Being Wrong: Adventures in the Margin of Error
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Being Wrong: Adventures in the Margin of Error

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To err is human. Yet most of us go through life assuming (and sometimes insisting) that we are right about nearly everything, from the origins of the universe to how to load the dishwasher. In Being Wrong, journalist Kathryn Schulz explores why we find it so gratifying to be right and so maddening to be mistaken. Drawing on thinkers as varied as Augustine, Darwin, Freud, G...more
Paperback, 405 pages
Published January 4th 2011 by Ecco (first published June 8th 2010)
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David
I am not a particularly violent person. But there were so many places in this book where I wanted to sit the author down, smack her briskly and scream at her "What were you thinking? It started with the very first word in the book, freshly minted for the occasion by the author. You read it and experience an involuntary recoil of revulsion at the sheer tin-eared ugliness of it. For God's sake, Kathryn Schulz, please don't title your opening chapter "Wrongology". If the first word in your book alr...more
Will Byrnes
I have a very strong memory of the day my youngest was born. I can still summon the piercing scent of puddled broken water in a middle room of the second floor of our house. Problem is that my daughter was born before we moved into that house. Yet I, and hopefully everyone else who comes up short in a quest for perfection, can take solace from this outstanding book.

Schulz coins the term “wrongology” as a tag for her view that being wrong can, in the scheme of things, be a pretty good thing, tha...more
Jane
This is really a must-read. Do you realize how little we can trust ourselves to perceive the truth? This is a great analysis of how we get things wrong, why it matters, and why errors can be a good thing in the journey of life. Plus, its analysis of Hamlet is spot on. I mean, if the only evidence of murder you have is a ghost's message, don't you think you'd better try to vet the facts a bit before taking justice in your own hands?-g
Ed
Absolutely loved this book, which really does uncover the extent to which we deny our mistakes and how much we would gain by admitting them, at least to ourselves. There is also an art to understanding that doubt is good so long as it does not paralyze us.

The author found that when she told people that she was writing about mistakes, they all said: 'Oh I have made tons of mistakes in my life'. She would reply: 'Oh it would really help my research if you could tell me about a few of them.' And...more
Kate
Interesting how polarizing this book is. I think an open mind and a willingness to be wrong are helpful as you read; there's a lot to be gotten from the psychological delving. An excellent examination of the psychological and physiological aspects of "being wrong." The first 1/2-2/3 of the book are dedicated to explaning WHY we are wrong, and why we usually think we are right! The rest of the book talks about acknowledging when we are wrong and why being wrong can is a good thing, and indeed an...more
Reese
My copy of BEING WRONG: ADVENTURES IN THE MARGIN OF ERROR was a gift -- a Goodreads giveaway. My being wrong -- occasionally, frequently, perhaps consistently -- is a "gift" from our Creator and/or my creators. The ways in which I experience being wrong are probably also "gifts" from my creators, teachers, friends, et al. As a parent, I have passed on the "gift" of intermittent or perpetual wrongness and promoted certain reactions to being wrong. When my son was a young child, he would respond t...more
Cheryl in CC NV
Ok, I'm not done yet, and I will finish, but I've struggled with one of Schulz's major premises and in order to be able to read the rest of the book I have to say now: One cannot be "wrong" about *opinions.* for example: I may get a divorce from the man I fell in love with 10 years ago, but I was not "wrong" to have spent those years with him. Regret won't get me anywhere - it's irrelevant. Instead it makes much more sense to say "I've changed my mind." Or: I may believe that people who believe...more
Sarah
Being Wrong. Kathryn Schulz. 2010. Ecco. 400 pages. ISBN 9780061176043.

Being Wrong is an exploration of how and why making errors is a crucial, natural and necessary component of being human, and how we must embrace being wrong to grow as people.

Falling into the psychology versus scientific realm, Being Wrong provides an interesting history of wrongness using numerous examples of pop-culture incidents; if you can consider an intricate look at being wrong an interesting subject, that is.

Schulz's...more
Jim
Think about the last time you were wrong. Can you remember it? I could, after taking some time to think about it. I thought my car had been stolen, and had reported it stolen, before I realized that I'd left it in the parking lot of a nearby Safeway and walked home with my groceries by mistake. I wonder if the police dispatchers still laugh at that one, or if the incident's been replaced in their memories by others like it that happen a dozen times a day.

That's one story of my being wrong. I hav...more
Elizabeth Hunter
I found Being Wrong slow going, not because I wasn't enjoying it--although I do think that the first couple of chapters are the most dense--but because I needed to stop and digest and think about how what Schulz says resonates with my own experiences.

