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At Home in the World: A Memoir

3.77 of 5 stars 3.77  ·  rating details  ·  1,320 ratings  ·  194 reviews
In the spring of 1972, Joyce Maynard, a freshman at Yale, published a cover story in The New York Times Magazine about life in the sixties. Among the many letters of praise, offers for writing assignments, and request for interviews was a one-page letter from the famously reclusive author, J.D. Salinger.

Don't Go Away Sad is the story of a girl who loved and lived with J.D.
Hardcover, 352 pages
Published August 15th 1998 by Picador (first published 1998)
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My reaction to this book is mixed. Twenty years ago when I would happen upon Maynard's articles on the ups and downs of raising children, I really enjoyed her plucky but sufficiently self-deprecating storytelling style. I did not know anything else about the columnist. Reading At Home in the World is a bit like peeking around the curtain at the Wizard of Oz - interesting and disappointing at the same time.

The majority of the book is dedicated to dissembling her relationship with J.D. Salinger -
Michelle Margaret
After reading a recent NYT article by Joyce Maynard about her home in San Marcos la Laguna, Lake Atitlan, Guatemala (a house a bunch of my friends rented last Thanksgiving), I was inspired to read her memoir. It consumed me for five days, finally causing me to start and finish a whole book instead of just reading bits of several different books offhandedly. Well-crafted writing + intriguing (nonfiction) plot and characters... Joyce wrote a piece for the New York Times Magazine called "An Eightee ...more
Camille Cusumano

Joyce Maynards's book, AT HOME IN THE WORLD, came out in 1998 and what I recall from the press that passed by my eyes back then was a "tell-all" by one of J.D. Salinger's mistresses. Stop right here. Nothing could be more misleading. The nine months of Maynard's living in Cornish, New Hampshire, with the celebrated author of Catcher in the Rye is central to the book. But that chapter fits in the context of a much larger story, Joyce Maynard's life as daughter of intellectual parents, her precoci
This memoir is the story of author Joyce Maynard's life, focusing mostly on her romantic relationship with J.D. Salinger (yes, the one who wrote Catcher in the Rye). The book covers in great detail, leaving out NOTHING, the bizarre romance between Maynard, a 19-year old Yale freshman, and Salinger, a 53-year old recluse. By the end of this book, I felt that I had spent hours reading a very long issue of a grocery tabloid. There are personal details about both authors' lives that might be juicy g ...more
This woman must have driven everyone around her absolutely nuts. What an odd mix of over achiever and total schmuck. I want to give her credit for portraying her life honestly, but I’m not sure I’m convinced that she is being sincere. She repeatedly discusses her continual inability to portray herself anywhere near reality despite many thinking she was in fact speaking from her heart. What exactly is supposed to make us think that this novel is any different? Quite frankly, by the end of the boo ...more
At Home in the World is a brutally honest memoir by Joyce Maynard. She describes her early life with highly accomplished parents; her father was an alcoholic and her mother a housewife. Both wanted to do more with their lives but were regulated to less than fufilling roles. Her older sister, Rona, was a bit distant and cold but was able to get on with her life.

Then, at 18 while as a Freshman at Yale, Maynard wrote an article for the New York Times Magazine regarding her generation that caught th
Maynard is a first-rate writer, and in this long memoir, she focuses her story mostly on the her teen years until she is into middle age. She's achieved quite a lot of fame in her writing, through her screenplays, novel writing, long career as reporter, syndicated columnist.

