Secrets to Happiness

Secrets to Happiness

3.13 of 5 stars 3.13  ·  rating details  ·  1,328 ratings  ·  330 reviews
Holly Frick has just endured the worst kind of breakup: the kind where you're still in love with the person leaving you. While her wounds are still dangerously close to the surface, her happily married best friend confesses over a bottle of wine that she is this close to having an affair. And another woman comes to Holly for advice about her love life--with Holly's ex!

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Paperback, 304 pages
Published July 2nd 2010 by Back Bay Books (first published March 25th 2009)
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Danielle
entertaining, but scattered and lacking in substance.

ms. dunn really needs to put more focus on character development and the climax. i could not understand what motivated these people to do what they did because each character was filled with fluff and nutella. that being said, i rarely understand people, yet find them amusing and enjoyable, so can't (won't) discount this book on that basis.

as for the climax....i'm still wondering where the WOW factor is? it was all so typical. where was the...more
June
Of course no one can resist a needy puppy, so this was a good ploy to humanize the protagonist, whose shallow, pointless life is rescued first by adopting a dog with brain cancer and then by adopting another puppy who has been left in the pound. Throw in some cute neglected dogs and everyone is happy (according to the old Hollywood adage)! Thus, this novel is full of cliches, both linguistically and in depiction of its of characters.

I lived in NYC and and know that not every woman believes that...more
Anika
I just reviewed this novel. I didn't realize until after I read the whole thing that I had read her earlier novel, Big Love. This one has a similarly confused ex-evangelical main character. A love story, sort of. Chick lit, sort of. Drama, sort of. Comedy, sort of. Nice.
Miriam
This made me laugh out loud. So it gets 5 stars.
Kristi
I almost didn't finish the book because it was about a bunch of New Yorkers doing drugs and having casual sex and affairs, desperately dating people they actually despise based on superficial characteristics, and spending outrageous amounts of money on really stupid stuff.

However, it turns out it is a good story and a good bit of the book is about the protagonist, Holly Frick, and how she doesn't approve of the garbage. She even tells people she doesn't approve.

And the cover is adorable.
Theresa
If I could give this negative stars, I would. It only got one star because I managed to finish it. A group of hateful people ruin each other and themselves out of middle class boredom. That's basically my take on a terrible example of "chick lit." I'm really annoyed I read this. Maybe I'm missing some kind of humor the author intended, but I honestly came away from this book thinking Dunn is the biggest misogynist I've ever come across. Well, to be fair the male characters are equally atrocious....more
Rebecca
I am the WORST! This book was a splurge grab at the counter when I was checking out some other books and I only grabbed it because it had a dog on the cover. SO CUTE! But this book had pretty much nothing to do with a dog. It was mainly some Girl's relationship with Dudes and her best gal friend. Dog was a very very minor part. Thankgod I didn't buy this book for that reason otherwise I would have been majorly disappointed. I read something from this author when I was living in New Zealand, and...more
Jess
I have heard numerous female authors complain about the fact that any book about a woman by a woman gets unfairly ghettoized into the "pink section" of the bookstore. Sarah Dunn's author protagonist complains about this very thing in this book, in fact. While I've never seen Dunn make this complaint directly about her own work, she's perhaps the "women's fiction" author whose complaints in this direction would be most justified. This oddly philosophical foray into the complicated relationships o...more
Ariela
“Secrets to Happiness” revolves around the lives of several thirty and forty something New Yorkers whose lives are loosely connected through their friendship with the main character, a writer named Holly Frick. Holly’s husband left her even though she’s still in love with him, her novel “Hello, Mr. Heartache” was unsuccessful, and now she finds herself writing for a tween television show she despises. Needless to say, Holly is not a happy woman, and the other characters aren’t any better off. Ho...more
Colleen
Though I thought this book would be a fairly typical example of the chick-lit genre, I was pleased to discover it was much edgier and funnier than expected. Holly is not your typical heroine, and can in fact be quite annoying at times. Her interactions with the dog Chester unexpectedly make her much more a character than a characterization, and make this novel stronger. Best friend Amanda is easy to dislike, and though I thought her actions could have been more fully fleshed out while the story...more
Hilarie
Sarah Dunn is a truly talented writer. Her writing is witty, lively, and flows beautifully. However, for me, Secrets to Happiness wasn't the book to showcase that talent. In fairness, let me start off by saying that I am probably outside of the target demographic of this book. I am a fairly conservative, career woman turned stay-at-home mother, who is totally devoted to my husband and children. The characters in this novel would likely describe me as a naive optimist.

