Before You Suffocate Your Own Fool Self

Before You Suffocate Your Own Fool Self

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Before You Suffocate Your Own Fool Self offers a bold new perspective on the experience of being young and African-American or mixed-race in modern-day America.

In each of her stories, Danielle Evans explores the non-white American experience with honesty, wisdom, and humor. They are striking in their emotional immediacy, based in a world where inequality is a reality, but

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Hardcover, 229 pages
Published September 23rd 2010 by Riverhead Hardcover (first published September 11th 2010)
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jo
i found this book exceptional. do you remember when jhumpa lahiri debuted with Interpreter of Maladies and everyone went WHOA? Before You Suffocate Your Own Fool Self is that good, though i'll be surprised if everyone goes WHOA, because, let's face it, the readership for young African American female writers is different from the readership for young Asian American female writers. and by different i don't only mean different, but i mean smaller, something i invite all readers of this teensy ickl...more
Kathrina
Danielle Evans is like a breath of fresh air in the current offerings of short fiction. Her stories are in the here and now, told by your friends and neighbors whose voices are rarely heard. Evans has an exquisite talent at evoking the true essence of a character with just a few swift strokes. A few of the later stories (Jellyfish, Wherever You Go) tend to bog down in an overwritten explanation of an extremely grafted family tree, reading more like a diary entry than prose, but her best stories...more
Melissa
If you, like me, have been picking books up for weeks, starting them & realizing about 30 pages that you do not care whatsoever about what is going on (Constant Gardener I am looking in your direction), perhaps you should give this book a try. It is scrumptious and excellent and has renewed my faith in the printed word. Thank you, Danielle Evans. Now hurry up and write some more stuff, please.
Monica
4.5 really. Danielle Evans pushed me through my current sad pattern with short fiction collections. Usually I start out loving them and then I'm so exhausted keeping up with all of the new characters and all the new empathy that I'm ready to give up half way through.

Not so here. Evans writes about (mostly) young black women with brains and agency and fully realized characters. Everyone felt fascinating and familiar from paragraph one.

Seriously, she is really talented. I'll definitely be reading...more
frangible-spiderlily
This was absolutely amazing.

Evans has a way of wrapping up each story so that it feels completed, but you still wish for more of the characters. Still, before you have time to mourn over your loss she whirls you right into the next one.

Despite the various changes in tense and 1st/2nd/3rd person switches, the stories somehow felt, connected. Like they instinctively beloged together, in the same novel, side by side as they were.

The prose was fantastic. Even though some of the stories didn't end on...more
Mallory
I'm always impressed when I find a short story writer who is able to craft characters who have distinct voices, but newcomer Danielle Evans creates a wide range of characters who sound and feel different, which is the main reason I enjoyed her writing so much.

This is one of those books that surprises you. It's beautiful and bold, heartbreaking and funny, peppered with wonderful lines, beautiful images and a sense of humor which is both clever and occasionally dark.

I found out about this book wh...more
Hilary
Suffocate is a collection of short stories about the Black experience in America. Every story dealt with a sensitive and taboo subject (especially within the African American community). Virginity, abortion, and post traumatic stress disorder are just a few of the subjects Suffocate discusses.

Some of the stories (Snakes, Harvest, Someone Ought to Tell Her There's Nowhere to Go), are spectacular. As with most short stories, you are left with a sense of longing. You're left wanting more. You NEED...more
Rita Reinhardt
Standing right here in my B-Girl stance, got my hands on my hips like I don’t care! Who's bad? What a collection of throwbacks, memories and tales similar our everyday lives - the life we have allowed to become a surrounding surface of familiarity. When first introduced to before you suffocate your own fool self I was less than impressed, however I picked up this collection and eventually found myself intrigued. Honest Review: Some of the stories are great! While others left me underwhelmed. Vir...more
Tamara
I was excited to read this after coming across an AV Club Review calling it “a remarkable short-story collection in a good year for short-story collections.” But what made me especially eager to read it was something the reviewer said that didn’t sit right with me: "The biggest issue with Suffocate is that nearly every story features a similar protagonist. Evans writes this protagonist—a young African-American or mixed-race woman who’s trapped between her past and a more promising future—extreme...more
Alex Templeton
It's true that a good short story collection will rarely, if ever, get as much attention as novels. That leads me to hearing about more novels, and therefore reading more novels. Fortunately, I heard about this well-received collection, and was therefore reminded of the great pleasure a good short story can bring. Each of these stories featured a young African-American struggling with identity and sense of self, but I never felt like I was reading the same story over again. The opening story, "V...more
Rebekah ODell
This is the kind of debut collection that I suspect will make Danielle Evans much buzzed-about! (Not really a surprise for a writer published in The Paris Review.)

