Minding Ben

Minding Ben

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At sixteen, Grace Caton boards her first airplane, leaving behind the tropical papaya and guava trees of her small village in Trinidad for another island, this one with tall buildings, graceful parks, and all the books she can read. At least that's what Grace imagines. But from the moment she touches down, nothing goes as planned. The aunt who had promised to watch over he

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Hardcover, 352 pages
Published April 12th 2011 by Voice (first published April 1st 2011)
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Susan
Having read but not especially liked The Nanny Diaries, I wasn't sure I wanted to tackle another novel bashing clients, employees and children alike, and filled with whining. I decided to give this one a try because it is about a young Trinidadian woman, a girl actually, who comes to the United States to make her way in the world.

16-year old Grace has a good family in Trinidad but thinks her new life will be better in the U.S. Her aunt arranges a job with her cousin, living in her home, caring f...more
Tara Chevrestt
This is a novel about slavery in the 1990s. I'm serious. Slavery. Only it doesn't take place on a southern plantation, however, but in a Manhatten apartment. The slave, the heroine, Grace, is not brought on a slave ship against her will either. She comes via airplane from Trinidad and she willingly enslaves herself. This is what I had a problem with more than anything. I personally, would rather live an uneventful life in a cottage by the sea than enslave myself. Anyways, Grace agrees to work as...more
Sunny
I read a very different type of book this weekend. There are many novels out there that discuss nannies and babysitters. They are generally very funny and the main character usually ends up with a rich man. What makes Minding Ben unique for me and therefore qualifying as shining in the dark is that it brings light to a group of nannies in NYC that I knew nothing about or had read about. There is a very large community of West Indians in NYC and usually when one thinks of immigrants they think of...more
Kate Baxter
This was a book that came unbidden to my reading pile, but came it did and read it was. It is a a well-written portrayal of the difficult and often dangerous life of urban America for the immigrant in search of the elusive American Dream.
A sixteen year old Trinidadian girl flies to New York City seeking adventure and the opportunity to work and study. Her cousin fails to meet her at the airport and she makes her way into the city on her own. From the getgo, she is very much alone. Not yet stre...more
Jean V. Naggar Literary
“What makes this title stand out from other nanny fiction is the author’s focus on Grace’s island culture and the West Indian nannies and friends with whom Grace spends time. Revealing New York’s melting pot at its most complicated, this interesting first novel is told from the perspective of someone who has been there and done that. Brown drew from her personal experience as a young immigrant nanny, and her story is fascinating, tender, and heartbreaking.” --Library Journal, starred review

“Refr...more
Rebecca
The synop in on the inside cover of this book was not a very good example on what this book was really about. It's funny when you compare the two. The synop concentrated on describing that this book was about a recent immigrant from the Caribbean and her trying to make her way in New York City via nanny jobs and what happens when someone takes advantage of her. That was what maybe 40% of what the book was about. The other 60% was about the girl’s life outside of her job, dealing with other recen...more
Denise
As a young woman Grace leaves her home in the West Indies for a job as a nanny in New York. She doesn't have the resources to obtain the correct papers, so she has to work illegally. This means she has to take whatever work she can get. Subsequently she ends up in an awful position, underpaid, overworked, and often humiliated. In the end she has to chose between her job and her loyalty to family, friends, and ultimately to herself.

In the beginning I found myself sympathizing with Grace and I qui...more
Rebekah ODell
Sixteen-year-old Grace leaves Trinidad and everything she has ever known for the hope of living the American dream in the Big Apple. Her dreams soon come crashing down around her, though, when her cousin, with whom she is supposed to live, doesn’t show up to pick her up at the airport … ever. Grace eeks out an existence through the Caribbean immigrant community and finds work as a nanny — her only hope of getting legal citizenship. As you might guess, Miriam and Sol, Grace’s employers, are less-...more
Lily
Minding Ben by Victoria Brown
Reviewed by Moirae the Fates book reviews

The Nanny Diaries meets The Help in a riveting debut novel that follows an idealistic young woman as she leaves Trinidad for a new life in New York City---as a nanny.

Minding Ben invites readers into the private world of one of the anonymous West Indian babysitters who have peopled the lives of so many young urban families for decades. Grace left Trinidad for New York with hopes for a better life and education. As she struggle...more
Norma
I guess the fact that I went into reading this not expecting a Nanny Diaries clone is a very good thing. I didn’t have any preconceptions on what this book should be like. Instead, I let it stand and breath on its own.

