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  <title><![CDATA[Baby Love]]></title>
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  <default_description>From the bestselling author whom &lt;i&gt;Time&lt;/i&gt; magazine hails as one of the leaders of her generation, an insightful, moving, and entertaining memoir of pregnancy and the decision to conceive a child after years of uncertainty. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; Like many women her age, Rebecca Walker was brought up to be skeptical of motherhood. A young woman's future was limitless, their mothers' generation told them. A child could rob one of independence, economic freedom, professional advancement, and just about everything else worth having. But all the empowerment and reproductive choice offered to this generation, Walker now realizes, may actually have led to a new kind of struggle. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; For fifteen years Walker recognized a persistent yearning to have a baby but feared actually choosing to do it. As a result, she almost missed what she now knows to be the single most meaningful experience of her life. In &lt;i&gt;Baby Love&lt;/i&gt;, Rebecca Walker tells the story of her pregnancy: not just the physical evolution, but also the emotional and intellectual transformation from ambivalence to certainty to unconditional love. It's the story of the birth of her son, as well as the tale of a generation-a wise, thought-provoking, and above all engaging memoir by a writer who has proven herself to be an important voice of her era.</default_description>
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  <original_publication_year type="integer">2007</original_publication_year>
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      <name><![CDATA[Rebecca Walker]]></name>
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  <read_at>Sun Jul 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[To be totally honest I came to this book with some preconceived notions after reading several reviews of it. Overall I found it to be a little whiny and very self-absorbed. I was kind of fascinated to see her react to different peoples' take on things and opinions, about her life, about parenthood i...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/2901520">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Sep 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[So I have to say upfront that I was disappointed with Baby Love.  The subtitle (&quot;choosing motherhood after a lifetime of ambivalence&quot;) is a little misleading, for starters, since Walker says on page 1 that, &quot;For the last fifteen years I have told everyone...that I wanted a baby.&quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/4232875">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="55715786">
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  <read_at>Fri May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Sun Jun 14 15:07:20 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I just read about this book at <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1021293/How-mothers-fanatical-feminist-views-tore-apart-daughter-The-Color-Purple-author.html" title="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1021293/How-mothers-fanatical-feminist-views-tore-apart-daughter-The-Color-Purple-author.html">http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/articl...</a> .<br/><br/>Rebecca Walker is the daughter of author Alice Walker, who wrote &quot;The Color Purple&quot;.  The article teaser is what made me interested in reading this book.<br/><br/>&quot;She's revered as a trail-blazin...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/55715786">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Feb 28 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Feb 25 12:27:59 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Feb 28 17:17:14 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I think the subtitle of this book was a little misleading, the whole title is <em>Baby Love: choosing motherhood after a lifetime of ambivalence</em>.  The subtitle made me think that basically after a lifetime of NOT wanting children the author suddenly changed her mind and did have a child.  But, basically...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/16332293">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="7214643">
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  <read_at>Thu Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I came to this book with big plans of loving it, but as I began turning pages I realized that big love wasn't going to happen. I was expecting insight and revelation, but instead I found a narrow perspective and underwhelming narrative. A disappointing read, overall.<br/><br/>I fully agree with my...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/7214643">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="2078152">
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  <read_at>Fri Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I enjoyed this book and appreciated the perspective on pregnancy offered through the Third Wave Feminist lens moments such as when she worries about loss of her life and former self.  I also enjoyed her point of view as a writer dealing w/ daily tasks of writing and fulfilling assignments while &quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/2078152">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a very sweet journal of Rebecca Walker's journey of first time pregnancy.  The reality of becoming a mother for the first time forces the author to take a long look at her own relationship with her mother, famous author, Alice Walker. She discusses in depth the pain and anguish her own mothe...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/17656122">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[every detail of this woman having a baby from the point at which she can't imagine ever having a child, through every month of pregnancy, the birth (in detail, i cannot imagine how she can remember each hour...) and the months afterwards where she dealt with the baby's problems resulting from the bi...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/3240716">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I couldn't help but think of &quot;Operating Instructions&quot; as I read this. In many ways, I think that is a better book. However, this one made having a baby sound more appealing.<br/><br/>The main flaw is it's obvious throughout that the author still has some major issues with her mother, Ali...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/38895019">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Jun 19 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is almost unbearable. Rebecca Walker tries to be honest and funny, but comes off as whiny, self-indulgent, bitchy, and stereotypically Berkeley (affluent, privileged, obsessed with organic food, alternative medicine, and Tibetan Buddhism). She claims to value motherhood, but she flames her...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/60200815">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was not at all what I anticipated it would be. I think the subtitle &quot;choosing motherhood after a lifetime of ambivalence&quot; is quite misleading given that the author acknowledges in the first chapter that she has always wanted a child, that she's wanted a baby for 15 years.  What f...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53256807">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Apr 11 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Lucid, compelling memoir of a writer's experience with pregnancy and birth. I bought this because it talked about maternal ambivalence, a subject I was interested in, but as it turned out, Walker wanted to have a baby for most of her adult life. To me the more interesting draws were her reflections ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52508386">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I expected a lot from Rebecca Walker with this book.  For one, she's Alice Walker's daughter.  Does it run in the family?  Eh, maybe.  Her writing is clear and concise, and her emotions are real, but one detail was extremely distracting.  On <u> every single page </u> and sometimes up to 8 times per page, ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/69449461">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Jan 09 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I love Rebecca Walker.  Love her!  I love that she's ambivalent and obsessive about all the same things I would be ambivalent and obsessive about...at least when it comes to having a baby.  <br/><br/>Since she wrote this journal-style, at times it feels a little too close to reading your own diary...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/41181519">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was both better and worse than I thought it would be.  Better because I thought her ambivalence would be some kind of unplanned pregnancy/never-wanted-to-be-a-mom kind of thing, and instead the ambivalence referred to doing the balancing between the feminist principles of choice and autono...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/37265954">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I realize the publishers may have added the subtitle to <em>Baby Love </em> but &quot;Choosing Motherhood After a Lifetime of Ambivalence&quot; is totally misleading. Rebecca Walker always wanted children. She had the same fears we all have: Who will I have a child with? How will we pay for it? Will the baby...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28136931">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was interesting and helpful as she unpacks a lot of complicated issues between motherhood and feminism.  I enjoyed a lot of her story.  In particular, I enjoyed reading about her struggles with choosing a parenting strategies.  <br/><br/>But parts made me uncomfortable--mainly her seemin...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24132908">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I think the ambivalence part comes from her but also from her own mother and her fear of how that would affect her parenting skills. I did not like this book and did not finish it so I'm not going to claim to be the best judge of it. But, I know how hard it is to ask for money from your parents. I k...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/23674514">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book caught my eye at Barnes and Noble for its title: Baby Love- choosing motherhood after a lifetime of ambivalence. Thinking that I certainly have been ambivalent about having kids, I cracked it open and devoured the first chapter. The author, whom I've never heard of before now, has a wonder...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/793642">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[i read this book last summer, i can't remember how i stumbled on it.  it is about a 30-something woman who finally decides to have a baby despite her basically hating her parents forever so this is why she put off motherhood. i found the author to be ostentatious, spoiled and self-involved.  this is...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/67113307">more...</a>]]></body>
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