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Dec 15, 2007
Sarah rated it: 2 of 5 stars
I listened to the audio book. It was ok, not because of the subject matter, which was very interesting in the beginning. During my teen years I worked in our family coffee shop so I completely related to so much of what she said. The problem was that the book was completely disjointed and there was no real linear progression. She has so many aunts and uncles that she kept describing both at young and old ages and I didn't know who was who and how old they were and, most importantly, how they fit More...
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Jul 05, 2007
Jocelyn rated it: 3 of 5 stars
This was one of the few remaining books-on-CD left at the library after the summer vacation rush. Obviously, since this is a memoir, it focuses on the fabulous history of the Volk family all the way down to lost cousins, married-in aunts and uncles, hired help, etc. I started out apathetic, but ended up enjoying her portrayal of New York City during her childhood and actually getting attached to the quirky characters on her family tree. I was sorry when the CD ended.
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Jul 13, 2007
Alison rated it: 4 of 5 stars
I couldn't stop reading this book. It's one of the best memoirs I've ever read--hilarious, full of memorable characters, and told in short vignettes woven into the longer narrative of the family's life so things never get boring. I highly recommend it.
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Nov 07, 2008
Paul rated it: 1 of 5 stars
i know a lot of people -- including my wife -- love this book but i found it boring in the extreme and gave up halfway through. it's all bragging about her family (who are somewhat colorful...at least to her), all snapshots, and absolutely no story. i find it amazing it got so many good reviews. i wanted to throw it across the room...it was so annoying. this book is probably a hoot if you're a member of the author's family but for me, zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....

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May 05, 2010
Megan rated it: 4 of 5 stars
I listened to this as an audiobook. Listening to a book, I'm recognizing, is a different experience for me than reading it; I'm curious as to whether my experience is better or worse through the listening. I definitely feel like it's spotty. I'm always sure there are sections I'm missing. This is confirmed when my ipod gets messed up and I'm trying to re-find my place audially and find that there are sections I never remember hearing before sandwiched between sections I know I've heard.
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Dec 29, 2010
Dree rated it: 2 of 5 stars
This book is not about being in the restaurant business. Maybe 10 pages actually discuss the restaurant. Mostly it is a series of vignettes in chapter form (naming the chapters are food does not make for a food book!). Generally, each chapter is about a person. How great they are, how gorgeous, how clever, how nice or mean, how rich or poor, and how great the author herself is for being nice to said person.

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Dec 01, 2007
Lain rated it: 4 of 5 stars
Patricia Volk's memoir of her family and its 100-year history in the restaurant business is as much a history of New York as it is a recounting of her relatives. Touching, funny, sad, quirky -- this book has it all. Volk is a talented writer with the ability to create a vivid character on the page. I finished this book wishing I'd been part of their clan.
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Oct 22, 2007
Beth rated it: 4 of 5 stars
Lots of great stories about multiple generations of a Jewish immigrant family that ran restaurants in New York City from the turn of the twentieth century until the late 80s. Funny, touching, insightful--what you want in a memoir, plus lots of scenes of people eating amazing food, junk food, fancy food, mysterious food, etc.
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Dec 16, 2009
Natalie rated it: 3 of 5 stars
Cute family memoir. I love NYC Jewish culture, this book really puts it out there. Also, like the food descriptions. Should eat before reading it for a long time or you'll end craving some strange things, like cucumber salad or fricassee.
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Dec 16, 2008
Selma rated it: 2 of 5 stars
Patricia Volk is like Woody Allen minus the trenchant humor. Her family of annoyingly kvetchy and insulting people is constantly displayed as "lovable," but you know that if you spent five minutes in the same room with any one of them someone would be murdered. Why she constantly parades before the reader this collection of obnoxious characters, most of whom insult her in the time-worn manner of hypercritical ethnic parents, is baffling. And, like one of those round-bottomed clown-f More...
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Dec 17, 2009
Lori rated it: 4 of 5 stars
You can't read this book without wanting a pastrami sandwich. Really good and funny.
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Jul 25, 2009
Since I've recently read Kitchen Confidential
and Tender at the Bone, I thought I'd continue
the food-related-memoir theme. But I'd say
this book was less about life in the kitchen
and more about life in a family, albeit an
atypical one. Favorite part: "What she (her
mom) wants for me is an even cleaner, thinner,
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Dec 27, 2008
Jeanette rated it: 2 of 5 stars
Not terrible, but I honestly doubt I'd have stayed with it if I had it in print rather than audio. With the subtitle, I guess I thought there'd be more about time spent in the actual restaurants and the running thereof. For most of the book she devotes one chapter to each eccentric Jewish New York relative, mostly great-aunts and great-uncles but also parents, grandparents, sister, and beloved long-term housekeeper. Parts of it are pretty interesting and/or funny, but I think someone who is J More...
Sep 25, 2011
Sarah rated it: 3 of 5 stars
In this book there area lot of names & it gets very hard to follow them at points. But I found this didn't matter - what their role in the family was wasn't the important part, it was the impact they had on the writer & her life. Volk has brought together key family tales & memories to paint a picture of the unit she grew up being a part of. Its the first book in a while to make me cry & really think about certain things in my own relationships, so while it may not have broken any literary grou More...
Dec 28, 2010
Julie rated it: 3 of 5 stars
#60 - 2010.

