I did. In the first 10 pages of this book, I was laughing at the wee hours of a Sunday morning. The Interview part is really funny. I also like t...more
Cate
This is a Reading Good Books review.

Confession: I’ve known of The Nanny Diaries but only this past month have I watched the movie and read the book. And I have to say, I loved both. (I’m not a huge Scarlett Johansson fan but I am of Chris Evans.) Both were funny and fascinating at the same time.

This was extra fun for me because I spent some time in New York and the place where I was staying was a few blocks away from Park Avenue, the main setting of this novel. Everyday, I walked Museum Mile an...more
Amy G.
I absolutely LOVED this book!! OMG..I wanted to kill the wicked Mrs. X! I wish Nan would've had more back bone!! Wonderful & entertaining! Highly recommends!!
CJ
During summers when I was in college, I did a lot of babysitting. One summer, I filled in for a family with three children between au pairs. This experience was eye-opening to me. Never before had I been asked on a babysitting job to take the dog to the vet, do laundry, or make a salad for the parents to eat when they arrived home. I also wasn't accustomed to getting paid a weekly rate, regardless of the number of hours I put in. It was also the first time I'd had an eight-year-old charge tell m...more
Leftbanker
I suppose that I am one of the few heterosexual males who actually read The Nanny Diaries, or at least part of it before I wanted to make my own guillotine and start lopping off the heads of America’s vulgar ultra-rich. The only reason I tried to read it was because I was going through a phase when I lived in Seattle of noticing the books that people were reading on the bus, or in coffee shops, or where ever. I wanted to get a feel for what folks were buying. A very disheartening exercise at tim...more
Candy Boisvert
Jun 19, 2008 Candy Boisvert rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: Nannies
Recommended to Candy by: No one
Title: The Nanny Diaries
Author: Emma McLaughlin and Nicola Kraus
Copyright date: 2002
Publisher: St. Martin's Griffin
How many pages: 306 pgs
How long it took me to read: 10 days
Category: Fiction
I learned about this book from: Seeing it around Chapter's and then being released as a movie

This book was purchased at: McNeely and Robinson
This book is: for people who are thinking about becoming a Nanny
Other books by these authors: Dedication and Citizen girl
Favorite characters: Grayer, Nanny, Harvard Hot...more
Maria
Podría decirse que es un libro extrovertido: personajes casi anónimos como "Nanny" o los "señores X", de los que apenas se intuyen los sentimientos, protagonizando anécdotas en presente llenas de colorido, con un exceso de marcas comerciales y otros elementos de cultura pop (así como frases completas en mayúsculas, con letras repetidas diez veces para indicar que se grita y muchas exclamaciones).
Lo que sí me gusta del libro son los momentos en que se olvida de criticar al pijerío de Manhattan y...more
Camie
I picked this book up because I wanted to see the movie. I hate to see a movie that's based on a book if I haven't read the book.

The Nanny Diaires appeals to a wide audience, I think, for one reason: We've all had a dead-end job with a demanding boss we hate, frustrated because we're waiting for life to begin. And this is exactly what's happened with Nan. The authors show a glimpse into a richer-than-any-person-should-concievably-be New York household. The collision of the very different world...more
Meredith
3.5/5
The story of a nanny for the “elite” in NYC. I liked this book b/c I could relate to many of the upsurd things from my experiencing baby-sitting. I also could relate to the unhappiness and excessive time/worry put into insignificant things (and loss of perspective)…..not to mention the non-existent life of a parent despite having children. This was an easy and entertaining read, simply written by a former nanny. Unfortunately, I didn’t have a ton of respect for the nanny….nothing negative,...more
Maddy Pertiwi
Nannie adalah seorang mahasiswi yang hendak mencari pekerjaan sebagai pengasuh anak. Di New York, banyak sekali keluarga kaya yang membutuhkan pengasuh anak, salah satunya adalah keluarga X. Nannie bertemu dengan Mrs. X secara tidak sengaja. Mrs. X pun menawari Nannie pekerjaan untuk mengasuh anaknya, Grayer. Setelah menjadi pengasuh Grayer, Nannie sadar bahwa anak ini sangat kesepian karena Mr. X yang terlalu sibuk berbisnis dan Mrs. X yang selalu bergaul dan tak peduli anaknya. Kehidupan Nanni...more
Esther
This book was incredibly absorbing, but leaves the reader with mixed messages. I think it wants to be a penetrating exploration of the intersection between social class and child-raising, but in a way it ends up being about the difference between upper middle class and upper class, and trying to make more out of that difference than there really is. It could have been a study of progressive psychological subjection of Nanny by her employer, which was one of the most striking and horrifying parts...more
Kimberly
I must say didn't you feel like slapping Mrs. X and shaking Nanny!
The abuse of power by the richy rich Mrs. X was amazing, even more so was Nanny taking it and staying.
It was touching seeing the relationship between her and 'Grover'. The book left me feeling sad for him and his mother constantly changing his caretakers at the faintest perceived slight.
Lina
This is like The Devil Wears Prada lite. It was interesting to see how "the other side" lives, but at this point we know they are a bunch of rich jerks who do nothing but sit around basking in the smell of their own farts. I felt for Nan who was being treated like a slave, but honestly for what is being charged she is the best paid slave ever. Would have never read this book if it hadn't been for class and honestly could not recommend it for anyone except major chick lit fans and fans of The Dev...more
Karen Powell
This book is a modern-day "Agnes Grey," depicting the trials and humiliations of a poor, young woman who takes up caring for the wealthy elite's children. There's a contrived love story thrown in for extra measure, but it only serves to break up the intensity of the X's bad behavior. Mr. X burns through trophy wives and couldn't be bothered to care for his son. Mrs. X is determined to stay thin, young, rich, and Mr. X's current wife. Where does that leave her son Grayer? Spoiled with material th...more
Alison Looney
This book mirrors The Devil Wears Prada, offering a glimpse into the world of Upper East Side WASPs. Like DWP, we see this opulent lifestyle through a college aged woman who grudgingly agrees to work for the upper crust in hopes of improving her career outlook. But it turns out rich people are rude, inconsiderate, manipulative, and really, really bad parents.

