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The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us

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The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us
Hardcover, 246 pages
Published January 5th 2011 by Grand Central Publishing (first published December 16th 2010)
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Jan 20, 2011 Julianna rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: Romantics & Armchair Scientists
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I happen to be a hopeless romantic who is also fascinated by science, so the minute I saw The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us, I knew I had to read it. One might think that a scientific book on kissing might destroy the romanticism of the act, but for me, it did the exact opposite. It actually reinforced many of my romantic notions while explaining the logic and biology behind this most common of relational behaviors. Rather than writing a traditional rev
Shannon (Giraffe Days)
Jun 08, 2011 Shannon (Giraffe Days) rated it really liked it
I got this book after hearing a brief mention of it on CBC radio one day; I missed the actual segment but the title made me curious enough to look the book up when I was next in the bookshop ... which happened to be that same day. I don't read a lot of non-fiction - I have plenty but they're still mostly unread - simply because they generally take a lot more concentration than I usually have available, and I've had real baby brain lately. This one is what's commonly referred to as "pop science", ...more
Jan 10, 2016 Orsolya rated it it was ok
Kissing for many of us may be a favorite pastime (sorry, baseball). From kisses on the cheek to full-on make out sessions; kisses exist in various forms in most of the world’s cultures. So, is it nature or nurture that developed kissing? What does it do chemically to the human body? What are the psychological ramifications? There are just some of the questions Sheril Kirshenbaum attempts to answer in, “The Science of Kissing”.

“The Science of Kissing” is, ultimately, a pop psych piece aiming to
Apr 21, 2011 Ashley rated it liked it
Honestly, I was kind of disappointed in this book. I was expecting detailed research and informed speculation. I was expecting some bite. Instead, what I got was a very short and shallow meditation into a whole bunch of stuff that should have been much more elaborated. I also found it disconcerting that there were no notes of any kind throughout the book . . . we just kind of have to take her word on it that she's done her research. Now, I'm not saying that she didn't -- in fact, the extensive B ...more
Mar 06, 2011 Kristy rated it really liked it
So as I sat down to read this book, I really only had one thought. Well, maybe two. The first one was that it was February and I wanted to read a girly romantic love appropriate book. Secondly, I've been trying to figure out how the boy I am seeing and I are so physically enamored with each other while we have virtually nothing else in common!
I got way more than I bargained for. I have friends reading this review who will drop their jaws as I did, or turn away with rolled eyes. I found it fascin
Sep 03, 2016 Bookish rated it it was amazing
Don't you wish they taught this class in high school? The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us by Sheril Kirshenbaum is the kind of science book I love to read: fascinating, fun, informative, and highly readable for the layperson. Kirshenbaum covers almost everything about this titillating subject. It's not too technical for the nonscientific crowd, but with enough depth across a broad spectrum so by the end I felt very educated about kissing. And people, real-world, personal researc ...more
Dec 29, 2010 Melissalott rated it it was amazing
When I set out to read this book (written by a friend, whose work I am familiar with) I expected it to be well written and interesting. I even expected to like it, because the topic sounds like fun. But, I didn't expect to find the book so engaging - which it was! I sat down to read 20-30 pages, and ended up reading the entire book in one sitting. Interesting, funny, gross (there's a chapter on cooties) - all describe this book, which is full of scientific data, facts, and theories presented in ...more
Sep 24, 2011 Cortney rated it liked it
Hooray!! I just was notified I won this book on a free Goodreads giveaway! I think this is going to be a very interesting book...thanks Goodreads!!!

I was right..very interesting book, really, the Author did her research on how the kiss started. I liked all the facts, even the chapter on mouth bacteria although it grossed me out! I also didn't know in the early days that a kiss was a statement of honor, a it wasn't uncommon for leaders to kiss a hand, or other material to make that p
May 23, 2011 trina rated it it was ok
ho-hum. my obsession with pop science books should be modified to exclude "sensational" ones like this that take advantage of the popularity of the genre. there's nothing new here- barely anything that isn't intuitive, even- and the writing is amateurish. ah well. kissing is one of my favorite pasttimes, but it turns out to be one of those activities that is fun to do, not read about.
Aug 17, 2011 Carol rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2011
I enjoyed reading this book. It covered more things than I ever knew were connected to kissing! Do you remember that people who could not sign their names mark it with an "X", the same "X" as in XOOXX? Ok, I won't spoil it for you and tell you more about that.

