Why Girls Are Weird

Why Girls Are Weird

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She was just writing a story.

When Anna Koval decides to creatively kill time at her library job in Austin by teaching herself HTML and posting partially fabricated stories about her life on the Internet, she hardly imagines anyone besides her friend Dale is going to read them. He's been bugging her to start writing again since her breakup with Ian over a year ago. And so

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Paperback, 306 pages
Published July 1st 2003 by Downtown Press (first published May 31st 1999)
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Samantha

This book is the story of Anna Koval, a librarian who plays around with HTML (the primary attraction for me!) who creates a web journal that initially was just for practice, then for her friend Dale, then as an outlet for all of her issues, demons and dreams. Her entries are almost always humorous, and almost every time either an improved version of her reality or an out right LIE.

Anna's broken up with her boyfriend, Ian, but writes as though they're still together. She starts to get fan mail, w

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Jason
I became interested in this book when I found a quote from it on www.quotationspage.com. I started to read the book once I had gotten my hands on it. The first few pages of the story made me want to stop. It didn't seem appropriate for me. But it isn't like me to stop reading a book once I had started so I pushed forward, ignoring anything that I felt was inappropriate.
I was glad that I didn't stop reading at the beginning, because if I had I would've been missing out on a lot of things. The lif...more
Krystal
Sep 03, 2007 Krystal rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Jenny, even though she reads mainly non-fiction...and after Jenny, anyone who likes humor
Shelves: chicklit
So far, I'm very in love with this book, and I've only gone as far as the second chapter. Of course, I fall in love with most books at first, and its the really not always love at the end.
Funny, insightful, good character development. Keep ya posted.


Yeah, the ending was predictable, but still, the book was fantastic. There were blurbs and essays that really reminded me of my first internet friend, Jenny. The boob essay especially, reverbated with both her voice and mine. Its with narcisstic love...more
bookczuk
I started reading this on loan from the library, but the first chapter about Barbie dolls was so funny that I knew I'd want to pass it on to someone for that alone. I lent this book to a non-bookcrossing reader friend, who also loved it. Her favorite was the rif on Hugh Grant. I guess if I had to pick a second favorite, it would be the "How to Fake a Football Orgasm. As it stands, I've bookcrossed several copies of this book, but have kept one for myself for an occasional laugh.

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Antof9
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Ian Wood
Why Girls Are Weird is itself weird. It’s not the usual kind of thing that I'm interested in reading, and it's organized in a rather quaint fashion. It’s pretty much like something Nora Ephron might have written, very much chick-lit. So having said that, this review is going to be rather different from my more obsessive ones, because this novel is harder to review in that way. I've vacillated (yes, vacillated - deal with it!) between enthusiasm about reading it, disdain for it, and repulsion fro...more
Nikole
Anna has a fairly dull life. She is newly single and coming to terms with her new singleton status. She has a dull library job which gives her countless hours in order to mess around on the computer. Out of desperation for a project to keep herself occupied she starts up a website in order to practice HTML. She decides the website will be a personal diary, just slightly fictionalized. Anna never realized how popular she would become, but soon people are flocking to her website in droves to read...more
Shalyn
I was feeling weird myself when I bought this book, but it was written by and set in a city with which I am familiar, so I thought it might be interesting to read. It's quirky, which is not surprising given the setting and city of origin of the author, but I was expecting more. The protagonist, a somewhat listless school librarian hoping for something better, was only marginally relatable for me. The part of the book about her fictitious blog and how it propelled her into a writing career is int...more
Danielle
I loved Why Girls are Weird. I can't remember the last book that I read that I enjoyed this much. I didn't want to put it down and every time I had to I couldn't wait to keep reading it. The story centers around a woman named Anna who is in her 20s. After breaking up with her long time boyfriend, she starts an online journal about their relationship together as if they had never broken up and winds up amassing a large following. (Note this book was written in the early 2000's before blogging bec...more
Meg
I wanted something light for this week (first week of school)----so I grabbed this book (CHICK LIT anyone?). This book sounded light....and seemed light, but there was one story line that made it a bit tough as older parents make me sad. The book was entertaining and towards the end, I didn't want to put it down...I wanted to know how it would end.