How absurd that anyone would attack her for writing about her relationship with JD Salinger when he was 53 and she a teenager. It seems her critics couldn't attack her writing or recollections effectively, so they have gone
'At Home in the World,' easily one of the best memoirs I have read in a long, long while. Heck, maybe even ONE of the best. It deals with writer Joyce Maynard's affair with JD Salinger at eighteen and how his influence and ultimately his abandonment of her (completely brutal and heartless) shaped not only her life for years to come, but affected everything else, her relationships, her writing etc etc.
This book was stunning and Joyce Maynard has such a easy, engaging voice. She really doesn't min
Melanie Edens
When this book was first published, I agreed with the surrounding buzz, pre-judging even though I hadn't even read the book. Basically, the press said she was bitter and used her "short affair" with J.D. Salinger as a kind of poor me confessional. Boy was I wrong. This is a many-layered coming of age memoir of a talented writer, told with immense honesty and candor. I have read Joyce Maynard's fiction and love her writing. Knowing her story informs her writing.
Read this if you want to know more
Becky Fowler
First of all, she seems as at home in the world as an elf, make that the restless spirit of an elf who died badly. This book was super-draining to read, mostly because of how endlessly interested she STILL is in her very brief relationship w/ JD Salinger. She would have had more fun w/ a turnip, it seems, and yet somehow this relatively short period in her life became the alpha and omega of her entire existence. The best parts of the book are about her parents, vivid, complex renderings. All els ...more
I actually liked the second half of this one much more than the first half, which is the part about JD Salinger. Joyce's year with JDS sounds awful--not a single romantic thing about it. If you are a Salinger fan, I'd avoid this book--it makes him sound not like an obsessively private enigma, but like a total creep and weirdo. The last half of the book was far more interesting to me, because it really explored the relationship Joyce had with writing for money--because it was what she felt like w ...more

AT HOME IN THE WORLD is the mesmerizing memoir by Joyce Maynard that chronicles her devastating, all-consuming relationship with renowned novelist, J. D. Salinger.

On the surface, it seems inexplicable: why would an eighteen-year-old girl 'fall in love' with a fifty-three year-old man? But now, having read the book, I feel I understand.

Salinger’s first letter seems innocent—he was a fan of her New York Times essay, "An Eighteen-year old Looks Back on Life" and "cautions that a glimpse of fame can
It may be easy to write this memoir off as literary-world gossip since it is pretty revealing in regard to the author's brief affair with one of the most reclusive and renowned writers of our time. Maynard is candid about Salinger, who does not come off well in this depiction, but Maynard is brutally honest about herself as well. She often seems hysterical, exhaustively needy, and obsessed with her past. At the same time, she's a good writer, pretty self-aware, and regardless of the salacious na ...more
I spent the first half of this book so frustrated with the author. She chronicles her life up to age 45 or so and the first half focus's on her childhood with her alcoholic father and slightly strange mother. She writes and is featured in a new york times article at age 17. She then is sent fan mail one letter from the notoriously private JD Salinger and off she goes on a writing then meeting affair (w/o sex). Maynard writes in a way that's readable and it flows. She is so honest and talented. I ...more
I love memoirs and this one is fantastic. About a young New England girl who moves to NYC. Any fan of JD Salinger must read this. He is only in the first half of the book, but he represents what so many men tried to do to the women of the Baby Boomer generation. I met Joyce and she is an idol of mine. So elegant.
What a wild ride, page turner, swelled head look at the egos of a young talented writer smitten with a legend JD Salinger. Truth is stranger than fiction. And which one of them has a bigger or more vulnerable ego is in the eye of the reader.
Christopher Roth
Ugh, lots of mixed feelings about this book. For anyone luridly curious about J. D. Salinger's private life—or interested in psychologizing his fiction—it is absolutely required reading. And I suppose it was a good book because it is a page-turner, but it is literally almost physically painful to read a tell-all memoir by someone who is as clearly emotionally damaged and fucked up as Joyce Maynard is but who genuinely thinks that she has moved beyond all the problems she describes but hasn't. Cl ...more
Wow. Joyce Maynard is a sad, deluded, piece of work, and her affair with the super shitty, controlling, brimming with hatred, king of teen angst, JD Salinger, most certainly did not help her. It hindered her for life. I wonder how different she would be if she'd stayed on at school, away from her crazy parents, amongst people her own age.
I've never been a Salinger fan. I read his books as a teen, and re-read Nine Stories as an adult, and was surprised by the great esteem his name and work have
At Home in the World is a meaningful glance into Joyce Maynard’s personal narrative. This account, if needed, will stimulate integrity, and bravery for writers in need of insight. Joyce, whom has a background filled with creative inspiration, was stifled from writing about it in an open and honest way. It was not until many years later, after weathering a dysfunctional family that included emotional abuse, alcoholism, eating disorders, and clinical depression, to spending a life-changing year, l ...more
Chrissi Sepe
I recommend this book to anyone who is a writer or aspiring to be one. It was very interesting to me, as an author, to read about Maynard's process of submitting essays to magazines during her teen years and to see her blossom into a published author. The bonus of reading the paperback version is that it include's Maynard's original New York Times Magazine's article "An Eighteen-Year-Old Looks Back On Life," which she wrote in essay-form while a student at Yale University. The main action of the ...more
Lucinda Riva
Mar 13, 2014 Lucinda Riva rated it 2 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: no-one
I struggled to MAKE myself finish this book. I wanted to like it. I relate to Ms. Maynard; we are born within months of each other, sharing NYC, New England, the 60s, 70s, 80s, and raising 2 children after a divorce. Now she lives in Mill Valley, CA; I lived in Tiburon, CA (the next town over) for many years.

