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The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us
From a noted science journalist comes a wonderfully witty and fascinating exploration of how and why we kiss.
When did humans begin to kiss? Why is kissing integral to some cultures and alien to others? Do good kissers make the best lovers? And is that expensive lip-plumping gloss worth it? Sheril Kirshenbaum, a biologist and science journalist, tackles these questions and...more
When did humans begin to kiss? Why is kissing integral to some cultures and alien to others? Do good kissers make the best lovers? And is that expensive lip-plumping gloss worth it? Sheril Kirshenbaum, a biologist and science journalist, tackles these questions and...more
Hardcover, 246 pages
Published
January 5th 2011
by Grand Central Publishing
(first published December 16th 2010)
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Hooray!! I just was notified I won this book on a free Goodreads giveaway! I think this is going to be a very interesting book...thanks Goodreads!!!
I was right..very interesting book, really, the Author did her research on how the kiss started. I liked all the facts, even the chapter on mouth bacteria although it grossed me out! I also didn't know in the early days that a kiss was a statement of honor, a promise...so it wasn't uncommon for leaders to kiss a hand, or other material to make that p...more
I was right..very interesting book, really, the Author did her research on how the kiss started. I liked all the facts, even the chapter on mouth bacteria although it grossed me out! I also didn't know in the early days that a kiss was a statement of honor, a promise...so it wasn't uncommon for leaders to kiss a hand, or other material to make that p...more
In short, I enjoyed this book. It gave a historical overview of where kissing came from, and how we have gotten where we are today. It is obvious that a lot of research went into this book. I enjoyed some of the random bits of information in the historical overview. The second part of the book went through some of the biochemical processes that occur while kissing, which I found very interesting. Especially some of the research that was sited.
I could have done without chapters 11 and 13. I don'...more
I could have done without chapters 11 and 13. I don'...more
Don't you wish they taught this class in high school? The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us by Sheril Kirshenbaum is the kind of science book I love to read: fascinating, fun, informative, and highly readable for the layperson. Kirshenbaum covers almost everything about this titillating subject. It's not too technical for the nonscientific crowd, but with enough depth across a broad spectrum so by the end I felt very educated about kissing. And people, real-world, personal researc...more
So as I sat down to read this book, I really only had one thought. Well, maybe two. The first one was that it was February and I wanted to read a girly romantic love appropriate book. Secondly, I've been trying to figure out how the boy I am seeing and I are so physically enamored with each other while we have virtually nothing else in common!
I got way more than I bargained for. I have friends reading this review who will drop their jaws as I did, or turn away with rolled eyes. I found it fascin...more
I got way more than I bargained for. I have friends reading this review who will drop their jaws as I did, or turn away with rolled eyes. I found it fascin...more
This compelling little book takes a look at an ancient and nearly universal human hobby - kissing. Despite its prevalence in over 90% of cultures, very little research has been done on the subject. Kirshenbaum takes a look at kissing through the ages from the origin of kissing under the mistletoe to the fact that two-thirds of us turn our head to the right when we go in for a kiss. Kissing can seal a bond between mother and child, be an expression of greeting between friends, sign of fealty to a...more
I enjoyed reading this book. It covered more things than I ever knew were connected to kissing! Do you remember that people who could not sign their names mark it with an "X", the same "X" as in XOOXX? Ok, I won't spoil it for you and tell you more about that.
Were you like me, when your aunts came to visit, came to dread their sloppy kisses. Kissing when relatives and dignitaries came used to be much more more common than it is today. The Great Plague had something to do with it. There were more...more
Were you like me, when your aunts came to visit, came to dread their sloppy kisses. Kissing when relatives and dignitaries came used to be much more more common than it is today. The Great Plague had something to do with it. There were more...more
Jan 20, 2011
Julie (Mom2lnb)
rated it
5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
Romantics & Armchair Scientists
Reviewed for THC Reviews
I happen to be a hopeless romantic who is also fascinated by science, so the minute I saw The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us, I knew I had to read it. One might think that a scientific book on kissing might destroy the romanticism of the act, but for me, it did the exact opposite. It actually reinforced many of my romantic notions while explaining the logic and biology behind this most common of relational behaviors. Rather than writing a traditional rev...more
I happen to be a hopeless romantic who is also fascinated by science, so the minute I saw The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us, I knew I had to read it. One might think that a scientific book on kissing might destroy the romanticism of the act, but for me, it did the exact opposite. It actually reinforced many of my romantic notions while explaining the logic and biology behind this most common of relational behaviors. Rather than writing a traditional rev...more
Why do people kiss? That is the central question driving this book written by Sheril Kirshenbaum, a researcher and science blogger. She begins the book by discussing the evolution of kissing behavior, also bringing in similar behaviors found elsewhere in the animal kingdom. She talks about the history of the kiss and how European-style mouth-to-mouth kissing was exported around the world.
