Gift from the Sea

Gift from the Sea

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In this inimitable, beloved classic—graceful, lucid and lyrical—Anne Morrow Lindbergh shares her meditations on youth and age; love and marriage; peace, solitude and contentment as she set them down during a brief vacation by the sea. Drawing inspiration from the shells on the shore, Lindbergh’s musings on the shape of a woman’s life bring new understanding to both men and...more
Paperback, 130 pages
Published January 30th 1991 by Vintage (first published 1955)
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Rachael
This is one of those books that really will change your life, and it's one that absolutely should.

Lindberg (the wife of Charles Lindberg) explores the necessity of not only looking inward, but of focusing on one's development in order to fully live as a person, a woman, a mother, and a wife. She is especially potent when discussing the necessity of occasional moments of solitude in order to realign one's priorities and give freedom to creative expression, rather than running oneself ragged with...more
Kristin
I absolutely LOVE this book!! I highly highly recommend it. It is the perfect gift to give a friend/sister/mother or to buy for yourself to read and re-read. It is also a really quick read which is a nice little bonus. If you want a really professional review read Lucy's. (I really think Lucy should become a book critic). But here's what I thought about it...this was my second time reading the book. The first time I read it I was around 18 and getting ready to leave for college. My mom had read...more
Rachel Wagner
Just finished again. How I love this book. I can relate to her emotions in leaving the island to a time in my life when an island rescued me in the same way.
I love how she talks about love, change, solitude, community, femininity and freedom. They are the words I would use if I was as eloquent.
Some favorites-
“I do not believe that sheer suffering teaches. If suffering alone taught, all the world would be wise, since everyone suffers. To suffering must be added mourning, understanding, patienc...more
Joel
Feb 28, 2008 Joel rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Joel by: Eugene Peterson
I love walking around a bookstore and picking up five or six books of varying genres that catch my eye, sitting down and skimming. If I'm interested I may read a chapter or two, a dozen poems, maybe even ponder buying it before I put them all back on the shelf. This was number four in a stack of nine that I picked up today at Borders. After skimming the introduction, I flipped to the first chapter... forty-five minutes later I had left the store to get a pen from my car and had picked up three n...more
Sandy T
I remember reading this at BYU for a class and having to do a paper on it. I remember wondering what all the hoopla was about it... it just didn't do all that much for me. But now, some 30+ years later, it had a whole new meaning for me as I truly understood and felt exactly what she was expressing...
It is amazing that though this book was written over 50 years ago, so many of her observations still ring true today, and I found myself marking up page after page. Perhaps the most I got from it wa...more
Linda
I'm sure I read Gift from the Sea at least 30 years ago and have probably bought and given away as many as thirty copies over the years. Gift from the Sea is one of those books that speaks to a person differently through different stages of one's life. I love it and think every woman should read it. I have since read other books (memoirs, diaries, letter of sorts) by Anne M. Lindbergh and have enjoyed them very much. I was happy to come across the 50th anniversary edition as a gift to myself.
Inder
Okay, my favorite part of this book was the afterwards, wherein Ms. Lindbergh acknowledges just how dated the book's appraisal of feminism was (the book was written in 1955, so you can't blame her for what she didn't know was right around the corner - still, her somewhat negative appraisal bugged me and I was relieved that she acknowledged its problems). She also hints at how difficult it is to follow her type of super-zen advice in real life.

I hate to say it, because so many women just L.O.V.E....more
Lisa Kay
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★★★★★I loved this book. My mom gave it to me as a gift when I was a teen and I've read it a couple of times. Still relevant today. Beautifully read by Claudette Colbert.
Mark Mortensen
The title of this book “Gift from the Sea”, shelved in the classic section, caught my immediate attention as I love the sea and then my eye noticed the author, Anne Morrow Lindbergh. The wife, who lived in the shadows of famed aviator Charles Lindberg, lost her first born to abduction, was an English major at Smith College and became a well accomplished person in her own right. I was further drawn to understand the sea’s gift.

