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Gift from the Sea

4.18  ·  Rating Details  ·  29,753 Ratings  ·  2,630 Reviews
This small book of great and simple wisdom has spoken to hundreds of thousands of readers, and continues to influence women's lives. In her afterword, Anne Morrow Lindbergh reflects on a world totally unchanged in the profound need in women for self-realization; the need for each woman to learn and relearn the painful lesson that "woman must come of age by herself--she mus ...more
Paperback, 20th Anniversary Edition, 140 pages
Published 1975 (first published 1955)
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Orinoco Womble (tidy bag and all) I read it about 40 years ago, but it impressed me enough to seek out the author's "Bring Me a Unicorn." It also got me interested in seashells, and…moreI read it about 40 years ago, but it impressed me enough to seek out the author's "Bring Me a Unicorn." It also got me interested in seashells, and influenced my own writing style. Not that I'll ever be published, but. AML and Rumer Godden are the two women who have most influenced me, and Ray Bradbury was the male writer who did. Now, there's a real mixture!(less)
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Rachael
Jun 19, 2007 Rachael rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is one of those books that really will change your life, and it's one that absolutely should.

Lindberg (the wife of Charles Lindberg) explores the necessity of not only looking inward, but of focusing on one's development in order to fully live as a person, a woman, a mother, and a wife. She is especially potent when discussing the necessity of occasional moments of solitude in order to realign one's priorities and give freedom to creative expression, rather than running oneself ragged with
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Kristin
Feb 28, 2008 Kristin rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I absolutely LOVE this book!! I highly highly recommend it. It is the perfect gift to give a friend/sister/mother or to buy for yourself to read and re-read. It is also a really quick read which is a nice little bonus. If you want a really professional review read Lucy's. (I really think Lucy should become a book critic). But here's what I thought about it...this was my second time reading the book. The first time I read it I was around 18 and getting ready to leave for college. My mom had read ...more
Audra
Jan 15, 2009 Audra rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: someone who isn't me
so...reading this book, in places, made me long to go back to Atlantic Beach, made me go back and read my diaries of New York.

I thought carefully about whether my strongly adverse feelings about this book were actually warranted or not. I have decided that there is a middle ground I must take here.

Here's my unabashed assessment, untainted by the millions of people who seem to LOVE this book:

if you've already lived the hard life, and come through it, worse for the wear but better in soul, don't
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Joel
Feb 28, 2008 Joel rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Joel by: Eugene Peterson
I love walking around a bookstore and picking up five or six books of varying genres that catch my eye, sitting down and skimming. If I'm interested I may read a chapter or two, a dozen poems, maybe even ponder buying it before I put them all back on the shelf. This was number four in a stack of nine that I picked up today at Borders. After skimming the introduction, I flipped to the first chapter... forty-five minutes later I had left the store to get a pen from my car and had picked up three n ...more
Sandy T
Aug 26, 2008 Sandy T rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I remember reading this at BYU for a class and having to do a paper on it. I remember wondering what all the hoopla was about it... it just didn't do all that much for me. But now, some 30+ years later, it had a whole new meaning for me as I truly understood and felt exactly what she was expressing...
It is amazing that though this book was written over 50 years ago, so many of her observations still ring true today, and I found myself marking up page after page. Perhaps the most I got from it wa
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Bark's Book Nonsense
I found this audio in the bag I keep in the car. It's a nonfiction account of one woman’s ruminations on life while she escapes to a beach cottage for a few weeks. This was written in the 50's but much of it still feels eerily current and will resonate most with introverts.

The MP3 player in my car didn’t like the way this disc was formatted and played the tracks out of order so I can’t review this properly as it kept skipping around. If it weren’t so short (2 hrs or so) I would’ve thrown in the
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Connie
Anne Lindbergh spent two weeks on Captiva Island in Florida, one week alone and one week with her sister, reflecting on her life and relationships. She uses five shells found on the beach to symbolize her ideas. She felt that women should try to simplify their lives. Find time for solitude, creativity, and an inner life. Have time alone with your spouse and each child for "one-and-only moments". Find balance between obligations to your family and your community, and time for inner harmony.

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Inder
Okay, my favorite part of this book was the afterwards, wherein Ms. Lindbergh acknowledges just how dated the book's appraisal of feminism was (the book was written in 1955, so you can't blame her for what she didn't know was right around the corner - still, her somewhat negative appraisal bugged me and I was relieved that she acknowledged its problems). She also hints at how difficult it is to follow her type of super-zen advice in real life.