Girl starts a "web journal"....and somehow (never explained) gets a lot of fans...including a young obsessed fan and a guy that she connects with. Th...more
Tracy
Anna K starts a blog after she breaks up with her boyfriend. On the blog, she pretends she is still dating Ian and over the period of a year, collects a blog stalker and a blog boyfriend; her father dies and she loses her day job. The book looks at both Anna K in real life and in her blog life and the problems keeping all of her internet lies straight.

This book started from a blog the author actually maintained. It took me awhile to get through - it didn't resonate and if I had anything else to...more
Amber
This is chick lit? Despite very basic similarities, I don't feel cool with lumping this in the Bridget Jones' Diary. It may be because I sometimes feel like I know the author (from her website, her twitter feed, her insanely amazing and comprehensive recaps of "Gilmore Girls" on Television Without Pity) but I feel like this book is really authentic and fun and easy to relate to. It reminds me of other media I was really enjoying at the time I read it (the movie "Bridesmaids" and the song "The Qu...more
AJ LeBlanc
Books often amuse me, but it's rare that they make me laugh out loud until I cry. This is one of those books. I actually had a mini asthma attack right at the beginning from a great description of a stranger wiping out. Good stuff.

I loved this book, I loved the characters, and I loved how true it felt. This is chick lit that doesn't preach that everything's going to be perfect when you grow up. It's a book that could be your own story. Or your best friend's. Or that girl at work that you hate an...more
Mahala
A True romantic comedy

This book is hilarious. I was actually laughing out loud my boyfriend was giving me weird looks. But it had everything I wanted in it. Comedy, heartbreaks, and a little romance that had me swooning a bit. The main character starts a blog, about her ex. As an online admirer starts to notice her she starts to develop an alter ego and gets caught up in some of her fibs. But I loved Anna, I understood her sarcastic humor too much. She is my ideal protagonist and to top it off s...more
Teresa
i stumbled on this book at our beach house in ca and really thought nothing of it from the description. but then i lost the book i was currently reading and got desperate for something to read, so i gave it a go.

i had so much fun reading this book, it's sheer, girly entertainment. this is one of those books that makes you look forward to any free moments in your day so you can sneak in a few pages. it's got a bit of content and language in it, so consider yourself warned. and whatever you do, do...more
Lynda
I realated a little too well with this book, since when I started my online journal in 1999, quite a few bits were big fat lies. I’d make up friends and lovers. I had no idea that what I wrote would actually touch people. Like Anna, I sort of got a large dose of reality when I found myself falling for someone I met through my journal, riddled with guilt that he’d never forgive me for all the lies I told. Luckily, when I told him the truth, Mark forgave me completely. Shortly thereafter I took do...more
Jennifer
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Laura
So far this is laugh out loud, friggin hilarious as hell. The ass rant (an assload of ass) is one of the funniest things I've ever read. I'm totally "yeah, me too"-ing at far too much, and even get the whole internet friend/stalker deal. Then suddenly we I hit a wall with her dad being sick and knowing he will die. Wait, this is supposed to be funny. Maybe a bit too much of a dose of real life. But then we soldier on. Right, just like real life. I'm plowing through this one, just loving it...Ok,...more
Lani
Pretty sure the Kindle store was having a sale on this (sorry Pamie), and I'm glad I picked it up. I've read Going in Circles, and had the pleasure of meeting May Q Holla, and am a general Pamela Ribon groupie - did you know she's in the dictionary!? True story.

I loved Going in Circles because I'd been there done that, and there wasn't as much I could relate to in this book about a blogger who starts to blend fact and fiction as she shares her life with the internet. But some of the weird is sti...more
Michelle Kelly
Recommended by my friend Margaret. I went to the library to check it out and then went to get a pedicure. I decided to read "Why Girls are Weird" while getting my feet done.

OMG I was laughing so hard at times, that the poor girl doing my feet had to stop because I was shaking. Then she started to giggle because of my laughing. Then other ladies in the Spa had to come over and ask me what I was reading because I was cracking them up.

