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    <body><![CDATA[This guys...John Gray that wrote this book is just a little weird when it comes to his idea of what sparks sexual interest in a relationship. Like...his ideas do not fit into the teachings of my religion. Therefore...I only give him two stars for this book. He is a wild sex psycho-lolagist...so good...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24300479">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[anehnya, buku ini menjadi bacaan gw 8 thn lalu...dan oleh karena itu gw jadi kawin semu dengan istri gw yg juga semu. Banyak tahu soal laki-perempuan dan sekaligus persiapan buat membangun keluarga bahagia selama-lamanya...anti selingkuh.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[A great instruction book...should be required reading for all men upon turning the age of 25!!!]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Pretty good, actually.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[evry thing ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Great book for couples.  Reviews all the little things for men and women to do to keep romance and passion alive in a relationship!  Not a how-to sex manual, but more of here's things to say and do to keep both partners happy, despite the &quot;differences&quot; between men and women's needs.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Good read.  Solid points.  I like that the author was a celibate monk for 9 years!  He can definitely see the issues from several points of view.  Mostly decent advice.  Read it with your partner.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm blushing a bit writing this review but John gives practical, usable real life stuff in this book. A good one to read with your spouse. It opens up avenues of communication that are some times hard to talk about and hear.   ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I think this was trying to capitalize on the success of the Venus/Mars series.<br/><br/>It is just okay.  Not bad, some good stuff.<br/><br/>I gave it as part of a wedding gift one time, he liked it more than her!  ;)]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Pop advice on improving intimacy and communication in the bedroom. Most of this seems like common sense and the book seems to be just riding the tide of a fad.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[i read this one on my honeymoon and tried everything, well almost, and it was a great way to talk about sex without saying &quot;yeah, you should do THAT&quot; ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is intersting.  It helped me to understand the nature of my husband, and i think he might understand me better too!  Great to read together.]]></body>
    
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