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The Romantics

3.02  ·  Rating Details  ·  1,560 Ratings  ·  218 Reviews

Laura and Lila were college roommates--one brooding and Jewish, the other the epitome of golden WASP-dom. Now it's ten years later, a day before Lila's wedding to Laura's former boyfriend, and as the guests arrive, Laura finds herself the only one not coupled up
Paperback, 288 pages
Published August 31st 2010 by Picador (first published July 8th 2008)
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Feb 23, 2010 Natalie rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: read-2010
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A disappointing read that had none of the charm of Galt Niederhoffer's first book, A Taxonomy of Barnacles. In this group of college friends gathering for a wedding, I expected to find at least one relatable or redeeming character, but none of the characters were appealing and the individuals in the group simply blended together from lack of personality or distinguishing characteristics. It seemed that Laura, the maid of honor who still pines after the groom and is the only Jew in a group of WAS ...more
Melinda Worfolk
Sep 13, 2015 Melinda Worfolk rated it liked it
Shelves: fiction, 2015
I was fascinated by the description of American upper class WASP culture! It's just so foreign to me, so I liked reading about the goings-on from the point of view of Laura, the outsider. I could just imagine her feeling bullied into being maid of honour, while silently seething. Oh the dysfunction. I did have a good laugh reading about the terrible speeches at the rehearsal dinner, also--talk about secondhand cringe.

I liked the plot and protagonist well enough, but occasionally there were clun
Sep 23, 2010 Laura rated it it was amazing
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Sep 01, 2010 Carie rated it liked it
(Yes, I posted a copy of this on my blog.)

This is an interesting book, and not necessarily in a good way. A group of nine college friends - best friends - reunite 10 years later in Maine for a wedding. Their definition of friend is vastly different from yours and mine. Tom and Lila are getting married. Laura is the maid of honor, Lila's best friend, AND Tom's ex-girlfriend. All the other couples are interconnected as well, married or engaged to each other, each having dated another member of th
Jun 13, 2011 Kati rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Loved it. Couldn't put it down. Did not love the ending, which is the only reason it didn't get 5 stars.

You know what? I read this months ago. The more I think about it, the less I liked it. The characters are interesting, though the premise is worn out. A group of friends reunites years after college for a wedding of some of their gang. Naturally the bride is a perfectly WASPy blonde while her totally ethnic brunette Jewish BFF is the maid of honor. The blonde bride is perfection, while the eth
Jul 02, 2011 James rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I really like The Romantics. It was an unexpected story...I was surprised by the ending and all the unresolved things that were left in the air...
The characters are real, they have flaws, like everybody, but that is what makes them memorable. Yes, they are kinda selfish and arrogant, but that's why the story is different from others.
The only thing that I didn't like was the fact that they showed us all negative things in their relationships as friends, but they didn't show the good parts... and
Ayla (I'm not here)
Jan 02, 2014 Ayla (I'm not here) rated it it was ok
i only gave it 2 stars because i enjoyed some of it

men are all over the world so don't date your best friend's ex, i got board reading this from the beginning

and the ending...... huh i wouldn't call it ending actually 'cause nothing happened

Sep 04, 2010 Leigh rated it really liked it
I know lots of people have panned this book as not bring too great, but I really enjoyed it. Sarcasm and cynicism are abundant in these characters and I personally loved that. Maybe that's because I'm a little cynical, but hey. I loved being inside the minds of so many different people and on some small level related to their phase of life. Being out of college for ten years is an awkward and often overlooked spot. While in some ways your life has taken off and you've experienced a lot, life isn ...more
Sep 17, 2010 els rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
wow. blew through this book. this book is sort of like getting an entire season of felicity or dawson's creek or something in one novel. and i sort of put it on par with that kind of story telling/setting. incestuous group of privileged white friends who are constantly stabbing each other in the back get together for the wedding of their two most lauded/hated members. it was fun, in the same way that marathon watching gossip girl is fun, but hardly profound. and that was why i had soooo much tro ...more
Carmen Rivera
Feb 15, 2012 Carmen Rivera rated it really liked it
Despite negative reviews, The Romantics, by Galt Niederhoffer was a joy to read.

