Promise Me: How a Sister's Love Launched the Global Movement to End Breast Cancer

Promise Me: How a Sister's Love Launched the Global Movement to End Breast Cancer

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Suzy and Nancy Goodman were more than sisters. They were best friends, confidantes, and partners in the grand adventure of life. For three decades, nothing could separate them. Not college, not marriage, not miles. Then Suzy got sick. She was diagnosed with breast cancer in 1977; three agonizing years later, at thirty-six, she died.

It wasn’t supposed to be this way. The Go...more
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Published September 14th 2010 by Harmony (first published 2010)
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Nancy Cours
I'm shocked how much I enjoyed this book. This memoir is an impressive and entertaining combination of Brinker's personal history, the history of breast cancer, and the building of a nonprofit empire. They are webbed together with themes, which is rarely done successfully in this genre. Scattered between those elements are both charming and painful anecdotes, in addition to a handful of short stories about other women affected by the disease.

The book is mostly seamless, although I am left a tad...more
Kaliki
Because I have a personal connection to this cause and this organization, I may like this more than most. I think Nancy Brinker is an exceptional woman, who did an even more exceptional thing in creating SGK for the Cure. I thought that I had an idea of what this foundation, and this person, had done in the world, but my knowledge barely scratched the surface of what has truly been involved.

I don't know that I would necessarily call her a 'likeable' woman, but definitely one to be held in a hig...more
Tara Chevrestt
DNF for me and before everyone gets all upset, let me explain why. First, I do NOT regret buying this book because I support breast cancer awareness 100%, but it was boring beyond belief.

I made it past the sisters' trip to Europe where they run around and spend lots of money and I passed out about three times. As cruel as this is going to sound, their lives, their travels were just interesting enough for me. There was also too much detail about stuff and people that I would forget upon turning...more
Alyce (At Home With Books)
Promise Me is a touching story of love and friendship between sisters and how that love spurred Nancy on to do more to fight breast cancer. As I read about Nancy’s upbringing I realized that her whole family was amazing, and loved how her mom encouraged service and volunteerism from a very young age. That upbringing sets the stage for her adult years as she raised money for research and formed the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation.

One of my favorite quotes from the book deals with that pos...more
Chocolate & Croissants
The first week of the year has just ended and I would have to say that Promise Me is the most inspirational book I have read this year and in a long time. If you live in North America I am sure you must be familiar with the Susan Komen Foundation and Race for the Cure. While Susan succumbed to breast cancer many years ago, Promise Me is her sister's story of who Susan was and how the foundation came about.

I found the book to be utterly amazing. For me it falls into the category of books that I c...more
Melissa
I really enjoyed reading "Promise Me". It was about Susan G. Komen who died in 1980 from breast cancer. Nancy G. Brinker made a promise to her sister to one day cure breast cancer for good. Nancy with the help of her husband Norman Brinker started Susan G. Komen for the Cure was founded on July 22, 1982 in Dallas, Texas. The book talks about the history of breast cancer and how with the help of SGK the advancements in research to help treat breast cancer. A very powerful read. Nancy is a excepti...more
Kirsten
This book made me feel many different emotions - I laughed, I cried, I felt motivation to be a part of something bigger. I learned SO MUCH about breast cancer, the history of it and how being aware of your body can make all the difference - how doing monthly breast exams and getting mamograms is vital. I had no idea that there are 21 year old women diagnosed with breast cancer, and that men get breast cancer as well. I guess I could relate somewhat as I watched my grandpa fight cancer that later...more
Jenny
This was different than I expected. I thought it would be more about Susan G. Komen, her battle with cancer and the affect it had on her family, mainly her sister, Nancy. Instead, it was a Nancy Brinker autobiography. Of course, Nancy's life's work is breast cancer as a result of her sisters' illness, but there is a lot of other stuff included as well. It didn't always keep my interest and honestly, one of the most emotionally-wrenching events in the book didn't even have to do with breast cance...more
Susan
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Beverly
I received an ARC of this book through Amazon Vine.
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Suzy and Nancy Goodman were more than sisters. They were best friends, confidantes, and partners in the grand adventure of life. For three decades, nothing could separate them. Not college, not marriage, not miles. Then Suzy got sick. She was diagnosed with breast cancer in 1977; three agonizing years later, at thirty-six, she died.

It wasn’t supposed to be this way. The Goodman girls were raised in postwar Peoria,...more
Patrick
This is a good book but it is more about Nancy Brinker than it is about breast cancer. The historical references and descriptions of this hideous disease are worth the read.

