Stolen Innocence: My Story of Growing Up in a Polygamous Sect, Becoming a Teenage Bride, and Breaking Free of Warren Jeffs

Stolen Innocence: My Story of Growing Up in a Polygamous Sect, Becoming a Teenage Bride, and Breaking Free of Warren Jeffs

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In September 2007, a packed courtroom in St. George, Utah, sat hushed as Elissa Wall, the star witness against polygamous sect leader Warren Jeffs, gave captivating testimony of how Jeffs forced her to marry her first cousin at age fourteen. This harrowing and vivid account proved to be the most compelling evidence against Jeffs, showing the harsh realities of this closed...more
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Published (first published January 1st 2008)
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Petra X
I read this to gain balance after reading Caroline Jessop's Escape. I found this book too full of self-pity and self-glory but with a paucity of background information on the FLDS. That isn't to say it isn't a good book - it is a chilling story well told and the book presents a much more rounded picture of life with its happy times as well as sad than Escape did.

Stolen Innocence reads quite strangely, but you can't put your finger on what is strange and why it is until you reach the last few cha...more
Needleroozer
I am easily obsessed with these stories of women oppressed by and then escaping from the FLDS (Fundamentalist Church of Latter Day Saints, an offshoot of the Mormon Church).

This is heavy shit!

The author was forced to get married to her first cousin when she was 14. (I think the husband was 19.) She was then forced to "perform her wifely" duty with him. Yikes! Bad news. Bad, bad news. The happy news it that she finally found true love and escaped from the oppressive religion.

I am for religious fr...more
CJ
I've read everything I could get my hands on about the FLDS in the last couple of years. This is another book about a woman who left the religion after years of abuse - she was married at 14 to her first cousin. This cousin then spent years mentally and physically abusing her before she broke away.

Great insight into the FLDS group and why it's so hard for women to leave it.
Carmaletta Hilton
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Lara
I was predisposed to enjoy the book, considering that I’m pretty fascinated by fundamentalist Mormons. I can’t remember if this fascination started with Big Love or if it started with Under the Banner of Heaven. In fact, it might be more appropriate to say I’m pretty fascinated with extremists of any kind, really. (Which brings me to a tangent: did y’all ever see that BBC show where the host basically visited extremists and tried to understand why they believed the things that they believed? He...more
Cam
Sep 02, 2008 Cam added it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2008
I wanted to read this book after reading Carolyn Jessop's book on the same topic- living in polygamy. I think this adds more credit to Carolyn's account. I was wrapped up in this story and found myself crying when the verdict was read against Warren Jeffs. This girl has overcome a lot of challenges, and once again I've realized how blessed I am to enjoy so many freedoms.
Eva Leger
Dec 30, 2008 Eva Leger rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: anyone interested in polygamy, anyone interested in non-fiction in general
Recommended to Eva by: found at Wal-Mart
Astonishing. I think, for me, this was even more astonishing than Carolyn Jessups book Escape which was my entrance into the polygamy. I knew only the definition of the word before reading Escape and have since been gathering almost everything I can find on the subject.
This was a real quick book- mainly because you really can't put it down. The emotion is so raw it's scary. I found myself feeling so many different things at so many different points in her life story. One thing I liked a lot is...more
Cody
At first I wasn't sure if I was going to enjoy this book. It is the story of a young girl growing up in the polygamous FLDS faith. Married at age 14 under duress she suffered much as a very young and naive bride. She eventually left the marriage and was instrumental in getting Warren Jeffs, the then prophet, sent to prison.

I have to admit that the more I read the more I enjoyed learning about her perspectives concerning the FLDS. I was appalled at the control that Warren Jeffs asserted over the...more
Elizabeth
A quick read, frustrating on many levels. Ms. Wall does a good job of illustrating the apparently poisonous influence of Warren Jeffs on her entire community. Whether one approves of this social/religous structure or not, it seems clear that all it takes is one bad leader to bring it all down. One of the more pragmatic reasons not to get involved in something like this. In terms of her own family and her own choices, I got the sense there was more nuance to it than made the book.

