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  <title><![CDATA[The No-Cry Discipline Solution (Pantley)]]></title>
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  <default_description>Disciplining children is arguably one of the hardest skills for parents to learn. As a   parent herself, Elizabeth Pantley knows what a challenge it is to establish good discipline,   and she shares the hard-won wisdom of her experience with parents in this latest edition to   her revolutionary &quot;no-cry&quot; approach to parenting. In this case, we have no doubt she's   saving parents from tears, too! Elizabeth Pantley's approach to this age-old problem is   unique because she doesn't rely on old discipline models that often make parents feel like   the bad guy. Instead, she gives parents the communication tools they need to stop bad   behavior in its tracks and gain a deeper understanding of what triggers a child to act out.   Any parent will appreciate the focus on love and nurturing in this wholly practical and   much-needed addition to the child care shelf.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;   &lt;HR class=bucketDivider noShade SIZE=1&gt; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;B class=h1&gt;A Special Message from Elizabeth   Pantley to Amazon.com Readers&lt;/B&gt;&lt;BR&gt; &lt;A&gt;&lt;IMG hspace=4 src=&quot;http://g-ec2.images-  amazon.com/images/G/01/books/authors/pantley-author.jpg&quot; align=left  vspace=4 border=0&gt;  As a mom of four, two boys and two girls, I know that raising children is a unique   experience every day. Our children bring us a level of joy, and a depth of love, that   nothing else in our history has prepared us for. They change us as human beings, and we can   never go back to who we were before they entered our lives. &lt;p&gt;We love our children   intensely, yet every day life with them can be challenging, frustrating and exhausting. All   day, every day, there are so many things we must get our children to do--or stop from doing.   Beginning with getting them out of bed in the morning, and ending with putting them to bed   at night (and often, not even then), our job involves an incredible amount of organization,   guidance, direction and connection. And all that requires a brilliance and stamina that we   never knew we possessed, but somehow must find.&lt;p&gt; I spend my time surrounded by parents,   children and families. I've worked with hundreds of &quot;Test Parents&quot; from all over the world   during my book writing process. And of course, I have my very own &quot;laboratory&quot; in my home.   So I have a very good idea of the top issues that all parents share. I research the best   answers that support positive, nurturing, &quot;No-Cry&quot; parenting ideals and share those answers   with my readers in my books. &lt;p&gt;I hope that I can help you to find the solutions to the   parenting challenge that you are facing today.&lt;p&gt;Hugs,&lt;br/&gt;Elizabeth&lt;BR&gt; &lt;P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR&gt;  &lt;table width=100% cellpadding=3&gt; &lt;tr width=100% bgcolor=006600&gt; &lt;td valign=center   align=center&gt; &lt;font face=Arial, Helvetica, Verdana sans-serif class=small   color=FFFFF&gt;&lt;b&gt;Enter to Win a Chance to Learn Discipline Techniques from Elizabeth   Pantley&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt; &lt;/td&gt; &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;br/&gt;  Elizabeth Pantley is offering Amazon.com readers a chance to join her in a one-on-one   session in which parents can learn how to solve behavioral problems, communicate effectively   with kids, and take away a personalized action plan that will help them to implement   effective discipline practices right away. Visit the  publisher's   sweepstakes page and find out how to enter for a chance to win this exclusive offer.&lt;p&gt;    For a live demonstration of Elizabeth Pantley's approach to discipline, watch these three   dynamic videos of Elizabeth Pantley discussing key principles from &lt;I&gt;The No-Cry Discipline   Solution&lt;/I&gt;. 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  <read_at>Thu Oct 29 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Thu Oct 29 13:26:01 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is possibly the most helpful parenting book I've EVER read.  The most important thing for me was that it helped me realize that I have become the kind of parent I never wanted or expected to be: too serious.  Pantley gives lots of useful suggestions for encouraging compliance BEFORE resorting t...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/75925395">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Apr 02 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Pantley presents a varied collection of useful parenting techniques for dealing with unpleasant kid behavior. Talk in a funny voice, get on their eye-level, give choices, set up routines, give warning before changes... she also presents a useful (if a little drawn out) chapter on dealing with anger ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51282243">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Nov 05 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I sat down and read this cover to cover after an especially trying day with my 3 and 2 year olds. I'll definitely go back and reread parts. While there were a lot of ideas that I think I already knew it was still good to have them laid out clearly and understand why they work. Some of the ideas didn...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/36920592">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Sep 12 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Excellent book! This has widened my options for dealing with the whining and tantrums of my two year old, and has helped me be more understanding of the &quot;whys&quot; of her frustration and what I can do to help her through it. <br/><br/>The book offers several ideas for first, understanding wh...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28065458">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="14950534">
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  <read_at>Wed Feb 20 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I really enjoyed this book, and I can see myself going back to it again and again for reference in the future.  I originally checked it out of the library, but plan to buy a copy soon.  The book is very readable, and the author &quot;speaks&quot; in a knowledgeable tone without being condescending. ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/14950534">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="10800807">