Her manner, style of writing, I found to be dry and really boring. Nothing helped me to like her as a narrator of her own life, even with all our similarities. This surprises me because I
Terri Sinclair
I know many people will read this because of the connection to JD Salinger and to be honest that's what initially brought my attention to the book. I knew nothing about Maynard, little about Salinger (other than reading his books) and thought this would offer insight into the private and illusive writer, Salinger.

There was a lot of talk at the time about Maynard exploiting her relationship with Salinger which I didn't get at all. The book is filled more with self analysis in my opinion and is no
"Does it hurt"? asked the Rabbit? ******OM****** If you want to know why I wrote ******OM******** READ the BOOK....THE ENTIRE BOOK and enjoy for yourself!!!!!!! A person would have to be half dead not to take something away for 'themselves' from this very personal memoir.

I KNEW I would love this book when at the beginning --Joyce quotes a passage from the very wonderful classic children's book: "The Veleteen Rabbitt" Or How Toys Become Real by Margery Williams [my daughter Katy, now 32, played t
I decided to read this memoir because of my deep admiration of J.D. Salinger's writings. I knew that Joyce wasn't going to have a great portrayal of my favorite author, but I was curious as to what she had to say about her odd relationship with J.D. I must say, not that I should have expected anything different, that my outlook on him is totally altered. I never could have imagined that J.D. could have been THAT insensitive and cold of a person. I unfortunately don't think that I will be able to ...more
I love the title of this book. How few people actually feel at home in the world, especially when young. Here, Joyce Maynard decides to break her silence on her year long affair with J.D. Salinger in 1971. In light of his recent death, I felt compelled to read what she wrote twelve years ago.
In this book, she continues with her life after Salinger, talks about her unusual relationship with her parents, and tries for some reconciliation. Since Joyce and I are the same age, I especially liked read
Not sure how to rate this book without passing judgement on the author. It was well written but I just wanted to knock some sense into her, especially during the time she was with J.D Salinger. He was so mentally cruel to her on so many levels. After reading this memoir, I definitely have a different perspective on her novels. She talks a lot about how much of her magazine writing was never honest so I do wonder about this book as well. Can Maynard be truly honest in her writing? Warning: if you ...more
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Na jó, asszem mégis inkább Joyce Maynard regényeket fogok még olvasni, nem Salingert...
Alyce Champagne
Joyce Maynard was excoriated when she dared to write about her affair with J.D. Salinger, but as she points out, it's her story too. According to her persuasive portrait, Salinger was a boring, mean-spirited old man, and I believe her. Their time together in his New Hampshire house sounds like a dismal experience indeed. He was eccentric, but so was she and her family, who apparently saw nothing wrong with allowing their 18 year old daughter to move in with a middle-aged man. Since I was never i ...more
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Joyce Maynard first came to national attention with the publication of her New York Times cover story “An Eighteen-Year-Old Looks Back on Life” in 1973, when she was a freshman at Yale. Since then, she has been a reporter and columnist for The New York Times, a syndicated newspaper columnist whose “Domestic Affairs” column appeared in more than fifty papers nationwide, a regular contributor to NPR ...more
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