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In the Merde for Love (Paul West #2)

3.54 of 5 stars 3.54  ·  rating details  ·  3,038 ratings  ·  203 reviews
The latest episode in Stephen Clarke's almost-true account of his adventures as an expat in France is just as winning as the first. This "anti-Mayle" will have readers chortling over their croissants and café au lait while Paul West struggles to solve the mysteries inherent in life in France. What is the best way to scare a gendarme? Is it really polite to sleep with your ...more
Paperback, 416 pages
Published July 10th 2007 by Bloomsbury USA (first published 2005)
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not so funny as the first one but i enjoyed myself reading it.
Jenn (Booksessed)
Without trying to include spoilers, AYITM was about Paul West moving from London to France to help create English Style tea rooms in France, while working for a boss with questionable ethics. He has complete culture shock, dates a lot of girls and gets into quite a bit of trouble, all with the self-deprecating humor that the Brits are known for. He picks on the English, the French, vegetarians, and Americans, but in a way that you can’t help but love.
ITMFL picks up where the previous book left o
I really enjoyed A Year In the Merde, the first book about Paul, a British businessman living in Paris. In that book, the hilarious clash of cultures and frustrations of doing business in France created a very humorous and satisfying story. This sequel is not as appealing.

Paul has struck out on his own in Paris, determined to open the tea room ("My Tea Is Rich") that was a focus of the first book. However, the tea room takes a backseat to Paul's romantic exploits. He's dating the lovely Florence
When I started this book, I was still under the impression that the series was in some way autobiographical. You'd have thought that I could have noticed the difference in the name of the author and that of the character, but this had evaded my attention when I read the first one, and continued to as I started this one.

The book was actually more enjoyable for knowing that it's not about actual events, which would have left me with far less sympathy for the characters. As it was, I found it more
The first book "A year in The Merde" was great. Pointing a direct finger at all Parisian habits. The second book deserves just a shrug. A character driven love story set in France. Although funny- it's a story and does not maintain the stand up comedian wittiness of book #1.
Jul 18, 2013 Mae rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Francophiles, Brits, English muffins, Frenchies
Recommended to Mae by: My French cousin
The edition I have read has a white cover and two snails behind a cup of English(?) tea. Anyways, I read this book based on my French cousin's recommendation. To sum it up, Paul West is an Englishman morphing into a Frenchman. Though he originally aimed to open an English tea room in the middle of Paris, the main plot revolves around his [needlessly] complicated relationships with French women. Plus, there's a lot of cultural puns (that I'm happy to get considering I arrived in France a few days ...more
Ankur Rastogi
Merde Actually is a sequel to "A Year in the Merde". In this novel, the protagonist Paul continues with his (mis)adventure in France. He is now trying to open his English tea chain "My Tea is Rich" and at the same time having troubles with his personal love life.

While the first part was mostly focused on the cultural differences between England and France, this one is written in a typical love story fashion with not much on cultural issues. Obviously there are bit of episodes like the trouble he
Natalia Pì
this book's good fun, i got it from a friend who was giving it away. it's very light reading, but if you know a little about the two countries involved (England and France), then you will have a laugh while reading it. the story's nothing special really, it's the way he writes that make the book worth reading, as well as all the cultural observations that are hilarious - about both sides of the Channel. kept me good company on a long-distance flight!
Paul West, an Englishman decides to open a tea room in Paris in order to spend the rest of his life living in France together with his newly found French girlfriend Florence. His stay in France was nothing to write home about. It was Merde Actually as he named this novel.

Firstly his plan to drive for two weeks around south-west France with Florence ended up in the Merde. They actually ended up spending their summer vacation at Florence's mum's house in Corrèze after Paul had had a slight accide
Merde Actually is Stephen Clarke’s second novel. It’s about Paul West, a Brit living in France. A year ago he decided to move to la belle France. After a year he still struggles with some important questions concerning the cultural differences.