Amazon review:

In this compelling memoir, the 64-year-old founder of Susan G. Komen for the Cure mixes details from her soap opera–like life with facts about breast cancer. Nancy Goodman of Peoria, Illinois, morphs from a chubby Jewish girl (in second grade, she tips the scale at more than 100 pounds) to a nearly six-foot glam...more
Kristin (Kritters Ramblings)
Wow, what a great book, by great I mean - I couldn't put it down, I laughed and cried, and I had to email my closet family and friends to share it immediately.

A fresh story on the makings of a huge organization that has changed the landscape of breast cancer and influenced decisions makers from citizens in their home to lawmakers in Washington, D.C. I have participated in SGK events, but I had no idea the trials that Brinker endured while starting this non-profit. She has fought breast cancer he...more
Rachel Rooney
First, I think I should state that I volunteer one day a week with my local Susan G. Komen affiliate. I have a friend who works there for pay, and she suggested that I volunteer, and so I do. I support their work. I support Planned Parenthood.
Anyway, what Nancy Brinker accomplished is pretty amazing. The sheer size of it. Parts of the book were really good, parts were not, but overall I admire Nancy Brinker. I might not always agree with her, but I admire her nonetheless.
The book is structured...more
Miss Amanda
Jan 10, 2011 Miss Amanda rated it 2 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Women
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Lori
Mar 17, 2011 Lori rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: anyone effected by breast cancer
This book was moving and powerful and full of great educational and historical information regarding breast cancer. Having lost my mom and both aunts to breast cancer I thought this book would be emotionally very hard to read but it was the exact opposite. It made me feel less alone with my thoughts and feelings regarding this disease and the loss of my loved ones. I was also very inspired by Nancy's life and her attitude through all of the ups and downs that were thrown her way. She is an inspi...more
Lydia
Thoroughly enjoyed this book. The author is Nancy Brinker--Susan G Komen's sister and the founder of the Susan G Komen For the Cure group. I started reading this only interested in breast cancer and how this foundation came to be--how it has affected women and our health. I really knew nothing about Nancy Brinker...but feel I do now, as this story is really her autobiography. She has lead a very interesting life. One woman and each woman can really make a difference. It made me think a lot about...more
Janet
I did not finish this book.
I have to say this book was written the very best intentions. To raise money for the cure of breast cancer. I applaud them for that. I found the book very boring. It was not my cup of tea.
Candy
What started in 1980 as Nancy Goodman's promise to her dying sister has grown into Susan G. Komen for the Cure, the leading voice for breast cancer research. The remarkable effort that surviving sister Nancy Goodman Brinker put into her mission is told in Promise Me. Brinker, a former US Ambassador, White House Chief of Protocol and a 2009 Presidential Medal of Freedom winner, shares the passion, commitment and true grit she continues to devote to her sister's memory. It's a touching, impressive...more
Keri
Before Nancy G. Brinker lost her sister, Susan G. Komen, to breast cancer, Susan made her sister promise that she would do something to ease the pain and suffering for survivors and co-survivors of this heart-breaking disease. "Promise Me" shares the intimate memories of Suzy and Nancy as little girls blossoming into womanhood with big dreams and how those dreams and ideals were shattered with the diagnosis of breast cancer. To honor the promise she made to her sister, Nancy created Susan G. Kom...more
Cindy
While I am not a breast cancer survivor, I am a cancer survivor. Nancy Brinker's story of her relationship with her own sister, Susan Komen, and their battle against Susan's cancer really hit home with me. This isn't just another story about cancer. It is about family, relationships, fear, and the courage to fight. Susan's battle gave direction to the crusader in Nancy. Her strength and focus, combined with the example of charity and sense of community modeled by their mother, gave birth to a gl...more
Cheryl
This book was phenomenal!! I was pleasantly surprised when I found out that I won "Promise Me" from a Goodreads Giveaway, and I am so glad I had the opportunity to read it. This book tells the story of Nancy Brinker, whose sister died young of breast cancer, and how she turned what was a tragic situation into a positive, life-changing experience by starting the Susan G. Komen for the Cure foundation. I was just blown away by Nancy Brinker--what an amazing person she is, as well as her family, wh...more
Sandra
Overall, I found this to be a powerful book. Although not perfect (I felt some areas dragged a bit or had too much time spent on them, and I felt it sort of fell apart near the end, turning into more of a rushed highlights of Brinker's achievements than a cohesive message or story), it certainly touched and affected me. This is a topic that is already close to home for me, and this book showed how, unfortunately, I am not alone. The stories of those afflicted with breast cancer and the historic...more
Barb
My brother sent me this book as I am a breast cancer survivor. Donations support the Susan G. Komen Foundation. Nancy Brinker has done wonders for breast cancer patients in so many ways, both in the US and around the world. Her life has had its own trials, but she continues to move full speed ahead. I am so grateful to know more of her story and grateful to her personally for all her endeavors. Her story reiterates the notion that one person can make a huge difference. She has done it all for th...more
Tejka
I bought this book because I wanted to know more about how the fundation started and the author explained that very well. I also learned a lot about the life of nancy Brinker that I was unaware of and I appreciated the new knowledge very much once I read about how many people in her own family had cancer and how many loved ones she had lost. I am intrigued by the strenght and the energy she invested to fight for what she believes and am awed how much money this foundation today raises and gives...more
Mary Baumer
Excellent book. Every woman should read. Nancy G Brinker is the founder and CEO of Susan G Komen for the cure.

