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Jan 30, 2009
Julia Bennett is the central character in this book. She has lived with abuse all of her life with her alcoholic mother and her many boyfriends, and she is reliving it all over again with her fiancé Robert. Finally, one day after being abused she sees the light and decides to leave before her wedding and go to look for refuge with her Aunt Lydia, a woman who has tried to help her in the past.
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Feb 16, 2008
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Sep 27, 2011
I really love Chick Lit, but this one would just be between "OK" and "Liked it" for me. I am a harsh judge it seems but this book was over the top. Too much going on, the main story would have been more enjoyable if the whole book was a little simplified. Julia decides to leave her abusive fiance before the wedding at the beginning of the book and runs to her Aunt in a small town knowing he will follow eventually and get even with her. Her way of coping, and her gift in li
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Aug 04, 2011
I am trying to slog through this book because a good friend recommended it. I like to support new authors. But, I am not sure I am going to finish this one. This new author seems to me to be trying to hard. It feels a bit contrived. It feels like she is trying to get into the "Ya-Ya Sisterhood" but doesn't quite know how. There is too much 'potty' talk and not enough substance to balance it. Sorry, but I give this one a thumbs down.... ( two days later)... well, I have continu
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Sep 15, 2010
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Oct 03, 2009
In the first line, Julia tells us she leaves her wedding dress hanging from a tree in North Dakota, as she leaves Boston and drives away from her abusive and dangerous fiance on their wedding day. Her black eye a reminder of how narrowly she escaped a marriage of abuse and humiliation.
She goes to her Aunt Lydia, a feisty, strong, eccentric woman who lives on a farm in Golden Oregon. In this small town, Julia with her big boobs, wild hair, and damaged psyche, finds friendship, safet More...
She goes to her Aunt Lydia, a feisty, strong, eccentric woman who lives on a farm in Golden Oregon. In this small town, Julia with her big boobs, wild hair, and damaged psyche, finds friendship, safet More...
Feb 03, 2010
Julia left her wedding dress hanging in a tree and her abusive relationship in Boston on her way to Golden, Oregon, home of her mother's half sister, the quirkiest of them all, to find herself. Eccentric, Aunt Lydia "grounds" Julia while surrounding her with love, friends, farm animals and the chores they create. Those friends include a psychic with secrets, a minister's very unhappy wife and an abused mother of four. This oddball group gather strength from each other and are able to
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Jan 11, 2012
Ok, I have to admit the title is what drew me to this book. Anything that has "chocolate" in the title has GOT to be good, right? Well...
Julia arrives at her quirky and over-the-feminist-top aunt's home with a - literally - bruised and broken body and spirit to escape her verbally and physically abusive fiance. She then meets Aunt Lydia's "Psychic Night" women friends who are struggling to find their own inner strength and courage to overcome personal problems of More...
Julia arrives at her quirky and over-the-feminist-top aunt's home with a - literally - bruised and broken body and spirit to escape her verbally and physically abusive fiance. She then meets Aunt Lydia's "Psychic Night" women friends who are struggling to find their own inner strength and courage to overcome personal problems of More...
Jun 14, 2011
Overall I felt the author took a typical chick lit type story but made it more creative with her original outlook on the ladies. References may be a little too sexual for some readers, but I found it amusing and funny and couldn’t help laughing out loud.
Really enjoyed this book that a co-worker passed along. Despite having serious issues (abusive and alcoholic relationships and cancer), the Psychic Night group: Julia, Aunt Lydia, Katie, Lara and Caroline find solace in their fr More...
Really enjoyed this book that a co-worker passed along. Despite having serious issues (abusive and alcoholic relationships and cancer), the Psychic Night group: Julia, Aunt Lydia, Katie, Lara and Caroline find solace in their fr More...
May 25, 2010
I'm not sure what I did more while reading this book - laugh or cry. It's enlightening, humiliating, and completely enthralling!
It was amazing to me after suffering from the 'Dread Disease' myself that I could laugh when Julia contracts it and hides it from everyone - as did I. (Don't worry it's just panic attacks!) I reread and reread the description of Lydia's sprawling farm with the toilet planters and concrete pigs - mostly because the tears in my eyes kept messing with the words More...
It was amazing to me after suffering from the 'Dread Disease' myself that I could laugh when Julia contracts it and hides it from everyone - as did I. (Don't worry it's just panic attacks!) I reread and reread the description of Lydia's sprawling farm with the toilet planters and concrete pigs - mostly because the tears in my eyes kept messing with the words More...
Feb 13, 2010
I really enjoyed this book! There were times in the beginning of the book that I laughed out loud (especially at their variously named Psychic nights).