Evan’s eight stories center on motifs of isolation, loss, failed and failing relationships, alienated families, racial tension, and growing up. Her voice is fresh, startling, and natural. The stories feel effortless.

In my favorite story (and the longest), ”Snakes”, Tara is sent to spend the summer in Florida with her estranged grandmot...more
Candace
First, I hate short stories. Had I known when I picked this book up that it was a collection of short stories, I never would have done so. I read the second story thinking that it was the second chapter and struggled to find some kind of common thread linking it to the first "chapter". Never happened. Naturally. However, having said all this, I found that I couldn't put this book down.

I chose this book randomly because the title spoke to me. As a Parisian-dwelling-native-of-Virginia (you can tak...more
Jodi
Sometimes when I read short story collections I try to figure out what the author’s thing is. By thing I mean the big issue they address in their writing. While it’s easy to extrapolate from there that it’s the big issue the author him or herself is dealing with in his/her own life, I try not to make that assumptive leap.
For instance, I always thing of Mary Gaitskill’s thing as trying to reconcile sexuality with intelligence; Raymond Carver is sensitive men who cope with their sensitivity by dri...more
Jenny Shank
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Book review: 'Before You Suffocate Your Own Fool Self' by Danielle Evans

12:00 AM CDT on Sunday, October 3, 2010

By JENNY SHANK / Special Contributor to The Dallas Morning News
Jenny Shank's first novel, The Ringer, will be published in March. She is the books editor of NewWest.Net.

Danielle Evans' debut story collection examines the lives of young black people in contemporary America and does so with a ringing authenticity in eight moving, funny and insightfu...more
Judy
I am a fan of short stories and the eight stories in this collection are some of the best that I have read lately. This debut collection of stories focuses on young African-American and mixed-race women who are dealing with the insecurities of growing up and the competing pressures of racial attitudes and prejudices and dysfunctional families. While race is an important aspect of each short story, the themes of problems within families, the search for love, and the need to belong apply equally t...more
Nomi
These short stories told with grace and humor mostly deal with young African American female characters coming of age during high school and college. Particularly strong is the story "Snakes" about a biracial young woman recalling the time she was sent to live with her racist white grandmother for the summer, as is the intriguingly titled "Harvest" about white college girls making lots of money selling their coveted eggs while the story's African American narrator finds out she is pregnant. Evan...more
Krista
This is a collection of short stories. I didn't realize that at first so I was disoriented when I started the second chapter and all of the characters were different, but then I realized it says "stories" on the front cover, whoops! Unsurprisingly, I liked some of the stories better than others. Snakes and Robert E. Lee Is Dead were my favorites. Jellyfish was my least favorite because I felt like it didn't end so much as stop, but maybe I just didn't "get" that one. All eight stories were well...more
Stephanie
I just don't think I'm a short story person. I'm sure these stories are good, but for the most part I didn't enjoy them. Partly because they tend to be rather dark, as short stories often are, and partly because I didn't feel that ring of truth or recognition in many of them. I really enjoyed the first story, about two teenage girls trying to figure out their place with men and boys. There were some very real-feeling moments, and even though I wouldn't call it a happy story, it made sense to me....more
Katie
This was a very character-driven collection of short stories that I found, for the most part, interesting and was glad I read. As with most short story collections (at least for me), it can be kind of hit-or-miss, and there were definitely a few stories where I either thought "huh?" (i.e. I just completely missed the point) or just did not enjoy very much. But there were definitely some that made you think.

I'd describe the general theme to be flawed-but-intriguing people making mistakes, and the...more
Uzzie
Evans's collection is refreshing--it reminds me of how we at times become our own" worst enemies." This doesn't necessarly mean we revel in self-destruction but that we often make choices and haven't begun to truly fathom the consequences of said choices. After I get pass the first predictable story, the others hold my interest, forcing me to sympathize and empathize with the characters and the many seemingly asphxiating choices they make for themselves and those around them. The writing is clea...more
Julie
I can't review this book without offering the disclaimer that the author went to my middle school and high school, and I briefly knew her. It was directly because of that fact that I found her stories particularly powerful and thought-provoking, even as I may have disagreed at times about how she presented things. I'd highly recommend this book to anyone interested in thinking about race and socioeconomic class through the lens of a fiction-writer.