The middle section of the book is primarily concerned with the biology of kissing. Kirshenbaum talks about t...more
The middle section of the book is primarily concerned with the biology of kissing. Kirshenbaum talks about t...more
This was not nearly as good as it should have been. There were a few interesting tidbits...such as, if a man kisses his wife goodbye in the morning then he is 50% less likely to get into a car wreck. That was a new thing I learned, however, I had already heard of or read most of the research Kirshenbaum cites...and that's saying something, because it's not like I am that well-read on the subject. It just wasn't that informative. And it's not witty enough to make up for the lack of interesting fa...more
When I set out to read this book (written by a friend, whose work I am familiar with) I expected it to be well written and interesting. I even expected to like it, because the topic sounds like fun. But, I didn't expect to find the book so engaging - which it was! I sat down to read 20-30 pages, and ended up reading the entire book in one sitting. Interesting, funny, gross (there's a chapter on cooties) - all describe this book, which is full of scientific data, facts, and theories presented in...more
I got this book after hearing a brief mention of it on CBC radio one day; I missed the actual segment but the title made me curious enough to look the book up when I was next in the bookshop ... which happened to be that same day. I don't read a lot of non-fiction - I have plenty but they're still mostly unread - simply because they generally take a lot more concentration than I usually have available, and I've had real baby brain lately. This one is what's commonly referred to as "pop science",...more
This is a kissing book, but it's not *that* sort of kissing book. It's spring right now and half the world is stirring with FEELINGS. And desires. And thoughts of kissing. And after reading about 40 pages of this, I felt like all of the excitement and luscious anticipation had gone straight out of kissing. Which is not what I was in the mood for at all. If you're interested in the theories/hypotheses/studies surrounding why we kiss, how that behavior might have evolved and what it all means in v...more
A really fun, light read. I picked it up off a Valentine's Day table just before a trip to India and read it on the flight--it was a perfect choice. Zoomed through it in a few hours. The science is well-presented for a wide audience, made to be amusing and educational at the same time. Kept me smiling and randomly elbowing my husband awake to give him some interesting tidbit.
No idea what the guy sleeping in the seat on the other side of me thought.
On a personal note, very cool read for someone w...more
No idea what the guy sleeping in the seat on the other side of me thought.
On a personal note, very cool read for someone w...more
Brief but interesting look at the history, cultural and social practices, and science of kissing/smooching/bussing/osculating. Several little tidbits stuck out - such as some of the affectionate, kiss-like practices of non-European cultures (biting off eyelashes!?!?) or the fact that men who kiss their wives before leaving for work live on average 5 years longer and earn 20-30% more or that German has thirty different words for kissing.
Ms. Kirshenbaum gives a short survey of the historical evide...more
Ms. Kirshenbaum gives a short survey of the historical evide...more
I really liked this book. It did a good job of getting at the science (or lack thereof) of kissing. It approaches it from a partially evolutionary perspective and explains how both evolution and culture shape the ways we kiss. It also reminded me of how I learned about Evolutionary Psychology. You consider something to possibly be an evolved trait if it meets 3 criteria: 1. occurs across time, 2. occurs across cultures, and 3. occurs across species. Kissing meets these criteria. At times people...more
Seeing those questions posed to me, I thought to myself, "This could be quite interesting! A scientific look into kissing." I am not going to lie; I was a little weary starting a book about kissing, thinking that the possibility could be high of it turning into a How-to book. (Not that I would turn down a few pointers.. which this book does give based on the context of the science)
This is not a How-to book. It is more of a "Why" book. Each chapter delves into a different aspect of kissing, for e...more
This is not a How-to book. It is more of a "Why" book. Each chapter delves into a different aspect of kissing, for e...more
Honestly, I was kind of disappointed in this book. I was expecting detailed research and informed speculation. I was expecting some bite. Instead, what I got was a very short and shallow meditation into a whole bunch of stuff that should have been much more elaborated. I also found it disconcerting that there were no notes of any kind throughout the book . . . we just kind of have to take her word on it that she's done her research. Now, I'm not saying that she didn't -- in fact, the extensive B...more
This book isn't some trite adolescence book on how to kiss. No, Kirshenbaum, delves into research to bring out points unheard of in the classroom, concerning pheromones, how birth control inhibits our pheromone receptors so we are unable to pick a suitable mate, what happens in the brain when we kiss, etc. For a scientific book, it kept me engaged and wanting to delve deeper into my own research. This book is top notch and a great read, even for those who aren't looking to go into the medical fi...more
This was a cute book and I thought it would be appropriate to review it for Valentine’s Day. I don’t know about the claim that this book will make you a better kisser, but it certainly was interesting. It did slightly change the way I think about kissing, because it reminded me about all of the germs that get swapped during a kiss. I’m having a hard time not thinking about that when I kiss my husband now (oh, the woes of a germaphobe). Haha! Ugh.
