The Optimistic Child: Proven Program to Safeguard Children from Depression & Build Lifelong Resilience

by Martin E.P. Seligman
The Optimistic Child: Proven Program to Safeguard Children from Depression & Build Lifelong Resilience
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45 ratings, 3.91 average rating, 12 reviews (more data...)
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September 11th 1996 by Harper Paperbacks

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Paperback, 352 pages

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0060977094   (isbn13: 9780060977092)

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Despite the increased focus on self-esteem over the past three decades, depression in children has continued to grow, now affecting a quarter of all k...more






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Kressel
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11/30/08

bookshelves: non-fiction, parenting, psychology, read-aloud-to-kids
Read in November, 2008
recommends it for: parents
Like all psychology books that appeal to me, this book cited real research, had a self-help angle, and wasn't dry reading. I very much liked the author's step-by-step ways to challenge pessimism, so much so that I'll probably look into his other book Learned Optimism. But this book was specifically written for parents with exercises and stories that we're supposed to do with our kids. He tested them out on a group of school kids as part of his research, and while I'm sure they were succes...more
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Johnny
09/02/08

bookshelves: psychology
Read in September, 2008
recommended to Johnny by: President of my College
recommends it for: Richard Williams
Although I teach young adults and no longer have any children at home, I believe this is a profound and useful book for people like me who ride the "Hero-to-Zero" Rollercoaster. The bulk of the book is on developing an optimistic mindset, but by this, the author does not mean the blithe positive thinking and meaningless platitudes of the self-esteem and unconditional praise movements.

Indeed, this clinical psychologist and former APA president takes the "self-esteem" idea...more
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Tadd
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11/02/08

Read in June, 2006
Seligman advances a balanced view of what is normal and not so normal in childhood attitudes. Optimism is something I hope to nurture in my children and this book is more than a great guide. The author suggests specific activities for many different ages of development. I could have done without the recommendation that parents promote God to their child, however, Seligman simply states that this is one way to do things. This book is straightforward. It’s an important resource to facilitate opt...more
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Lynde
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09/02/08

Read in August, 2008
recommended to Lynde by: bookstore shelving.
recommends it for: parents
i just reread this book b/c it has been so long. i really like his ideas. implementing is going to be rather difficult due to age (for now) as well as the depth and length of each theory. his methods of experimentation seemed reasonable, however the longitudinal studies seem rather scattered. i suppose that rather normal.
anyway, it has helped my own pessimistic brain see a flip side of thinking, which is probably the BEST thing you can do for your kids...set a good example. hopefully i...more
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Archana
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08/09/08

A must read for anyone in education. However, Learned Optimism, also by Seligman, is designed specifically for adults. This book will not only change your perspective, but the way you experience adversities and hence manage the outcomes. I know it sounds self-help-y, but its 100% worth taking the chance on this one...
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Melinda
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08/15/08

bookshelves: 2008, psychology
Read in June, 2008
This book is definitely geared towards older children (almost all examples involve school issues) but still had some good information on changing pessimistic thinking. As for it's applicability to young children, the basic tenet is to change your own habits first.
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Brynn
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11/08/08

I didn't finish this one---although i think it would be great if i felt i had a pessimistic child. i found it a little difficult to find the gems of wisdom that i normally find in a good parenting book. just okay.
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Andrea
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09/07/08

Read in September, 2008
Program explained beginning with chapter 10 (earlier chapters could be skipped). Well researched and pragmatic method of helping negative (unhappy) children.
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Dianna
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12/14/07

bookshelves: self-actualization-and-behavior-mod
recommends it for: People who want happy children
Well I have 3 kids. My oldest seems optimistic but she could have inherited it from her dad. The verdict is out on the other 2
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Windy
Windy marked it as to-read
09/21/08

bookshelves: to-read
I've read chapters of this at school meetings. The chapters I read had some great points.
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Janel
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05/04/08

A must read for every parent--RESILIENCE is the key word here.
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dampscribbler
dampscribbler marked it as to-read
07/17/07

bookshelves: to-read
In the queue; library book
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Ricardo
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11/28/08

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Domini
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11/01/08

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Sian
11/01/08

Read in January, 1999
recommends it for: yang minat untuk mengembangkan anak optimistik

Jeremy
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10/21/08

bookshelves: parenting, psych, to-read

Diana
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10/16/08

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Marynna
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10/15/08


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10/13/08

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09/29/08

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