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  <title><![CDATA[Choosing to Cheat: Who Wins When Family and Work Collide?]]></title>
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  <default_description>Work. Family. Church. Hobbies. Fitness. Housekeeping. Socializing. Sleep. With only 24 hours in each day, we simply can't fit everything in. And what we choose to cheat is a clear announcement of our values. When you come home an hour earlier, miss a round of golf, or let the dishes sit while you play with your child, you make your family feel valued and secure. Bestselling author Andy Stanley helps you restore your vision of what really matters - and guides you in making courageous decisions about your time.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Who are you cheating? &lt;/b&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You love your family. You love the challenges of your job. But there&amp;rsquo;s not enough of you to go around. Somebody isn&amp;rsquo;t getting as much of your attention as they want or deserve.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This little book presents a strategic plan for resolving the tension between work and home&#8212;reversing the destructive pattern of giving to your company and career what belongs to your family.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;But be forewarned...you will have to cheat. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Story Behind the Book&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Andy has spent hundreds of hours with men and women who have cheated their families for the sake of their career goals. They all admitted knowing there was a problem. This is not a struggle relegated to some diminutive segment of society. We all wrestle with the tension between work and family. Regardless of which side of the equation you are on, you know what it is like to deal with the endless cycle of guilt, anger, jealousy, and rejection. But there is a solution. Strangely enough, the solution is similar to the problem. Both involve cheating. Simply put, you must choose to cheat at work rather than at home.</default_description>
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    <body><![CDATA[A encouraging and challenging read for any husband/wife/father/mother who is struggling with the balance of career and home. ]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2006</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Great book about the balance of life and work.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[A great book to help you realize that you cannot do everything you want to do, as well as you want to.  Utilizes the example of Daniel in suggesting that there are ways to 'cheat' that honor God and your family.]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Aug 30 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Simple truth :: all of us will cheat.  Will it be at work or with our family?  Challenged to make the right choices when it comes to family and work.  Great read!]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2004</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Simple yet challenging.  A great book to read for anyone ministry or not, married or not.  Challenges the reader to put family first before vocation.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a desperately needed message in our generation of warped values and warp-speed environment.  Everyone with a family should read this.  ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[if you are married you should read this book RIGHT NOW.  if you want to get married you should read this book RIGHT NOW. ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[A great devotional read, or for small groups. It is packed with tons of great reminders that we easily lose track of.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Excellent book on making fatherhood a priority]]></body>
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