Overall, I did not love the writing style - the...more
Sonia Reppe
My favorite stories were Snakes and Harvest. The writing is really good but the tone is a little too cynical for me. You might argue that Evans is just being realistic, and I like realism, don't I? Yes, and I don't shy away from realism that makes you squirm a little when you see your own shortcomings, mistakes and/or misbehavior mirrored by the characters. But with realism you could take your characters down the redemptful (redemptive?) road or leave them in a state of hopelessness which I thin...more
Mary
To say that this is a collection of short stories about "young and African-American or mixedrace in modern day America", as the dust cover does, is to seriously underestimate and limit the scope of this work. This is a book about individuality, about growing up, about families, about disappointment, about being different, about being left behind, about leaving others behind -- in short, this is a book about life, applicable to every race, creed and color.

The author has an amazing skill in portra...more
Nakia White
What can one say about a collection of short stories, each one of them delicious enough to hope that they never end? I almost feel bad for only givng this book 3.5 stars (I gave the extra .5 on Visual Bookself, but GoodReads and Shelfari won't allow for that...I wonder why). The only reason it didnt recieve a perfect score of 5? I didnt want any of the stories to end so soon, if that makes any sense. These stories should be novels!

I especially loved "Virgins", the story of two teen girls in New...more
Bookmarks Magazine
The arrival in publishing of Danielle Evans, a graduate of the Iowa Writers Workshop who is still in her 20s, has been anticipated with the same enthusiasm that sports phenoms are welcomed into the majors. And with good reason. The author's voice, "brave the way you are when you don't know what you have to lose" (NY Times Book Review), never lets her laser focus stray from the challenges of growing up in the 21st century—even if she tends, occasionally, to lead the reader instead of relying on h...more
Stacy
the title itself evokes a story of its own, a saying, I heard a few times growing up from the neighborhood elders as I dangled from the ledge of a house, tree limb or a diving board. these 8 stories are perfectly pitched, giving just enough to appease your appetite, though you want to gorge & gorge until you burst like fireworks. My favorites were "Snakes", "Someone Ought to Tell Her...", "JellyFish" and "Robert E. Lee Is Dead". Evans voice has a plain-telling that catches your attention &...more
Merre
This collection of stories was riveting, interesting, and thought provoking. Rarely have I found authors who speak of the variety, and complexity that is the African American experience. I found a piece of myself in every one of the protagonists. I think that's what so amazing about these stories, I was able to identify on so many different levels, especially as an African American female who is the same age as the author. We are living in changing times and the stories reflect that and the conf...more
Tanya Patrice
4.5 - so rounding up.

What an AMAZING short story collection! I actually meant to return this book to the library unread because I was a bit burnt out on short-stories after reading We Others, After the Apocalypse & Teeth back to back. But while waiting somewhere or another, I cracked this book and read the 1st story - Virgins ... I was blown away and kept reading. Every single story is worth reading - even the 2 that seemed a bit unfinished to me, Jellyfish & Wherever You Go There You Ar...more
Betsy
The voice or perspective of these eight short stories is what I found most eye-opening and compelling. It's the voice of someone very different than me - a young black woman sharing stories about her childhood, teen-age years and early adulthood - mostly about situations that I never experienced or ever could but also about familiar issues like "white flight" and "the achievement gap" viewed from an unfamiliar vantage point, one very different than mine.

One story is about a young mixed race New...more
Dusky Literati
Danielle Evans gives us an amazing debut with eight short stories which mainly focus on the experiences of African-American women. The first story is “Virgins,” which was initially published in the 2007 Paris Review, and follows two friends who have differing points of view about the right way to lose your virginity. However, one girl’s right way puts her in a dangerous situation.

The story that stayed with me the most was “Snakes,” where Tara, a bi-racial teen, is sent to visit with her white gr...more
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If you have gotten here by accident, I am not the Danielle Evans who won Americas Next Top Model, Danielle Evans the martial arts champion, Danielle Evans the photographer, or any of the other people who share my surprisingly popular name. I am a fiction writer and professor of creative writing and literature. My work has appeared in magazines including The Paris Review, A Public Space, Callaloo,...more
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