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  <title><![CDATA[How to Heal the Hurt by Hating]]></title>
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  <default_description>&quot;I wish we were back together for just one night . . .&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;so I could push you out of my loftbed while you were sleeping.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Satirical and sharp, downtown New York City performance artist Anita Liberty reinvents self-help as she skewers her ex-boyfriend in this hilarious, hip, and audaciously candid collection of advice, poems, and diary entries. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;I thought you were a gifted and tortured artist. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I was wrong.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;About the gifted part.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Oh.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And the artist part.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;From romantic bliss to brutal breakup, from heartache to healing, this fierce, funny, and ultimately liberating homage to being &quot;dumped&quot; rips off the stiff upper lip in favor of a red-hot therapy of wit, wisdom, rage, and redemption. And now, a few words from Anita Liberty . . .&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;COMPROMISE--&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Lowering my standards.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;So you can meet them.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;You're a bad habit.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I want to kick you.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hard.&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Inclues free postcards to send to that special someone!</default_description>
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  <original_publication_month type="integer">9</original_publication_month>
  <original_publication_year type="integer">1998</original_publication_year>
  <original_title>How to Heal the Hurt by Hating</original_title>
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      <name><![CDATA[Anita Liberty]]></name>
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  <read_at>Thu Mar 26 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Mar 25 15:59:26 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Mar 26 09:01:24 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[the best part of this book was the jacket.  enough said. ]]></body>
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    <review id="42807943">
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    <name><![CDATA[Ecclectiscapist]]></name>
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  <read_at>Mon Dec 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Jan 12 12:41:38 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Jan 12 12:45:10 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Cute, funny, quick read when you're halfway through a particularly mess breakup. No matter how well or poorly you've handled it, will make you feel much more mature. Or give you bad ideas about terrible things to do, if your inhibitions are particularly low (or evil streak is riled up). <br/><br/>Th...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42807943">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="40762902">
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  <read_at>Mon Nov 01 00:00:00 -0800 2004</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Dec 23 10:21:50 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Dec 23 10:23:34 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Full of bitter, sarcastic humor.  I thought it was entertaining. Plus, I read it after a nasty break-up, so that could be part of why I liked it so much...]]></body>
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    <review id="12168584">
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[post-breakups, or anyone who has a sense of humor]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Sat Sep 01 00:00:00 -0700 2001</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Jan 10 11:48:29 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Jan 10 11:52:56 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[OK. The title is a bit scary, but I bought it at the time when I was ending a no-good relationship. And it intrigued me. The book was really great, not just manhating drivel, but more an inner dialogue of a woman going through a rough breakup. It runs through all kinds of emotions, from anger to sel...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12168584">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2004</read_at>
  <date_added>Fri Sep 18 12:17:41 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Sep 18 12:19:15 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[The perfect book if you've ever been dumped and have some serious problems with it. I loved this book.]]></body>
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    <review id="66446042">
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    <body><![CDATA[Funny, short, man hating book:)  I would give it to a friend who gets out of a bad relationship.]]></body>
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    <review id="1615925">
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  <date_added>Sat Jun 02 17:55:53 -0700 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Jun 21 08:51:52 -0700 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[The book was recommended by friend (who has only let me down once out of several books).Otherwise I would have never heard of it. <br/>The title sounds awful but what a fun book. Really worth the read. Anita is a performance poet, which I guess is like slam poetry. This certainly is. You'll feel be...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1615925">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="51386551">
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  <read_at>Tue Apr 14 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Tue Apr 14 10:56:04 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Wow!  ]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51386551]]></url>
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    <review id="20475812">
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  <read_at>Thu Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 1998</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Fri Apr 18 12:13:52 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[A very funny book! I read this many, many years ago and loved it!  A great book for anyone who remembers what those horrible break-ups are like. ]]></body>
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    <review id="4714259">
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  <date_updated>Thu May 21 16:42:23 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Yes, the title does say it all. Even if you're currently heartbroken it is still a hilarious read, and believe me,  you'll love it when you actually are. ]]></body>
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    <review id="3304807">
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  <date_updated>Thu Jul 19 23:28:20 -0700 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[A friend of mine bought me this book for some reason and I LOVED IT!  The title says it all.  ]]></body>
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    <review id="17203151">
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  <date_added>Thu Mar 06 18:37:09 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Mar 16 11:05:42 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[The best part of the book may be the included postcards.. ]]></body>
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    <review id="11902832">
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  <read_at>Fri Mar 01 00:00:00 -0800 2002</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[MY FAVORITE BOOK EVER!!!!]]></body>
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