Were you like me, when your aunts came to visit, came to dread their sloppy kisses. Kissing when relatives and dignitaries came used to be much more more common than it is today. The Great Plague had something to do with it. There were more
Sarah Beth
May 31, 2011 Sarah Beth rated it really liked it
This compelling little book takes a look at an ancient and nearly universal human hobby - kissing. Despite its prevalence in over 90% of cultures, very little research has been done on the subject. Kirshenbaum takes a look at kissing through the ages from the origin of kissing under the mistletoe to the fact that two-thirds of us turn our head to the right when we go in for a kiss. Kissing can seal a bond between mother and child, be an expression of greeting between friends, sign of fealty to a ...more
Jan 16, 2012 M rated it liked it
A good summary review on kissing from a biological, anthropological, and neurological standpoint. I liked parts 1 and 2 over 3. Three felt too personal describing her involvement in the kissing experiment she devised. While it is a very nice experiment her novelization of the experience read too much like a diary or journal. The author's research is extensive and it shows as she covers every facet of kissing. I wished for reference citations while I was reading but that might of slowed down the ...more
KV Taylor
Feb 05, 2011 KV Taylor rated it liked it
A really fun, light read. I picked it up off a Valentine's Day table just before a trip to India and read it on the flight--it was a perfect choice. Zoomed through it in a few hours. The science is well-presented for a wide audience, made to be amusing and educational at the same time. Kept me smiling and randomly elbowing my husband awake to give him some interesting tidbit.

No idea what the guy sleeping in the seat on the other side of me thought.

On a personal note, very cool read for someone w
Kim L.
Jun 20, 2011 Kim L. rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
In short, I enjoyed this book. It gave a historical overview of where kissing came from, and how we have gotten where we are today. It is obvious that a lot of research went into this book. I enjoyed some of the random bits of information in the historical overview. The second part of the book went through some of the biochemical processes that occur while kissing, which I found very interesting. Especially some of the research that was sited.

I could have done without chapters 11 and 13. I don'
Jan 28, 2011 Lisa rated it liked it
Shelves: science-reading
So I was a little embarrassed to read this book at first but it was really well written and very interesting look into why we kiss, what happens when we kiss, and how kissing has evolved. I really enjoyed the how scientific she was, although once or twice, I did raise my eyebrows a little. (but considering the subject matter, that would be hard to avoid). Very easy to read and to understand and quite enlightening.
Molly Ringle
Apr 06, 2013 Molly Ringle rated it really liked it

Written in a fun style, and certainly a few steps up in terms of humor and smarts from a Cosmo article on being a good kisser. Most of it was stuff I had already intuited (as both a person who kisses and who writes love stories), but it's interesting to see how little science has investigated this very common activity so far. I hope this book will help turn that around. Also, I volunteer to kiss Johnny Depp and Ewan McGregor while you scan my brain if that will help.
Jan 19, 2011 Anna rated it it was ok
A very cute, fun book with interesting findings. Good for a time when you're up for science 'light' and want a quick, fact-filled read. The author is the first to admit that her research is a tantalizing but inconclusive prelude to the real science of kissing!
Jun 21, 2011 Shannon rated it it was ok
This book wasn't nearly as interesting as I thought it would be, and all of the studies that actually were interesting, I had already encountered somewhere else (although I couldn't recall where I had read about them before this book).
Sean Goh
Dec 28, 2016 Sean Goh rated it really liked it
Highly readable + accessible scientific writing, examining the cultural and biological origins of kissing. Current working conclusion: To assess compatibility (besides being enjoyable, I suppose.). Also explains why cooties are an actual thing. Don't expect in-depth research, seeing as the field is still in its infancy. Would be interesting to see where this has gone in the 5 years since publication.
Licking among dogs is a form of social greeting and grooming. It can also reflect recognition
Rachel Cramer
Apr 01, 2016 Rachel Cramer rated it it was amazing
While kissing has been celebrated in art and literature, glorified on the silver screen and made iconic on MTV, the scientific research on this behavior has largely been overlooked and scattered – until now. Biologist and science journalist Sheril Kirshenbaum explores “why we kiss, what happens to our bodies when we do, and what this information might teach us about kissing in relationships” in her book The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us. Kirshenbaum expertly carries her reader ...more
Sep 20, 2016 Nancyann rated it liked it
I'm not sure why it took me so long to discover this book. I heard it referenced on a morning news show and thought I'd give it a try, never guessing that The Science of Kissing was published five years ago. I thought the author did a fine job telling us what she was going to tell us, then telling us, then telling us what she told us. Remember those rules from high school English class? And that is how the book unfolded for me, a high school research paper from an accomplished student. I most en ...more
Dec 12, 2011 Julia rated it liked it
Seeing those questions posed to me, I thought to myself, "This could be quite interesting! A scientific look into kissing." I am not going to lie; I was a little weary starting a book about kissing, thinking that the possibility could be high of it turning into a How-to book. (Not that I would turn down a few pointers.. which this book does give based on the context of the science)