The story follows seven college friends who reunite at a friend's wedding ten years after graduating from Yale. Lila, the bride, and her maid of honor, Laura, have two things keeping them together: their frenemy-type friendship and their love for the groom, Tom. And to add a little more spice to this dramatic book, Tom, who also happens to be the ex-boyfriend of Laura, is having doubts of getting married.

Yes, the c
Aug 03, 2011 Marissa rated it really liked it
I want to be clear that I, as an English major, love this books because it mockingly shows English majors who are constantly looking for the perfect person to say, "YOU UNDERSTAND ME." Plus, I'm intrigued by preppies.

Galt Niederhoffer presents us with a group of graduated Yalies who have left college and...well, not done too much except had crappy, incestuous relationships among the same group of college friends. Somehow I find this way less annoying than I did in my own college group. Few of t
Jul 15, 2008 Kerry rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I'm not sure why people think that sad love stories are somehow less cliche than happy ones. This story, about a group of Yale-ys, old college friends who aren't really friends, is a bit depressing and it's outlook on love and friendship frequently bleak.

Moreover narrative style - the story is written in 3rd person omniscient - is terribly confusing with so many different characters, all of them less then likeable.
Nov 27, 2009 Nicole rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: fiction
A quick read about a group of college friends that reunite at a posh newengland wedding. Drama ensues between the friends after the rehearsal dinner and you find that their perfect lives are full of flaws, deception and bitterness. The characters were shallow and a bit pathetic. The ending was even worse. A movie based on this book is in production. I admit, I will have to see the film when it is available on dvd.
Nov 20, 2014 Leslie rated it it was ok
I read books to find interesting characters - people in crisis or in some life altering circumstance. I want to fall in love with their strength and their tenacity. I want to cry with them - get angry with or for them - I want to feel their sorrow and their joy. I didn't find any of that in this book.

This novel has many characters - none were likeable or charming or dare I say decent? I read the book to the bitter end - growing more desperate with every page to find one person to stand behind a
Nov 18, 2009 Phil rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
A throw away novel about an incestuous group of college friends who reunite years later in Maine for a wedding. The characters weren’t particularly great; the story wasn’t particularly great; the writing wasn’t particularly great; but I still didn’t hate it. I guess I have a high tolerance for low culture.
Aug 14, 2010 Mae rated it it was ok
One of those books where the movie will probably be better than the book. The author is a movie producer, so I guess it's no shock. Niederhoffer is clearly writing about a culture she knows a lot about (Waspy New England), but I find it kind of interesting she went to Harvard yet the book is about Yale alum.
Maureen Flatley
Aug 08, 2008 Maureen Flatley rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: April Wanner, Martha Frankel
Another literary novel from the author of The Taxonomy of Barnacles. Niederhoffer is a new wave Laurie Colwin with her precious, upper class characters. This was a great beach read that I finished in one sitting. Not as complex as her earlier work but still a page turner.
Jul 14, 2015 Diana rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I saw the movie a couple of years ago and fell in love with it. Couldn't get enough of it and, until recently, I learned it was based off a book and simply had to get a hold of it. Partial reason being that the movie's ending left a lot to be desired and I hoped that the book would have a much clearer or better ending and I can defiantly say I was disappointed. The book's ending left me even more confused but enough of that.