I highly recommend this very humourous book.
Audrie Bouwmeester
This book was exactly what I needed. I may be long past AnnaK's stage in life, but I am suffering through a big change in my life that I have no control over. I am living by other people's choices and so I found myself relating to both Anna K and Anna Koval.
Ribon writes with a simple humour and self depracation, but somehow creates a character you want to know personally. Someone you cheer for and would defend in a fight.
I applaud you Pamela Ribon - life should be full of humour - even the icky...more
Chelsea
I sped through this in a weekend. Sometimes, I like books that change me a little. Other times, I just like something to entertain me. (See- my love of "Mad Men", and "Jersey Shore".) It's a fun read. Honestly, though, Anna K.'s journal reads much better than the novel. The relationships between the characters- particularly Anna and LDobbler- always seem just a bit off, and never really ring true for me. But it's still entertaining enough.
Lacey Lane
Great book! I loved the story of Anna and how she reinvented herself in her online journal and eventually ended up reinventing herself in real life. I think the funniest part of this book is how the readers perceived her story...maybe I'm a sceptic, but I wouldn't read a story online and believe it was completely true. People exaggerate and bend the truth to show themselves in the best light, so I wonder why anyone reading something posted by a complete stranger would even imagine that it was 10...more
Sharal Hunter
I really enjoyed this story and found many laugh out loud parts especially the Billy Banks dialogue. I had never read anything by this author before and I will definitely be on the lookout for more of her work.

I enjoyed Anna and Dale and all of the other characters, though Ian didn't deserve half of the recognition he got in this book, every story needs a villain, I suppose. :o)
Whitney
I first read this back in high school. I remember laughing so hard at times that I bought my sister a copy and flagged the very funny parts.
This second time around I didn't laugh as hard-I mostly chuckled-but it was still a fun read. It speaks to the every-girls, and I was able to relate a bit more to the main character, Anna, now that I am also in my twenties.
Minty
There's some extremely funny stuff in these pages. But it isn't all humor, there are serious things our main character, Anna, has to deal with. Romantic relationships are a main issue in this book. But it shouldn't be pawned off as just another relationship book, because it's more than that.

Sex. Mentioned a lot. Just a warning.

This book switches between blog entries, first person narration, telephone conversations, IMs, and emails. Usually when a writer decides to throw all those different forma...more
Carrie
Nov 25, 2008 Carrie rated it 2 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: chick-lit fans
This is a book writen by Pamela Ribon, a long time blogger. She was blogging for several years and stopped in 2001, but got back into it in 2002, after getting a book deal. The novel takes some of her blog entries www.pamie.com and mixes them into a story. The main character starts a blog and writes about her relationship with her boyfriend, failing to admit that they haven't been together in over a year. She builds an audience who often write back to her, which leads to some wacky hijinx. More...more
melanie
i think i mostly learned that we don't really change... she was the same girl at the start and the finish. all that really changes is how much of ourselves we let people see. and we tend to show more once we are comfortable with ourselves. it was all presented in a very funny and cute way. loved it! ;D
Crystal
The main character is basically writing a blog and she has a problem keeping the lines straight between her real life and her blog life. She is hysterically funny and I laughed out loud many times. I even had to call my sister and tell her about some of the funny stuff (poor girl).
Susannah
Feb 22, 2011 Susannah added it
Shelves: read-in-2011
This was pretty much the quintessential "blogger gets a book deal" book. Luckily, I didn't follow Pamie's blog to begin with -- and feel no compunction about getting rid of it immediately. I don't think I liked any of the characters. (Okay, maybe the one who died. Sorry!)
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“the warmth
in my mouth.
that rush
through my veins
making my heartache
my pulse quicken
my head-
just a bit dizzy.
my legs-
just a bit numb.
my tongue
years for more
more of you
right now.
now.
i can't wait anymore.
this is torture.
seriously.
i'm in hell.
waiting for you.
i just want to shout
to this giant crowd of people
"how hard is it to make a latte, fuckers?"
i love you, coffee.”
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“You know everything and you know nothing…

And in that there’s this: You will always learn something new. About him. About her. About yourself. And in learning the bad, the uncomfortable, the messy- it’s what you take away that counts. What will you do with that knowledge? Will you leave? Pull tighter? Ignore it? Use it to fall in love even deeper? That’s when you learn more about yourself.”
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