The novel describes the ridiculously funny ups and downs of the love life of Paul and his attempts to set up an English tearoom in Paris. Merde Actually will take you to the countryside of France, where Paul will meet his monster-in-law and find himself p
Francielli Camargo
At the beginning of the book I was already asking myself how I'd put up with it. But during it I think it got a little better or at least bearable. I even laughed out loud of a Perrier joke.
But how can I enjoy a book/series if I really really dislike the main character? Paul West is arrogant and takes stereotypes way too far. He's always saying how everybody else is annoying but in fact he is the one who is annoying. He goes the whole first and second (and probably all) books criticizing/making
Maxim Miechielsen
Paul West, an Englishman in France, meets his mother- and father-in-law during a holyday with his girlfriend. After a few strange incidents (containing nudity) with the mother-in-law, the couple decides to continue their trip to the holyday home of the father-in-law where things aren’t getting better. Florence breaks up with Paul after hearing about the dismiss of the architect of his tearoom. The architect was her ex-boyfriend.

Paul goes back to Paris where he meets Alexa, his own ex-girlfriend
Maxim Miechielsen
Paul West, an Englishman in France, meets his mother- and father-in-law during a holyday with his girlfriend. After a few strange incidents (containing nudity) with the mother-in-law, the couple decides to continue their trip to the holyday home of the father-in-law where things aren’t getting better. Florence breaks up with Paul after hearing about the dismiss of the architect of his tearoom. The architect was her ex-boyfriend.

Paul goes back to Paris where he meets Alexa, his own ex-girlfriend
This book is an engaging, entertaining read, and some of the language barrier and cultural difference jokes are really spot on. The cross-cultural situations are funny and very true to life. However, it's also pretty sexist and just bro-y in general. British women in the book are all characterized as chubby and loud, the Americans are all fat and clueless, and the French women are all impossibly sexy and mysterious (but that's about it). I am an American who lives in France and has French and Br ...more
Jim Cabaj
I loved Merde Actually! I laughed so hard when the author is forced to stay at his girlfriends mothers house after a car accident. What happens in remote France to the author by the girlfriends family is priceless. The shower part made me spit my drink out just reading what happened, no one cannot laugh.

I love that the author gets his tea room, but it all comes with a cost. The new women who come into his life to shake it up a bit.

Sit back with a cup of tea and read this book. Now I have to buy
Paul West returns, still living in France, his French much improved, but still not good enough to tell tea bags from bath salts, flat tires from pure exhaustion, and without the knowledge to properly translate his menu items to get the French government off his back.

Paul is even less lucky in love. His girlfriend Florence who is supposed to be helping him set up his tea shop in Paris, is quickly tiring of the project and takes offence when Paul states he is uncomfortable with the fact that she h
. The main focal point is on relationships, encounters, and angst about women. Written with a sharp comedic wit, the author dishes about his experiences (in the novel his character is named "Paul"), with women, and his pursuit of love. All this as he endeavors to establish an English tea room in the heart of gay Paree.

I think straight American and British men are the target audience. I found some parts to be a bit offensive, although it is difficult to argue that it does not realistically portra
Alan Hughes

"'Edgier than Bryson, hits harder than Mayle' The Times"

Product Description

A year after arriving in France, Englishman Paul West is still struggling with some fundamental questions: What is the best way to scare a gendarme? Why are there no health warnings on French nudist beaches? And is it really polite to sleep with your boss' mistress? Paul opens his English tea room, and mutates (temporarily) into a Parisian waiter; samples the pleasures of typically French hotel-room afternoons;

Ronald Roseborough
In this second book of a series, we meet Englishman, Paul West, moderately successful advertising executive, who went to France for a job as the liaison for a Paris based, French company trying to break into the English market. He spends a year dodging French office politics, trying to improve English-French relationships with the Parisian femmes, incurring the wrath and hostility of haughty french waiters, and slip, sliding his way through the local dog merde, which is freely deposited on the P ...more
Tessa Pauwels
Apparently the book is a sequel to the “A year in the Merde" which I never read. So I don't know if there is more information about Paul that I should've known before I started reading this book. Merde Actually is an easy book to read except for the French words.