The book itself was very difficult to read because of it's narrative cho
May 08, 2009 Nicole rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
This book wasn't bad, but it wasn't great either. I had a hard time feeling any sympathy or connection to any of the "stuck-up" so-called "friends" in the novel. It made an ok summer beach read, but it seemed more like chick-lit than a literary work.
Kris - My Novelesque Life
Dec 08, 2014 Kris - My Novelesque Life rated it really liked it

"Laura and Lila were college roommates--one brooding and Jewish, the other the epitome of golden WASP-dom. Now it's ten years later, a day before Lila's wedding to Laura’s former boyfriend, and as the guests arrive, Laura finds herself the only one not coupled up. Struggling with the traditionally thankless role of maid of honor, Laura realizes for the first time why she can't stop thinking about her long, tangled relationship with the groom. And it appears that he is not entirely ready
Jan 05, 2016 Kate rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Another book garnered at a used-stuff store, on a whim. It appeared to be about privileged people behaving badly, which usually has a perverse attraction for me, so there was some hope for it, but no.

You've heard that classic advice to beginning writers, right?: "Don't tell; SHOW!" "The Romantics" is all about telling, telling, telling. Arch telling.

This particular edition does have a wonderful cover design. I didn't even notice its extremely clever trompe l'oeil until I put it into the bag of
May 07, 2012 JudgyK rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
If you like your books to have a clearly-defined ending, this is not the book for you. Don't even start it. Because it will suck you in with characters and drama and the promise of a gigantic impending conflict- and then you'll never find out the resolution.

Here’s where reviews go wrong. I really, seriously, LOVED this book. Until the ending. I really, seriously, HATED the ending. Had it ended differently (and I don’t necessarily care what sort of differently, just DIFFERENTLY), it would absolut
Jul 25, 2011 Heather rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: book-club, my-library
"I didn't hate this book but I certainly did not love it. I was pleased with the first few pages I read as I visioned the beautiful ocean front home where the novel takes place. However, it quickly took a turn for the worse. The first half of the book was so darn slow! I really wasn't interested in learning every single detail about each characters past. After about 100 pages the story finally started and by that point I almost didn't care. But I continued reading because I had already invested ...more
I was looking forward to reading this book and in the end I was so disappointed. I found the first chapter to be the most interesting of all nineteen, the description of the character that the author used really set the mood and I could picture every little thing. However, it soon became dull and too many characters were introduced at the same time, making me lose track of who was who and who was with whom. The writing then became too descriptive and it lacked interest. The author just described ...more
Well I should probably start off by saying this isn't really my style of book. I have a wide selection of books that I like but for me this just didn't do it. I found the characters whiny, and childish, I think that was the point but I found it detracted from the story. I didn't care about the characters. There was a wide diversity of traits each character had, but I never felt drawn to any of them, especially the three leads. Then which end did it take? This is a story I would have like closer ...more
Kristin (Kritters Ramblings)
Well - an interesting read. I picked up this book initially because I saw the movie would be coming out and nothing is more frustrating than a ruined book after seeing the movie. I would much rather ruin the movie! It was a good read, not excellent, but good.

I think my main point of frustration was after reading such a great push pull about whether Tom would end up with Lila or Laura - the ending left me more than hanging. I can not believe how I felt when it ended, I have not been th
May 16, 2013 Candy rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: heart-ed-it
This book is a great rendition of a modern Jane Austen novel for young adults with an inside peek into the divisions that money and social class pervades and inflicts upon the nature of friendships. Lovely all around for its insights into the priviledged WASP culture yet refreshing for its realistic view about the dynamics we all go through in relating to one another, no matter the type of relationship that's initially and innocently established. The characters Laura and Lila are the Oxford defi ...more
Anthony Ashley
Jun 13, 2011 Anthony Ashley rated it liked it
Was difficult to get into this story - not that it's not incredibly well-written, but because the author, Galt Niederboffer, insists on her readers getting to know every unflattering facet of each member of this dysfunctional wedding party - from the college friends who've all dated, kissed, or mated with each other in a culturally gender-appropriate fashion to the family that is so WASP that you anticipate seeing a piece of the Mayflower's masthead preserved and mounted on a plaque in the summe ...more
Aug 23, 2010 Brittany rated it really liked it
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