I hate to say it, because so many women just L.O.V.E.
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Linda
I'm sure I read Gift from the Sea at least 30 years ago and have probably bought and given away as many as thirty copies over the years. Gift from the Sea is one of those books that speaks to a person differently through different stages of one's life. I love it and think every woman should read it. I have since read other books (memoirs, diaries, letter of sorts) by Anne M. Lindbergh and have enjoyed them very much. I was happy to come across the 50th anniversary edition as a gift to myself.
Hillary
Apr 24, 2008 Hillary rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I may be the only person on mother earth that thinks this book is over-rated. I've read it twice now and I just don't get what everyone thinks is so amazing about it. Lindbergh does bring up some interesting ideas that are worth thinking about, but she loses me with the sea shells. I agree with Becca in that, if i want to read something thought provoking with the potential to change my life, i'll read the conference talks in the ensign.
Lisa Kay
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I loved this book. My mom gave it to me as a gift when I was a teen and I've read it a couple of times. Still relevant today. Beautifully read by Claudette Colbert.
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Gloria
Nov 23, 2014 Gloria rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: favorites
I think I moderately enjoyed this book as a 20-something young mother. But with an extra goodly number of years on my body, I now adore this book.

I feel keenly that Anne Morrow Lindbergh is a kindred spirit.
And if there are as many women as she insinuates who also feel that desperate need to "get away" in order to recharge and refuel-- so that they may come home ready to give again ... then there are more women like me than I thought. I wish I knew where they were...

In any case, it has reaffirme
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Ann Keller
Jul 20, 2012 Ann Keller rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: self-help
This is one of the best books I’ve ever read. In concise, philosophical and thought-provoking language, Anne Morrow Lindbergh provides the reader with wonderful revelations of what it’s like to be a modern woman. As the wife of Charles Lindbergh, she certainly felt the constraints of public engagements and social events, as well as the demands of being a wife and busy mother of five children. Perhaps that is why she was able to provide such a keen insight into the value of solitude and creativit ...more
Shiloah
I finished this book & am glad for the chance to take it off my to-read list. What a treasure.

So much of this book has relevance in my life today. In the three months leading up to our big move to Europe I had everything planned out like clockwork. Not knowing all that would happen on the "other side of the ocean" or how long it would take to get settled, I had to leave it up to a flexible plan. However, sometimes our "flexible" plans are clung to too tightly and then unnecessary stress occu
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Chrystal
I thoroughly enjoyed this book! Her writing is soothing, enlightening, and full of wisdom and beauty.

Some of my favorite quotes:
Woman's life today is tending more and more toward the state William James describes so well in the German word, "Zerrissenheit--torn-to-pieces-hood." She cannot live perpetually in "Zerrissenheit." She will be shattered into a thousand pieces. On the contrary, she must consciously encourage those pursuits which oppose the centrifugal forces of today. Quiet time alone,
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Sarah
Apr 21, 2016 Sarah rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This was a very short but deep book. Insightful- as it was written in 1955 she talks of this needing for women, perhaps mother's especially, to find a space for themselves to be alone. It is written in essays all centered around sea shells. It probably sounds boring (personally I hate the beach) but I devoured it -much like her philosophy- needing to replenish my reading soul with the words of a woman either ahead of her time or someone who writes timeless thoughts of life.

I could totally have
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Kim
Sep 02, 2015 Kim rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
"We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of time and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return. We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible in life, as in love, is in growth, in fluidity – in freedom. The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was ...more
Sarju Shrestha Marzullo
Absolutely love this book. I listen this on tape.It's a quick book but i listened it twice since there is so much wisdom you can reflect on you and your life.
Lindberg (the wife of Charles Lindberg), who is not only aviator on her own but also an amazing writer. She wrote this book in 1950s reflecting her life and a life of a woman--how important is to enjoy time of solitude to develop oneself so that you can give back fully as a mother, wife or a friend. She metaphorically uses different kinds o
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Mark Mortensen
Jul 29, 2012 Mark Mortensen rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: nature, spirituality
The title of this book “Gift from the Sea”, shelved in the classic section, caught my immediate attention as I love the sea and then my eye noticed the author, Anne Morrow Lindbergh. The wife, who lived in the shadows of famed aviator Charles Lindberg, lost her first born to abduction, was an English major at Smith College and became a well accomplished person in her own right. I was further drawn to understand the sea’s gift.

