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June 5th 2006
(first published 2007)
by HarperCollins Publishers Ltd
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Hardcover, 352 pages
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0007183127
(isbn13: 9780007183128)
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Do you know what makes you happy? Daniel Gilbert would bet that you think you do, but you are most likely wrong. In his witty and engaging new ...more
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This is pretty much the opposite of a self-help book. Instead of telling you how you can be happier, Harvard Psychology professor Gilbert talks about why we are so bad at predicting what will make us happy in the first place. Gilbert is a smooth and entertaining writer, and he does a good job of explaining in detail the cognitive errors we make in trying to predict our future happiness. For those who hope to gain some practical value from the book, Gilbert also outlines one technique that has...more
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Read in April, 2007
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anyone except most moralists and libertarians... so... none of my friends. ;b
April 2007, first impression: So far, this book is witty, eye-opening and really fun. Also really well researched. He references Daniel C. Dennett in the first five pages, so how could I not love it?
May 2007, upon completion: Update...
Ultimately, I decided to give this book three stars because I believe that it is a ballsy and well-executed attempt to take on an impossibly difficult problem (happiness - that's a biggie). For the most part, I admire Gilbert's methods, though they ALL bec...more
May 2007, upon completion: Update...
Ultimately, I decided to give this book three stars because I believe that it is a ballsy and well-executed attempt to take on an impossibly difficult problem (happiness - that's a biggie). For the most part, I admire Gilbert's methods, though they ALL bec...more
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Read in June, 2007
I just finished Daniel Gilbert’s new book, and it’s highly recommended. Next time in Cambridge, I’ll be asking him to join me at Grafton Street for a Guinness (you’ll get this if you read the book).
He uses one of the most humorous and accessible non-fiction, science-related writing styles to explain a whole genre of psychological, psychiatric, and philosophical research. His basic message is that we are crap at remembering our past happiness, and also terrible at making decisions tha...more
He uses one of the most humorous and accessible non-fiction, science-related writing styles to explain a whole genre of psychological, psychiatric, and philosophical research. His basic message is that we are crap at remembering our past happiness, and also terrible at making decisions tha...more
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"No one likes to be criticized, of course, but if the things we successfully strive for do not make our future selves happy, or if the things we unsuccessfully avoid do, then it seems reasonable (if somewhat ungracious) for them to cast a disparaging glance backward and wonder what the hell we were thinking."
"This is when I learned that mistakes are interesting and began planning a life that contained several of them."
"Surprise tells us that we were expecting som...more
"This is when I learned that mistakes are interesting and began planning a life that contained several of them."
"Surprise tells us that we were expecting som...more
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Read in May, 2008
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I was given this book by a friend who likened the style to Alain de Botton. While I don't agree with the comparison, I can understand that the genre bears certain similarities -- a nonfiction book with meandering tone, musing on a single topic -- but because this is primarily about psychology and the way we make decisions, I wouldn't really put these on the same shelf.
That being said, this was an interesting read... although I've been "currently-reading" this in bits for about a y...more
That being said, this was an interesting read... although I've been "currently-reading" this in bits for about a y...more
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Read in May, 2008
First thing you need to know about this book: it's cognitive psychology, not self-help. To Gilbert's credit, he states this clearly early on... but by then, for many purchasers, it will be too late, since the cover fairly shouts "Self-Help!!".
So, to be clear: "Stumbling on Happiness" won't do much to help you be happy, but it will help you understand some of the many reasons as to why, despite our best efforts, we so often fail to be so.
But only some of the reasons,...more
So, to be clear: "Stumbling on Happiness" won't do much to help you be happy, but it will help you understand some of the many reasons as to why, despite our best efforts, we so often fail to be so.
But only some of the reasons,...more
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Read in April, 2008
I think this book should have been called Stumbling on Humility, cause what I took from it is that I'm not even as happy as I thought I was, and really, I didn't think I was that happy to begin with. So, I get it, our perception is flawed. Our ability to remember, perceive and predict is not well developed. I have thought of this book and brought it up in conversation quite a bit because either a)it has a lot of real life applications or b) I'm kind of obsessed with the subject of happ...more
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Read in August, 2006
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The author Dan Gilbert, is a gifted teacher and professor of social psychology at Harvard. This book is an overview of his research on affective forecasting, which examines what and how people think about their own emotions. This line of research began with the question of how accurate are people at predicting how they will respond emotionally to a variety of experiences. Not very well, it turns out. This led to an examination of the factors that lead to these fascinating mistakes that we all...more
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Read in October, 2007
recommends it for:
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The first important thing to note about this book is that it is not a self-help book. Rather, it's a beginner's look at how we perceive the world and how that translates into our perception of our own happiness, or lack thereof. In that light, it does its job well.