This is not a How-to book. It is more of a "Why" book. Each chapter delves into a different aspect of kissing, for e
Apr 09, 2011 Gretchen rated it liked it
Why do people kiss? That is the central question driving this book written by Sheril Kirshenbaum, a researcher and science blogger. She begins the book by discussing the evolution of kissing behavior, also bringing in similar behaviors found elsewhere in the animal kingdom. She talks about the history of the kiss and how European-style mouth-to-mouth kissing was exported around the world.

The middle section of the book is primarily concerned with the biology of kissing. Kirshenbaum talks about t
Angie Fehl
Feb 12, 2016 Angie Fehl rated it liked it
I had to giggle after reading, in the intro, the author talking about how discussing the scientific aspects of kissing and sexual relations won't kill any allure... Well, I was with her until, in the first chapter she starts talking about how a woman's facial lips are her "genital echo". That imagery, though! It was however interesting to read that the fullness of a woman's lips is said to be an indicator of her estrogen levels & reproductive ability. Guess my mom can blame these thin lips s ...more
Denise "Mika" Hutchins
I really can’t explain why it took me over three years to finish this book. It’s not as if it was ever boring or uninteresting. I got through the first bit just fine but then I dropped it for whatever reason, didn’t pick it back up for a couple years, and then I only read a tiny portion during my second go before forgetting about it again. But this time, when I returned to The Science of Kissing with the intention of either finishing or officially giving up on it, I was totally enthralled and co ...more
Jun 18, 2015 Kathryn rated it really liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
About a year ago, I confessed to my self-made book club gals that I had broken up with boys before because I found them to be "bad" kissers. One of my friends had this horrified, aghast reaction to me saying this, and couldn't understand. At the time, I also couldn't really explain it, but I knew that I didn't enjoy it, and needn't spend time with that person any longer. After reading this book, it turns out that not only was my action justified scientifically and chemically, but that it means I ...more
Joe Robles
May 30, 2011 Joe Robles rated it really liked it
I really liked this book. It did a good job of getting at the science (or lack thereof) of kissing. It approaches it from a partially evolutionary perspective and explains how both evolution and culture shape the ways we kiss. It also reminded me of how I learned about Evolutionary Psychology. You consider something to possibly be an evolved trait if it meets 3 criteria: 1. occurs across time, 2. occurs across cultures, and 3. occurs across species. Kissing meets these criteria. At times people ...more
Dec 01, 2011 Emily rated it liked it
Shelves: non-fiction, meridian
Brief but interesting look at the history, cultural and social practices, and science of kissing/smooching/bussing/osculating. Several little tidbits stuck out - such as some of the affectionate, kiss-like practices of non-European cultures (biting off eyelashes!?!?) or the fact that men who kiss their wives before leaving for work live on average 5 years longer and earn 20-30% more or that German has thirty different words for kissing.

Ms. Kirshenbaum gives a short survey of the historical evide
Nov 03, 2013 Tiffany rated it liked it
I love scientific books normally. I fell in love with Mary Roach's books when I read Stiff and since then, I have been seeking out these scientific books that explore things that ordinarily, I don't think about. In fact, Roach is mentioned in this novel, which got me pretty excited.
Unfortunately, that's where the excitement ended...
That's not to say that this wasn't an interesting book, because it was. The author wrote an article for an online blog of a known science magazine, and received great
Dec 29, 2013 Bg rated it liked it
So honestly I never usually pick up books like this for the simple reason that I'm not usually interested. But lately I've been getting into more things about the body and what it does. I'm more interested in the physical anatomy than the chemical reactions of the body, but I digress. I also saw this on the news and thought it was be interesting and it was. Who knew the body could be such a chemical and electrical cocktail from just kissing.

What I would like to clarify is that this book is SCIEN
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Sheril Kirshenbaum is an associate at Duke University and co-author of the forthcoming book, Unscientific America: How Scientific Illiteracy Threatens Our Future, with Chris Mooney. She is involved in conservation initiatives across levels of government and works to improve communication between scientists, policymakers, and the public.

In 2007, Sheril helped to found Science Debate 2008; an initia
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