The central character of the...more
christa
I'm not sure why I thought a book about a single woman writer living in Manhattan wouldn't be chick lit, since most chick lit begins with those very same ingredients. It's kind of like taking ground beef, adding orange powder, serving it in a hard shell and saying "But it's not a taco."

But in Jancy Willett's review of "Secrets of Happiness" in the NYT's Book Review, she says point blank: " ["Secrets of Happiness":] was definitely not written just for women, no matter how it’s packaged. True, the...more
Mónica Silva
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Esta é uma leitura leve, despretensiosa, mas que considerei demasiado pobre em conteúdo para me cativar. Mostra-nos um conjunto de indivíduos, cada um com um complexo diferente, desde medo de compromissos, a infidelidades consecutivas, passando por neuroses, isolamento e vidas desperdiçadas. Ao fim de alguns capítulos, todo este disfuncionalismo acaba por ser repetitivo e maçador.

Apesar de perceber a intenção da autora em criar personagens...more
Cindi
Holly was one of the most annoying characters I've ever read about. She was, however, very much of the opinion that one should always do the morally right thing - even tho her "friends" repeatedly told her that her "hypocrisy" was what drove them away from her (certainly it wasn't their affairs while they were dating or married to her, or even her best friend's fault when she decided to elope with Holly's current boyfriend). I was really quite flabergasted because I hear the author loud and clea...more
Khaya
Okay -- before I rip this book, I will say some positive things. I give the author credit for trying to write a chick lit book that transcends the genre by having some depth and asking some philosophical questions. Holly, the main character, is from a religious Christian background (though she is not currently affiliated) and frequently contemplates the morality of her Manhattan friends' happiness-seeking behavior, not to mention the elusive nature of the happiness they pursue. Her friends gentl...more
Alexandra
I LOVED this book. Simply adored everything about it, even the parts I didn't like, if that makes sense. At first, while reading the book, I thought that the cover was a little misleading. It seemed like one of those covers you find on those "feel good" books about women in their mid-thirties who find themselves and then find the perfect man, getting involved with all kinds of cheesy, kooky antics along the way. (This book is nothing like that.) But then, after I finished the book, I realized th...more
Michelle
Purportedly about a woman recovering from a divorce and a dog she adopts. I don't read too much "chick lit" and normally that description would not be enough to make me pick up the book. However, I really liked the author's prior book and she has a great voice - smart, funny (in a dry sort of way), never cliche. The same can be said for this book. She has a fabulous sense of humor and writes in unexpected ways. That said, the book was okay-to-good for me, not great. First of all, it's only a lit...more
Jane
Well, I've just read Room and Never Let Me Go, two pretty intense books. I picked this one up from the library because I like that "Happiness" is in the title and I needed a break from abuse/rape/genocide. It was funny. I laughed more than most of the people who reviewed this book. I loved the dogs in the book. The protagonist, Holly, was sort of pathetic, but in an "I've felt this sorry for myself," kind of way. The cover on my book isn't half so wonderful as the cover on the copy that arose wh...more
Christin
Secrets to Happiness proved to be the ideal read for my flight to Ireland. It was breezy, entertaining, and also very funny. I also enjoyed the meta observations on the perils of writing chick lit. It was not overly predictable, which is a mark of Dunn's talent without sacrificing readability. However, I found it extremely lazy that she would often indicate pregnant pauses with "--" rather than make the effort of explicating them. I am a stickler for words, words, words whenever possible. I fi...more
Serena
"A lot of life, it seemed to Holly, was turning out to be just like that. You keep walking, and you keep breathing, and then one day you notice, again, the feel of the wind on your cheek." (Page 275)

