Crossing Mandelbaum Gate: Coming of Age Between the Arabs & Israelis 1956-78
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Crossing Mandelbaum Gate: Coming of Age Between the Arabs & Israelis 1956-78

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PULITZER PRIZE WINNER KAI BIRD'S fascinating memoir of his early years spent in Israel, Jordan, Egypt, Saudi Arabia, and Lebanon provides an original and illuminating perspective into the Arab-Israeli conflict.
Weeks before the Suez War of 1956, four-year-old Kai Bird, son of a garrulous, charming American Foreign Service officer, moved to Jerusalem with his family. They s...more
Hardcover, 424 pages
Published April 20th 2010 by Scribner Book Company (first published 2010)
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Jun 18, 2010 Salsadancer rated it 3 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: those interested in Israeli-Palestinian situation
The last chapter makes the book.

I chose to read this book because I am on a quest to learn about Arab history and the Arab mind, and those intersecting with Israel would be a bonus, or so I thought. I was disappointed. I didn't learn much about either the Arab mind or it's history. The book is Kai Bird's memories and experiences, mostly childhood, of growing up in Arab-controlled West Jerusalem where his father was an American Foreign Service officer. He also lived in Egypt, Jordan, Saudi Arabi...more
Jennifer Abdo
Feb 28, 2011 Jennifer Abdo rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommended to Jennifer by: Found on New Books shelf at library.
Shelves: saudi-arabia
This is a pretty interesting memoir. His parents were "arabists" with the Foreign Service for his entire life. He talks about he and his family knowing Salem, the brother of Osama bin Laden (apparently polar opposite), living for a time in the same neighborhood as Zarkawi, knowing both the old and the divided Jerusalems. What he has to say about all of these subjects and people is intriguing. He grew up with a knowledge of the suffering and injustice of the Palestinians that most Americans then...more
i read this simul with nina simone stopped singing The Day Nina Simone Stopped Singing and is about author growing up in jerusalem (he moved there as a tot in 1956, you know, suez war blah balh ) his dad was an oregonian (eugene, same as me) and if you ever wondered how the "middle east", palastine, jordan, egypt, syria, levant etc for ever get and be so fucked up, you can just read this book and wonder, how any of that could even be anymore. they been trying to kill each other, put each other i...more
As the son of an American foreign service officer the author spent his youth in Jerusalem, Saudi Arabia, Egypt and Lebanon. His memoir recounts his experiences growing up in this war torn area of the world, interspersed with descriptions of the conflict between the Israelis and Arabs. He argues coherently for a secular Israel-Palestine and describes many missed opportunities for establishing this and ending the conflict. His marriage to the daughter of Holocaust survivors allows us to see the ef...more
Elliot Ratzman
Jan 01, 2013 Elliot Ratzman rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Curious about the Middle East and the Israeli-Arab conflict
Loved it! Kai Bird is a journalist and biographer who grew up in the Middle East—Jerusalem, Saudi Arabia, Egypt— his father part of the American diplomatic corps. This is an excellent history of the modern Middle East told through Bird’s experience, and the most accessible intro that I can recall since Friedman’s From Beirut to Jerusalem. Partisans of the Israeli-Arab conflict will profit from details of his father’s diplomatic encounters with Arab nationalists, intellectuals, Israelis and oil s...more
Unlike some books of a historical nature, which may be little more than listings of dates and events to be memorized, this book blends historical facts with the author's personal perspectives. Kai Bird manages to give life to the modern history of the Middle East by incorporating his memoirs as someone who was raised in the region. Bird is not only a historian and Pulitzer Prize winning author, but is the son of an American Foreign Service officer, and spent his formative years living in Israel,...more
There were times with this book that I yelled at it, was frustrated, wondered what was going on, "argued" with the author--but I sure learned a lot. The author grew up in the Middle East with his diplomat-father and is a passionate advocate of the Palestinian cause--tempered now with what he's learned by marrying a daughter of Jewish Holocaust victims. I think this is a hugely valuable book to read if one is interested in the seemingly intractable problems in the Middle East--but expect to be ch...more
Prior to a recent trip to the middle east, I skimmed online reviews and shelves looking for a book that would provide as objective as possible perspective on the conflict between the Israelis and Palestinians. While Kai Bird's book does lean in certain directions throughout the book, his experience as an American child of Arabists who grew up in various parts of the middle east and eventually married a Jewish American woman whose family had its own experiences with the shoah, bolstered by histor...more
I picked up this book sometime after reading Palestinian Walks because I found the topic interesting (and illuminating). It rapidly became one of the best books I've ever read, and I was a Literature major during my undergraduate studies--still reading about 100 books/year on average. Kai Bird is a superb writer. While I thought this account would be VERY specific (1956-1978), it surprised me the way it followed Kai's experiences and likewise weaved a much broader history of the middle east and...more