The beach along the sea is a calm location to pause and reflect upon
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Rachel Wagner
Apr 25, 2011 Rachel Wagner rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Just finished again. How I love this book. I can relate to her emotions in leaving the island to a time in my life when an island rescued me in the same way.
I love how she talks about love, change, solitude, community, femininity and freedom. They are the words I would use if I was as eloquent.
Some favorites-
“I do not believe that sheer suffering teaches. If suffering alone taught, all the world would be wise, since everyone suffers. To suffering must be added mourning, understanding, patienc
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Kristen
Mar 22, 2009 Kristen rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: own
Amazing. The fact that this was written in another generation yet still applies so seamlessly (and will for generations) is just a mark of its timelessness. A poignant, sit-and-ponder compilation of meanderings without being preachy or trite. You just feel like you're sitting with the author over a cup of tea, as she looks off in the distance and remembers/ponders. This is one I must buy and want to read again and again as I grow. Both the quasi-women's rights, quasi-futureSAHM parts of me relis ...more
Bennet
Mar 06, 2011 Bennet rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
How, Anne asks, does one "remain whole in the midst of the distractions of life; how to remain balanced," and most of all, where and how does one find solitude? The realm of solitude is intimately explored through her mid-life retreat to "a sea-shell of a house" on a remote shore, which anyone likewise yearning will find impossible to resist, even if it's available only in print.

"One learns first of all in beach living the art of shedding; how little one can get along with, not how much," someth
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Juanita
This book was recommended to me and I'm glad I read it!
There were some soul-stirring truths written by this great woman, Ann Lindbergh of the Lindbergh baby kidnapping (she was the child's mother). By the time she'd written this book, she'd gained a lifetime of wisdom and understood the path that needed to be traversed to get to the best place of her life.
It's an encouraging read and one that made me want to be a better person.
Cathy DuPont
Feb 20, 2014 Cathy DuPont rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Read so many years ago but still remember how much I loved Anne Morrow's writing, these essays.

I read it when everyone was reading "self-improvement" and books of inspiration like Jonathan Livingstone Seagull. The market was flooded with both genres but at the moment none of the names come to mind.

So who cares? I've forgotten what I learned in the self improvement books.
Cigdem
May 21, 2015 Cigdem rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Her bölüm, huzurlu bir günbatimi veya umut dolu bir gündogumu kizilliginda icilen, mükemmel demde, ve mükemmel sicaklikta bir caydan bogaza akan yudumlar gibiydi… Biraz erken, biraz sicak, ya da biraz gec, biraz soguk icsen olmaz, tam zamaninda, tam kivaminda, ve illa yalniz icilecek, öyle bir cay bu kitap:).
Jackie Whaley
Jan 20, 2014 Jackie Whaley rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I finished this book in one sitting as there was a theme and I didn't want to lose the continuity. The book is short, but full of musings of love and life and stages of life. This is a book I will pick up again and again over time, and ponder the application of its words to my life. As she writes ... "One never knows what chance treasures these unconscious rollers may toss up, on the smooth white sand of the conscious mind, what perfectly rounded stone, what rare shell from the ocean floor. ... ...more
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Non-Fiction

Originally read approx. 2000

Originally published in 1955 by aviator and writer Anne Morrow Lindbergh.

A Gift from the Sea describes a trip the author took by herself, away from her husband, children and friends, seeking solitude to turn inward and reflect on her life.

Beautifully written, this must have been a surprising book back in 1955, when the majority of women were restricted by society to marriage, home and family.

Her focus on meditation, on the need for solitude and personal ref
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Marian Kvamme
Mar 22, 2016 Marian Kvamme rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Beautiful!
Kimberly
This book was chosen by my book club, otherwise I wouldn't have read it. To be honest, I just couldn't wax philosophical with Anne. All I could think about when Anne was discussing marriage and women's roles was about her personal life and the affairs both she and Charles had. I'm not judging them, only they know what went on in their marriage, but, at the same time, I didn't find myself inclined to take marriage advice from her. I thought it was strange that she kept quoting Antoine de Saint-Ex ...more
Rebecca Trujillo Batty
I believe this book was mentioned in The Poisonwood Bible, which is why I took the time to read it. It was ok. I did like the comparisons she made from the different shells to life, but felt that it was dated. She does admit this in the "re-opened" section at the end of the book. Some true statements I found in this book are:

pg.39: "Eternally, woman spills herself away in driblets to the thirsty, seldom being allowed the time, the quiet, the peace, to let the pitcher fill up to the brim."

pg. 58:
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Anne Morrow Lindbergh was born in 1906. She married Charles Lindbergh in 1929 and became a noted aviator in her own right, eventually publishing several books on the subject and receiving several aviation awards. Gift from the Sea, published in 1955, earned her international acclaim. She was inducted into the National Aviation Hall of Fame, the National Women’s Hall of Fame, and the Aviation Hall ...more
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“When you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of the tide and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return. We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible, in life as in love, is in growth, in fluidity - in freedom, in the sense that the dancers are free, barely touching as they pass, but partners in the same pattern.

The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what was in nostalgia, nor forward to what it might be in dread or anticipation, but living in the present relationship and accepting it as it is now. Relationships must be like islands, one must accept them for what they are here and now, within their limits - islands, surrounded and interrupted by the sea, and continually visited and abandoned by the tides.”
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