And what I found it to be was a wonderfully, dark piece of literature about the human soul and its will to survive. It is difficult for a girl at the age of 16 to travel to a new country, attempt to find work, and manage to survive all on her own. I know this because my own grandmo...more
Kara Huggard
I was pleasantly surprised by this book. The cover and the plot synopsis (young woman becomes nanny for upper class family and somehow finds herself) led me to think this would fit squarely in the chick lit category, a genre which I am not too fond of. However, it ended up being a well-written and compelling immigrant story. I liked that Grace, the protagonist, was from Trinidad as I have not read very many, if any, stories about immigrants from this area and their unique experiences.

I did have...more
Mary (BookHounds)
Grace comes to New York as a sixteen year old in search for a better life and ends up as a child care provider to a four year old, Ben. She learns to grow up fast and deal with some strange and new customs like the daily nude photography of her pregnant employer. While most kids this age would decline, Grace realizes that she has limited choices and adapts. She must also deal with playground politics that would stun the most hardened business person. The story follows Grace through her adventure...more
Meichler
Sometimes you read a book and get nothing out of it, and wonder why you bothered. Hence, my experience with Minding Ben. Minding Ben tells the story of a girl from Trinidad who comes to NY at age 16. She finds work as a nanny. She works with a Jewish family. They are disrespectful and take advantage of her. She has friends. The way I'm describing this is just about the way I felt about the experience of reading this. I didn't care about any of the characters; even the main character was so poorl...more
Heather
When Grace Caton boards a plane heading to New York from Trinidad, she’s only sixteen years old. Promised a home with a distant cousin in America, Grace is both excited and scared as she makes her way abroad. But when Grace arrives, she finds that she’s been stranded with no one to retrieve her from the airport and nowhere to live. Soon Grace is living with the mercurial Sylvia and her patchwork family. Though Grace isn’t exactly freeloading at Sylvia’s, her luck in the job department has been p...more
Nancy
In the hovels of New York, from the hovels of the West Indies, come the child-watchers, the nannies, the maids. They work five days or more a week for the well-to-do and then go back to their rooms in Brooklyn until it’s time to mind the children again. Some are old, young, beautiful and not. They all have a plan in place. Whether it is fulfilled remains to be seen.

Sponsorship. An entry into being a citizen of the USA. That’s the bottom line here and young Grace Caton from Trinidad has been prom...more
Melissa Rochelle
Half-way through this book I was frustrated - I felt like there was a lot of character introduction missing. I couldn't figure out why Grace was living with Sylvia, who Bo was (Sylvia's lover, friend, cousin, brother?), and there was no explanation as to what happened after Grace was left at the airport. I was a hundred pages in, I couldn't stop despite the fact that I was really annoyed.

I'd say that's a sign of a good book.

While some of those frustrations could have been handled much earlier on...more
Emily
From the synopsis, this book sounded like it would be so cute and fun. A nice romp to listen to whilst on my million hour commute every day. When I had started it, I realized I was wrong, but kept waiting for the characters to develop, or for some big redemption to occur. Nope.

I have never been so frustrated at a character for not sticking up for herself in my life, nor have I been so impatient to be finished with a book. The account Brown gives of her main character, Grace's, indentured servitu...more
Cindy
I thought that this was a very good book, especially for a first novel. (3.5 stars)

I appreciated the author's inclusive nature, bringing the reader into the world of Trinidad's young culture and illegal immigrants working as nannies. The unique way that the main character, Grace, views her world is so applicable to what we've all been through growing up: trying not to appear naive and green, but being so very much so. Just the fact that she has to lie about her age, feels like the young striving...more
Cindy
Started out enjoying this book about a young girl who leaves Trinidad and comes to New York, ending up as a nanny. I liked how it was gentler than "The Nanny Diaries" which was so mean spirited. But then I kept waiting for something to happen and finally began to wonder why she even wrote the book. Nothing much happens. I stopped on page 250 of 334 because I had other things I wanted to read so much more, I just didn't care to go on.

Mary Jones in book club agreed with me, but the others enjoyed...more
marymurtz
Grace Caton lives in Trinidad with her overbearing mother and invalid father, along with her younger sister. Grace is bright and ambitious and wants to go to the United States and live in New York with her cousin.

