Between a Heart and a Rock Place
by
Pat Benatar
For more than thirty years, Pat Benatar has been one of the most iconic women in rock music, with songs like "Heartbreaker," "Hit Me with Your Best Shot," and "Love Is a Battlefield" becoming anthems for multiple generations of fans. Now, in this intimate and uncompromising memoir, one of the bestselling female rock artists of all time shares
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Pat Benatar is one of Rock's iconic female artists, but her road to the top was never easy. In her new autobiography, she opens up about the obstacles she faced and the roadblocks people put in her way. Benatar relates the constant battles she waged against the sexism that was rampant in the industry, and how she had to fight for creative control of her music, all while trying to balance the schedule of a constantly touring musician with a marriage and motherhood. It helped that Pat's husband gu...more
I think Pat Benatar is a rad lady and I've been looking forward to this one. I'm hoping that I'll come away from it thinking she's even radder than I already do. I'm only 20 pages in, so maybe it's too soon to say but so far it's kind of boring. It seems she's pretty much always had her head screwed on, had a good childhood, never abused substances...where will the drama come from?
UPDATE: Finished. Some of the writing was weak, some of it heavy-handed and hackneyed. For example, on 9/...more
UPDATE: Finished. Some of the writing was weak, some of it heavy-handed and hackneyed. For example, on 9/...more
In this memoir, Pat Benatar describes her 31-year career in the music industry. As part of the eighties rock movement she made strides for women by being one of the first solo female rockers. She had pure, clean vocals but her music was intense, hard-edged and guitar-driven which made the sound seem like it had attitude and aggression. It was pretty powerful and as a result she won four Grammys and sold millions of records. While this book addresses Benatar’s achievements as a professional s...more
This was a pretty well written rock autobiography, but when they do a "Behind the Music" on Pat Benatar, the only real drama will come in recounting her brave struggle against extreme dullness. I wouldn't say that the book was boring, or even that Pat Benatar's rise to fame was boring. But she seems to have set out deliberately to be the worlds' most boring rock star. No drugs, still married to the same guy for 30 years, two kids...I think I was hoping for a little more rock 'n' roll r...more
What I Can Tell You: I have been a Pat Benatar fan from 1979's In The Heat of The Night her very first album. As someone who always loved female vocalists, Dolly Parton, Steve Nicks, Dusty Springfield, Helen Reddy, Karen Carpenter when I heard Pat, she was so different from my favorite albums. I thought that is Rock and Roll!
This book is great for the fan of this elusive singer. In the 70 and 80s celebrities weren't chased around by the papproazzi or interviewed like we have now. We...more
This book is great for the fan of this elusive singer. In the 70 and 80s celebrities weren't chased around by the papproazzi or interviewed like we have now. We...more
In the early days of MTV, I have to admit that I fell for the gimmicky marketing ploys of the cable juggernaut. Like other young teenagers with evolving hormones, I was enamored with Pat Benatar - both as a musician and as a hot mama who knew how to rock.
Years later, Pat has penned a autobiography that discusses her travails as a pioneer for women rockers. Pat does discuss alot of those battles with her label, MTV, and her management about how much is enough when marketing sex. Bu...more
Years later, Pat has penned a autobiography that discusses her travails as a pioneer for women rockers. Pat does discuss alot of those battles with her label, MTV, and her management about how much is enough when marketing sex. Bu...more
To be honest, I wasn't expecting much from this autobiography. Autobiographies of rock stars are extremely hit or miss. This one was surprisingly more hit than miss.
I really appreciated Benatar's continued admiration and praise of her husband Neil Giraldo (she calls him Spyder throughout the book). She freely gives him credit for elevating her far beyond where should could ever have gotten on her own and their 31+ year marriage is extreme rarity in their chosen profession.
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I really appreciated Benatar's continued admiration and praise of her husband Neil Giraldo (she calls him Spyder throughout the book). She freely gives him credit for elevating her far beyond where should could ever have gotten on her own and their 31+ year marriage is extreme rarity in their chosen profession.
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In New York, when I was in my twenties, in my college days, I loved going to comedy clubs. There was a club in Manhattan called “Catch a Rising Star.” Every Monday night they would present new acts, mostly singers and comics. One night when I was at “Catch a Rising Star,” I watched this young woman perform some songs. She would belt out her voice as if she were an opera singer. She was very attractive, thin, and appeared tall and sure of herself. She owned that stage. And so I went back on...more
Once I saw that this was going to be released I had to read it; I made this be my non- fiction novel for the month. I must admit to being a big fan ( I am part of the Benatar Fan Club) and collecting all the cassettes (Just to give you an idea of prices at that time, I think a Slurpee with the collector cups cost $.25). Getting that out of the way, the first thing I did when I cracked the book open was go to the picture area in the middle, I love that part of the non-fiction books. Then I read ...more
Note: I read this book in tandem with an audio book of Ricky Martin's memoir, Me. Fascinating, unintentional pair. I recommend this pairing for two "Other" perspectives on the commercial music industry.
