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Souad miała siedemnaście lat i była zakochana. W jej wiosce w Cisjordanii, jak w wielu innych, miłość przedmałżeńska to synonim śmierci. "Zhańbiona" rodzina wyznaczyła szwagra dziewczyny do wykonania wyroku. Zamknięta w sąsiednim pokoju Souad usłyszała werdykt. Następnego dnia robiła właśnie pranie na podwórzu domu. Szwagier zbliżył się do niej i powiedział: "Zajmę się tob...more
Hardcover, 184 pages
Published April 6th 2004 by Świat Książki (first published 2003)
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Meaghan
Attention everyone: THIS IS NOT A REAL MEMOIR. This is a fictional story which was dressed up as a memoir, and the alleged author may not even exist. I was suspicious of it when I read it because the book described things which were, quite frankly, impossible. NO ONE could survive burns over 90% of their body without immediate and good medical treatment. For that matter, I doubt anyone could survive being burned that badly even if they got the best medical attention right away. I looked the book...more
Kylene Jones
I am so glad I have read this book. I also do not believe it has anything to do with religion as much as cultures. What so many of us in the modern world seem to forget is that the rest of the world does not "progress" at the same rate. Women have had to fight to get our rights everywhere, it is much slower in isolated places like this. The women do not know better so they just accept it. Also, as another journaller mentioned, women are beaten and murdered here in the states. There are still men...more
Jo
What a book full of crap!!! I can't believe that people bought it under the impression that it was a real story based on real facts! It's obviously fiction, and not pretty good!

It was a major punishment for me to read the whole book, and was just hoping that it will finish as soon as possible. I would have thrown out the book way before half way through the book, but wanted to see what's the end with our Souad and her dreadful way of being as pessimistic as she possibly can.

Being from the Middle...more
Talyn
Does this ever happen to you?

You're in a lull in time, bored, just thinking. And then your brain for no other reason than to be weird shoots a random memory or thought in your head. These little snippets are usually things like book or movie synopses.

It always happens to me. As an afterthought I was thinking about a book I read a few years ago about a young girl in the Middle East who was doused in kerosene and set on fire to protect her family's "honor".

So the day I am writing this, I was loo...more
Louise
This was a harrowing book to read! To think that in this day and age people can act so barbaric and commit unspeakable crimes against loved ones is truly horrendous. I am so stunned at Souad’s story that I don’t feel I could do her justice by writing my own review. What this woman has been through is atrocious, frightful, appalling and extremely sad. I wouldn’t want in any way to shame Souad or make her feel that I said something in my review to hurt her feelings so I will leave you with the syn...more
Cata
eu até que tinha gostado mais ou menos do livro até descobrir que são memórias falsas. Sou mesmo burrinha, tendo queimado 70% ou 90% do corpo é óbvio que ela não sobreviveria (dahhh :x).

Acho desprezível escreverem uma história bem pesada, cheia de acontecimentos horríveis como se fosse uma história verídica.
Jeannie
Even knowing there is a lot of controversy over whether this is a true story or not, due to this author bringing the "all too true" plight of oppressed Muslim women to our attention I give it 5 stars. That being said,I find it highly unlikely that anyone being burned over 90% of the body and receiving inadequate medical attention would of survived. maybe that part was exaggerated somewhat for the book (and could I blame her for that..what a horrible outrage) the rest of her story I do find belie...more
Jean Sasson
When I first read this book years ago, I was drawn totally into the story. I feel differently after reading a lot of other reviews and sadly came to the conclusion that perhaps this is not true. IF Souad exists, I wish she could come out and hold a press conference. Sometimes that is not possible, but I wish that she could do this.

However, I remind myself that whether Souad does or does not exist, such things do happen frequently to women in the world, and we can't let any disappointment in a b...more
Cindy
Ok I am a little confused and gave this book a 5 star rating thinking it was true but have come to find out that most likly this is not a true account so I am giving it one star. If it is true then its a five star.
okyrhoe
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chucklesthescot
Souad hears of a possible arranged marriage to a neighbour and after spying on him, finds him attractive enough to start contact with. As she falls in love with him she reluctantly agrees to have sex with him and falls pregnant, to the disgust and shame of her family. They arrange to have her killed by covering her in petrol and setting her on fire and only the intervention of other women saves her life. But a future of agony and fear await her as her family still want her to die, and her only h...more
Pera
Jan 20, 2008 Pera rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: aktivis,
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Aku baru tahu dari novel ini bahwa ada budaya di timur tengah sana yang membakar anak perempuannya sendiri. benarkah nyata? masih tanda tanya bagiku.

