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The Confession
Hardcover, 353 pages
Published September 19th 2006 by Regan
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Carrie Solinger
Mar 04, 2012 Carrie Solinger rated it did not like it
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Jun 08, 2013 Louise rated it really liked it
This book is a personal narrative and a description of New Jersey politics. It's sad that the circumstances of McGreevey's life forced this resignation, because the list of his achievements (early childhood education, insurance reform, tax redistribution, land conservation, and in the end, campaign finance reform) shows that he provided good governance within the realm of the possible.

McGreevey gives insight into the life of a statewide political leader. None of your life, nor that of your spous
Iris Robinson
Apr 24, 2013 Iris Robinson rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir, audiobooks
Really interesting! I vaguely remember McGreevey's on-air confession, wayyyy before equality became a mainstream issue. It was enlightening to listen to his story, written in 2006, 7 years later. It shows you how far society has come in terms of LGBT rights and our views on it. Back in 2004, this was a BIG deal. A confession of an affair is of course still a big deal, but now there are many politicians who were openly gay when elected.

I felt more sympathy for McGreevey concerning his particular
Nov 02, 2015 Edgar rated it liked it
Shelves: bio
Comes. Full. Circle.

I started reading this biographic book back in November on and off, and finally, I've reached to the point of understanding on James McGreevey's plight this summer.

It's a testament to any individual facing obstacles in life compounded with hiding one's own true self. As a reader, you're placed in a sympathetic and less judgmental mindset. But we are all human and some of us tend to judge; I do. Fair enough.

Overall, it's an honest and poignant story given in a selective pers
Jun 01, 2009 Chepita rated it really liked it
After reading this book I felt sadness for him and glad that he finally found the courage to be himself. The years he had to live a lie and hide his sexual orientation were sad and painful. It taught me that sometimes as parents we automatically assume our children are going to like/love the opposite sex, but we don't know. I learned how to better approach the subject of homosexuallity and sex in general with my children. I don't wish the pain and suffering he felt growing up on anyone. It's a v ...more
Dec 17, 2008 AuthorsOnTourLive! rated it it was amazing
In August 2004, New Jersey Governor James McGreevey made history when he stepped before microphones and declared, "My truth is that I am a gay American," and announced his resignation. The story made international headlines - but what led to that moment was a human and political drama more complex and fascinating than anyone knew. Now, in this extraordinarily candid memoir, McGreevey shares his story of a life of ambition, moral compromise and redemption.

We met James McGreevey when he visited th
Phil Williams
Apr 09, 2010 Phil Williams rated it liked it
There is a great deal of good explanation of pay-for-play politics and the book goes into great detail of what campaining is like for a politician in todays America. I had a hard time liking McGreevey though because of his self loathing which is because of his Catholic upbringing. Nothing spreads hate like religion and if he had of been raised in a less religious household he wouldn't have wasted 48 years learing to like himself.
Oct 17, 2007 Larry rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: anyone
I was not expecting to like this book and ended up being pleasantly surprised by it.The first part is very politically and religiously involved. He was a strong Catholic and really was politically driven.He talks about both his marriages,his children,his parents,his annonomous sex adventures,crushes,unrequited loves,his affair with golen,his road to recovery and search for happiness. Well written and I felt very honest.
Feb 03, 2008 Hillary rated it liked it
I read his ex-wife's book, and thought I'd read his to get a balanced picture of what happened. Overall I thought the book was good. Gave a lot of the "backstory" into New Jersey politics, which was interesting. Someone else's review had said there weren't as many life lessons as they had hoped, and I would agree with that comment. That said, I am glad he is now living his own truth and hope he is enjoying life to its fullest.
Apr 17, 2009 Therese rated it it was ok
Shelves: memoir
He remembers things differently than his wife did in her book. And, illumination, he barely mentions her in this book, as if she was furniture. Though he never really says anything bad about her.

I feel for him, how hard it was to choke back his real self his whole life, how scared he was. But he did SO much damage to other people, unneeded, selfish damage.

Yeah, he's still a dick. But now he's kind of a sad, pitiful dick.
Jun 02, 2010 Pablo rated it it was amazing
With breathtaking honesty and detail, McGreevey tells a story that goes well beyond what the reader might at first expect. Reading his memoir has left me not only perplexed at an incredibly interesting, public coming out story but has also taught me much about the fascinating inside life of state politics.
Oct 01, 2014 Cbernard3 rated it it was amazing
The political behind-the-scenes was vividly portrayed in this autobiography. I found myself cheering for Jim McGreevy when he was able to settle down with a husband. I hope he still keeps in tabs with the New Jersey political machine.
Mar 12, 2008 Yak rated it it was ok
Interesting both from the perspective of politics at the state level, and of course McGreevey's struggles with himself as a devout Catholic and closeted gay man. Not worth reading again, but it should be interesting to New jersey residents and gays.
Jan 02, 2011 Drianne rated it liked it
Very interesting read, although the apologetics for what were ultimately his own choices are a bit wearying. Still, a fascinating look at what ambition and fear can do to an otherwise decent person. Especially recommended for those interested in NJ politics.
Kevin L.
Jun 21, 2008 Kevin L. rated it really liked it
The former governor of New Jersey and his estrange wife are currently battling our their divorce in court. This is an insightful telling of how the desire to be someone we aren't causes many problems within our own and the lives of others.
Nov 13, 2008 Florence rated it liked it
What a pity that this man had to disguise his true nature in order to achieve the political career that he strived for.
Jun 04, 2007 Matthew rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: Anyone interested in campaign politics or homos
Lots of information on campaigning and what its like to hold a powerful position as a closeted gay man. Not as many "life lessons" as I would have wanted out of a book like this, but still good.
Apr 13, 2013 Elaine rated it it was amazing
I found Jim McGreevey inspiring and brave.
Sep 23, 2009 Jean rated it it was amazing
True story of the former NJ Governor coming out as a gay man. Very interesting.
Oct 15, 2011 Bridget rated it it was ok
This was an interesting book, but not enough personal anecdotes in it. Too professionally written, we want to see more emotion. Flat and boring at some points.
Apr 18, 2007 Samantha rated it really liked it
Very personal & revealing.
Annie Mesaros
Mar 29, 2012 Annie Mesaros rated it really liked it
A very thoughtful memoir! Loved it both times.
Apr 27, 2009 Keith rated it it was ok
Definitely can relate to the storyline (DUH!), but found much of the "filler" regarding politics sooooo boring!
C.J. Edmunds
Jun 05, 2011 C.J. Edmunds rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: bio, audio-books, owned
Late perhaps as it may, this is how people are when they decide to live their life based on Truth.

Live it so. Because....IT gets Better!
Jill deResendes
Apr 02, 2008 Jill deResendes rated it liked it
If you read Silent Partner then you must read his side.
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James Edward "Jim" McGreevey is an American Democratic politician. He served as the 52nd Governor of New Jersey from January 15, 2002, until November 15, 2004, when he left office three months after admitting that he had had an extramarital affair with a male employee. Upon publicly revealing his homosexuality on August 12, 2004, McGreevey became the first and, to date, the only openly gay state g ...more
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