Things I learned from this book:
Pat Benatar's music label steamrolled her over and over again until her contract expired, forcing albums from her every 9 months, demanding constant touring, micromanaging her image, her romantic relationships, her creative p...more
Things I learned from this book:
Pat Benatar's music label steamrolled her over and over again until her contract expired, forcing albums from her every 9 months, demanding constant touring, micromanaging her image, her romantic relationships, her creative p...more
This memoir was a fast and intriguing read. I've been on a female rock memoir kick. Pat Benatar presents a lucid story about her musical career and the trials she had to deal with as someone trying to find their way, themselves and dealing with sexism without being heavy handed. You do feel as if she is telling you what she thinks.
It is really eye opening how the music industry is great at manipulating their artists yet is it really for the commercial success that they supposedly s...more
It is really eye opening how the music industry is great at manipulating their artists yet is it really for the commercial success that they supposedly s...more
I grew up listening to Pat Benatar. Her first single (Heartbreaker) was out before I finished High school. I bought my first Pat Benatar Album (Crimes of Passion) when I was just 19! I played it so much I am surprised the needle on my stereo didn't wear through to the other side. I knew all the words to all the songs (probably still do). I am proud to say, I still own that Album!
This was a real treat for me to read this wonderful book. It is a real "behind the scenes" look ...more
This was a real treat for me to read this wonderful book. It is a real "behind the scenes" look ...more
I'm a sucker for a celebrity biography, especially a celebrity autobiography. When I was in the 9th grade, I checked Joan Collins' memoir, Past Imperfect, out of the library and that basically started me down that road and there's been no looking back. So last summer when both Belinda Carlisle AND Pat Benatar released memoirs, I figured I must have died and gone to heaven. Two of the 80s leading female singers telling their stories of navigating the music business during the time of my adolescen...more
My introduction to rock and roll came when I first listened to Crimes of Passion. I wasn't as into the sounds of guitar at the time so I didn't really appreciate the genius of Neil Giraldo, but as a singer myself I was blown away by her voice. I also credit Benatar with some of my feminist awakenings. I mean, the album starts out with the song "Treat Me Right." I had never heard songs from women that were so powerful and self-confident. I never did (and still don't) like songs where wo...more
In the interest of full disclosure I have to admit that I am a huge fan of Pat Benatar. I've been to dozens of her concerts, I have all her albums (some in LP and CD format), I have all of her videos and many old interviews and performances on tape or on DVD. I have even met her (and she and Neil are really as nice and down to earth as they come across in the book). Suffice to say that I have waited for this book for a long time.
I became a fan in the mid 80's so I was actually real...more
I became a fan in the mid 80's so I was actually real...more
My copy is signed by Pat Benatar herself. I went to the book signing at Borders and at least 200 people were in line. It is a great story about how two talented, working class people made it big in the music industry and what it took to get things on their own terms. Being a woman in rock was a lot more difficult in the late 70s and early 80s than today. Record label people are greedy creeps, as was shown through their experience at Chrysalis records. They really exploit artists through contract...more
This was an interesting look at Benatar's career. Unfortunately, it was at a very high level emotionally. It's clear she didn't want to expose too much of her inner self in the book. That's certainly her right, but it doesn't make for a great biography. I will say that this is a good how-to for how to be famous and not lose yourself.
The other flaw is that she never seemed to be wrong - except once or twice with her husband. Maybe she just doesn't like making herself too vulnerable o...more
The other flaw is that she never seemed to be wrong - except once or twice with her husband. Maybe she just doesn't like making herself too vulnerable o...more
Pat Benatar has long been one of my favorite artists and this memoir only makes her shine brighter in my eyes. She fought her battles with grace and dignity and stands as one of the greatest rock and roll artists in history-she deserves her place as one of the best and history will show how truly ground breaking this artist was and continues to be. There never was any hint of scandal connected to this well grounded artist in her entire career and the young women of today's music scene could lea...more
I bought this bio because Pat kept plugging it at the live show saying it will tell you about the old days of rock'n'roll. Did not live up to the promise. The only time Pat chucked while singing was because she was up the duff. Not quite the rock'n'roll bio she promised on stage, not rock'n'roll at all. And she tried to sell me online vitamins in the book - times are tough when the first record company you signed with owns the rights to all your songs and you wrote none of them. The one star I d...more
Don't really remember much of my teen-age years that didn't have Pat Benatar's music playing somewhere in the background. So when I saw that this was coming out, I was like, oh heck yeah, I'll read that! Happy to admit, I'm a fan. She talks about her early days in the music business and the harassment she fought against back when there where far fewer female artists. Explains how some of her biggest songs came to be, winning grammy awards (repeately) and somehow managing to achieve her own dream...more
I feel like she spent too great a portion of the book writing about Chrysalis. Yes, she had a lot of issues but really? Griping with your company isn't what you do 24/7. Aren't there more anecdotes from being on the road? And as soon as she wrote about being at the Mall of America in the 80s I got grumpy... being that it didn't open til the mid 90s... So either she's remembering the wrong kid or the wrong place. So I dunno. If the reader wants to be in the music industry I suppose this wou...more
If you are looking to Pat Benatar to spill the inside dirt on all things evil about the music industry this is not that book.
