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The Five Love Languages of Teenagers New Edition: The Secret to Loving Teens Effectively
by
Gary Chapman
Socially, mentally, and spiritually, teenagers face a variety of pressures and stresses each day. Despite these peer pressures; it is still parents who can influence teens the most. Get equipped to be a better parent as The Five Love Languages of Teenagers explores the world in which teenagers live, explains the developmental changes, and give tools to help you identify an...more
Paperback, 288 pages
Published
May 1st 2010
by Moody Publishers
(first published April 2000)
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The only reason I caught up to this series is because our bookgroup chose it. I surmised the gist of the method but had avoided it, perceiving it too "hocus/pocus, touchy/feely" for my likes. I intended to skim and quickly return it to the library. Imagine my surprise upon discovering parenting stategies that could have been so meaningful years and children ago. My loss, and my family's loss. Chapman has a gift for serving it straight up in a way that is neither belittling or naive...more
The hubby and I read through this one together and learned a lot. You've probably read at least one of the other Love Languages books, and this one's no shocker. Same author, same languages--words of affirmation, gifts, physical touch, acts of service, quality time. But how these apply to teens can get tricky.
The book was full of great explanations, lots of examples, and the practical application of these languages. Considering that each person speaks a bit of each of the five lov...more
The book was full of great explanations, lots of examples, and the practical application of these languages. Considering that each person speaks a bit of each of the five lov...more
Thumbs up! I haven't read any other Chapman books, but understand the concept of the love languages. That being said, I believe this book is much more than a repeat of the same ideas. Teens are a uniquely challenging age! This book clearly outlines the mindset and goals of this stage of development and how it effects attitudes and responses. My role as a parent and their role as emerging adults change so dramatically during this age that I really appreciated the very practical ideas and spe...more
I think I finished it. You know what? I KNOW I finished it. It doesn't matter if the statement is true because I refuse to pick it up again.
I can't understand why Gary Chapman would want to write another book about Love Languages (For teens this time) when the people who understood his first one (for spouses) would very likely be able to translate it into love for teens. The only logical explanation appears to be:for the money.
In any case, I don't care for this book. I th...more
I can't understand why Gary Chapman would want to write another book about Love Languages (For teens this time) when the people who understood his first one (for spouses) would very likely be able to translate it into love for teens. The only logical explanation appears to be:for the money.
In any case, I don't care for this book. I th...more
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When I first saw this book I was unsure what to expect. What does love languages mean? But after I started reading it, I discovered that it means a way to show love. Now I have always known that what works for one child might not work for another, but I had not realized that a parent might have to switch gears when a child becomes a teenager. It has helped me on my perception of my relationships with the many teenagers I come across as a high school teacher and as a parent.
I think this was a really helpful book to read - to try to understand my teenager a little better. I say try, because it's a constant battle. What I didn't like about the book is that most of the things that we battle over - the author relates it to their trying to be in control of their lives, and define themselves as their own person. While I value that, there are times when they still need to do things with their family, or what we ask - just because we ask them to.
I think the points in here are interesting. I could pick out the love languages of my kids. I passed the book to one of my students. She was talking about what her parents do to show her they love her and how that's not what she wants. She would rather them do something else. It's a book relevant and if kids can see the connection I think it could be helpful. It's probably more for high school kids though. It's a concept I don't think most middle school kids think about.
It is always difficult for me to finish a non-fiction book but this one kept me going and hopeful that I would better relate to my kids. It actually left me feeling like I had uncovered a secret treasure in the heart of my teen. I know something about her that I did not know prior to reading this book. I can put my finger on what my kids need from me just a bit better than before. I highly recommend this book (and the other "Love Language" books).
This book building upon the original while still being a separate read. That is, The Five Love Languages of Teenagers contains very specific and practical guidance on how to express the teen's primary love language, how to teach them appropriate responsibility, and how to properly handle both parental and teen anger. It is a tangible resource for stemming the tide of violence, immorality, and despair engulfing many teens today.
I found this book to help me to underdatnd more of what goes on with my teenagers. I felt I was very informed after reading this. To be honest I was asked to read this book and really did not want to, but after starting to read it I sat down and highlighted parts that meant something to me. I go back to this book to reread things when I come into a situation with my teenagers.
To each his own. This is a great book for parents with teenagers. I have two and this book was right on queue. Raising teens in this day and age is difficult, but if you can figure out their love language and fill their tank, you will succeed. Thank you Dr. Chapman!
I use this book as a reference guide on a continuing basis.
I use this book as a reference guide on a continuing basis.
Not sure if the premise is correct about the five languages of love and their consequences in parenting, but the author does give some fairly obvious observations about how and why to foster the independence of a teenager. The religious referrals are particularly suspect in that their inclusion in essentially a how-to book from a psychologist (scientist) makes me question the science behind his advice. Yet, some things in this book are useful. Apparently, I need all the help I can get.
Very good book for every parent of a teenager to help you understand how to make your child feel loved. These concepts are helpful in every relationship. It also helped me better understand some of the changes going on inside my sons as they grow up.
This was a great book and I would suggest it to anyone who has a teenager or soon to be teenager. I learned so much about my teenager and about myself. I have already started implementing some of the suggestions in the book and have seen a dramatic difference in my teen and her response to me. She seems different and happier. Our home is more pleasant and she is even doing her homework without being asked! I just needed to fill her love tank and be more patient.
This book helped remind me of the reasons I love each of my children. It helped me focus on what is really important-helping my child feel loved and accepted. Some useful suggestions.
This book had some wonderful cues for parents with teenagers. Most was common sense for me. But i enjoyed learning new ideas to speak my teenagers love language.
Recommended by a good friend at just the right time. A nice way to refresh and update my way of thinking heading into the teen parenting years. Well written.
The best part of this book was the quiz at the end. I had both of my kids take it, and it was a great reminder of what is important to them.
This is a great review for parents of teenagers. It talks about the different methods that we can express love to our teenagers, when and how to utilize them, and how the five love languages apply to kids when they become teenagers versus when they were children.
I highly recommend this book for all parents-- and read it BEFORE they become teenagers so that you are prepared to grow and 'change' with them! Of course, I highly recommend the book The Five Love Languages of Children for...more
I highly recommend this book for all parents-- and read it BEFORE they become teenagers so that you are prepared to grow and 'change' with them! Of course, I highly recommend the book The Five Love Languages of Children for...more
This is the first "Love Languages" book I have read. I really loved it. I ended up having all my kids and McKay take the quizes online!
This was a fantastic book.It really taight me how to handle and have a better relationship with my teenagers.This is a definate recommend.
I learned to stay awake for time with my teenage son, who doesn't like to talk until about 1:00 am in the morning...
A must-read for parents of teenagers... gotta do things different to reach, build, and be happier...
Great resource and reminder to show more love to my teenagers and in a way that they will appreciate most.
Lots of good ideas, but like most self-help books, the material could have fit into a pamphlet.
I liked some parts better than others but overall a good book on understanding my growing-up kids
This book deals with a big chunk of info from The Five Love Languages book, but it has a lot of good additional information relating specifically to teens...so definitely worth reading if you have teenagers in your life.
I have an almost teenager niece and would love to know how they want to be loved.
I think every parent of teenagers or soon-to-be teenagers should read this. I also think it should be required reading for teachers of 5th graders and up.
I know I'll have to refer back to this book many times and it's a great reference book.
I know I'll have to refer back to this book many times and it's a great reference book.
I just started this book and it is already useful. THanks Gretchen!!
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