Julia runs away from her society marriage at the last moment throwing her hated wedding dress into a tree. She goes to live with her Aunt Lydia who has always been her escape, first from her abusive and neglectful mother, and now from her abusive ex-fiance. Julia falls into small town life and into a group of women who all have their quirks More...
Julia runs away from her society marriage at the last moment throwing her hated wedding dress into a tree. She goes to live with her Aunt Lydia who has always been her escape, first from her abusive and neglectful mother, and now from her abusive ex-fiance. Julia falls into small town life and into a group of women who all have their quirks More...
Nov 13, 2009
I'm not sure what to say about this book. I thought some of the characters and situations were contrived, the confrontations and conversations overblown and silly, and the wrap-ups too pat. However, I consumed this book during a weekend trip with my husband. I read for the entire trip there, every spare moment in the hotel, and the entire trip home.
So what does that say? That while I rolled my eyes throughout much of it, I am a sucker for a happy ending.
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So what does that say? That while I rolled my eyes throughout much of it, I am a sucker for a happy ending.
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Oct 23, 2011
I think I was expecting this to be a romance, and it's really more something else - a story of women's empowerment after various forms of abuse and trauma. You can tell it's a debut novel. I felt like the author threw in everything and the kitchen sink -- how much MORE trauma and awful things could the heroine have endured in her life?! I'm sure the awful things that Julia endured are not really unusual, unfortunately, but they are more than I'm used to reading about. The zany supporting cha
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Mar 08, 2010
Just because a book has a certain amount of eccentricity and a core group of women, it should not be favorably compared to the Ya Ya's. I read the entire thing because I like to finish what I start, but the characterization was completely frustrating - how can anyone be empathetic to these women the way they were written, especially the main character? I know we're supposed to fall in love with the character of the aunt, but she just felt like a caricature of the "kooky, lovable relative"
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Jul 21, 2009
I read this because it was recommended by a friend who could not stop raving about it. I was horrified to read it and to find that I not only didn't like it, but that I hated it. To me, it was like the writer composed what she thought was a recipe for a great book, and followed it step by step to get the desired result. Not only was the chocolate metaphor overdone, but the characters were totally unrealistic, as was much of the dialogue. Most of it was a cliche, from the horrible, abusive bo
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Jun 18, 2010
So, I freely admit that this is not great fiction, but it is definitely feel-good female fiction. There's lots of woman power, stick up for yourself, find out who you are, overcome your fears, follow your heart energy, and I giggled in places and otherwise smiled through much of it (though there are, of course, the obligatory tragic and horrifying set of situations, so that the women can have suitable opportunities to show their strengths, and those you just can't smile through).
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Jan 18, 2011
I think I've found a new favorite author. This is the second book by Cathy Lamb I've read, and I can't decide which one I like better. She's such a fantastic author and her books really grab ahold of me.
What is so appealing about this book? Pretty much everything. You have Julia, a young woman who escapes an abusive relationship on her wedding day and moves in with her eccentric Aunt Lydia, who unapologetically hosts women's sexuality "meetings" at her home and grows po More...
What is so appealing about this book? Pretty much everything. You have Julia, a young woman who escapes an abusive relationship on her wedding day and moves in with her eccentric Aunt Lydia, who unapologetically hosts women's sexuality "meetings" at her home and grows po More...
Jul 11, 2010
In the character of Julia, Cathy Lamb has created a woman who is warm, funny, unique...and quite literally on the road to self-discovery. After leaving her abusive fiance at the altar in Boston (and her wedding veil on a gnarled tree in North Dakota), Julia keeps driving West until she gets to her aunt's house in Oregon. When she gets there, she meets a community full of quirky, offbeat characters, who show her what it means to support each other, value themselves and honor their passions.
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Nov 01, 2009
I've heard so many women like this book and I think that it's possible that the subject matter is what draws them, but the problems with this book are too great to ignore in spite of the serious and potentially positive message within.
First of all the only thing that can be said about the writing is that it is juvenile. This is seriously one of the most poorly written books I've ever read. Cathy Lamb makes Stephanie Meyers look like Jane Austin.
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First of all the only thing that can be said about the writing is that it is juvenile. This is seriously one of the most poorly written books I've ever read. Cathy Lamb makes Stephanie Meyers look like Jane Austin.