Nancy's sister Suzy was diagnosed with breast cancer in 1977. Three years later she had died. Back then people didn't talk about breast cancer. We have to thank Nancy Brinker for keeping her promise to her sister Suzy. To promise to raise money for scientific research. To promise to one day cure breast cancer for good.

It makes me happy that I took part in the Tri for a cure last year.

Re...more
Samantha Holub
I loved this book. Breast cancer runs on both sides of my family and I think the awareness from this book is great for readers who may not know too much about this horrible disease. The personal details and emotions added a lot to the book and I think portrayed her sister the way she wants to remember her but also explains how it impacted her own life.

As any other book, its all about what type of book/style of writing you like whether or not you'll enjoy it. I did enjoy it and would recommend th...more
Courtney
one of the most interesting and insightful books i have ever read.
my best friends mom was diagnosed with cancer about 3 years ago. she also happens to be my neighbor. because of the close proximity i have seen her at her best and at her worst.
my mom found a barnes and noble special where you buy one copy of the book and you get a signed copy for free. there was a mix up and my mom ended up getting 4 copies of the book so i took one.
i was a little nervous at first, not really what im used to rea...more
Suzen
This was a wonderful story about an amazing woman who was the founder of the *Susan G Koman For The Cure* Nancy Brinker is a marvelously intelligent strong woman. She also happens to be a breast cancer surviver herself.
The thing that bothered me most is how dismissive the doctors were to women who knew something was wrong. When Susan got sick the doctors out and out lied to her? Even back in 1980 Nancy knew that this was not true. There was facts and evidence. Susan chose to believe her doctor....more
Jezzy
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Elliebit
Let me start off by saying that Promise Me is MOST DEFINITELY worth the read. Thank you Goodreads First Reads for making me aware of this book and for allowing me to enter the contest that allowed me to win this book for free.

Not only is Promise Me Nancy Brinker's biography that features a look into her relationship with her sister but also, it is an examination of the progress that has been made throughout history in breast cancer awareness, treatment, and hope for a cure. While reading the va...more
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Born Nancy Goodman in Peoria, Illinois to Marvin Goodman, a businessman and Ellie Goodman, a Girl Scout leader and community activist. Her sister Suzy was diagnosed with breast cancer in 1977 and died in 1980. By her side through three brutal years of surgery, chemotherapy and radiation, Nancy promised her she would do everything to stop the heartless progression and social stigma of breast cancer...more
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“That day was an education for me. I'll never forget it. Standing in teh doorway, watching the reaction of the men and women gathered there, I witnessed the poewrful effect of unwavering, uncomplaining, uncompromising leadership. It changed me. It was one of those moments when you say to yourself, [in italics] That's what I want to be when I grow up. and you know you've grown up a little already, simply because you recognize it.

Norman called Ducky-Bob's party supply and ordered chairs while I wheeled the second bed out to the hallway. Mommy, Margaret Valentine, and I rushed around, getting everything we needed to cater the cramped but memorable even, and on Tuesday morning, about three dozen top members of the Chili's team jammed into Norman's room at Presbyterian Hospital. Norman didn't what his people to see him lying down, so I'd helped him get into a jogging suit and robe, and propped him up on one of those rolling carts they use to distribute meals. He was in unthinkable pain, but he spoke to them from his heart about how much he appreciated them, how committed he was to the success of the organization, and how far they could all go together.”
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