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Like Me: Confessions of a Heartland Country Singer
by
Chely Wright
Chely Wright, singer, songwriter, country music star, writes in this moving, telling memoir about her life and her career; about growing up in America’s heartland, the youngest of three children; about barely remembering a time when she didn’t know she was different.
She writes about her parents, putting down roots in their twenties in the farming town of Wellsville, Kansas...more
She writes about her parents, putting down roots in their twenties in the farming town of Wellsville, Kansas...more
Hardcover, 304 pages
Published
May 4th 2010
by Pantheon
(first published 2010)
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As many other reviewers will no doubt have already said, this was a pretty good story which was not really written all that well. It was interesting and very simply written, which made it easy to geth through. However, there were so many instances which made me think that she really could have used the help of someone who has written memoirs before. There was a lack of continuity through the whole book. There was little order, chronological or otherwise. Oftentimes, chapters were 2 or 3 pages lo...more
I'm not a big country music fan, but after seeing an interview with her I was blow away by her honesty. That's a rare find these days (with most people doing anything for media attention). I was also interested to see how the country music industry works and how one gets to be a best selling artist.
The book is straight forward and very simply written. It begins with a then closeted Chely in a deep depression following a breakup. There are no lurid details. It's just a straightforward account of...more
The book is straight forward and very simply written. It begins with a then closeted Chely in a deep depression following a breakup. There are no lurid details. It's just a straightforward account of...more
I am not a fan of autobiographical material in the first place and this hasn't helped my opinion. I felt the book was choppy and self indulgent. I got the topic very clearly after the first chapter, so I don't understand why she's still whacking me over the head with it by using the word "gay" 5-6 times per page thereafter. I think that if one was really concerned about how much they "damaged" another person by the lies one told, we wouldn't then follow it up by naming them in a memoir and throw...more
This is not a book that would appeal to everyone. It is not well-written and will appeal to a limited audience: GLBT / fans of coming out fiction / Chely Wright's fans / maybe some country music fans and those who are looking for gossip -which, except for a confession that she had sex with Brad paisley on her tour bus, will not find here. However, I couldn't put it down. This may be due to the fact that it begins with a broken-heart which leads to a suicide attempt: Who wouldn't want to continue...more
I read this without knowing anything about Chely Wright, and it actually made me a permanent fan of hers. Such a unique and well written book about her struggles as a gay country music singer trying to make it big and fit into a world that doesn't know what to do with people that are different.
What I found most interesting is Chely's self-destructive behaviour throughout this time, where her struggle to balance her religious beliefs with her clear and defined homosexuality ultimately lead to dep...more
What I found most interesting is Chely's self-destructive behaviour throughout this time, where her struggle to balance her religious beliefs with her clear and defined homosexuality ultimately lead to dep...more
Whether you are a star in Nashville, or a waitress making ends meet in Anytown; straight, gay, or uncertain... you will understand Chely Wright's story as she has written it so eloquently that any person of any background can find a way to relate to her. This is not a book about being gay, being an entertainer, or coming out of the closet. This is a book about one person's struggle with all of life's complexities, and what she needed to do to be able to live her life to its fullest. She touches...more
I'm not a big country music fan so I didn't know who Chely Wright was until I saw her on Oprah, but I was so moved by her story that I decided to read her book. This book should be required reading for all those who believe that being gay is a choice people make, or that those who are gay are morally bankrupt or without God in their life. Chely's story is heart wrenching, here is a woman who has a personal relationship with God and is so tormented by her homosexuality that as a child she starts...more
Normally, I am not a big fan of contemporary country music (surprise). But when I heard that Chely Wright had come out as a lesbian (on Oprah, no less), my jaw dropped. This book is simultaneously heartbreaking and infuriating. Although while reading it sometimes I kind of wanted to shake her and tell her to get a backbone (or kick the guy from Big & Rich's ass for her), it was a more than worthwhile read. I actually couldn't put it down. Sometimes when you live in a big city and surround yo...more
Read this during my vacation, as the friend I was visiting is a huge Chely fan and I was quite curious to find out what the buzz was all about.
This is Chely's story about living life as a gay woman in a world that despised her. She stayed in the closet for two decades, having relationships with women in secret (including one 12-year relationship) while often maintaining relationships with men for the world to see. Chely is apparently well known in the world of country music, and this was one of...more
This is Chely's story about living life as a gay woman in a world that despised her. She stayed in the closet for two decades, having relationships with women in secret (including one 12-year relationship) while often maintaining relationships with men for the world to see. Chely is apparently well known in the world of country music, and this was one of...more
read this yesterday. reminded me some of Prayers For Bobby, but w/a much happier ending. there are, i guess, three big revalations in this book; 1 - Chely is gay, 2 - she and Brad Paisley had a relationship and 3 - john rich is a testoserone fueled twit.