Membaca novel ini memang bikin miris. Kok bisa ada budaya yang sekeji itu.
Namun menjelang akhir buku ini aku sedikit kecewa.
Novel ini kurang mengupas di wilayah konflik batin souad untuk hidup. Perjuangannya dalam mengadaptasi budaya yang sangat berbeda. Perjuangannya menjadi mampu baca dan tulis serta berbahasa perancis, dan....terutama kisah per...more
highlightofyournight
This book was so horrible to the soul! So heart-wrenching, so tear-worthy, with a realistic view on a the life of dear Souad, who only wanted to be loved more than anything in the world.
I finished this book with tears sprawling, adoring the way SOUAD wrote so cleverly, so deeply, retelling the life which no one could have ever known without this book.

I am relieved to say that, as a twelve year old, I took so much away from this book; politics, the corruption of some families, and the lives that...more
Laura
Okay, I don't want to seem rude, but I don't like these kind of books very much: it's always about a woman who falls in love with some guy, they have sex/run away together, she dishonor's her family acording to the laws of her country, he doesn't really care and disappears, the parents get nuts and try to kill her. All these kind of books seem to say the same thing over and over again. And don't get me wrong: these women really suffer and I actually think this is barbarian and something should b...more
stars
I was very interested in this book, until I read the reviews and realized it is fake! Why would I waste my time reading a fake memoir? Ugh.
I also found this: "According to the book, Souad forgot about the incident for two decades until it was recovered through repressed memory therapy. Thérèse Taylor, an Australian historian, has pointed out numerous medical, historical and cultural inconsistencies in the book that put its authenticity in doubt.

Souad claims to have survived the attempt without...more
Josephine
I stumbled across an article by Thérèse Taylor, an Australian historian, who debated the authenticity of Souad’s memoir by pointing out numerous medical, historical and cultural inconsistencies in the book.

She writes, “An important point to note is that Burned Alive is a work of “recovered memory.” None of the reviewers who praised this book found it worthwhile to mention, but it is a very pertinent detail. Souad did not always know of the events she recounts.”

The more you read Taylor’s article...more
Hana Candelaria
A staggering number of women and girls are killed each year, by members of their own families, in a practice collectively referred to as honor killing. Common characteristics are the wide range of 'rules' by which females must abide (to avoid being killed), family agreement to commit the act, and attempts to make the killing look accidental. Souad (at 17) was condemned by her family when she became pregnant by the 'boy next door,' which occurred because she fervently hoped and believed that he w...more
Lena
False memoirs like this may very well be a sick form of exploitation, but at least they get people to open their eyes to issues that don't necessarily affect them. I know Uncle Tom's Cabin didn't claim to be a memoir, but look at the impact it had on the abolitionist movement.
While there are several major inaccuracies in this book, it still may not be entirely fictitious. Memoir or not, it certainly inspired me to learn more about women's rights in other countries, and in doing that, it succeede...more
Alia_I_240526
It amazed me how Souad, the Palestinian victim of the so-called 'honor' crime, proudly disseminated her story, wanting it to pass from one country to another. The story of a girl who was punished by her own family for simply seeking 'Love'. Luckily, she received the aid needed from a Swiss organization to survive. Even though I found the book interesting to read, some details were unnecessary. The writer was a bit discursive in some parts. Yet, it did not really affect my curiosity throughout my...more
♥ Marlene♥
Finished this book yesterday.
I liked it but mostly the beginning.
I had a lot of questions and was interested in how she would cope in Europe, but suddenly she was married and such. It felt like big parts were skipped.