Some may be sho...more
Beth Young
I wanted to read this so I could find out for myself what the FLDS church believed. I thought that they would have some similar beliefs with the LDS church of which I belong. There are really none except that they belive in The Book of Mormon. But, their interpretation of The Book of Mormon is so different than that of the LDS religion. The biggest difference is that the LDS religion is very pro-family and we are to supposed to support and love our families through all trials that we go through....more
Monlka808
It is fascinating to me that Warren actually got away with everything this book talks about. It scares me and makes me realize how there really are 'cult like' religions. Very glad I wasn't born into a family like this one! It's sickening what these young girls had to experience, and by someone they are supposed to trust.
Indra
An extremely gripping read...more for the story than the writing. I could not help but like the narrator, who risked a great deal to come forward to try to help others as well as herself. She does a good job explaining the beliefs she was raised with and her story illustrates just what a hold the FLDS church has on many of its believers. Elissa Wall has a lot of strength, grace, and dignity...when she says she still cares about her loved ones and understands their internal struggles--even though...more
Christina Stind
The power of this book is in the story. And the story is so powerful that even though the various spelling mistakes throughout this book bothers me - they don't really matter.
The story is so powerful, so almost unbelievable. Throughout the book I was in shock that this can actually take place in the States, in a civilised society. I'm amazed that men can still dominate women and children in this way today.
The book follows Elissa Wall's life from childhood untill she breaks out of the sect in her...more
BookActivist
Sep 12, 2008 BookActivist rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: EVERYONE
Recommended to BookActivist by: Jeannie Howard
This was an amazing book. It was very well written and I began to care deeply for this poor girl. It striked my interest in this subject and upset me deeply that our government and law enforcement is allowing this to happen.
Natalie
Just another example of brainwashing in the name of God.

Ever since we visited Salt Lake City and saw the Mormon temple, I wanted to know about the people who still practiced polygamy. They don't in the conventional Mormon religion, however, the author of this book was born into an extremist sect that not only practices polygamy, but marries children off to 80 year old men.

The author was forced to get married to a "Forrest Gump" type without the sincerity and sweetness. He bullied her as a child...more
Jennifer Peas
Actually a great, quick read. I'm always fascinated by fundamentalist experiences...narrated from the point of who have escape the clutches of it. Really interesting background information both of the author's familial history and of the FLDS'. Clearly she speaks with great compassion (for those who deserved it) as well as grace and love. What a struggle she overcame.
Nona
Evil results when the Word of God is warped to fit ones perverted beliefs.
This is the life story of a young woman growing up in a FLDS community, her forced marriage to a cousin at the age of 14 and her journey to break free of Warren Jeffs.
Alli Howard
this was an encouraging book of one girls survival. I was in shock that this was happening within the past 10 years..I admire Elissa's courage and hope
Ingrid Lola
I greatly admire and respect Elissa Wall, but not her book... obviously written with the help of an amateur journalist. Yes, the story SEEMED interesting enough for me to pay $25, but wasn't worth it in the least. I guess it could be a good beach read... but check it out of the library, or at least wait for the paperback. This book is no work of art, and certainly wasn't life changing. The writing was laugh out loud terrible. I guess I have to give it to Elissa, though--she certainly had a tough...more
Sarah
My Review: As a firm believer in non-belief, I feel somewhat obligated to begin my review with a brief disclaimer. Although Catholicism runs in my family, I have spent many years diligently and purposefully distancing myself from fundamental religion. That said, neutrality is not something that comes easily to me in relation to these issues and I must admit that my mind was far from open when I picked this book off the shelf. Unsurprisingly, this terrifying story has not eased my anti-organized-...more
Mel B.
This was a gripping and disturbing account of a girl who was forced into marriage in the FLDS, a splinter of the Mormon church not acknowledged by them. While the protagonist, Elissa, was not forced into a polygamist marriage as many of her relatives were, it was still disturbing to read, because of her age, and the abuse presented to her by her husband. [return][return]Quite interesting if you'd like to read a first-hand account of someone who lived as a polygamist Mormon and managed to get out...more
jenna nims
i don't really know what i thought of this book - i listened to the whole thing and i do know that the whininess of the narrators voice irritated me and i had to keep telling myself that it is a sad story but found that i kept wanting her to shut up and stop whining! i would have liked more background into the FLDS since I know nothing, I would have liked the author to show more spine - though she was in a way - since she left her marriage eventually, did things behind the groups back etc but th...more
laurenpie
Fascinating, shocking, sad and enraging!