Other than the section about germ swapping, I real...more
Other than the section about germ swapping, I real...more
Kissing is ancient and universal, but it has also evolved and has myriad variations. This books goes into detail about kissing from both an anthropological and a physiological point of view. It's fascinating to see how it came to be that humans display affection, respect, commitment, desire, safety, lust, love, and other emotions through the lips.
The history is more interesting and fun to read about than the scientific studies involving brain scans and neurotransmitters, but both offer up some...more
The history is more interesting and fun to read about than the scientific studies involving brain scans and neurotransmitters, but both offer up some...more
A quick read to put one in a VD mood. Proves different theories of how kissing might have originated as it was not practiced in all cultures (sniffing a friend/enemy, pre-chewing food for an infant, breastfeeding bonding). Interestingly 80% of people are right leaner (kissers) and turns out subconsciously we are not as turned on by kissing someone that has a MHC genes (DNA that works with immunity) that is similar to our own because it helps our offspring have a wider variety of immunity.
I learned about this book from a list of new releases I read somewhere. Kirschenbaum's book was structured much like an easy-to-read Master's thesis. The first part of the book discussed the history of kissing and summarized previous research. The next section discussed a study she conducted and the results from a small sampling. Finally, the book ends with recommendations for future research and implications about what is yet to be learned about kissing.
I wish I had written my review immediatel...more
I wish I had written my review immediatel...more
A good summary review on kissing from a biological, anthropological, and neurological standpoint. I liked parts 1 and 2 over 3. Three felt too personal describing her involvement in the kissing experiment she devised. While it is a very nice experiment her novelization of the experience read too much like a diary or journal. The author's research is extensive and it shows as she covers every facet of kissing. I wished for reference citations while I was reading but that might of slowed down the...more
Originally published at BethsBookReviews.com
Received from the publisher for review.
Well, let's just say that if you're looking for a comprehensive book on kissing, this is indeed it. It covers everything one may want to know (and many things one would prefer not to know) about the subject. Word to the wise: About 400,000 people a year kiss the Blarney Stone in Ireland. Um, ick!
This one gets four stars. It was fun and upbeat yet covered all sorts of kissing related topics in all time periods and...more
Received from the publisher for review.
Well, let's just say that if you're looking for a comprehensive book on kissing, this is indeed it. It covers everything one may want to know (and many things one would prefer not to know) about the subject. Word to the wise: About 400,000 people a year kiss the Blarney Stone in Ireland. Um, ick!
This one gets four stars. It was fun and upbeat yet covered all sorts of kissing related topics in all time periods and...more
ho-hum. my obsession with pop science books should be modified to exclude "sensational" ones like this that take advantage of the popularity of the genre. there's nothing new here- barely anything that isn't intuitive, even- and the writing is amateurish. ah well. kissing is one of my favorite pasttimes, but it turns out to be one of those activities that is fun to do, not read about.
This book was pretty interesting. It goes into a kind of history of kissing and explains why we do it, not just how men and women differ in their preferences but also why, that sort of thing. It was interesting to read, but sometimes got a little too science-y for me. However, I learned a lot of things, so that's good, right?
It seems like the author had a great idea for a book, got a contract, realized there wasn't much research done, had to write something, and ended up with this. Not very satisfying, and she ends with a list of things to do to be a better kisser (somewhat reluctantly), and offering platitudes about how important kissing is.
Jun 14, 2011
Jeff Druzba
rated it
2 of 5 stars
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review of another edition
Recommended to Jeff by:
Alisa Druzba
This wasn't that great of a book. There were a few factoids here and there but it really read like someone's fluffed up science paper. There's this trend of hyper-specialized single subject books out there and I'm not sure this book really does anything more than bring a collection of facts into a single volume.
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Sheril Kirshenbaum is an associate at Duke University and co-author of the forthcoming book, Unscientific America: How Scientific Illiteracy Threatens Our Future, with Chris Mooney. She is involved in conservation initiatives across levels of government and works to improve communication between scientists, policymakers, and the public.
In 2007, Sheril helped to found Science Debate 2008; an initia...more
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