What Pat does is give a chronology of her life, her career and the three loves of her life, music, family and Neil.
Parts of the book are riveting and quite insightful. Other parts are Pat showing what a well balanced and rounded person she is. What you have is a woman who is content with her life, content with her career, is happy and satisfied with all thing...more
What Pat does is give a chronology of her life, her career and the three loves of her life, music, family and Neil.
Parts of the book are riveting and quite insightful. Other parts are Pat showing what a well balanced and rounded person she is. What you have is a woman who is content with her life, content with her career, is happy and satisfied with all thing...more
Reading Between a Heart and a Rock Place was a lot of fun. It was definitely a read-a-lot-of-excerpts-to-my-wonderful-and-tolerant-wife book. Benatar's career trajectory is kinda unusual in rock'n'roll, given that it doesn't involve a trip to rehab (or its conspicuous lack). It's sadly more typical in that one defining characteristic of that career is ongoing disputes with her label, very much aggravated in her case by her identity as a female rocker in an era when women had much less presence i...more
Is it just me, or does the cover photo of this book bear a striking resemblance to Angelina Jolie's December 2010 Vogue cover? Such bone structure!
I really enjoyed reading about Pat Benatar's career and life. I never realized that she is such a passionate artist and a smart businesswoman. Her love for her husband/guitarist/producer Neil "Spyder" Giraldo and their successful navigation of the music industry is admirable and sweet. I found it refreshing to read about a successful ...more
I really enjoyed reading about Pat Benatar's career and life. I never realized that she is such a passionate artist and a smart businesswoman. Her love for her husband/guitarist/producer Neil "Spyder" Giraldo and their successful navigation of the music industry is admirable and sweet. I found it refreshing to read about a successful ...more
I grew up listening to Pat Benatar. She's in fine voice (ha!) here, and because she's one of the few rockers who also has a plausible claim to being a role model, I'm glad she wrote a memoir. Benatar's love for her husband, her passion for music, and her feminist convictions all shine from these honest, well-written pages.
This memoir is better than Clarence Clemmons' "Big Man," because Benatar and her co-author are more disciplined than Clemmons and his co-author were. Ben...more
This memoir is better than Clarence Clemmons' "Big Man," because Benatar and her co-author are more disciplined than Clemmons and his co-author were. Ben...more
Love Pat,but not the book. Time would have been better spent listening to her amazing catalog of music. On a positive note (and my humble opinion)the fact that this book was not very interesting can be attributed to the fact that she never got all caught up in the music-making machine of celebrity, she wasn't a party girl, but instead she put out consistently great music while maintaining her priorities of her marriage, kids, and family above all else. So I like her even more knowing that.
I love Pat. What girl who was in high school in the 80's doesn't? She's sweet, and kind, and not a scandalous party girl, and I appreciate that. She seems like a great role model for her kids, and for girls everywhere.
My problem with this book is that Pat isn't very good at telling a story. The book is about as interesting as a grocery list and NOT because she's got no scandal. She's had a tough time of things in the music business, and she's not cutthroat. She's someone you'd wa...more
My problem with this book is that Pat isn't very good at telling a story. The book is about as interesting as a grocery list and NOT because she's got no scandal. She's had a tough time of things in the music business, and she's not cutthroat. She's someone you'd wa...more
Now I want to buy Pat Benatar's albums after reading this memoir. She is a Capricorn and down-to-earth considering she's a rock star who won multiple Grammys. An honest, intimate look at her trials and triumphs working as a girl in the boy's club of record companies. She has two daughters by the way. I will buy one of her CDs or download it from Amazon. Trust me: after you read this book you'll want to listen to the music of your youth all over again.
Enjoyed much of Pat Benatar's story of struggling as a female rocker in a man's world. The most memorable part for me was her experience having to go out and perform the evening of 9/11 - she strongly resisted performing a show that night, but instead it turned out to be an amazing bonding experience with her audience, as they all felt the need to be together with others. Just imagine the feel in the audience that night when she sang "Invincible." Pretty cool. She's obviously a musicia...more
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A very inspiring biography from one of my favorite performers. Benatar manages to bring the reader behind the scenes of the music industry from the 1970's through the present from the unique standpoint of one of the biggest female rockers of all time. Her take no prisoners attitude toward achieving her dream despite being a woman in a boys club is nicely balanced by the simultaneous love story with her guitarist/music partner (and later husband) Neil "Spyder" Giraldo.
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