Gilbert is clearly a man who is in love with words, which every reader knows can be charming or tiresome, depending on the skill of the author. Gilbert skates that line pretty closely in my opinion - while I mostly enjoyed the read...more
Gilbert is clearly a man who is in love with words, which every reader knows can be charming or tiresome, depending on the skill of the author. Gilbert skates that line pretty closely in my opinion - while I mostly enjoyed the read...more
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Read in July, 2007
Is it just me, or is the author of this book unusually cocky in his writing style? Gilbert reiterates a bunch of basic ideas that any normal, reasonably intelligent person should already have arrived at (like, you shouldn't judge another person's life without all of the facts, and, wow, things never turn out quite how you plan them) and then acts like he's discovered a new planet. His tone is one of an utterly brilliant professor talking down to his idiotic, simple students.
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I was actually, ...more
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Two of the abilities that separate us from the beasties; the ability to remember the past and the ability to imagine the future; receive a thorough analysis from author Daniel Gilbert that inform us just how unreliable these faculties can be. We create illusions on a daily basis that enable us to find happiness no matter what life tosses our way. This is fascinating stuff. Much of what our senses tell us is real, much of what we remember of our past, and much of what we anticipate will be true i...more
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Read in September, 2006
An awesome book so far. I'm about 40% of the way through. It's by a psychology professor who discusses how much humans think about the future; what they might be, what they'd like to be, what they're afraid of happening and so forth. He also discusses real happiness versus ‘created’ happiness and how one isn’t better than the other.
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Read in May, 2008
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I learned a lot from this book about why I can't figure out what will make me happy. Mostly it was just reassuring to find out that everyone has as much difficulty as I do and why we all have this problem. Lots of interesting psychological experiments and finding are discussed, and it's an easy read.
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Read in June, 2008
hilarious book. it reminds me of my youngest brother joe or the way my friend sparky talks. very witty, quick humor, must pay attention or you miss funny things. this book is not how to find happiness, but scientific studies and info on peoples percesptions on happiness. a book i would read again.
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I think about this book a lot...almost every day and at least weekly. As you know, I am a planner. This book sheds a great deal of light on why my plans may not pan out...
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Read in November, 2008
A sharp, witty, and insightful book about happiness.
Gilbert argues that we are never as happy in the future as we so gullibly anticipate we will be when we are in the present. This is because our reliance on imagination causes us to fill in details that never manifest, and leave out details that will. Gilbert notes that if we were to rely on surrogate peers who are experiencing our possible futures at the present moment, we could bypass imagination, and get a much more realistic view of whet...more
Gilbert argues that we are never as happy in the future as we so gullibly anticipate we will be when we are in the present. This is because our reliance on imagination causes us to fill in details that never manifest, and leave out details that will. Gilbert notes that if we were to rely on surrogate peers who are experiencing our possible futures at the present moment, we could bypass imagination, and get a much more realistic view of whet...more
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I will admit it: there were times when I got sick of this author trying to be a stand-up comedian and just wanted him to get to the point, dammit! But there was lots of useful (if slightly discouraging) information about my brain. Apparently, Brain and I have wildly conflicting conceptions of how to make me happy, and even though I think I know best, Brain always wins. It's because my ideas of the future are so different from how Brain will actually perceive that future once it becomes presen...more
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Read in September, 2008
really good book about our minds and how we perceive and predict (or misperceive and mispredict) what will and does make us happy. he has a very engaging, funny, random style that he uses to discuss psychological studies and theories and what they tell us about how our minds work. not self-helpy at all--more, "isn't it funny how humans totally shoot themselves in the foot? i mean, look at what we do!" kind of a tone.
really interesting to be reading this in conjunction with eckhart...more
really interesting to be reading this in conjunction with eckhart...more
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