The Book : An Online Review at The New Republic
What has happened to historical revisionism about the Zionist-Arab conflict demonstrates the truth of the cliché that there can be too much of a good thing. Clearly, the tidal wave of pro-Zionist and pro-Israeli writing, in Israel and the West, in the wake of the Holocaust and the somehow miraculous (and fitting) birth of the State of Israel was bound to be overtaken by a more critical and balanced appreciation. Read more...
Bryony Sykes
Besides being an autobiography it was an introduction to the complicated issues surrounding the ongoing upheavals in the lives of innocent civilians, particularly from the point of view from an American young man growing up in the Middle East. The political wheeling and dealing that took place behind the scenes continues to impact on growing numbers of refugees in the region. A most worthwhile read and highly recommended to anyone else who wishes to increase their knowledge of the Middle East.
Gayla Bassham
A very thought-provoking memoir. Bird grew up in various Muslim countries (his father was a diplomat) and was extremely sympathetic to the Palestinian cause. He married the daughter of two Holocaust survivors and then gained a more sympathetic understanding of Israeli history which caused him to moderate his views somewhat. His conclusions are rosier than I believe to be warranted, but I still think this is a must-read if you are interested in the history of this area.
I think this is an honest, open and heartfelt memoir done by the author on his life. I liked the way he presented his thoughts, the history and the story of his life. I found this to be a very good read as it presented new thoughts and insights, for me, about the Middle East. It was also very interesting to read how he's thinking changed over the years, yet never really changed at heart. It shows me how knowledge is power to the individual.
Gari Aber
After reading the other reviews, I think I may be wrong about this book. I didn't think the author was very clear about the history and he spent lots of space honoring his parents writings regardless of the value of the letters. The memoir part was not informative to the book and not interesting. The final chapters carried the book. If it weren't that I had to read it for a book club, it would have gone back to the library after 50 pages.
A superlative book: part middle east primer and part personal memoir, this book filled in my knowledge of such events as Saudi history, the Jordanian civil war, the pan-Arab regime of Nasser, and political currents in the newly formed nation of Israel. Although the author spent a large part of his childhood in Arab neighborhoods he presents an evenhanded analysis of the region and a well thought out proposal for peace.
Great book, part memoir, part history. Author is pulitzer prize winning journalist who grew up in East Jerusalem, Saudi Arabia, and Egypt during 1960's. He attended Carleton college in the early 70's where he met his wife, Susan Goldmark, the daughter of holocaust survivors. He tells his fascinating account of the Arab Israeli conflict with a uniquely balanced perspective.
Excellent book by Pulitzer prize winning author Kai Bird. Crossing Mandelbaum Gate covers the author's personal and family history in the middle east (Israel, Palestine, Egypt, and Saudi). Bird is an excellent story teller - this book is a great read.
Elizabeth Fisher
This is an amazing book. The author's stories about growing up in the Middle East are fascinating, but also it makes sense of the history. What before only seemed like isolated terrorism now falls into place. This book is really rich and nuanced; I loved it.
Vikas Datta
A wonderful account of the Middle East at a critical time with incisive portraits of key figures such as Nasser and King Faisal, while at the same time, is a eminently readable coming of age account and also shows the way forward. Marvellous
I read 60 pages of this book and then put it aside. Although I feel it is a book worth reading for the historical content, it did not hold my interest because I felt as though I was reading a textbook.
Lisa Bell
Very interesting but I had to take notes to keep up with who was who. I often referred to Google to search maps, names and wars. I will read it again after I have had time to process the history lesson.
Interesting read and interesting mix of memoir and history. It was at times hard to follow as it's not an area of the world I know enough about. So it was not a fast read.
Actually, it was overdue and I had to return it without finishing. I'll get it back! So far, quite a good history of the entire region, but a slow read.
Robin Selvig
I'm only a couple of chapter into this book, but it's pretty interesting and provides a lot of history in a memoir format.
This book was amazingly well written, thorough, factual and at the same time a wonderfully personal journey.
Jill Delaney
I enjoyed this book very much because it gave a very balanced view of the Israel/ Palestine issue.
This book, too, I re-read for book club and loved it the second time through too.
One of the best books you will ever read about the Middle East.
Great history on Israel and the Middle East.
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Kai Bird is an American Pulitzer Prize-winning author and journalist, best known for his biographies of political figures. He has also won the National Book Critics Circle Award for biography, the Duff Cooper Prize, a Woodrow Wilson Center Fellowship, and a Guggenheim Fellowship. He is a Contributing Editor of The Nation magazine.

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