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  <read_at>Fri Feb 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Pantley's guide for &quot;discipline&quot; of babies, toddlers and preschoolers is chock full of down-to-earth, common sense advice. On one hand, I found myself saying frequently, &quot;yep, already do that&quot; but there were some gems in this book that we've already put into practice - AND THEY W...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/10800807">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Oct 04 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I have to admit, I probably already knew (in some form) about at least half, if not two-thirds, of the techniques suggested in this book. The ones I didn't know about were very worthwhile, but that's not what made me really like this book. *That* was Pantley's attitude. Reading this book made me fee...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/29552912">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="78532650">
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    <body><![CDATA[I was really disappointed by this book. I figured that with all the recommendations it got in attachment parenting circles and with &quot;no cry&quot; in its title, it would have less of a behaviorist bent. We gleaned a few things that work in our family, but most of it requires rewards, consequence...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/78532650">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="30862206">
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  <read_at>Wed Sep 03 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Wed Sep 03 19:31:44 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[A refreshing parenting book...finally!  The author doesn't pretend to have a secret formula or all the answers, but this book is FULL of so many great reminders, tips and tools.  I've already used several of her ideas...and I can see them working!!!  <br/><br/>Pantley first discusses discipline......<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/30862206">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="71004021">
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  <read_at>Sat Sep 12 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I liked this book a little better than some of the other parenting books I've read.  Instead of having a strict &quot;method&quot; of parenting, this gives just suggestions for lots of different types of issues, and encourages you to only use the ones that sound like they'd work for you.  ]]></body>
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    <review id="48048364">
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    <body><![CDATA[Not a comprehensive guide to discipline, but a great resource on how to keep expectations appropriate and making life easier with your kids. A really, really, really helpful section on anger management for parents if you feel like you're the one that needs a time out sometimes.]]></body>
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    <review id="72079272">
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  <read_at>Mon Sep 21 21:47:53 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book really uplifts parents with positive messages. It always makes me feel like a better mom to read a few pages when I'm feeling down about my parenting. The advice in the book is very good.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I love Elizabeth Pantley!  She expects realism and is obviously a good sweet parent not requiring perfection or passing judgment.  I love her books. She would never say that a kid needs sleep more than time with a parent (I really read this once somewhere else)!!!  Unfortunatley, this did not alter ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56840502">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Apr 30 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Pantley defines &quot;discipline&quot; as leading and educating the child to right actions.  Because of this, her discipline strategies are many and varied, and she encourages readers to choose the ones that work best for them depending on the situation.  She offers specific tips for problem behavio...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/15961002">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I need as much advice as I can get. Timeouts dont work, yelling isnt fun, hitting is not an option...but I need the boy to behave! So far Ive learned:<br/><br/>When Isaac whines, ask him where is &quot;big boy voice&quot; is. Worked once so far.<br/><br/>This weekend Im going to make a happy fac...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1716041">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 15 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Love it!  ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Possibly my favorite discipline book so far.  It's super practical, and addresses things from a parents' point of view.  I'm a fan of Pantley's writing overall.  I really liked the No Cry Sleep Solution books as well.  She addresses things from an attachment parenting standpoint, yet also deals with...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/27509797">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Feb 07 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[An excellent source for gentle discipline tools.  Here suggestions are respectful of the child and give the parent many, many options of how to successfully teach and direct their children. One caveat is that Pantley does include the time-out as an option but in reading her description of it, t.o. i...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/41133815">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[For a parenting book, this was a very easy read.  In addition this has been the most comprehensive and in-synch with our style book I've found.  It had some great general sections about how to engage/communicate with kids as well as handle anger.  The follow-up concrete discipline situations for the...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24672030">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book presents common-sense, easily implemented solutions to avoid or ameliorate tantrums. It also explains why tantrums commonly occur, which is helpful from a developmental standpoint. I would recommend it - I think it will give most parents some more tools in their arsenal for dealing with pr...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40522426">more...</a>]]></body>
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