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Aspergirls: empowering females with Asperger Syndrome
by
Rudy Simone
Girls with Asperger's Syndrome are less frequently diagnosed than boys, & even once symptoms have been recognized, help is often not readily available. The image of coping well presented by AS females can often mask difficulties, deficits, challenges, & loneliness.
Paperback, 236 pages
Published
2010
by Jessica Kingsley
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This was a book that definitely gave me a lot to think about... because even though I'm positive my computer design engineer father has Aspergers, it never occurred to me until recently that I might have it. I'm now pretty sure that I do - the reasons are too numerous to list, but having had the same breakfast for the past 20+ years and finding my weird pattern-matching ability described as "fluid intelligence" and an Aspergers savant skill... Yeah.
I also had a lot of trouble with this book, bec...more
I also had a lot of trouble with this book, bec...more
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I downloaded this book to read to help me understand my Aspie niece but also to find out if some of the 'peculiarities' of my personality fitted with and Aspergirl as it has been suggested by a couple of people close to me.
The book is written itself by an Aspergirl with contributions from many fellow Aspergirls giving their own examples of each scenario the chapters portray.
The chapters cover school, work, relationships, identity, sensory overload, stimming, friendships, routine and diagnosis ju...more
The book is written itself by an Aspergirl with contributions from many fellow Aspergirls giving their own examples of each scenario the chapters portray.
The chapters cover school, work, relationships, identity, sensory overload, stimming, friendships, routine and diagnosis ju...more
I thought the first half of this book was very good, showing how the core elements of aspergers manifest in daily life in different ways for different women and girls. However, about halfway through it seems like the author stopped taking in as many perspectives, or something, because what she was talking about stopped being relevant to me.
I have aspergers, but I don't get temper meltdowns or have depression. She seems to say that all aspergirls have these problems, but you don't have to have t...more
I have aspergers, but I don't get temper meltdowns or have depression. She seems to say that all aspergirls have these problems, but you don't have to have t...more
Choosing the path of letting female "Aspies" themselves speak and then elaborating more on those anecdotes, the author manages to pack an amazing amount of information into a relatively thin book about female expressions of Asperger Syndrome while always keeping the reading light, interesting and memorable. Both practical and insightful in its main aim, stated already in the title: "empowering females with Asperger Syndrome," Aspergirls also highlights the differences between male and female exp...more
I liked reading this book about autistic females and am autistic myself, though most of the women described are higher functioning than me. I looked more "typically" autistic as a child and continue to struggle with daily living tasks as an adult. I related a lot to the discussion on relationships and meltdowns (I liked the idea of "depression meltdowns" as I experience those, as well, though that's partly due to my bipolar). I do not believe autism is caused by gut/stomach issues, though, which...more
In general, I thought this was a great book. It covered a wide range of topics, included a lot of perspectives, and was written with humour and insight.
I would have appreciated variation in the addresses at the end of the chapters ("To Aspergirls" and "To Parents"), including other involved parties such as partners. This would have been particularly relevant for chapters on sex, marriage and parenting among others!
The book also included a lot of heterosexist language. While the possibility for...more
I would have appreciated variation in the addresses at the end of the chapters ("To Aspergirls" and "To Parents"), including other involved parties such as partners. This would have been particularly relevant for chapters on sex, marriage and parenting among others!
The book also included a lot of heterosexist language. While the possibility for...more
I thought this was a very well written book. As a mother of a 16 year old Aspergirl, I could definitely identify. Rudy Simone did a great job of spelling out how Asperger's affects girls differently, and how it can change the way they look at life.
I also liked how she talked with other girls on the spectrum throughout the book, giving them the chance to put their two cents. I put it on my daughter's kindle also so she can read it when she is interested.
I think it can empower Aspergirls, and all...more
I also liked how she talked with other girls on the spectrum throughout the book, giving them the chance to put their two cents. I put it on my daughter's kindle also so she can read it when she is interested.
I think it can empower Aspergirls, and all...more
best book ive read...such a weight lifting off experience. i already thought i had aspergers....this book just confirms it. i dont feel so 'odd' now. im 27 and ive been made to feel odd by society all my life for not wanting kids, not being interested in clothes nor make-up or particularly interested in guys. i also have psychic tendencies too. my mum has read the book too and her opinion?: "god this book is totally you its unreal but too real". i very much identified with this big style. i thou...more
Simone's passion is clear here, but sometimes a bit muddled and misguided. I'm trying to find it charming, though.
A few things that are bothersome about her writing: often contradicts herself. Within a few pages, she'll say that girls with Aspergers are emotionally immature, then talk about how she is more mature than her peers, than go back to discussing her fondness for kids' movies because she's...emotionally immature.
She discusses how women on the autism spectrum often don't have an innate u...more
A few things that are bothersome about her writing: often contradicts herself. Within a few pages, she'll say that girls with Aspergers are emotionally immature, then talk about how she is more mature than her peers, than go back to discussing her fondness for kids' movies because she's...emotionally immature.
She discusses how women on the autism spectrum often don't have an innate u...more
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People with Asperger's are well known for their ability to focus, their often higher than average IQ's, and for sometimes having savant abilities. They are often considered nerds or brains because of their intellectual abilities coupled with their social awkwardness. Whenever I've seen anything on TV about Asperger's, it's always about a socially inept genius sort. That seems to be the common stereotype of people who have Asperger's. But imagine if you were diagnosed with Asperger's and had the...more
Being a parent of a girl with autism biases my reading interest toward books on the topic, and to date I have read a lot. Aspergirls is quite atypical of many i have read and refreshing in style.