Secrets to Happiness by Sarah Dunn focuses on the life of Holly Frick and each of the people she effects with her decisions and how their decisions impact her life in a gigantic web. From Holly's ex-boyfriend Spence Samuelson to Betsy Silverstein and her friends Amanda and Mark to her screenwriter/pa...more
Elaina
Another good book for a plane ride.
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Esme Pie
I don't have a "chick lit" shelf because I don't read much of it. But sometimes, it's just what the librarian ordered. AND best librarian ever, Nancy Pearl, recommended this author. I have to say I was pleasantly surprised by this book. Dunn is a very funny writer--some of her observations were so right on, you could imagine them being said by a stand-up comedienne, but they don't read as wise cracks, or as being inserted frivolously because the author knows how funny she is. Thoroughly likable...more
Swissmiss
This was a highly entertaining peek into the lives of several more-or-less neurotic New Yorkers looking for love. I very much enjoyed the dialogue and the characters. It read a lot like a rom-com movie.

The only drawback for me was that although one character, Holly, seems to be the lead character, about half of the chapters were from the point of view of other characters, some of whom had little or nothing to do with Holly. I kept waiting for the story lines to pull together, but they never did...more
Kelly
This book was a total treat to read. Seriously, my husband had to leave the room, because I had to stop quite often in order to read him a passage. When something is that good, I have to share. I would compare this work to one of my all time favorites "Heartburn" by Nora Ephron, because like Heartburn, it had moments that just cracked me up and were completely impossible to not share. Also I totally could not put this book down! Sarah Dunn has an absolute powerful way of bringing her characters...more
Abeer Hoque
I'm not often led astray by VSL (Very Short List) but their book recommendation one month was "Secrets to Happiness" by Sarah Dunn and it wasn't up to scratch. Ms. Dunn's writing is often clever and funny, and her characters straight out of a Sex and the City episode (so they're entertaining at least). The heroine, Holly, is a failed writer and ex-wife in NYC, and nursing her wounds from both. Friends, colleagues, acquaintances, and past/present lovers make appearances, sometimes taking over the...more
Pamela Pickering
So many things missed the mark for me with this book. The most obvious: when the cover of a book has only a picture of dog you expect the dog to have a decent role in the story but nope, not this one. The dog is hardly mentioned as far as it affects the supposed lead character (Holly). Speaking of lead characters, there really isn't one even though the book jacket leads you to believe there is one. There are only several poorly developed, self-absorbed thirty-somethings who are trying to find lo...more
Stefanie
This book was so strange.

I had a somewhat difficult time keeping up with the different characters and how they all fit into each other's lives. That made the reading a bit clunky to me. Perhaps others who can either a.) keep better track of which one belongs to which family and is dating/married to which person's brother, etc. or b.) just not give a crap about how they all connect would find it easier.

Another thing I found odd/strange about the book is how the author would block different thing...more
KJ Luepke
Warning: this review is a study in overkill of the word, "enough": I actually really enjoyed this book. It moves fast and there are enough characters that you are curious as to what happens to so-and-so by the time you start to tire of the story line of another character. It's 'hip' enough that you feel like you are reading about another lifestyle (NYC minus a lot of the godawful Sex and the City sludge) but some of the characters are 'normal' enough that you can somewhat relate to them. Some of...more
Karen
As I first started reading this book I thought the writing was funny and clever. In fact, I laughed out loud a few times which is unusual for me when I am reading a book. But by about page 100 I started to get weary of the whining and lack of integrity of most of the characters. The protagonist Holly, I found especially annoying and it's hard to read a book when you find the lead character annoying. It finished nicely and redeemed itself somewhat- Enough that I am curious to read the author's fi...more
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Sarah Dunn (born 1970) is an American author and television writer. She was educated in the University of Arizona.

Coming to prominence in 1994 with her book Official Slacker Handbook, Sarah Dunn went to Hollywood, where she wrote for such series as Murphy Brown, Veronica's Closet and Spin City.
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