Picked this up at random at Half Price Books. I have a vague memory of having read it before but that may be inaccurate. You'd think from the name that this would be chock-full of life at a restaurant, whether from a childhood standpoint or adult looking back. Not so. Volk takes us into the lives of her quirky, fascinating relatives and gives us a look back at when individuality was to be expected of everyone. The restaurant was somewhat incidental and was presented as jus More...
Feb 18, 2008
Esti rated it: 5 of 5 stars
The Author is brilliant, she's writing down her family journey (and herself) in a wonderful memoir. Every time she mentioned food (from liverwurst,spaetzle, sturgeon, cucumber salad to herseyettes) I get hungry (*smile*) made me wanting to have restaurant family too !!! Not to mention hidden Mattie's chocolate cake recipe inside the book, a little treasure, I will for sure give it a try.

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Nov 17, 2010
David rated it: 2 of 5 stars
Meh. I'm not sold on the idea that Volk's family was more fascinating than mine or yours. Once you cobble together the achievements of 4 sets of great grandparents, throw in a few Uncles-in-laws, write up some funny stuff your crazy aunt said, it seems that I could grab a random coworker and uncover a family history as rich and interesting as Volks. But she is a New Yorker, and I guess that is supposed to make it more interesting than if your family came from Minnesota or New Mexico.
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Feb 18, 2010
Lisa rated it: 4 of 5 stars
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Like some others that have posted here, I expected this book to focus more on cooking, food and the restaurant business, but I really wasn't disappointed. Volk brings to life a bygone New York and tells a wonderful immigrant tale, that of a great family dynasty as well. The next time I'm in Central Park I'm going to look for the bench she bought for her father--the one right next to Madeline Kahn's.
Aug 22, 2011
Michael rated it: 2 of 5 stars
I'm always a fan of good food writing, and this book seems to be part food journal and part memoir of a restaurant family over the generations.

...done.

Not bad. Nothing special, though I am a sucker for books that include:
-food and cooking
-New York lore
-Jewish family life

This book had all three. It turned out to be more of a family memoir than a focus on the author's life within a restauranting family, which was the angle I felt the title was
Mar 07, 2010
Patty rated it: 5 of 5 stars
I love books about food and this is a great book about food and family. Volk's family ran a series of restaurants in New York City from 1888 to 1988, but this book is more about her amazing family. I loved it. I laughed and I cried. And I drove my mom crazy by interrupting her book several times to read her the parts that made me laugh out loud.
May 22, 2009
Tovah rated it: 4 of 5 stars
this was a great quick read. very entertaining and heartwarming. at time i felt like i was reading about my family, which was wonderful. each chapter was rich with stories about food and family and how both were intertwined. the authors family has a great history in the making of new york and deli's, and tells a great story along the way.
Oct 02, 2011
Bob rated it: 3 of 5 stars
Written as a memoir, the story of a New York Jewish restaurant family, complete with the patriarch who founded a chain of restaurants and gave them out to various ne'er do well relatives. Sometimes cute and funny, sometimes poignant in describing family relationships good and bad, this isn't great literature but is an enjoyable look at growing up in an upper middle class Jewish family in the 1950s-1980s.
Aug 12, 2010
Leslie rated it: 5 of 5 stars
This book was a last minute pickup in the 4/$1.00 pile at a library sale. I really didn't expect much from it, but once I started it, I just had to finish it. What I learned from this book is that Family is, after all is said and done, family. I snickered, I sighed but mostly I remembered stories of exploits of my own colorful family.
Sep 05, 2011
Heidi rated it: 1 of 5 stars
I'm not even 1/2 way through this book and I already hate it. I thought there would be stories about growing up in the resteraunt business, but it is just incessant bragging about how funny/great her family is. Book is aimless and has no point, but a bunch of random family memories. I am not going to finish it.
Nov 11, 2011
Amblingbooks.com marked it as to-read
"What the book really memorializes so beautifully isn't just a restaurant, or a now-vanished style of eating, but a city in its rich and juicy prime: New York." - New York Magazine

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Jun 13, 2011
Genevieve rated it: 3 of 5 stars
I think my expectations for this book were too high. This is a memoir about a restaurant family in NYC in the early 1900's-1950's, or so I thought. Really it's the story of a family in NYC that just happens to have a restaurant. There are a million family members (well not really, but like 20 at least) and each gets their own chapter, and their own type of food that reminds the author of them.
Feb 02, 2009
JM rated it: 5 of 5 stars
I want to be her and grow up with a restaurant family. Instant job, always be variety to dinner, everyone having to be happy all the time, and people busy and working and humming with activity. I love the warmth in the writing. Family and food: what a wonderful combination.
Jun 18, 2011
Sgilbert rated it: 2 of 5 stars
I really, really wanted to like this book, because the premise of a family who owned a restaurant, who truly loved food, and lived & breathed all types of food, should be a fun, quick read. Unfortunately this totally missed the mark for me. A hugely disappointing memoir
Aug 04, 2011
Carrie rated it: 3 of 5 stars
I enjoyed this book as an audiobook from Library2Go. The narrator was perfect, with her Jewish accent and pronunciations. The story itself had very little to do with restaurants and more to do with families and familial relationships. Overall I enjoyed this book.
Jul 07, 2011
Wendy rated it: 3 of 5 stars
An overview of her family with an emphasis on the foods they cooked and ate, this was a good book. Almost every chapter focused on a different family member. The only disappointment is that there was so much focus on the negative memories that the author and her parents had of their relatives, instead of the happy memories.