One of the things I enjoyed most about the book, was Schulz' examination and concise rendering of questions I've often pondered. She looks at why we're wrong so often, why we have trouble admitting that and go to great lengths to stay on the "right...more
Jack Hart
This is, to my way of thinking, an extraordinary book about a great topic. Although, if you're not an intellectually ambitious person the book may seem to have, as several Good Reads reviewers opined, too damn many words.

But I like Kathryn Schulz's prose. She knows her western canon and cites it deftly. In the course of elaborating her ideas about the experience of wrongness she'll even uncover a novel point here and there about the literature and philosophy she so clearly loves.

I also like tha...more
Chris Walker
Great stuff. This is what writers are for. To set down in language what you feel but can't necessarily enunciate well yourself. Take this example: "Fortunately, we don't get stuck in this place of pure wrongness very often. And we don't get stuck there via the collapse of small or medium-size beliefs. We get stuck there when we are really wrong about really big things - beliefs so important and far-reaching that we can neither easily replace them nor easily live without them. If our trivial beli...more
Cathy
I don't know about you but I'm rarely, if ever, wrong. No, really! I'm almost always right and the same is probably true of you. As Kathryn Schulz, author of Being Wrong; Adventures in the Margin of Error, explains, it's almost hardwired in humans to dislike being mistaken. Being wrong, even about minor things, makes almost everyone so incredibly, throughly uncomfortable that we often can't admit to ourselves that we've made a mistake. Yet, being wrong is also a key to growth and essential to ou...more
Stewart
Over many years I have grappled with the related issues of error, ignorance, and uncertainty. When measured against what there is to know, what we humans do in fact know is in the order of zero-point-several zeroes. No matter how well-read, well-traveled, or well-informed we think we are, our ignorance is immense. We have to make decisions – most trivial, many of them life-changing, a few of them life-and-death – based on a trifling amount of information, the vast majority second- or third-hand...more
Nikitabanana
I consider myself the consummate fuckup. Even when I succeed in accomplishing something difficult, once the warmth of self-congratulatory celebration dissipates I can’t help thinking about every screw up and each way they’ll likely weigh me down during the course of my life the rest of my life and preclude me from divinity and the promises of pennies from heaven. I know a lot of people who think like this while we know that this manner of thinking is stupid and counterproductive, every time we t...more
George Musser
A worthwhile read that gives me much to think about in my own life. Schulz's broad point is that the fear of committing an error is often worse than the error itself -- it fills us with a fear of exploration and prevents us from acknowledging, correcting, and learning from our mistakes. The risk of error is often a necessary tradeoff for creativity and growth. I think Schulz convincingly makes her case. I vow to ease up on screwups, whether mine or others'. To err is human; to forgive, humane.

Bu...more
Kate
Two truths readily acknowledged: being right feels oh so good, and being wrong feels just awful. Nuff said? No! As it turns out, there's a lot more to be said, and Ms. Schulz says it quite elegantly, entertainingly, and movingly.

With examples ranging from the mundane to the tragic, she carefully explains precisely how errors come about and why we feel about them as we do. Along the way, she makes the point that error not only has the capability to embarrass us, but also can have the power to te...more
Manuel Palacio
i love this book so far. one of my favorite is the quote: “The fact remains that getting people right is not what living is all about anyway. It's getting them wrong that is living, getting them wrong and wrong and wrong and then, on careful reconsideration, getting them wrong again. That's how we know we're alive: we're wrong.”
― Philip Roth
Doug Cheever
From within the design and advertising fields you hear a lot about making mistakes (quickly and often) in reference to prototyping and/or rapid iteration within project workflows. That is not what this book is about. It does not try to approve or disapprove of making mistakes during an intentional brain dump (or storm). It does not try to repackage any established wisdom heard at a marketing conference. This book should not be pigeon-holded as "self-help" or "business" even though it may, by cha...more
Lauren Monsey Nagel
Being Wrong: Adventures in the Margin of Error
When I first got this book I actually didn't think it was going to be a book that I would enjoy. I'm not even sure why that is because I have just been nothing but fascinated, especially so at all the research this book must have required to write. The amount of work in putting the book together is not lost on me. My guess would be that this is one of those books that a college professor would assign to his class. I read it through once, and then rer...more
Steve Penner
"Being Wrong" was a wonderful and fascinating plunge into the world of wrongology. It covers a wide-ranging host of topics on error, how it happens and particularly how we respond to being wrong. Her basic premise is that there are two models of error. One model propounds error as something to be avoided at all costs as it provides no benefits, only embarrassment and shame. The second, which Schulz celebrates, is that error is common and natural. It's benefit is that we can learn, grow and chang...more
William
This is an impressive and surprisingly enjoyable book. While Schulz is a journalist, the work seems closer to scholarly than journalistic, though it has a lighter touch than scholarship typically achieves. In reading it, don't skip the foot- and endnotes. There is often good stuff there.