I might have rated this book a little higher if the parents hadn't been so awful. Not once in the story did they seem more than dimly aware...more
Suzanne
I think the reason I liked this book so much is because I could identify with it so well! Although I have never lived in NYC (sorry Patty!) I have been babysitting since I was 13...which I feel has given me a healthy respect for a worthy foe...children. Spawn. Hatchlings. Whatever you want to call them. The more you love them, the more pissed off they can make you. I always tell my students I love them enough to hate them. They dont get it, but if all the curses I have rained upon them ever come...more
Michelle
I've had this one a while... a long while. Almost used it as my pick for a book club I was in, but had heard it was not so great in the beginning. So wrong.

This book is hilarious! Laugh out loud hilarious!

The authors are former nannies turned authors, who obviously have seen their fair share of of the nanny business!

The novel follows (the aptly named) Nanny through her final year in school, and her job as a nanny to the X's son, 4 year old Grayer. They live on Park Avenue complete with "La Courn...more
Sonja
At first I thought I liked this book. It was well-written and emotionally touching. On the other hand, when I finished it, I was very sad for all the Grayers of the world, and a little bit angry about which people claim to be parents and which people really ARE parents. But I guess that was the point, wasn't it?

But then I thought about it some more, and decided that there were other reasons why this book was not fulfilling for me. There was absolutely no character development. Nanny was the same...more
Laura
The story is about a young woman who is a nanny (duh). The first chapter threw me a bit because it kind of put you in the deep end. You weren't really introduced to the main character, more what it was like to be a nanny. This didn't draw me in as i find a good story is made up of great characters (whether they are the good guy or the bad guy) and i wasn't really getting to know anyone! However after the first chapter you start to get to know Nanny and after that i was hooked and i couldn't put...more
Manami
Well, Devil Wears Prada it was meant to be, but Devil Wears Prada it ain't. This was written as if it were non-fiction--which it isn't. I expect a non-fiction novel or memoir might be non-structured, but for a fiction piece to be as meandering and random as this is just bad writing. I found the main character to be uncharacteristically spineless and sometimes a little bad at her job...I am confused as to why this girl never stands up for herself. Sure, she needs the job, but surely she can find...more
Su Nita
I was recommended this book as a look into the lives of rich mommies and their nannies. Hmmm.... It started off as hilarious and very interesting, the interview, the unbelievable instructions from Mrs.X... until its starts to go downhill (at least for me), when Nanny (what a creative moniker!(THAT WAS SARCASM btw)) turns out to be a white middle-class student struggling to pay her rent in NYC, she doesn't mention how she pays for her education, maybe her parents do?

The book didn't really take of...more
RJ
When that line which borders our job away from our personal life begins to thin out, there are some things that make us ignore the intrusion and just go through with it. For Nanny, it was the desperate need to safeguard the welfare of a four year old she had grown to love and truly care for. The question is, as human as she is, how much can she take in until it breaks her apart?

Nanny accepts a job for the X family to take care of little Grayer. With years of child care experience and being a cur...more
Ahlorha Brooks
this review originally posted at a-thousand-ships.blogspot.com

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The Nanny Diaries has never failed to make me smile, no matter how many times I re-read it. The absurdities of the X family and the acts that Nanny goes to to please them are so hilarious and outrageous, one cannot help but chuckle.

And while the book is quite amusing, there is sweet little Grayer. He is so adorable, whether he’s locking Nanny out of the apartment or sitting on her lap, helping her turn pages of a bo...more
Alexine Fleck
Man oh man did I hate Mrs. X. She reminded me of a clueless, indulged, obnoxious rich woman I once had to deal with. Same crap. Same self-serving narrative to justify ridiculously abusive behavior. Only my Mrs. X was Mrs. Deignan, and the baby was a horse. But that's another story.

The thing I kept thinking about was how people who have lots of unearned power use the hard earned-language and critique of those on the margins to further their own ends. It's like Christians whining about religious...more
Caro
I was shocked that I enjoyed this as much as I did, I don't normally read books like this but after reading A Clash of Kings, I was looking for something lighter to read before jumping into the third book in Martins series. I received a copy of The Nanny Diaries at a local book giveaway for free and thought why not? I read it in about 4 days, and after couldn't stop wondering about poor Greyer and Nan, I loved the comic moments in the novel but the relationship between Nan and Greyer really got...more
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