The book is about a young English man, who wants to open an English tearoom in Paris. He has a complicated but interesting love life. Paul has a girlfriend called Florence. Florence and Alexa (his ex-girlfriend) are two really important
Most novels about Anglo expats in Paris tend to fall back on the same handful of cliches. "A Year in the Merde" ignored all of these to forge new ones, which "In the Merde for Love" continues to do. But I think "In the Merde for Love" is a more character-driven, and as such there are fewer witty vignettes. The writing, though, remains extremely funny.

Back then, I didn't understand something very important about sitting in a cafe in a non-touristy part of rural France. The people aren't necessari
Das Buch fand ich irgendwie fast noch witziger als das erste. Haha, ich mag Paul, oder wie die Franzosen es meistens aussprechen - "Pol". Stephen Clarke schreibt echt witzig und die Situationen, in die Paul gerät, sind so witzig, auch wenn sie alltäglich sind.
Anfangs reist er mit seiner Freundin Florence aufs Land, wird dort ihrer Familie vorgestellt und gleich voll in die Hausarbeit und die Dorfgemeinschaft eingebunden, was Paul eher nicht so zusagt.
Schließlich gelingt es ihm tatsächlich, seine
Ok,I have to recognize than my review of "A year in the merde" was slanderous about this second book because I really thought it was going to suck. There was so much sex in the first one than it was obvious to me that the second tome "God save the French girls" (French title) was going to be worse. So, I apologize because it was really better than what I was expecting.
The facts about France or the French were true, not exaggerated like in the first one. I laughed and had a good time reading the
I picked this one up at a library sale since I'm heading to France in about a month for a short stay - I figured it would be good to get me in the mood. I didn't know this was a part deux to his first book, but luckily you don't really need to have read the first book. It was fine as a standalone book. For the first few chapters I considered giving it up as I wasn't quite sure where he was going with his story. But I'm glad I didn't. He finally stopped just repeating how hot his girlfriend was a ...more
Jan 30, 2008 Stephanie rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: anyone who's studied French, been to France or just loves the country
I picked this up on my recent trip to Washington. It's about a British man and his adventures living in France with French women and trying to set up a British tea salon. There were some moments that literally caused me to laugh out loud, which is somewhat emabarrassing when you're waiting for your plane to board at the airport. I do think people who don't know French might not get all the jokes -- of course, this being written by a British guy, I felt like I needed a British to American English ...more
Not quite as laugh-out-loud funny as the first installment, but a solid sequel. The author's lampooning of British working and drinking culture was probably the best bit, too bad it comes late in the book and does not last for too long.
So funny, I loved Clarke's writing style and was amused throughout the book. Just the right balance of quirky anectdotes, cultural observations and relationship antics. Nice to read a love story from a dude's point of view, less obnoxious overanalyzing and whatnot ;)

Bonus points for a smattering of French lessons in a fun manner, such as in describing this character named Peter Burns: "Peter" means fart, "burnes" are bollocks. Welcome to France, Monsieur Fart-Bollocks.

Ok, maybe I'm just immatur
Steph Green
All I can say about this book is "meh." I mean... I think Stephen Clarke is laboring under the delusion that he is much funnier than he actually is, and hearing about all of his romps with "sexy" French women is boring and a bit creepy, considering that the gray-haired author says things like (to paraphrase), "I had always wondered what happened to a woman's body between 25 and 35, and now I knew - not much." So this old, crusty British dude has been sleeping exclusively with women under 25? Gro ...more
I enjoy reading Clarke's books and understand much of his observations as we lived almost 3 years in France. Not a big story, a bit too much testosteron, just funny and enjoyable.

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Stephen Clarke is the bestselling author of seven books of fiction and nonfiction that satirize the peculiarities of French culture. In 2004, he self-published A Year in the Merde, a comic novel skewering contemporary French society. The novel was an instant success and has led to numerous follow-ups, including Dial M for Merde (2008), 1,000 Years of Annoying the French (2010), and Paris Revealed ...more
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