Rudy Simone has Asperger's Syndrome (AS) and has been a strong advocate for those with the condition for some years. Her approach to writing is to say it as it is, and simply. She does this to good effect. What I particularly like about this tome is she quotes regularly from interviewed girls and women w...more
Rudy Simone has Asperger's Syndrome (AS) and has been a strong advocate for those with the condition for some years. Her approach to writing is to say it as it is, and simply. She does this to good effect. What I particularly like about this tome is she quotes regularly from interviewed girls and women w...more
Jun 03, 2011
Jessica
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4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
Women and girls with Aspergers and their families.
This is a good book. I have nothing negative to say about it except that it partly makes the assumption that society is not responsible for its share of acceptance. Diversity should be actively valued by all people. However I completely agree that an Aspergirl cannot wait for anyone to accept her and accommodate her so it is up to her to get what she needs and to take care of herself and to make an effort to "fit in" with the worlds way of doing things. That doesn't mean measuring success to a s...more
My first impression of this book was that it is a load of anecdotal magical thinking. The author interviewed an unknown number of women for this book. When talking about their general experiences she always used vague words like, some, most, etc. There is nothing scientific about this book. If you are a skeptic like me, don't read it. The authors psychic powers will offend you.
As it goes on, the author seems to grow a little but is still writing from crazy town. Her advice to a tween/teen audie...more
As it goes on, the author seems to grow a little but is still writing from crazy town. Her advice to a tween/teen audie...more
Put down 'Aspergers and Girls' and pick up Aspergirls instead. Rudy has given us the most thorough, concise and accessible manual about females on the autistic spectrum (that I have read) to date.
Rudy's writing style is easy to follow without the condescension that many other ASD "self-help" type books are littered with. Aspergirls is a fantastic primer for those (on and off the spectrum) interested in ASD and women.
Overall an easy and informative read that should captivate an audience from ag...more
Rudy's writing style is easy to follow without the condescension that many other ASD "self-help" type books are littered with. Aspergirls is a fantastic primer for those (on and off the spectrum) interested in ASD and women.
Overall an easy and informative read that should captivate an audience from ag...more
aspergirls provides a great overview. consider this a starting point. some advice may seem rudimentary, but this is a valuable resource offering practical suggestions. it’s a good guide for parents, educators, friends and partners seeking understanding, but aspies need solutions for dealing with the shortcomings of others and the tools to take care of themselves. you're on your own, aspie girl. here, take this book with you.
this has to be the best guide for women on the specturm that i ever read. it helps that all the contributors are aspies them selves and not professionals who have studied As. I was able to relate too alot im this book. i recommend it to all woman on the autistic specturm and any one who has a asperger Woman or girl in there lives.
One of the best books on girls and Aspergers Syndrome I have read to date. The author is a well-known autism advocate. Her insights are spot on and she has advice to give girls on the spectrum that is useful and road tested. A must read for any girl on the spectrum or for those who love them.
I thought this book was great and helped me to understand my 8 year old daughter so much more. Many of the things Rudy talks about in the book my daughter has expressed to me, but I did not understand her - now I have some insight which will hopefully help me to be a better parent.
This is very relevant to and for people male and female on the autistic spectrum. Aspegers can affect people in different ways and this book goes along way to giving a wide variation in non technical terms of the spectrum. If you have an aspie girl in your family well worth the read.
In the present book, Simone discusses some of her own experiences in learning to cope with Asperger's. She has also interviewed a number of females with Asperger's, ranging in age from young teens to grandmothers, and she shares some of their thoughts on various life topics.
I was turned on to this book by BoingBoing, and after years of being 'accused' of being autistic, I thought that I'd read this book. There are some things that really resonate with me, and for someone who is diagnosed I'm sure that it would be useful in not feeling alone.
I didn't realise until I read this book that girls are less liable to be diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome than boys. It affects them in different ways and they cope with it differently. This is a brilliant book for an Aspergirl, their parents or people working with them - it covers early life, the teenage years, college, work, romance, marriage, friendships, meltdowns, misunderstandings. Basically anything you wanted to know you'll find someone who has experienced it in this book.
This book was recommended by Tony Attwood when I heard him speak, and I am so glad I decided to give it a look. I would highly recommend this for any girl or woman you know who is on the spectrum (or for her parents or spouse, as well.)
I really liked the book. I have Asperger Syndrome and, though I already knew a lot about it, learned a few new things about AS. I really liked the way Simone included the experiences of other women with Asperger, as well as her own experience. I would definitely recommend this book to anyone who wants to learn about Asperger, because it's easy to read and the quotes give a good example of how much AS can differ from person to person.
Livre très intéressant, très documenté, personnel et intelligent. J'ai beaucoup aimé découvrir le syndrome d'Asperger à travers les yeux d'une femme atteinte de ce syndrome. Je le recommande.
This book gave wonderful insights in the difference between genders. As a social worker in the public MS, I found it extremely beneficial if not essential.
Written more for a girl/woman with Asperger's than for those who love and support them. Some chapters were helpful in understanding my daughter better.
This book was so insightful into the life of my Aspie daughter! I felt like I was looking into her world and FINALLY understanding so much about her.
I can't praise this book enough! So far the best Aspie self-help book I've ever read. Well-organized, great information, superb combination of the author's own experiences blended with the voices of other women on the spectrum and tons of medical, psychological, health-related and other advice including very pracical and insightful parenting tips. The appendices in the back are great for having all the salient traits in one place and distinguishing between male and female Aspie characteristics....more
I can't recommend this book highly enough. It explains it all and without any condescending tone in the least!!
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