This book also made me angry cause right now we have problems with people from Arabic countries who immigrated to our countries but despise us.
Caitlin
In knowing a little concerning Islamic based culture from college history classes and reading other first-person accounts on the same topic, there were several reasons I found to doubt the authenticity of this tale. Supposedly Souad (not her real name) had blocked all of these memories that comprise the book and were brought back by therapy.

SPOILERS BELOW

For example: Souad mentioned the strangling of her sister by a brother, who used a telephone cord to do the deed...in the 1970s. But what is tr...more
*•.♥.•*Sabrina Rutter*•.♥.•*
Burned Alive is the story of a survivor of honor killings.
A truelly heartbreaking story.I used to own a copy of this book, but let someone use it and I loved it so much that I want to buy it again.
Krista the Krazy Kataloguer
Be thankful if you do not live in the country where Souad grew up!! It's shameful how women are still treated in some parts of the world.
Meera
This book mainly focuses on honour killing and how Souad was burned alive just because she met a guy and got pregnant. At the West Bank, where Souad was born and raised, girls are not supposed to go out alone and are not allowed to look or talk to a strange man without being beaten or judged. A girl is also supposed to get married at a young age or she might be looked at badly by the people at the village. Souad was 18 whe she met her first love and got herself pregnant. Due to that, she was bur...more
Badger
A book that invites comparison with ‘Infidel’ though the characters could hardly be different. Ayaan Hirshi Ali is a sassy, sexy, well educated intelligent woman who wrote a deservedly best-selling account of her life in Islam, how she survived and finally won in a world where those qualities are prized. In her old culture she would certainly be a very long time dead by now.
Souad is heartbreakingly different because she even now remains a child. She began life in the West Bank in the late sixtie...more
Amna_M_240526
In the beginning, It felt like I was reading a story that was set in the pre-islamic era where they used to bury girls when they were just born. Because in Souad's village, if a mother felt like she didn't want more daughters, she would simply choke them to death when they were born, bury them alive or feed them to the dogs. Fathers were even worse, they treated sheep better than their daughters. A girl/wife would be beaten for as little reasons as not putting enough sugar in tea, or salt in foo...more
Nux
The second paragraph in the "More about Souad" section says it all, really. Too many oddities and inconsistencies exist in this story and they were dug out through a memory therapy that Souad had to go through during her psychiatric therapy sessions. No wonder I HATED the first part of this book. Like mentioned in another review here, I think the first part of this book is preying and fueling the xenophobic sentiments of the general populations. Surely not ALL Palestinian men and women are that...more
Soraia Pereira
Já tinha visto este livro algumas vezes e lido variadas opiniões acerca dele. Umas pessoas defendem que é um testemunho real, um relato verídico de alguém que sofreu atrozmente os costumes de uma aldeia retrograda, com pensamentos machistas e obsoletos onde as mulheres, independentemente da idade, condição social, estatuto ou beleza são tratadas abaixo de esterco. Sim, porque pelos relatos os animais, cães, cabras, vacas, etc, são mais bem tratadas do que elas.

Outras pessoas defendem que os mes...more
Maureen
In the West Bank, women are property; not human-beings. The main character, Souad, even describes how her mother murdered her own newborn baby daughters immediately after they were born because they were girls. Souad (like all girls) was forbidden to ever speak to a man and could only go outside to work her daily chores, never learned to read, never went to school. When she was still a teenager one of her neighbors tricked her into having sex. She was young and vulnerable and the guy told her th...more
 PuMbA's MoMmy*•.♥.•*
It never seems to stop amazing me how some of people's customs can be. This story is a tragic one. Souad vividly tells her story of sadness and triumph. There were many things I read about in this book that I had never heard of before for example.

-How newlywed couples ha ve their first sexual encounter on a special cloth so that it is hung in front of their house so that the villagers can see the wife's virgin blood. (Imagine what happens to the women that don't bleed!)
-The traditional custom of...more
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Souad is the pen name attributed to the author of the best-selling book Burned Alive: a Victim of the Law of Men, ostensibly a first-person account of an attempted honor killing. "Souad" is described as a Palestinian woman now living in Europe who survived an attempted murder by her brother-in-law, who doused her with gasoline and set her on fire, at the urging of her fa...more
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