The beach along the sea is a calm location to pause and reflect upon...more
Juanita
This book was recommended to me and I'm glad I read it!
There were some soul-stirring truths written by this great woman, Ann Lindbergh of the Lindbergh baby kidnapping (she was the child's mother). By the time she'd written this book, she'd gained a lifetime of wisdom and understood the path that needed to be traversed to get to the best place of her life.
It's an encouraging read and one that made me want to be a better person.
Daisy
May 16, 2013 Daisy rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: Jenny but I bet she read it
Recommended to Daisy by: Mummy? Jenny?
Shelves: classics
At first I thought it was dated. Then it grew into old-fashioned (which is better than dated). And now I kind of have an affection for this book. I think it was my mother who gave me a copy when I was a teenager and if I'd read it then, it would have been more powerful than it is today. Instead, it nudges you gently with ideas that I find myself scribbling down into my journal. This is sweet and a little bit inspiring, even if it is from 1955, or maybe because of that. I'd love a few days on her...more
Chrystal
I thoroughly enjoyed this book! Her writing is soothing, enlightening, and full of wisdom and beauty.

Some of my favorite quotes:
Woman's life today is tending more and more toward the state William James describes so well in the German word, "Zerrissenheit--torn-to-pieces-hood." She cannot live perpetually in "Zerrissenheit." She will be shattered into a thousand pieces. On the contrary, she must consciously encourage those pursuits which oppose the centrifugal forces of today. Quiet time alone,...more
SCLS Librarian Miss Jenna
I just re-read this classic and it's surprising to see how relevant Anne Morrow Lindbergh's observations are to today's woman. The problems and challenges she describes in the mid 1950's are even more true today--how to be a whole woman when divided between husband, children, work, friends and community. Her suggestions of an hour of solitude daily and vacations on one's own reminded me of the modern trend of meditation and certain retreats. Overall, I liked this book and I was comforted in know...more
Rebecca Trujillo Batty
I believe this book was mentioned in The Poisonwood Bible, which is why I took the time to read it. It was ok. I did like the comparisons she made from the different shells to life, but felt that it was dated. She does admit this in the "re-opened" section at the end of the book. Some true statements I found in this book are:

pg.39: "Eternally, woman spills herself away in driblets to the thirsty, seldom being allowed the time, the quiet, the peace, to let the pitcher fill up to the brim."

pg. 58:...more
Sydney
Aug 05, 2008 Sydney rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Therese, Lisa, Michelle, Tara, Shawna, Kristy, Amy, Lacey, Diane, Brigitte, Faith, Andrea, Holli
What a little gem of a book! I've had this one sitting on my shelf for at least 8 years. I can't remember if I recieved it for a graduation gift from college or grad school. For some reason I picked it up this weekend and I'm so glad I did. It was a very soothing read. What struck me is the book was written in 1955, yet the thinking is quite progressive. The author speaks of what women need to do to make sure they don't lose themselves in daily life. There's talk of taking time for yourself away...more
Charyce
Jan 09, 2008 Charyce rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: Every woman
Recommended to Charyce by: Jackie Goddard and Caroline Brock
In Anne Morrow Lindburg's book A Gift From The Sea, she describes her insights into the complexity of womanhood and life as she discovered them in a brief vacation by the sea.

She helps us see ways to reconcile our most deeply personal needs with obligations to family, friends, lovers, and work, ways to separate loneliness from replenishing solitude, and ways to find solace in the simplest of daily tasks.

It is a book that has brought me peace many times when I have felt afflicted by the many need...more
Lisa
Good book. I wanted to give it more stars but my clicker wouldn't click. The author reveals to the reader that most of us live life in some kind of shell but the important thing is being happy with the shell we are in at any given moment. The secret to living a real,authenic life.
loved it.
Kristen
Mar 22, 2009 Kristen rated it 5 of 5 stars
Shelves: own
Amazing. The fact that this was written in another generation yet still applies so seamlessly (and will for generations) is just a mark of its timelessness. A poignant, sit-and-ponder compilation of meanderings without being preachy or trite. You just feel like you're sitting with the author over a cup of tea, as she looks off in the distance and remembers/ponders. This is one I must buy and want to read again and again as I grow. Both the quasi-women's rights, quasi-futureSAHM parts of me relis...more
Patti
surprising to find a book written in the 1950's that still speaks true today.
Ginia
There's so much to this book even though it's short. It's deep and thoughtful and it's a fresh ocean breeze to me. I pine for the beach, and for solitude. The author stresses that solitude (being alone) is essential for our relationships to work, be it with our children, and spouse, and friends. I don't think it's out-dated. It has stood the test of time.