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Feb 03, 2011
this story had a lot of potential but fell on its face in my opinion. Julia Bennett flees the Boston altar where her blueblood abuser fiancé, Robert Stanfield III, awaits her. She leaves her wedding gown in a North Dakota tree, and arrives in the tiny town of Golden, Oregon to take refuge with her beloved Aunt Lydia. As Julia slowly returns to a semblance of normalcy, Lydia's eccentric friends soon become Julia's near and dear as well: minister's wife Lara, psychic Caroline and abused wife Kati
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Apr 10, 2010
At the beginning I doubted why I had picked this book to read. Then Julia began to make friends and let herself heal. It was a story of 5 women who needed to overcome obstacles, humougous & to some people insurmountable, but they did. They did with love, friendship, laughter, and inner strength. Aunt Lydia knows how to channel a woman's inner strength with her Pyschic Nights and women's bodies. It made me laugh, cry, and cherish my women friends and love my husband even more. Great read!!!
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Dec 26, 2010
Ok, I've read the other reviews of this book on Goodreads. Thank heavens I did not read the negative reviews before I read the book. I picked up the book off the library shelf simply because it had a quirky title. Started reading and was hooked from the first page. Yes, some of the events/characters seem over the top, but if the book mirrored all of our own lives, we would not read it. There are comments, reactions, observations in the book that seem as if the author HAD to have gone throug
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May 30, 2010
Julia Bennett is a single 34 yr. old woman who's having a life crisis. She had a troubled childhood growing up with an abusive mother who was a drug addict and slept around. Her mother would neglect her and also bring home boyfriends who abused Julia either physically or tried to sexually molest her. Julia used to hang out at the library or the park alot sometimes sleeping there when things got too bad and her teachers and others would pitch in and bring her meals or buy her new clothes, since h
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Dec 09, 2009
The Lit Ladies Book Club rallied from the difficult to digest Angela’s Ashes last month, to the eat-it-up-quick-as-you-can Julia’s Chocolates. Cathy Lamb channels The Secret Life of Bees and The Ya-Ya Sisterhood with this turn on a lost soul of tragic beginnings who finds her true self through the company of some very unique and extreme friendships.
Lamb’s story centers on Julia. She is running away from a horrible past and even worse future. We get to witness her growth and awakening More...
Lamb’s story centers on Julia. She is running away from a horrible past and even worse future. We get to witness her growth and awakening More...
Apr 17, 2010
I wanted to like this book. And after reading 20 pages I did. How can you resist the story of an abused woman who runs away from Boston and her wealthy boyfriend on their wedding day and leaves her wedding dress hanging in a tree in North Dakota on her way west? However, by the time I was on page 75, I was not enjoying the book AND but I already figured out the ending. On the surface, this novel seems as if it would be a winner--a damsel in distress, strong women characters who bond together
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Jul 29, 2011
To be frank, I'm surprised this even got published. I do think many of the characters were well developed, but not the protagonist or her aunt, a major character. I think the concept of the book was workable, but the writing was SO heavy-handed and unbelievably obvious as to be painful. Seems to be geared to the Lifetime-Movie-Of-The_Week crowd. The editing was poor and there were many mistakes in punctuation and structure, which I find unbearably juvenile.
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Dec 10, 2009
I thought this book was great - in a lighthearted, chick-lit sort of way. Yeah, some of the messages were about some serious stuff...but, I think the books was more about friendship between women, and the sometimes jaded view we have of men as either bad or good, not in between. It plays into those feelings we have about men that may not be true, but we share together as women, and we get the happy ending we all wish we could have, unrealistic as it may be. So, it is full of stereotypes, and hap
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Jan 10, 2011
Let me start up front by acknowledging that this novel is all over the place. The characters are beyond eccentric and sometimes unbelievable; the plot takes unlikely turns; the writing is a little scattered and repetitive in places. But as I found myself laughing out loud and devouring this book in two days, I couldn't help but think - so what? It's not gonna win any literary awards, but I gave the book four stars b/c it's a fun and often very moving read. I suppose this book would be categorize
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Nov 03, 2009
A friend of mine raved about this book but I thought this book was poor in so many ways. It's written in a connect the dots, color between the lines kind of way. Lydia is way over the top as a character, and "Getting to know your vagina psychic night" and the others are just a little creepy. There's way to much work to do on a farm to paint a building a different color every couple days and a 100 acre cattle ranch? Can anyone with a brain not recognize a panic attack? According to
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Dec 04, 2009
Love Cathy Lamb!! A friend of mine suggested her work to me awhile back, saying how funny and comical her sense of humor is and can be in her books. A lot expression and personality comes out in Lamb's writing, without being super wordy and dragging on into too much details. That made this book all the more fun to read and I liked getting to know the characters in this book. They all seemed like real people that you do find in a small town in Oregon (born and raised in a small Oregon town myself
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