I experienced "Being Wrong" on three levels, and it works exceptionally well on two of them. To begin with, Schulz makes a compelling case that being wrong is by and large more a constructive thing than a negativ...more
Forrest
It would be easy to simply say that reading Being Wrong is a small but powerful life changing experience. It very much is, but just saying that is a bit of a cop-out. The book is a brilliantly written examination of the concept of error from every perspective imaginable. Schulz explores wrongness as an outside observer, a philosopher, a victim and a compassionate friend. By so fully embracing the idea on every level, she synthesizes a unified thesis from many disparate parts and supports every c...more
Abdulrahman
so yes.

this is NOT a light read, as a start.. considering that I had to translate/comprehend/critic the ideas all at once. It kinda took me 2 hours to finish 30 pages or so.. *english is my 2nd language here*..
The book starts so well into its core concept and it keeps going so thoroughly discussing the ideas and concepts. sometimes it goes all the way to the core of philosophy and logic and all these mind twisting concepts of error and wrong and emotion and perception..
At other chapters you fee...more
Peter
Right about wrongness, except where it's wrong

The author brings up some fascinating ideas involving beliefs and self-image, at both the individual and community scales. She observes that people never think they're wrong, that it can take considerable effort just to consider the possibility of being wrong. I like the way that the author explores the processes of an individual changing their mind, and of a society changing its norms. For me, these parts of the book have made a positive contributio...more
Carlene
I'm sticking this on my "read" shelf, even though I didn't finish it.

I'm intrigued of the idea of the book, from a completely psychological standpoint. However, I don't know if the book is written above my intelligence, if I'm not understanding some of what I'm reading because I'm in a medicinal fog, or some combination of the two. I've found it really hard to focus on this book, due to the fact that I don't know all of the terms she mentions. Unfortunately it seems to happen so frequently, that...more
Karina
I won this book in Goodreads First Reads. Odds: 55 copies available, 1006 people requesting.

There is something wrong with the table of contents in my copy of the book. I wonder if it's there intentionally, just to see how many people would notice and point out the error. Oh, scratch that! I just noticed on the back it says "uncorrected proof"; they are probably going to fix it before it's out.

Anyway, I'm finding this book very readable, and interesting, and thought-provoking. I have a list of th...more
A
Kathryn Schulz argues passionately for the value of error. She shows us that not only is 'being wrong' a given in life, it is also a gift that has the power to transform our worldviews, our relationships, and ourselves. By drawing on philosophy, neuroscience, psycholoanalysts and a bit of common sense, she charts out the intellectual history of the shifting definitions and attitudes ascribed to being wrong and masterfully combines it with relevant & relatable examples from the present day. S...more
Nate Stearns
Wow, lots of vitriol. It seems that much of the firepower is arraigned towards the writing style, especially the mix of academic language with the more colloquial. I admit I'm a sucker for that mix, so I've enjoyed her style mostly.

Also, David seemed to say that the problem was that it got bogged down in semantics and word games, but I actually thought there was more emphasis on neuro-biology with anecdotes thrown in. She wasn't always the most illuminating--do I really need to hear about the o...more
Laura
I saw the author speak (very entertainingly) at an education conference, which was appropriate since - as she argues persuasively - being wrong is an inextricable part of learning and imagination. Yet in education we can often inadvertently send a message that error is something to fear and avoid. This is an entertaining book which would have been enhanced by some cross-cultural examination - e.g. how is error conceived of in cultures with a very different sense of self? Nevertheless, it's a rar...more
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Kathryn Schulz is a journalist, author, and public speaker with a credible (if not necessarily enviable) claim to being the world's leading wrongologist. Her freelance writing has appeared in the New York Times Magazine, Rolling Stone, TIME Magazine, the Boston Globe, the "Freakonomics" blog of The New York Times, The Nation, Foreign Policy, and the New York Times Book Review, among other publicat...more
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“To err is to wander and wandering is the way we discover the world and lost in thought it is the also the way we discover ourselves. Being right might be gratifying but in the end it is static a mere statement. Being wrong is hard and humbling and sometimes even dangerous but in the end it is a journey and a story. Who really wants to stay at home and be right when you can don your armor spring up on your steed and go forth to explore the world True you might get lost along get stranded in a swamp have a scare at the edge of a cliff thieves might steal your gold brigands might imprison you in a cave sorcerers might turn you into a toad but what of what To fuck up is to find adventure: it is in the spirit that this book is written.” 26 likes
“...[W]hen we make mistakes, we shrug and say that we are human. As bats are batty and slugs are sluggish, our own species is synonymous with screwing up.” 13 likes
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