Chely is gay and involved w/Brad Paisley which means Brad Paisley is a woman. sadly, no, but wouldn't that have been a cool headline?
john rich is a testosterone driven twit is a kinda given. male country music star in Nashville what would you e...more
Chely is gay and involved w/Brad Paisley which means Brad Paisley is a woman. sadly, no, but wouldn't that have been a cool headline?
john rich is a testosterone driven twit is a kinda given. male country music star in Nashville what would you e...more
I was a bit worried that this book would be 200-someodd pages of Chely Wright asserting her heteronormativity. Thankfully, I was proven wrong within the first few chapters. It quickly becomes evident that, by publishing her memoirs, she placed a lot on the line--and not just by simply disclosing her sexuality.
In Like Me, Chely also slaps various institutions and public figures on their bigoted wrists (John Rich of Big & Rich fame, Dick Cheney, The Boy Scouts of America, and so on...), all w...more
In Like Me, Chely also slaps various institutions and public figures on their bigoted wrists (John Rich of Big & Rich fame, Dick Cheney, The Boy Scouts of America, and so on...), all w...more
Not being a big fan of celebrity memoirs or a big fan of country music, I picked this book up with low expectations. But I was pleasantly surprised by how compelling the story was.
All her life, small-town Kansas girl Chely Wright knew she wanted to be a Nashville star. And most of her life, she knew she was gay. She hid it, denied it, tried to change it but couldn't. In this memoir, she describes her ascending success in country music and the attendant pressure to hide her true self. Some of th...more
All her life, small-town Kansas girl Chely Wright knew she wanted to be a Nashville star. And most of her life, she knew she was gay. She hid it, denied it, tried to change it but couldn't. In this memoir, she describes her ascending success in country music and the attendant pressure to hide her true self. Some of th...more
Writing style is a bit disorganized, but it was an easy read. It follows some of the major happenings in Chely's life and career from when she realizes she is gay at a very young age and tries to pray it away until she becomes famous and finally makes the decision to come out. As a child, she gets crushes on female teachers and is always disinterested in boyfriends. She is homophobic towards a gay coworker, even though she already knows she is gay also. She lives most of her adult life dating a...more
It's not uncommon for a recording artist to pen a memoir, or to release a companion album. It is, however, unprecedented that a mainstream country music artist would use the tandem to step out of the closet. Some balked that Wright was a "has-been" who was trying to "cash in" on her sexuality for an extension on her 15 minutes of fame. I suspect those people failed to actually read Like Me, because they are exemplary works worthy of recognition. It's as though her entire public career existed in...more
I never heard of Chely Wright until I saw her story on Entertainment Tonight. I was frustrated with parts of this story and near the end I lost interest completely. It was frustrating to read about the lengths she went thru to hide her sexuality when she refused to educate herself. One part in the book she talked about how she wouldn't be caught dead with any books or materials about homosexuality. How can you be scared to educate yourself?? I did not understand this and I felt no empathy for he...more
I remember when Chely Wright came out of the closet. As a lifelong lover of country music and as a lesbian, I'm thankful she make this difficult choice to come out publicly. She's the first openly gay country singer to come out. There were plenty of country stars before who couldn't come out without sacrificing their careers. That type of bravery is touching. Her book is honest and heartfelt. It couldn't have been easy to write. It's not the greatest piece of literature with all the literary dev...more
Whew! Drama drama drama with this one. Not really what I needed to read right now. I suppose parts of it could be called inspiring, b/c she did come to a realization about her sexuality. But really, I felt bad for the people in her life that she included in this book - like Brad Paisley. Brad's a good guy, and he didn't deserve to A) be treated like that B) be included her in tell-all. At least not to the level of detail that was included.
Ok, but it didn't really change my life. I work in the mu...more
Ok, but it didn't really change my life. I work in the mu...more
I sped through this one! usually I am hesitant to read celebrity memoirs because they are often so disappointing. Because I recently saw and was impressed with the documentary about Chely Wright, I decided to give the memoir a go. It's a mix of talking about her life in the closet (and her internal conflict) and glimpses into the highlights of her professional career. What got me, though, was how well she captured that feeling of cowardice and shame you experience when you are in the closet. You...more
This book is very good and I believe that Chely was right in her assumptions that she wouldn't be accepted (by many) given her sexual preference, in her chosen career. However, you can't hide who you are forever and be happy, and I hope she is happy now. :)
The only problem I have with this book is sometimes she shares too much. For example **SPOILER** the story she recalls about she and Brad Paisley on the back of her bus. If it involves something private about someone else that they may not wan...more
The only problem I have with this book is sometimes she shares too much. For example **SPOILER** the story she recalls about she and Brad Paisley on the back of her bus. If it involves something private about someone else that they may not wan...more
Love this book and I love Chely. Very emotional and revealing book. Her style is so good and easy to read as I read it in two days. It must have been really hard for her to write it, I can imagine.
It´s very authentic and everyone can relate to it in some way. The journey of "a good american" is very heartbreaking and hartwarming. She is very honest and down-to-earth and it´s very interesting to follow her story.
It was very hard to keep my emotions away when reading about her self-destructive a...more
It´s very authentic and everyone can relate to it in some way. The journey of "a good american" is very heartbreaking and hartwarming. She is very honest and down-to-earth and it´s very interesting to follow her story.