My favorite so-true quote:

Distraction is, always has been, and probably always will be, inherent in a woman's life. (I'm distracted right now w...more
Em
This book had a lot of great advice in it. I've never been one that enjoys metaphors, I would rather people just say what they mean in plain english, but I think that Anne Lindbergh did okay with hers. I agreed completely with her point that women need to be more centered. I'm definatly not into self-help books at all, but this was one of the better ones. I find myself waking up everyday, planning every minute of the day. It's gotten so bad that everynight before bed Kaitlyn will ask me what we...more
Holly
Feb 23, 2009 Holly rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Pretty much anyone
Recommended to Holly by: Aiti (Sirpa)
Shelves: classics
My Aiti gave me this book a couple of years ago for Christmas and I'm so glad (and a little embarrassed) that I finally got around to reading it. A super short read but one which has lasting effects. I had a hard time deciding whether it deserved four or five stars because I definitely felt amazed after I finished.

Mother, poet, and pilot Lindbergh wrote this during a brief vacation by the sea in 1955. In it she shares her meditations on finding contentment in each of the different stages of life...more
Adrian
I was not aware this book is as old as it is (almost sixty years). The problems faced by women haven't changed all that much. I think they have intensified, but the problem itself is still the same.

The first part reminded me of a General Conference talk about doing the 'best' things rather than the 'good' things, and giving up some of our heavy burdens, like our pride. The metaphor of middle life as oysters striving to establish themselves securely rang very true for me. I also especially apprec...more
NTE
I am going back and forth on the rating for this one: On the one hand, there's less than 150 pages and at least 7 sticky notes... this reflects well on the book. On the other hand, there's ... just something- A tone. A knowing-ness. A "Secret" vibe. - that made uncomfortable with the whole of the book. So, 3 stars, but with the caveat that I know Lindbergh was probably smarter & more in tune with herself than I will ever be with myself, and maybe that's off-putting to me?

I look back at the s...more
Nancy
I re-read this little book of meditations shortly after reading The Aviator's Wife, a fictional autobiography of Anne Morrow Lindbergh, because I wanted to revisit her own writing. What's amazing is how her thoughts are relevant even today, 58 years later. She wrote this in 1955, it was reprinted twenty years later in 1975, I received this 20th Anniversary Edition as a birthday gift from my sister (thank you, Kellun!) and read it for the first time in 1988, and now I'm reading it in 2013 - 25 ye...more
Kiersten Lawson
I discovered this little book at a beach house in Yachats, OR. A bit simplistic but resonant, particulary since I read it as it was written: in solitude at the sea.

"Yeats once said that the supreme experience of life was 'to share profound thought and then to touch.' But it takes both."
"And when we are tired of walking, we lie flat on the sand under a bowl of stars. We feel stretched, expanded to take in their compass. They pour into us until we are filled with stars, up to the brim. One thirsts...more
Joyce Elferdink
I just re-read this book after a hiatus of a few years and loved it as much as ever! In the past, it gave me a vision of living a more balanced agenda every day. That's something I'm still striving for, although Lindbergh reminded me of some important ways to do that, especially by creating islands of time where "the past and the future are cut off; only the present remains. Existence in the present gives island living an extreme vividness and purity." (p. 40)

What seemed brand new was the messa...more
Lisa
I just read an amazing book.

It contains words, as books usually do, and offers clarity that can speak to people from any generation, especially women but I think the lessons apply to both sexes. It contains poetry, imagery, honesty, insight, and peace.

While I bought the Kindle version, I wish I owned a hard copy. I want to write notes in pencil in the margin, dog ear pages, and read it over and over again. I know, some of you are wincing at the thought of the desecration of the pristine pages, b...more
Allison
I first found this book in a little book store on Shelter Island when I was a teenager on a boat trip with my family. Maybe I was 18 or 19? And reading it this time around, I wonder how it could possibly have been as relevant for me then as it is for me now, as I approach my 40th birthday. But I remember thinking then that it was written specifically for me. I have read it every single year that I have gone to the beach since then, and sometimes even in dry years. It exemplifies why books rock....more
Rachel Crooks
Nov 06, 2011 Rachel Crooks rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Becca
Lately in the busy-ness of being in grad school, I find that they days can often seem lonely. The day usually involves hours of practicing (alone), and then many of the human interactions that I have are usually based around working or school. I find myself coming home with the frequent feeling of not being known, in the way that a good coversation or valuable one-on-one time can make you feel.

I found Gift from the Sea at a church book sale, and it really was a gift (if not from the sea :). I...more
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Anne Morrow Lindbergh was born in 1906. She married Charles Lindbergh in 1929 and became a noted aviator in her own right, eventually publishing several books on the subject and receiving several aviation awards. Gift from the Sea, published in 1955, earned her international acclaim. She was inducted into the National Aviation Hall of Fame, the National Women’s Hall of Fame, and the Aviation Hall...more
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