When she arrives, the cousin is nowhere to be found, leaving Grace stranded at the airport. So Grace finds her way into the city and eventually lives with a friend of a friend of a friend, unable to find a decent job without her green card or a sponsor, and she is becoming desperate.

T...more
Eliza
I really liked this book, though I can understand why some people didn't. I noticed a lot of other reviews describing the characters as shallow or flat. I actually the author held back deliberately in a way that almost reminded me of Kazuo Ishiguro. Just because some thing isn't said doesn't mean that it isn't there or isn't important. I also liked that she waited so long to tell us what happened when she first came to New York - almost like she needed that extra time to process it.

I'd love to...more
Miriam
I just have to rave about this book! There's lots to like about it, but what grabbed me from the beginning is the spot-on portrayal of the Crown Heights, Brooklyn neighborhood where I live. (I'm sure my landlord is in there!) The characters are complex, the dialects of different ethnic groups are captured perfectly, and you can almost smell New York in the pages.
The only problem is that the book should have been twice as long! Not only because I was sorry to see it end, but because it seemed to...more
Biddy
I would really give this book 3 1/2 stars, if that ranking were available! I would wake up in the morning and think"What is going to happen to Grace today"? I did get caught up in her story, leaving Trinidad at 16, arriving in NYC where no one was there to meet her and how she went on with her life in spite of her youth, inexperience and lack of support. I found the group dynamics of the park nannies fascinating and their relationship with their employers quite appalling. As a liberal older woma...more
Doret
At 16 Grace, makes the trip alone from her home in Trinidad to NYC. Grace finds herself alone when her aunt doesn't show at the airport. All of that happens in the prologue. When the story really gets going, its 1991 Grace is 18yrs old, living with Sylvia, a fellow Trinidadian she meet at carnival. Grace is helping take care of Sylvia's three kids. Plus the brother, six people staying in Sylvia's rundown Brooklyn apartment. Grace is trying to find work as a nanny. Not being a U.S citizen, is mak...more
Jennifer Osterman
This book was the engaging but troubling story of a 16 year old girl from Trinidad who came to the US for a better life. She planned to work as a nanny for her cousin, who never picked her up at the airport and subsequently found herself adrift in New York - unemployed, unwanted and unable to give up her dreams. The author gives a somewhat autobiographical account (hinted at in the interview at the end of the book) of working for the NYC elite. This book is not unlike the nanny Diaries in that r...more
Jen
A young girl travels from the West Indies hoping to find a better life in America, only to find herself homeless and jobless at age 16, and the only family she knows in America has turned her away. That's not a good position to be in when you're not a legal immigrant, and she has trouble finding work to support herself. The story is written well, and I didn't want to put it down, eager to find out just how she manages to get by, and how the job she finds as a nanny to a young Ben could go so ter...more
Revae
Minding Ben was not one of my favorite books that I read this year. It was a little drawn out for me. It took awhile for me to finish the book. The story picked up in the last one hundred pages. Minding Ben follows the journey of Grace, a Trinidadian newly located to New York. Grace encounters many different cultures and Victoria Brown does an excellent job using the appropriate dialect for each culture. It was hard at frst reading the authentic Jamaican, Bajan, and Trinidadian accents, but once...more
Ellen O'brien
I loved this book and think it would make a great book club read! I was intrigued more with the "accents" of the different islands than with the story but I still found myself wondering how Grace Catton would survive as a child-minder in Manhattan. Grace arrives brave and naive and learns a lot about who she can and can't trust as she listens to other child minders in the park and talks to folks from outside her network such as her employer's family members and friends. I was pulling for Grace f...more
Emily
"Minding Ben" is the rare novel that reads like a memoir. Sixteen year old Grace emigrates to the US from Trinidad on the promise of work as a nanny for her cousin. As the story unfolds, Grace faces various trials and tribulations, not the least of which is working for Sol and Miriam Bruckner. It is interesting to see how the will to remain in America overshadows all other needs for Grace. She is treated poorly, made fun of, unappreciated, and under paid. Yet, she remains in New York against all...more
Lynnette
I received this book as an Early Reviewer copy.

I did enjoy Minding Ben. It did a nice job of following the life of Grace from Trinidad, and her struggles when she reached America. It did not answer all your questions right away and sometimes you felt like something was being overlooked or you were left in the dark, but eventually most of them were answered.

I would have marked it 5 stars, but the ending wrapped up things a bit too nicely. It would have been better had Grace developed her confiden...more
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