It was very hard to keep my emotions away when reading about her self-destructive a...more
Her first effort as a writer, and maybe it shows, but it gives a very good look at what it feels like to grow up "different" in an environment where "different" is taken to mean "wrong". I very much enjoyed following her steps through that journey and was sorry when the book came to an end So many autobiographies come off as "but I was surrounded by idiots" but Chely doesn't pull any punches about her own faults and mistakes along the way. That kind of honesty is what makes the book work.
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What I enjoyed about this book is the honesty it portrays. I have mixed feelings about how Chely chose to live her life, but she is honest about her feelings, her self-betrayal, and her cowardice(as justified as it may be).
She stands in a unique position within the celebrity of the United States, and she has the power to affect change within her fan-base, and extend that momentum towards greater equality for gays and lesbians. She has, as she stated in her memoir, decided to stand up for hersel...more
She stands in a unique position within the celebrity of the United States, and she has the power to affect change within her fan-base, and extend that momentum towards greater equality for gays and lesbians. She has, as she stated in her memoir, decided to stand up for hersel...more
Autobiographies and memoirs are definitely not my favorite genre. I read this because Chely will be our guest artist for the Seattle Women's Chorus fall show.
From the time she was in 3rd grade, Chely knew she was attracted to women - and she wanted to be a country western singer. As she rose to fame in country music, she felt she needed to be closeted - and tried everything she could think of to not be gay. Throughout it all, she maintained her faith in God.
Finally, in despair, at the age of 40,...more
From the time she was in 3rd grade, Chely knew she was attracted to women - and she wanted to be a country western singer. As she rose to fame in country music, she felt she needed to be closeted - and tried everything she could think of to not be gay. Throughout it all, she maintained her faith in God.
Finally, in despair, at the age of 40,...more
I enjoyed the book and one of my favorite lines from it is this:
"I am gay, I am not seeking to be "tolerated." One tolerates a toothache, rush-hour traffic, an annoying neighbor with a cluttered yard. I am not a negative to be tolerated, and I don't think that other minority groups would feel comforted and equal to hear leaders of the general public self-righteously proclaim that "we" should "tolerate them." That's not equality."
What a powerful statement and one that I would hope everyone could...more
"I am gay, I am not seeking to be "tolerated." One tolerates a toothache, rush-hour traffic, an annoying neighbor with a cluttered yard. I am not a negative to be tolerated, and I don't think that other minority groups would feel comforted and equal to hear leaders of the general public self-righteously proclaim that "we" should "tolerate them." That's not equality."
What a powerful statement and one that I would hope everyone could...more
What a fantastic read! When you finish reading this book, you'll want to give Chely a hug. She is a brave soul, truly inspirational. From the darkest of suicidal depths, days filled with self-loathing and night after night of spiritual yearning, Chely Wright takes the reader on a journey through her highest highs and lowest lows. Her writing is deeply personal and honest, at times painfully so. This is one of the better celebrity memoirs I've read. It's narcissistic in a way that totally works,...more
This was a pretty easy read and country singer Chely Wright's got a good story. I think she did a great job nailing what being in the closet makes a person do and the toll those choices take over time. It's not always chronological, which can sometimes throw you. It feels more like you're going through a box of photographs of her life, all thrown in together in no particular order, and she's telling you about each one as she pulls them out of the box. And that's not bad, just a little different....more
I saw Chely Wright on the Oprah show this season and she mentioned her new book. I don't listen to country music all that often, but I was moved by what she said on Oprah. I found her biography to be moving as well. It is honest, real, and goes in-depth about her feelings. She writes about her family, friends, music, and especially about coming to terms with being gay. She writes about how hiding that part of herself from friends and family and her fans took an emotional toll on her and on her...more
Chely Wright's Like Me starts very promisingly, with a bang. Or, rather, the absence of a bang, as she confronts her darkest hour, gun in her mouth, and decides to put it down. From there, an outpouring begins, a flood of self-recriminations, guilty conciouses, hollow joys and a hand extended in solidarity to every person who has ever experienced a life like hers.
A memoir is a touchy thing for me. Normally I think they're boring and lame. The last two that I enjoyed, The Natural Laws of Good Luc...more
A memoir is a touchy thing for me. Normally I think they're boring and lame. The last two that I enjoyed, The Natural Laws of Good Luc...more
I really did enjoy this biography. Most of the book was a quick and an easy read- but, here were parts that just broke my heart and a few moments that upset me [or made me feel so badly for:] -how Chely viewed "the love of her life"-- But hey, what can I say... its her memoir- her thoughts, her life. Overall I thought this was a brave book full of insight, beauty, courage and inspiration. I would recommend this to just about anyone - especially those with an open heart and mind who want to lear...more
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“I hear the word "tolerance" -- that some people are trying to teach people to be tolerant of gays. I'm not satisfied with that word. I am gay, and I am not seeking to be "tolerated." One tolerates a toothache, rush-hour traffic, an annoying neighbor with a cluttered yard. I am not a negative to be tolerated.”
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