Like many other reviewers here, I was on a roll after reading a few autobiographies from earlier in this same cult's history, Shattered Dreams: My Life as a Polygamist's Wife (poor writing but fascinating subject; author born around 1937) and Favorite Wife: Escape from Polygamy (quite good; author born around 1954 but simultaneously married to the older, first author's husband).

Now, of course I had previously heard of Jeffs and this cult. Like many others,...more
Josi
This was a fascinating book to read and I really appreciated the depth she used to tell not only her story of being raised in a Polygamous Sect, but also being a key in bringing to light the things that were happening there. I was surprised to learn that she grew up, in �Salt Lake, just a few blocks from me--she described places that I knew and I'm surprised I never knew that she and her family was there. I liked that the story remained chronological, without too much jumping back and forth, and...more
Wanda
This is the story of Elissa Wall who was born into the FLDS - a radically fundamental offshoot of Mormonism, more akin to a cult than anything else. She describes the tensions of living with multiple "mothers" and siblings. At age 14 Elissa finds herself in an abusive arranged marriage and she eventually makes her way out of this sect. She is the primary witness against the "prophet" - a nut case by the name of Warren Jeff, who is sentenced to prison by the state of Utah. His followers still thi...more
Karen Simental
Stolen Innocence is the autobiography of Elissa Wall, a former FLDS member who managed to break free from the religion. Elissa was born into the FLDS. Her mother – who birthed 18 children - was the second of three wives. All three were “assigned” to Mr. Wall, and it led to a strained home life. After much shuffling, Sharon Wall and all her birth children were removed from the Wall residence. After staying with relatives, the prophet “assigned” them to a new man, Fred Jessop. He was an elder in t...more
Wendy Lynn Brion
I read this in a matter of days and couldn't put it down. The reason I gave it only four stars though, is, I really want to know what else has happened since...has Elissa seen her mother and sisters since the book was published? Also, some information I thought would be helpful...did she complete her education after leaving FLDS? She dreamed of becoming a nurse, did she do that?

Otherwise, the book was very good. For the most part it is a straight narrative and she points out the places where she...more
Jeana
I bought this book in 2009 and it has sat on my shelf ever since. I'm not sure if I just wasn't ready to read it or if I wasn't interested at the time. I should have read it sooner. I remember hearing about Warren Jeffs and all that was happening in the FLDS church however it was not something I followed. In my own selfish world, I didn't have time to worry about what was happening in fundamentalist groups.

Elissa Wall tells her story with clarity and innocence. She describes a relatively happy...more
Alvi Harahap
Ellissa Wall was brought up in the bosom of the Fundamentalist Latter Day Saints and at fourteen was forced to marry her older first cousin, and repeatedly raped throughout her 3 year marriage. This is Elissa's story. But it's also a glimpse into the workings of a way of life that many of us would find chilling, yet was perfectly normal for Elissa and her many siblings. We learn how plural marriages work (and at times may even work well for the people who have learned nothing else but this way o...more
Marlene Rohr
The true story account of a former member of the FLDS (Fundamentalist Latter Day Saints) has left me in shock and bewilderment. I was shocked to discover that the practice of polygamy in the name of “freedom of religion” is really a disguise for child molestation. I was bewildered to discover that although there are laws against these acts in the USA and in Canada; that somehow the authorities are either looking the other way or condoning these atrocities by their inaction. The women and childre...more
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“We were taught to always put on a good face, even when things are going poorly. We were told to “keep sweet,” an admonition to be compliant and pleasant no matter the circumstance. Since we couldn’t reveal our angry words and feelings, they got bottled up inside, and often there was no communication at all.” 2 people liked it
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